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Why Ex-Mormons Seek Out Sex Coaching
Sex and Substance are the first things Ex-Mormons experiment with after leaving the Church — and they do so with existential panic and flare.
Make the Most of Your Online Dating Profile
Modern dating is driven by making digital connections. Here are Erika's tips on how to create more effective online dating profiles.
Hotwife Couple Talks About Their New Video Podcast
Here's one couple's experience of what it's like to start your own video podcast about their Swinging Lifestyle journey.
Hotwife, Bull, and Cuck: Cuckolding Dynamics, Explained!
Mapping the intimacy and intrigue of alternative relationship dynamics
Video: The LIC Conversations #2: Unfiltered Communication
Honesty goes a long way in any dynamic, but it's a crucial element in developing a partnership based on Smart Erotica.
Video: The LIC Conversations #5 & #6: Boundaries & Agreements
Knowing and respecting each other's limits keeps your relationship protected — an integral facet to have in place, especially as you begin sharing it with others.
Openlove 101: Swingers Lifestyle and the Subject of Consent
The subject of consent has been on everyone's minds lately. John and Jackie Melfi delve deep into the subject of consent in the lifestyle in this Openlove 101 video.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
How to Flirt in the Swinging Lifestyle (Without Being Awkward)
Diving into the art of flirtation in a world that thrives on presence, discretion, and desire.
Why You Keep Repeating the Same Relationship Patterns
Are your thoughts sabotaging your ethical non-monogamous (ENM) relationships? The Feedback Loop in ENM Explained.
Replacing Negative Thoughts & Habits Meditation
It can seem impossible to escape negative ruminations, but with practice, you can train your mind to focus on positivity and healing.
What is Body Positivity?
What does body positivity really mean in our ever-changing sex-positive world? Check out with Dr. Liz Powell thinks about the whole thing?
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
How to Be Discreet & Private in The Swinger Lifestyle
Swinger tips for balancing anonymity, trust, and connection in the swinging lifestyle
What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.
10 Myths About Consensual Non-Monogamy: Busted!
The assumptions shaping consensual non-monogamy and the realities behind them.
10 Popular Swinger Terms You Should Know
Master the terms that shape modern adult nightlife and swinger dating.
Is Your Relationship Ready for Hotwifing?
If you’re intrigued by the sexy world of hotwives and hotwifing, but you’re not sure if you and your partner are ready to dive in just yet, this is the quiz for you!
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