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6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 3
Shared Resources and Time: Monogamous couples typically share their resources, time, and responsibilities with one partner.

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Video: The LIC Conversations #4: Sexuality vs. Eroticism
There’s a difference between sex and eroticism, and it will make or break you.

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Watch the Secrets, Lies, and Dirty Games Video Trailer
Are you ready to spark your Lexuality and bring some steamy, sexy, and scandalous reading into your life?


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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?

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My Journey Into Ethical Non-Monogamy
How Taylor transitioned into ethical non-monogamy, why she wrote the book An African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy, and the launch of THE SERIES


SDC Living Sex Positive Life Podcast Mr B Relationship Couple Therapy
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Interview with Mr & Mrs B on Relationships Part 1
We had a fun, wine-filled interview with Mr B, author of "Every Woman Wants 4 Men, Every Man Wants 2 Women" and his wife, Mrs B.

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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.


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Flirting Tips for Swinger Couples and Singles in The Lifestyle
In the lifestyle, attraction is a language. Here’s how to learn to flirt with other swingers.

SDC Sylvie Monthule Erotic Clitoral Jewelry
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Crown Your Clitoris with Jewels of Pleasure
For sexy holiday celebrations or for any occasion, offer her a clitoral jewel, a sexual jewel — a jewel of pleasure!

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Is Swinging Exclusive to Couples?
If someone wants to be a swinger but isn't in a couple, can they still swing?


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Black Women, Sexual Freedom, and the Judgment We Carry
Black women were never given sexual freedom in this country.

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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How to Find Private Swinger Parties Near You
The swinger parties worth attending don't always advertise. Here's how you get on the guest list.


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How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?

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Single Guys in The Lifestyle: 10 Tips to Boost Your Value
Single men in the swinging lifestyle can elevate their value by following the rhythm driven by couples.

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How to Make a Great First Impression in the Swinging Lifestyle
The couples and singles worth knowing are already forming an opinion about you, so make it a good one!


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Swinger Relationship Boundaries: Agreements for Healthy Swinging
Knowing your and your partner’s comfort zones will lead to more swinging pleasures.

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Sexy "Vanilla" Parties vs Swinger Parties: What's the Difference?
Two very different nights. Know which one you're walking into.

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Why a Great Swingers Dating Profile Matters & How to Create One
Explore the power of a well-made swingers dating profile and how it shapes attraction in swinging spaces.