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Do Women Want Threesomes with Other Women?
FMF threesomes are not just a fantasy for guys!

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Swinging & Group Erotica Course at Loveology University
We all know that knowledge equals power. So, sexual knowledge equals not only sexual power but sexual satisfaction.

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6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 2
Learn more about the relationship foundations and dynamics to leave behind with monogamy if you're considering ethical non-monogamy.


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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle
A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.

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WATCH: List Your Erotic Rental on SDC's New BNB Service
Do you have a sexy BNB? Watch this video to learn how to reach SDC's community and book lifestyle guests today!


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Video: The LIC Conversations #3: Conflicts
Problems arise in every relationship, but one based on Smart Erotica deals with it in a healthy, productive way.

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SDC Affiliates Work Smarter, Not Harder by Earning Commission
SDC's Affiliate Program provides businesses the opportunity to earn generous and recurring commission. Here's how.

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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.


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Swinger Red Flags: What Swinging Couples & Singles Should Know
Know the warning signs in swinging to keep your experiences smooth and sexy.

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Openlove 101: Single Men at Swinger's Clubs (What Not To Do)
Single men in the lifestyle deal with a host of different issues when compared with single females and singles, and John and Jackie Melfi from Openlove 101 are here to offer some guidance.

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Introducing Hotwife Taylor & Gabe Mann
Get to know the authors of memoir and lifestyle guide SeXXXperience in this exclusive video.


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Health & Wellness Advocate Shae on Self-love
Sisters of Sexuality Podcast Taylor Sparks takes a deep dive into the life, experience, and education of Sex Educator and Health & Wellness Advocate Shae Alexander.

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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Secret Swinger Codes and Symbols: How To Spot a Swinger
This guide breaks down some popular swinger codes and symbols in the swinging lifestyle to help you read social cues, avoid awkward mishaps, and start real conversations.


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Soft Swap vs. Full Swap: What’s the Difference?
Learn how soft swapping and full swapping work in the swinging lifestyle.

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How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?

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Your First Swingers Party: What to Expect
Everything you need to know before you walk through the door.


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Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?

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What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.

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Newbie Swingers: How to Enter the Swinging Lifestyle
Learning how to own your swinging debut and swing smoothly and safely.


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How to Find Swinger Couples in the Midwest
Swingers in the Midwest are friendly and adventurous — here’s how to find them online and in person!

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Consent in the Swinging Lifestyle
The sexy key to safe exploration in the open lifestyle.

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How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.


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Why Do Couples Start Swinging?
Explore the motivations, benefits, and realities of the swinging lifestyle