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Watch videos about swingers and the swinging lifestyle, hotwifing, cuckolding, threesomes, open relationships, sexuality and sexual health, and more from our SDC experts and contributors.
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Your Words Are Arrows: How One Sentence Can Damage Trust
Your words are arrows. Once they leave your mouth, you don’t get to call them back.
Swinging Newbie Guide: 4OURPLAY
Watch along as Bella and Jase share some of their best tips for people getting started in the swinging lifestyle!
Inside the Swinging Lifestyle: Q&A with That Other Lifestyle
How to navigate the swinging lifestyle, with a focus on consent, etiquette, community, and real-world dynamics beyond the bedroom.
10 Popular Swinger Terms You Should Know
Master the terms that shape modern adult nightlife and swinger dating.
The Resurrection Part 2
In this segment, we discuss Podfest, St Pete Lube Wrestling, Daddies and Littles, and other events.
Creating BDSM Scenes Part 1: 6 Ways to Find Your Inspiration
If you're new to BDSM, Ms Morgan is here to give six ideas to inspire self-exploration and spark your imagination.
Skills that Attract Women
One surefire way to boost your confidence and quality of life is to improve or learn a variety of skills, but which ones are more likely to impress women?
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.
Checkmate NYC to Re-Open with On-Site Rapid COVID-19 Testing
Swingers’ Club Checkmate NYC will be the first club in the world to re-open with on-site rapid COVID-19 testing.
Openlove 101: Different Types of Open Relationships
There's more than one type of swinger and discovering what kind you are is an important step in the lifestyle journey.
Openlove 101: Swingers Lifestyle and the Subject of Consent
The subject of consent has been on everyone's minds lately. John and Jackie Melfi delve deep into the subject of consent in the lifestyle in this Openlove 101 video.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
10 Myths About Consensual Non-Monogamy: Busted!
The assumptions shaping consensual non-monogamy and the realities behind them.
How to Be Discreet & Private in The Swinger Lifestyle
Swinger tips for balancing anonymity, trust, and connection in the swinging lifestyle
Hotwife, Bull, and Cuck: Cuckolding Dynamics, Explained!
Mapping the intimacy and intrigue of alternative relationship dynamics
How to Flirt in the Swinging Lifestyle (Without Being Awkward)
Diving into the art of flirtation in a world that thrives on presence, discretion, and desire.
Is Your Relationship Ready for Hotwifing?
If you’re intrigued by the sexy world of hotwives and hotwifing, but you’re not sure if you and your partner are ready to dive in just yet, this is the quiz for you!
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