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Checkmate NYC to Re-Open with On-Site Rapid COVID-19 Testing
Swingers’ Club Checkmate NYC will be the first club in the world to re-open with on-site rapid COVID-19 testing.
Safer Sex Hacks
Smart, judgment-free guidance on STI risk reduction, testing, PrEP and HIV prevention. Plus, how to talk openly with partners about safety and boundaries.
Inside the Swinging Lifestyle: Q&A with That Other Lifestyle
How to navigate the swinging lifestyle, with a focus on consent, etiquette, community, and real-world dynamics beyond the bedroom.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
What Newbie Swingers Get Wrong and How to Avoid Common Pitfalls
Essential insights for beginners stepping into the swinging lifestyle.
Our Radical Lifestyle Journey, Plus a Sweetheart Special!
Cupid sure struck this charming couple! Watch Hotwife Taylor & Gabriel Mann share their candid stories, and celebrate love with their generous Valentine's Day SeXXXperience offer for SDC readers.
Video: The LIC Conversations #5 & #6: Boundaries & Agreements
Knowing and respecting each other's limits keeps your relationship protected — an integral facet to have in place, especially as you begin sharing it with others.
Lying vs Withholding in Ethical Non-Monogamy
Lying vs Withholding in ENM: Not lying isn’t the same as being fully honest.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
How Can Single Men Meet Hotwifing Couples?
Advice to help single men attract the right hotwifing couples and thrive in the open, swinging, and hotwifing lifestyle.
Everyone Feels Jealousy
Regardless of whether or not you are non-monogamous, jealousy is a natural human emotion.
Mastering Your Modern Dating Game
Matchmaker Victoria shares her webinar advice on photos, honesty and first impressions for singles and couples dating online.
Crown Your Clitoris with Jewels of Pleasure
For sexy holiday celebrations or for any occasion, offer her a clitoral jewel, a sexual jewel — a jewel of pleasure!
How to Go from Swinging Online to Real-Life Swinger Encounters
Bridging the gap between fantasy and face-to-face connection.
What if One Partner Wants to Be a Swinger But the Other Doesn’t?
How do you handle it when your partner doesn’t want an open relationship, but you do?
How to Introduce Swinging to Your Partner
Smart, smooth ways to talk to your partner about the swinging lifestyle.
What Is Cuckolding? A Complete Guide for Cucks, Bulls, and Couples
What Is Cuckolding? A Complete Guide for Cucks, Bulls, and CouplesWhat cuckolding is, why couples love it, and how to start as a cuck, bull, or curious couple.
By Nico Pierce, Content Media Manager at
Are You Ready for Cuckolding, or Just Loving the Fantasy?
Some of your hottest cuckolding fantasies may never become reality, and that’s perfectly fine. It’s healthy to fantasize about being in the role of cuckold or cuckoldress and let your fantasies live e