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Become an SDC Partner!
Sex educators, pleasure product brands, swingers clubs — no matter where you are within the adult education and entertainment industries, SDC has the tools you need to grow your reach and engagement!

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6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 3
Shared Resources and Time: Monogamous couples typically share their resources, time, and responsibilities with one partner.

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Get the Electro-Sex FAQs with Claire from ElectraStim
Erotic electrostimulation can seem intimidating, but by the end of this Q&A, you just might find yourself adding a kinky new device in your pleasure product collection.


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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?

SDC Dr Ava Cadell Guided Meditation Negative Thoughts Habits
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Replacing Negative Thoughts & Habits Meditation
It can seem impossible to escape negative ruminations, but with practice, you can train your mind to focus on positivity and healing.


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Openlove 101: Swinging as a Solution
What happens when one partner feels swinging is the only way he/she will stay in the relationship? And what if the other partner doesn't want that?

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Black Women, Black Love: Interview with Dr. Dianne Stewart
Join Taylor on this episode of her Sisters of Sexuality Podcast for an in-depth discussion regarding Dr. Dianne Stewart's book, Black Women, Black Love: America's War on African American Marriage.

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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.


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How to Find Private Swinger Parties Near You
The swinger parties worth attending don't always advertise. Here's how you get on the guest list.

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Video: The LIC Conversations #7: Routines & Rituals
How do you become conscious and intentional about your relationship? Watch this for ideas on how to show up what to do in your relationship to make it extraordinary.

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Video: The LIC Conversations #2: Unfiltered Communication
Honesty goes a long way in any dynamic, but it's a crucial element in developing a partnership based on Smart Erotica.


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SDC Sexy Ski 2023 — Your Ultimate Winter Sexcapade!
Experience a cool lifestyle surprise on the sunny, powdered slopes in Granada, Spain!

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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Flirting Tips for Swinger Couples and Singles in The Lifestyle
In the lifestyle, attraction is a language. Here’s how to learn to flirt with other swingers.


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How to Make a Great First Impression in the Swinging Lifestyle
The couples and singles worth knowing are already forming an opinion about you, so make it a good one!

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Swinger Relationship Boundaries: Agreements for Healthy Swinging
Knowing your and your partner’s comfort zones will lead to more swinging pleasures.

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Sexy "Vanilla" Parties vs Swinger Parties: What's the Difference?
Two very different nights. Know which one you're walking into.


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Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?

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Single Guys in The Lifestyle: 10 Tips to Boost Your Value
Single men in the swinging lifestyle can elevate their value by following the rhythm driven by couples.

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Why a Great Swingers Dating Profile Matters & How to Create One
Explore the power of a well-made swingers dating profile and how it shapes attraction in swinging spaces.