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Swinger Myth: Couples Can Do Whatever They Want
Is it really just a free-for-all?
Why Ex-Mormons Seek Out Sex Coaching
Sex and Substance are the first things Ex-Mormons experiment with after leaving the Church — and they do so with existential panic and flare.
BlkTouch's Brian Dwayne on Black Erotica
Showcasing the beauty and sensuality of Black people in both an exotic and erotic medium, both in still and movement on film, is greatly accomplished by Brian Dwayne, founder of BlkTouch.
How to Turn a Glove into a Dental Dam
Dental dams are an excellent barrier for practicing safer oral sex, and here's how to make one that has more flexibility.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
What if One Partner Wants to Be a Swinger But the Other Doesn’t?
How do you handle it when your partner doesn’t want an open relationship, but you do?
Interview with Mr & Mrs B on Relationships Part 2
Here's more of our fun, wine-filled interview with Mr B, author of "Every Woman Wants 4 Men, Every Man Wants 2 Women" and his wife, Mrs B.
Video: The LIC Conversations #2: Unfiltered Communication
Honesty goes a long way in any dynamic, but it's a crucial element in developing a partnership based on Smart Erotica.
The Intersection of Swinging & Polyamory
Adam & Pris of Beyond Monogamy open up about their journey from swinging to polyamory and why speaking up matters more than keeping the peace.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
How to Introduce Swinging to Your Partner
Smart, smooth ways to talk to your partner about the swinging lifestyle.
Inside the Swinging Lifestyle: Q&A with That Other Lifestyle
How to navigate the swinging lifestyle, with a focus on consent, etiquette, community, and real-world dynamics beyond the bedroom.
The Intersection of Exhibitionism and Anxiety
Can a self-described anxious poodle thrive as a club exhibitionist? Adam and Pris reveal how anxiety and showing off can share the same stage.
Holding Space with Dragonfly
"Holding space" means being emotionally, mentally, and physically present for someone, putting your focus on someone to support them as they feel and express their feelings.
How Can Single Men Meet Hotwifing Couples?
Advice to help single men attract the right hotwifing couples and thrive in the open, swinging, and hotwifing lifestyle.
What Newbie Swingers Get Wrong and How to Avoid Common Pitfalls
Essential insights for beginners stepping into the swinging lifestyle.
How to Go from Swinging Online to Real-Life Swinger Encounters
Bridging the gap between fantasy and face-to-face connection.
What Is Cuckolding? A Complete Guide for Cucks, Bulls, and Couples
What Is Cuckolding? A Complete Guide for Cucks, Bulls, and CouplesWhat cuckolding is, why couples love it, and how to start as a cuck, bull, or curious couple.
By Nico Pierce, SDC Media Content Manage
Are You Ready for Cuckolding, or Just Loving the Fantasy?
Some of your hottest cuckolding fantasies may never become reality, and that’s perfectly fine. It’s healthy to fantasize about being in the role of cuckold or cuckoldress and let your fantasies live e