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SDC Erika Jordan Virtual Sexpert Advice Online Dating Dick Pics
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Men's Guide to Sending the Best Nudes
You did it! You found someone who ASKS for a pic of your package. Make the best first impression with these sexpert tips!

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How to "Close the Deal" Without Killing the Vibe
You’ve connected, you’ve flirted… but how do you go from playful banter to an actual playroom invite without feeling awkward?

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My Journey Into Ethical Non-Monogamy
How Taylor transitioned into ethical non-monogamy, why she wrote the book An African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy, and the launch of THE SERIES


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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

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How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?

Sexual Health Therapy Tantra Couples Relationship Erotic Pleasure LASPL SDC
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The Resurrection Part 3
In this segment, we discuss Tantra! What it is, what it's not, and why this pleasure-based therapy has done wonders for our lives.


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Openlove 101: Different Types of Open Relationships
There's more than one type of swinger and discovering what kind you are is an important step in the lifestyle journey.

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SDC Affiliates Work Smarter, Not Harder by Earning Commission
SDC's Affiliate Program provides businesses the opportunity to earn generous and recurring commission. Here's how.

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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?


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10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle
A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.

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Catching Up with Amberly Rothfield Part 1
You know a guest is great when you bring them back THREE times on your show!

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Why Pics Are Key
Pics are key to getting noticed and getting dates on SDC.com!


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How Do You Deal with Different Swinging Expectations?
What do you do when partners want to live the lifestyle differently?

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.


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How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.

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Consent in the Swinging Lifestyle
The sexy key to safe exploration in the open lifestyle.

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Soft Swap vs. Full Swap: What’s the Difference?
Learn how soft swapping and full swapping work in the swinging lifestyle.


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Newbie Swingers: How to Enter the Swinging Lifestyle
Learning how to own your swinging debut and swing smoothly and safely.

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Secret Swinger Codes and Symbols: How To Spot a Swinger
This guide breaks down some popular swinger codes and symbols in the swinging lifestyle to help you read social cues, avoid awkward mishaps, and start real conversations.

Where Should You Start in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Where Should You Start in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Curious about the swinging lifestyle, but not sure where to begin? Everyone’s first step looks different. Some love to flirt online and take things slow, while others prefer to dive right into going o