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Taking Better Photos: Swinger Dating Profile Advice
Do photos really matter that much? Yes. Here's how to fix them.
Empowered Women in Swinger Relationships
Brenna and Brian from Front Porch Swingers talk about the misconceptions people have about women in the swinger lifestyle.
Orgasm & You
Dragonfly Lee on her first orgasm in her mid-twenties and why performance anxiety isn't a flaw. Plus, how letting go of the finish line unlocks pleasure.
Replacing Negative Thoughts & Habits Meditation
It can seem impossible to escape negative ruminations, but with practice, you can train your mind to focus on positivity and healing.
How to Introduce Swinging to Your Partner
Smart, smooth ways to talk to your partner about the swinging lifestyle.
Red Flags & Green Flags of the Lifestyle
Learn how to spot genuine connections, dodge the warning signs, and protect your energy in the open lifestyle.
The Resurrection Part 3
In this segment, we discuss Tantra! What it is, what it's not, and why this pleasure-based therapy has done wonders for our lives.
Forgiveness of Self & Others Meditation with Dr. Ava Cadell
Many of us are unnecessarily hard on ourselves or critical of those around us. Learn to find freedom from judgmental thoughts in this meditation.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
What Newbie Swingers Get Wrong and How to Avoid Common Pitfalls
Essential insights for beginners stepping into the swinging lifestyle.
Openlove 101: Swingers Lifestyle and the Subject of Consent
The subject of consent has been on everyone's minds lately. John and Jackie Melfi delve deep into the subject of consent in the lifestyle in this Openlove 101 video.
How to Turn a Glove into a Dental Dam
Dental dams are an excellent barrier for practicing safer oral sex, and here's how to make one that has more flexibility.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
Is Swinging Exclusive to Couples?
If someone wants to be a swinger but isn't in a couple, can they still swing?
SDC: How to Find Friends & Connect
Just like with any social network or online community, it's exciting to have and make new friends on SDC.
How to Go from Swinging Online to Real-Life Swinger Encounters
Bridging the gap between fantasy and face-to-face connection.
What if One Partner Wants to Be a Swinger But the Other Doesn’t?
How do you handle it when your partner doesn’t want an open relationship, but you do?
How Can Single Men Meet Hotwifing Couples?
Advice to help single men attract the right hotwifing couples and thrive in the open, swinging, and hotwifing lifestyle.
What Is Cuckolding? A Complete Guide for Cucks, Bulls, and Couples
What Is Cuckolding? A Complete Guide for Cucks, Bulls, and CouplesWhat cuckolding is, why couples love it, and how to start as a cuck, bull, or curious couple.
By Nico Pierce, Content Media Manager at
Are You Ready for Cuckolding, or Just Loving the Fantasy?
Some of your hottest cuckolding fantasies may never become reality, and that’s perfectly fine. It’s healthy to fantasize about being in the role of cuckold or cuckoldress and let your fantasies live e