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Openlove 101: Swingers Lifestyle and the Subject of Consent
The subject of consent has been on everyone's minds lately. John and Jackie Melfi delve deep into the subject of consent in the lifestyle in this Openlove 101 video.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
Soft Swap vs. Full Swap: What’s the Difference?
Learn how soft swapping and full swapping work in the swinging lifestyle.
Video: The LIC Conversations #3: Conflicts
Problems arise in every relationship, but one based on Smart Erotica deals with it in a healthy, productive way.
Creating Balance Meditation
Modern life can have us feeling pulled in many directions at once. Humans crave equilibrium, and this guided meditation can help you find it.
My Journey Into Ethical Non-Monogamy
How Taylor transitioned into ethical non-monogamy, why she wrote the book An African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy, and the launch of THE SERIES
What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.
Compersion Isn’t the Opposite of Jealousy
Compersion Isn’t the Opposite of Jealousy — Here’s What It Really Means in Ethical Non-Monogamy.
John C Luna's Sexual Wellness Therapy Part 2
Watch the second part of John's documentary about his experiences with hormone therapy.
Love Maps: Exploring Polyamory Part One
Dr. Eli Sheff covers the basics of polyamory: what it is, how it's distinct from other forms of consensual non-monogamy, and how people practice it in real life.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
Newbie Swingers: How to Enter the Swinging Lifestyle
Learning how to own your swinging debut and swing smoothly and safely.
How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.
How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?
Secret Swinger Codes and Symbols: How To Spot a Swinger
This guide breaks down some popular swinger codes and symbols in the swinging lifestyle to help you read social cues, avoid awkward mishaps, and start real conversations.
10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle
A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.
Where Should You Start in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Curious about the swinging lifestyle, but not sure where to begin?
Everyone’s first step looks different. Some love to flirt online and take things slow, while others prefer to dive right into going o