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Watch videos about swingers and the swinging lifestyle, hotwifing, cuckolding, threesomes, open relationships, sexuality and sexual health, and more from our SDC experts and contributors.
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What Does Consent Really Mean?
Consent can be a fickle thing, which is why Dr. Liz Powell sat down to tackle the subject.
Empowered Women in Swinger Relationships
Brenna and Brian from Front Porch Swingers talk about the misconceptions people have about women in the swinger lifestyle.
What is a Session?
The modern world of relationship coaching might look a bit different than a traditional therapy session. Here's what to expect.
Hotwife, Bull, and Cuck: Cuckolding Dynamics, Explained!
Mapping the intimacy and intrigue of alternative relationship dynamics
Is Swinging Exclusive to Couples?
If someone wants to be a swinger but isn't in a couple, can they still swing?
6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 2
Learn more about the relationship foundations and dynamics to leave behind with monogamy if you're considering ethical non-monogamy.
Video: Who We Are & Why We Created The Smart Erotica Program
Get to know relationship coaches Dr. Jay and Liseth Ferraro, the creators of the Smart Erotica Program and The Lifestyle Inventory Check-Up.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
How to Flirt in the Swinging Lifestyle (Without Being Awkward)
Diving into the art of flirtation in a world that thrives on presence, discretion, and desire.
Taking Better Photos: Swinger Dating Profile Advice
Do photos really matter that much? Yes. Here's how to fix them.
Openlove 101: Single Men at Swinger's Clubs (What Not To Do)
Single men in the lifestyle deal with a host of different issues when compared with single females and singles, and John and Jackie Melfi from Openlove 101 are here to offer some guidance.
Quick Start Guide to Smart Erotica & The LIC
Are you ready to learn how to practice Smart Erotica? Start here!
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
10 Myths About Consensual Non-Monogamy: Busted!
The assumptions shaping consensual non-monogamy and the realities behind them.
What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.
How to Be Discreet & Private in The Swinger Lifestyle
Swinger tips for balancing anonymity, trust, and connection in the swinging lifestyle
10 Popular Swinger Terms You Should Know
Master the terms that shape modern adult nightlife and swinger dating.
Is Your Relationship Ready for Hotwifing?
If you’re intrigued by the sexy world of hotwives and hotwifing, but you’re not sure if you and your partner are ready to dive in just yet, this is the quiz for you!
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