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4OURPLAY
5 Tips For The Best Time at The Swingers Club: Part 1
Watch along as Bella and Jase, hosts of 4OURPLAY, talk about 5 tips on how to have the best time at the swinger lifestyle club!
Bend Over Backwards for Pleasure: From Crescendo to Climax
Read a couple’s personal sexperience playing with MysteryVibe’s Crescendo sex toy, designed to bring the best of health, pleasure, and technology together.
Swinger Storytime: What's Your Worst Couple Encounter?
We invite you to spill the tea on your most annoying swinger story
Video: The LIC Conversations #1: Alignment
As with any successful relationship, it's important that you're on the same page.
Hotwife, Bull, and Cuck: Cuckolding Dynamics, Explained!
Mapping the intimacy and intrigue of alternative relationship dynamics
What Does Consent Really Mean?
Consent can be a fickle thing, which is why Dr. Liz Powell sat down to tackle the subject.
Is Swinging Exclusive to Couples?
If someone wants to be a swinger but isn't in a couple, can they still swing?
My Journey Into Ethical Non-Monogamy
How Taylor transitioned into ethical non-monogamy, why she wrote the book An African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy, and the launch of THE SERIES
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
Sexy "Vanilla" Parties vs Swinger Parties: What's the Difference?
Two very different nights. Know which one you're walking into.
Make the Most of Your Online Dating Profile
Modern dating is driven by making digital connections. Here are Erika's tips on how to create more effective online dating profiles.
Creating Balance Meditation
Modern life can have us feeling pulled in many directions at once. Humans crave equilibrium, and this guided meditation can help you find it.
Privacy vs Secrecy in Ethical Non-Monogamy
In ethical non-monogamy, privacy honors boundaries — but secrecy destroys trust.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.
How to Find Private Swinger Parties Near You
The swinger parties worth attending don't always advertise. Here's how you get on the guest list.
10 Myths About Consensual Non-Monogamy: Busted!
The assumptions shaping consensual non-monogamy and the realities behind them.
Swinger Relationship Boundaries: Agreements for Healthy Swinging
Knowing your and your partner’s comfort zones will lead to more swinging pleasures.
How to Make a Great First Impression in the Swinging Lifestyle
The couples and singles worth knowing are already forming an opinion about you, so make it a good one!
10 Popular Swinger Terms You Should Know
Master the terms that shape modern adult nightlife and swinger dating.
How to Be Discreet & Private in The Swinger Lifestyle
Swinger tips for balancing anonymity, trust, and connection in the swinging lifestyle
Why a Great Swingers Dating Profile Matters & How to Create One
Explore the power of a well-made swingers dating profile and how it shapes attraction in swinging spaces.
How to Flirt in the Swinging Lifestyle (Without Being Awkward)
Diving into the art of flirtation in a world that thrives on presence, discretion, and desire.
Flirting Tips for Swinger Couples and Singles in The Lifestyle
In the lifestyle, attraction is a language. Here’s how to learn to flirt with other swingers.
Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?
How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?
Single Guys in The Lifestyle: 10 Tips to Boost Your Value
Single men in the swinging lifestyle can elevate their value by following the rhythm driven by couples.
Is Your Relationship Ready for Hotwifing?
If you’re intrigued by the sexy world of hotwives and hotwifing, but you’re not sure if you and your partner are ready to dive in just yet, this is the quiz for you!
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