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Hotwifing Tip: Have a Safety Plan
Put your minds at ease by building your own protection strategy with inspiration by Hotwife Taylor and Gabe Mann.
Get Confident!
One surefire way to attract women is to present yourself authentically and comfortably. Learn how to boost your confidence with these tips by Certified Love Coach Erika Jordan.
SDC Ibiza Review
Have you and your partner ever considered attending a swinger lifestyle hotel takeover?
What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.
The Resurrection Part 2
In this segment, we discuss Podfest, St Pete Lube Wrestling, Daddies and Littles, and other events.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.
What is a Swinger Unicorn?
In the sex clubs and swinger lifestyle, there are a ton of single swingers, not just couples. Learn why we call single women "unicorns" and why single men are referred to as "bulls."
Privacy vs Secrecy in Ethical Non-Monogamy
In ethical non-monogamy, privacy honors boundaries — but secrecy destroys trust.
Video: The LIC Conversations #1: Alignment
As with any successful relationship, it's important that you're on the same page.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle
A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.
Secret Swinger Codes and Symbols: How To Spot a Swinger
This guide breaks down some popular swinger codes and symbols in the swinging lifestyle to help you read social cues, avoid awkward mishaps, and start real conversations.
Soft Swap vs. Full Swap: What’s the Difference?
Learn how soft swapping and full swapping work in the swinging lifestyle.
How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?
Newbie Swingers: How to Enter the Swinging Lifestyle
Learning how to own your swinging debut and swing smoothly and safely.
Where Should You Start in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Curious about the swinging lifestyle, but not sure where to begin?
Everyone’s first step looks different. Some love to flirt online and take things slow, while others prefer to dive right into going o