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Openlove 101: Misconceptions of a Swingers Club
Never set foot in a swingers club? What do YOU think goes on behind the velvet rope? Find out with Openlove 101...
Are You Textually Compatible?
You might be compatible between the sheets, but can you say the same when texting? With technology being a big part of modern dating, being textually compatible is a must!
What are the Dos & Don'ts of Sex Club Etiquette?
Whether you're curious about clubs or are a seasoned pro, these sex club tips are for you.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
What if One Partner Wants to Be a Swinger But the Other Doesn’t?
How do you handle it when your partner doesn’t want an open relationship, but you do?
6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 5
Monogamous Mindset and Norms: Monogamous relationships often conform to societal norms and expectations.
John C Luna's Sexual Wellness Therapy Part 1
Here's a glimpse into what it's like to undergo hormone treatments for male sexual wellness therapy.
What is a Swinger Unicorn?
In the sex clubs and swinger lifestyle, there are a ton of single swingers, not just couples. Learn why we call single women "unicorns" and why single men are referred to as "bulls."
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
12 Benefits of the Swinging Lifestyle
Discover how the swinger lifestyle can transform your relationship!
6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 4
Relationship Hierarchy: In monogamous relationships, the romantic partner often holds the highest priority in terms of emotional and time investment.
Openlove 101: Swingers Lifestyle and the Subject of Consent
The subject of consent has been on everyone's minds lately. John and Jackie Melfi delve deep into the subject of consent in the lifestyle in this Openlove 101 video.
How to Avoid Spiraling When Rejected
You WILL get rejected as a swinger, and that's OK! Here’s how to avoid spiraling.
Swinging in France: Desire, Discretion, and Libertine Freedom
Uncover the elegant pulse of France’s modern swinger lifestyle scene.
Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?
Hotwifing vs. Swinging: What’s the Difference?
How are hotwives and hotwifing couples different from swingers and swinging couples?
Why People Take Breaks From the Swinging Lifestyle
Pressing pause on the swinging lifestyle is healthy, but why do couples do it?
Your First Swingers Party: What to Expect
Everything you need to know before you walk through the door.
Swinging in Paris: Inside the City of Light’s Lifestyle Scene
In Paris’s after-hours landscape, attraction and opportunity for open-minded swingers are always ready to unfold.
Swinging in the Midwest: America’s Secret Swinger Playground
Midwest swingers will lend you a cup of sugar — AND share their partner, too!
How to Go from Swinging Online to Real-Life Swinger Encounters
Bridging the gap between fantasy and face-to-face connection.
Same Room vs. Separate Room Swinging: Which Is Right For You?
How can swinger couples navigate playing in the same or separate rooms?
Swinging in Cap d’Agde: Inside the Naturist Village
The French coast’s most liberated escape, revealed.
Swinging in Iceland: Where Desire Meets Northern Fire
An intimate exploration of Iceland’s understated swinging culture.
Where Should You Start in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Curious about the swinging lifestyle, but not sure where to begin?
Everyone’s first step looks different. Some love to flirt online and take things slow, while others prefer to dive right into going o