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Video: Who We Are & Why We Created The Smart Erotica Program
Get to know relationship coaches Dr. Jay and Liseth Ferraro, the creators of the Smart Erotica Program and The Lifestyle Inventory Check-Up.

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How Do You Deal with Different Swinging Expectations?
What do you do when partners want to live the lifestyle differently?

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Which is More Intimate: Sleeping Together OR Oral Sex?
In this Ask a Sex Goddess video, Taylor discusses the nuances of intimacy and sex.


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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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Consent in the Swinging Lifestyle
The sexy key to safe exploration in the open lifestyle.

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Managing Jealousy in Open and Committed Relationships
Taylor Sparks explores how jealousy operates in both monogamous and ethically non-monogamous relationships, and how to handle it.


Sexual Health Therapy Tantra Couples Relationship Erotic Pleasure LASPL SDC
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The Resurrection Part 3
In this segment, we discuss Tantra! What it is, what it's not, and why this pleasure-based therapy has done wonders for our lives.

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John C Luna's Sexual Wellness Therapy Part 1
Here's a glimpse into what it's like to undergo hormone treatments for male sexual wellness therapy.

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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.


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Your First Swingers Party: What to Expect
Everything you need to know before you walk through the door.

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How to "Close the Deal" Without Killing the Vibe
You’ve connected, you’ve flirted… but how do you go from playful banter to an actual playroom invite without feeling awkward?


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SDC Ibiza Day In The Life Vlog: 4OURPLAY
Bella and Jase take you behind the scenes of what a typical day is like on a swinger vacation.

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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How to Create an Amazing Swingers Dating Profile
The quiet power behind dating profiles in the swinging lifestyle.


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What if One Partner Wants to Be a Swinger But the Other Doesn’t?
How do you handle it when your partner doesn’t want an open relationship, but you do?

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How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?

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How Can Single Men Meet Hotwifing Couples?
Advice to help single men attract the right hotwifing couples and thrive in the open, swinging, and hotwifing lifestyle.


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How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.

Where Should You Start in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Where Should You Start in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Curious about the swinging lifestyle, but not sure where to begin? Everyone’s first step looks different. Some love to flirt online and take things slow, while others prefer to dive right into going o

Are You Ready for Swinging?
Are You Ready for Swinging?
Curious about the swinging lifestyle, but not sure if you and your partner are really ready to dive into an open relationship? Opening your monogamous relationship to new experiences with other partne


Which Swinger Persona Are You?
Which Swinger Persona Are You?
In the swinging lifestyle, every couple or single brings their own irresistible energy. Some love to tease and play coy, others seduce with effortless confidence, while some are endlessly curious or f

Complete Guide to Hotwifing and Hotwife Relationships
Complete Guide to Hotwifing and Hotwife Relationships
What is hotwifing? What’s it like to be a hotwife? Discover how to be a hotwife, what hotwifing is really all about, and more about this growing trend in sex and relationships. Whether you’re new to t