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Watch videos about swingers and the swinging lifestyle, hotwifing, cuckolding, threesomes, open relationships, sexuality and sexual health, and more from our SDC experts and contributors.
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Explaining Non-Monogamy to Monogamous People
Not everyone can wrap their heads around the concept of non-monogamy, but we can certainly try to help explain it!
The Resurrection Part 2
In this segment, we discuss Podfest, St Pete Lube Wrestling, Daddies and Littles, and other events.
How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.
Can I Make My Penis Bigger?
According to Love Coach Erika Jordan, the answer is truly in your hands.
Soul-Mates For Life Testimonials
Don't take our word for it! Hear from real couples about how our program has helped their relationships.
Openlove 101: Single Men at Swinger's Clubs (What Not To Do)
Single men in the lifestyle deal with a host of different issues when compared with single females and singles, and John and Jackie Melfi from Openlove 101 are here to offer some guidance.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?
What is a Sexpert?
You have seen the word “Sexpert” on the TV, in magazines, and plastered all over social media. But what is a Sexpert, and do you need one?
Dating During COVID
What is the new normal during this pandemic, and what does it mean for those of us in the dating pool?
Checkmate NYC to Re-Open with On-Site Rapid COVID-19 Testing
Swingers’ Club Checkmate NYC will be the first club in the world to re-open with on-site rapid COVID-19 testing.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
Soft Swap vs. Full Swap: What’s the Difference?
Learn how soft swapping and full swapping work in the swinging lifestyle.
Swinger Red Flags: What Swinging Couples & Singles Should Know
Know the warning signs in swinging to keep your experiences smooth and sexy.
How to Find Swinger Couples in the Midwest
Swingers in the Midwest are friendly and adventurous — here’s how to find them online and in person!
Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?
Newbie Swingers: How to Enter the Swinging Lifestyle
Learning how to own your swinging debut and swing smoothly and safely.
10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle
A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.
Secret Swinger Codes and Symbols: How To Spot a Swinger
This guide breaks down some popular swinger codes and symbols in the swinging lifestyle to help you read social cues, avoid awkward mishaps, and start real conversations.
What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.
Why Do Couples Start Swinging?
Explore the motivations, benefits, and realities of the swinging lifestyle
Your First Swingers Party: What to Expect
Everything you need to know before you walk through the door.