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7 Tips to Be a Successful Swinger
Watch along as Bella and Jase give you 7 of their top tips to be a successful swinger, especially for those just getting started in the swinging lifestyle!

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Soul-Mates For Life Testimonials
Don't take our word for it! Hear from real couples about how our program has helped their relationships.

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Video: The LIC Conversations #3: Conflicts
Problems arise in every relationship, but one based on Smart Erotica deals with it in a healthy, productive way.


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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

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Single Males Dos and Don'ts
Be the single guy everyone wants on the guest list.

SDC Dr Ava Cadell Mental Health Manifestation Meditation Guided Video Audio Coronavirus
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Coronavirus Meditation with Dr. Ava Cadell
Rediscover the healing powers of love and empathy to help overcome fear during this pandemic.


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6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 6
Emotional Monogamy: Emotional exclusivity is a common characteristic of monogamous relationships, where partners often seek emotional fulfillment exclusively from each other.

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Openlove 101: How We Deal with Discrimination in Our Swinger's Lifestyle
Entering into the swinger's lifestyle is a bold decision to make, and can sometimes be seen in a negative light. So, John and Jackie are here to tackle the issue of discrimination against swingers.

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.


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Hotwife, Bull, and Cuck: Cuckolding Dynamics, Explained!
Mapping the intimacy and intrigue of alternative relationship dynamics

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Video: Who We Are & Why We Created The Smart Erotica Program
Get to know relationship coaches Dr. Jay and Liseth Ferraro, the creators of the Smart Erotica Program and The Lifestyle Inventory Check-Up.

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Checkmate NYC to Re-Open with On-Site Rapid COVID-19 Testing
Swingers’ Club Checkmate NYC will be the first club in the world to re-open with on-site rapid COVID-19 testing.


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Openlove 101: Different Types of Open Relationships
There's more than one type of swinger and discovering what kind you are is an important step in the lifestyle journey.

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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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How to Flirt in the Swinging Lifestyle (Without Being Awkward)
Diving into the art of flirtation in a world that thrives on presence, discretion, and desire.


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10 Popular Swinger Terms You Should Know
Master the terms that shape modern adult nightlife and swinger dating.

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10 Myths About Consensual Non-Monogamy: Busted!
The assumptions shaping consensual non-monogamy and the realities behind them.

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What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.


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How to Be Discreet & Private in The Swinger Lifestyle
Swinger tips for balancing anonymity, trust, and connection in the swinging lifestyle

Is Your Relationship Ready for Hotwifing?
Is Your Relationship Ready for Hotwifing?
If you’re intrigued by the sexy world of hotwives and hotwifing, but you’re not sure if you and your partner are ready to dive in just yet, this is the quiz for you!  Before you get started, here are