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Watch videos about swingers and the swinging lifestyle, hotwifing, cuckolding, threesomes, open relationships, sexuality and sexual health, and more from our SDC experts and contributors.
Confirmation Bias is Blocking Your ENM Growth
Think you already know how your relationship will turn out? That might be confirmation bias talking. Here’s how to break free.
Consensual Non-Monogamy: Is it Right for You?
If you're curious about opening your relationship, watch Kitty Chambliss' video for her helpful questions to ask yourself and your partner.
Part I: Lifestyle Inventory Check-Up
This is the first in a new series that will offer you a practical blueprint for how to protect your relationship while you are spicing it up in the often-uncharted territory of the psycho-emotional-spiritual realm of erotic intimacy.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
What are the Dos & Don'ts of Sex Club Etiquette?
Whether you're curious about clubs or are a seasoned pro, these sex club tips are for you.
Love Maps: Exploring Polyamory Part Two
Dr. Eli Sheff dives into the subjects of social criticism of sexual behaviors, designer relationships, the generational paradigm shift around monogamy and non-monogamy, and how polyamorous people are able to connect with their community.
Video: The LIC Conversations #3: Conflicts
Problems arise in every relationship, but one based on Smart Erotica deals with it in a healthy, productive way.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.
Openlove 101: Our Open Lifestyle and Passion for Traveling
Love to travel and swing? Well, the lifestyle might just be the perfect choice for you and your partner(s).
Video: The LIC Conversations #5 & #6: Boundaries & Agreements
Knowing and respecting each other's limits keeps your relationship protected — an integral facet to have in place, especially as you begin sharing it with others.
Our Radical Lifestyle Journey, Plus a Sweetheart Special!
Cupid sure struck this charming couple! Watch Hotwife Taylor & Gabriel Mann share their candid stories, and celebrate love with their generous Valentine's Day SeXXXperience offer for SDC readers.
How Can Single Men Meet Hotwifing Couples?
Advice to help single men attract the right hotwifing couples and thrive in the open, swinging, and hotwifing lifestyle.
Your First Swingers Party: What to Expect
Everything you need to know before you walk through the door.
How to Create an Amazing Swingers Dating Profile
The quiet power behind dating profiles in the swinging lifestyle.
How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?
What if One Partner Wants to Be a Swinger But the Other Doesn’t?
How do you handle it when your partner doesn’t want an open relationship, but you do?
Where Should You Start in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Curious about the swinging lifestyle, but not sure where to begin?
Everyone’s first step looks different. Some love to flirt online and take things slow, while others prefer to dive right into going o
Are You Ready for Swinging?
Curious about the swinging lifestyle, but not sure if you and your partner are really ready to dive into an open relationship?
Opening your monogamous relationship to new experiences with other partne
Which Swinger Persona Are You?
In the swinging lifestyle, every couple or single brings their own irresistible energy. Some love to tease and play coy, others seduce with effortless confidence, while some are endlessly curious or f
Complete Guide to Hotwifing and Hotwife Relationships
What is hotwifing? What’s it like to be a hotwife? Discover how to be a hotwife, what hotwifing is really all about, and more about this growing trend in sex and relationships.
Whether you’re new to t