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When "Not Tonight" Means "Not You" (and How to Handle it)
Let’s normalize compassionate rejection in the lifestyle!
Video: The LIC Conversations #3: Conflicts
Problems arise in every relationship, but one based on Smart Erotica deals with it in a healthy, productive way.
How to Turn a Glove into a Dental Dam
Dental dams are an excellent barrier for practicing safer oral sex, and here's how to make one that has more flexibility.
Swinging & Group Erotica Course at Loveology University
We all know that knowledge equals power. So, sexual knowledge equals not only sexual power but sexual satisfaction.
6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 5
Monogamous Mindset and Norms: Monogamous relationships often conform to societal norms and expectations.
Empowered Women in Swinger Relationships
Brenna and Brian from Front Porch Swingers talk about the misconceptions people have about women in the swinger lifestyle.
Unsolicited Selfies
The new dating trend is for people to meet each other online then proceed to send daily selfies. NO... You are not defined by the symmetry in your face.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
Is Swinging Exclusive to Couples?
If someone wants to be a swinger but isn't in a couple, can they still swing?
Spit Is NOT Lube! Here’s What to Use Instead + Why It Matters
It dries fast, has zero glide, and the bacteria in the mouth can disrupt the vaginal ecosystem — increasing the risk of BV.
How to Write a Good Bio in 5 Minutes (or Less)
Learn how to write a solid first draft bio in under five minutes following three simple guidelines.
7 Tips to Be a Successful Swinger
Watch along as Bella and Jase give you 7 of their top tips to be a successful swinger, especially for those just getting started in the swinging lifestyle!
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
SDC: How to Find Friends & Connect
Just like with any social network or online community, it's exciting to have and make new friends on SDC.