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Sex Life Secondary to Social Media
The smartphone appears to be more interesting in bed than the bed partner. Nowadays there are even telephone condoms to silence the devices.

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Coronavirus and the Effect on Your Daily Life
The whole world is literally locked down because of the COVID-19 (Coronavirus) outbreak, and many of us are required to self-quarantine until further notice. But what do you do to pass the time?

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Dear Tom & Bunny: We’re Newbies. Can We Just Watch?
Lifestyle newbies can help get over the jitters by communicating with each other at every step along the way. Here are some swingers’ tips to ease the transition. Before you know it, you’ll be living your fantasies!


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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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Swinger Relationship Boundaries: Agreements for Healthy Swinging
Knowing your and your partner’s comfort zones will lead to more swinging pleasures.

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The Beauty of Erotic Writing Contests
Passionate and steamy encounters in the lifestyle are sure to ignite some hot and provoking stories... erotic, mysterious, naughty, sensual, or downright sexual.


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Mating Season is OUT NOW!
Lexi Sylver's new erotic book Mating Season is OUT NOW — just in time for Masturbation May!

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Ladies First! Checkmate Beverly Hills Coming Soon!
Lexi Sylver interviews Checkmate NYC swinger club owner Gianni for insider info on this swanky lifestyle destination and its expansion into LA.

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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.


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Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?

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Listen to Black Women, a 4-Day Summit July 28-31, 2020
On July 28, 2020, Black women and the people who love, celebrate, and support us will converge in a digital space where we will explore the intersections of Black womanhood, pleasure, love, justice, activism, and liberation.


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Swinging Goes Mainstream on “This is Life with Lisa Ling” Podcast Episode #3
CNN featured John & Jackie Melfi of Openlove 101 in an episode of "This is Life" with award-winning journalist Lisa Ling! Listen to their exclusive behind-the-scenes commentary.

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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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Single Guys in The Lifestyle: 10 Tips to Boost Your Value
Single men in the swinging lifestyle can elevate their value by following the rhythm driven by couples.


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10 Myths About Consensual Non-Monogamy: Busted!
The assumptions shaping consensual non-monogamy and the realities behind them.

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Sexy "Vanilla" Parties vs Swinger Parties: What's the Difference?
Two very different nights. Know which one you're walking into.

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10 Popular Swinger Terms You Should Know
Master the terms that shape modern adult nightlife and swinger dating.


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Why a Great Swingers Dating Profile Matters & How to Create One
Explore the power of a well-made swingers dating profile and how it shapes attraction in swinging spaces.

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Single Males Dos and Don'ts
Be the single guy everyone wants on the guest list.

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How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?


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How to Be Discreet & Private in The Swinger Lifestyle
Swinger tips for balancing anonymity, trust, and connection in the swinging lifestyle

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How to Make a Great First Impression in the Swinging Lifestyle
The couples and singles worth knowing are already forming an opinion about you, so make it a good one!

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How to Find Private Swinger Parties Near You
The swinger parties worth attending don't always advertise. Here's how you get on the guest list.


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Flirting Tips for Swinger Couples and Singles in The Lifestyle
In the lifestyle, attraction is a language. Here’s how to learn to flirt with other swingers.

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Hotwife, Bull, and Cuck: Cuckolding Dynamics, Explained!
Mapping the intimacy and intrigue of alternative relationship dynamics

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How to Flirt in the Swinging Lifestyle (Without Being Awkward)
Diving into the art of flirtation in a world that thrives on presence, discretion, and desire.


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What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.

Is Your Relationship Ready for Hotwifing?
Is Your Relationship Ready for Hotwifing?
If you’re intrigued by the sexy world of hotwives and hotwifing, but you’re not sure if you and your partner are ready to dive in just yet, this is the quiz for you!  Before you get started, here are