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SDC Checkmate NYC LA Swingers Club
Ladies First! Checkmate Beverly Hills Coming Soon!
Lexi Sylver interviews Checkmate NYC swinger club owner Gianni for insider info on this swanky lifestyle destination and its expansion into LA.

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Become an SDC Partner!
Sex educators, pleasure product brands, swingers clubs — no matter where you are within the adult education and entertainment industries, SDC has the tools you need to grow your reach and engagement!

SDC Dragonfly Pure Orgasmic Love Podcast Erotic Art Michelle Lee
Shadows on Fire — with Michelle Lee
Bonus Episode! The role of erotic art in an Orgasmic Life.


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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.

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Consent in the Swinging Lifestyle
The sexy key to safe exploration in the open lifestyle.

SDC Sex Positive Me Angelique John Luna
New Year, New Branding! But Always Sex Positive
John and Angelique Luna had a big 2019, but they're ushering in 2020 with a fresh brand and a year full of events and growth.


Openlove 101 John and Jackie Melfi
Openlove 101 with John & Jackie Melfi
Dan and Lacy talk all things lifestyle with John and Jackie Melfi, a well-known swingers couple in an open relationship.

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Why Purity Culture is Damaging to Women
In this episode, Tara talks about her own experiences with purity culture, both in the church and secular worlds, and how it affected her negatively.

SDC Secrets Hideaway Swingers Lifestyle Resort Club
Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?


SDC Lexi Sylver Podcast Sex Education Sexuality NonMonogamy Open Relationships Dr Laurie Betito
The Swinging Lifestyle & Types of Open Relationships
Listen for Lexi Sylver's guest appearance on Dr. Laurie Betito's radio show on CJAD 8000.

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Age Gap Love: The Last Taboo?
A light bomb dropped when the news came out that movie star hottie Keanu Reeves (55) is dating girlfriend Alexandra Grant (46).

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Crockpots in the Bedroom & Boundaries
Amina shares one of her Pro-Hoe tips and discusses boundaries around our sex and relationships.


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SDC Breaks Records & Rewards Members with New SDC Premium
SDC.com surges past record-breaking 650M views, rewards members with premium upgrade

Checkmate NYC Swingers Club
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

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How to "Close the Deal" Without Killing the Vibe
You’ve connected, you’ve flirted… but how do you go from playful banter to an actual playroom invite without feeling awkward?


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Compersion Isn’t the Opposite of Jealousy
Compersion Isn’t the Opposite of Jealousy — Here’s What It Really Means in Ethical Non-Monogamy.

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Secret Swinger Codes and Symbols: How To Spot a Swinger
This guide breaks down some popular swinger codes and symbols in the swinging lifestyle to help you read social cues, avoid awkward mishaps, and start real conversations.

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How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.


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Navigating Sex Clubs: Tips, Etiquette, and Experiences
Jason and his wife share their latest adventure at a new sex club, providing you with an inside look at their experience, valuable tips, and essential etiquette to ensure you have a great night out.

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Soft Swap vs. Full Swap: What’s the Difference?
Learn how soft swapping and full swapping work in the swinging lifestyle.

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What if One Partner Wants to Be a Swinger But the Other Doesn’t?
How do you handle it when your partner doesn’t want an open relationship, but you do?


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How to Post Travel Plans on SDC
This map might just get you laid!

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10 Swinging Tips For Single Men in the Lifestyle
A roadmap for single men ready to navigate and stand out in the swinging lifestyle.

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How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?


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How Can Single Men Meet Swinger Couples?
9 tips for single guys in the lifestyle to connect with swinger couples.

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Newbie Swingers: How to Enter the Swinging Lifestyle
Learning how to own your swinging debut and swing smoothly and safely.

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Hotwifing vs. Swinging: What’s the Difference?
How are hotwives and hotwifing couples different from swingers and swinging couples?


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What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.

Where Should You Start in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Where Should You Start in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Curious about the swinging lifestyle, but not sure where to begin? Everyone’s first step looks different. Some love to flirt online and take things slow, while others prefer to dive right into going o