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Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
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Introducing: The Examined Lives of the Secret Wives!
Join Lauren Hayes, your Swinging Lifestyle Coach and expert in ethical non-monogamy, alongside her co-host Ben, an ex-LDS polyamorous friend, as they dive into the reality TV show The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.

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How to Navigate Lifestyle House Parties: Tips and Etiquette
Drawing from his extensive experience in hosting and attending such parties, Jason offers invaluable advice on how to successfully navigate lifestyle house parties.

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Cultivating Compersion in the Lifestyle
Host Jason delves into the world of ethical non-monogamy, discussing the essence of compersion — a unique form of happiness derived from witnessing another's joy.


The Truth About Key Parties: Myth, History, and Consent
In this episode, Jason dives deep into the myth and history of key parties, exploring why they are problematic in the modern lifestyle, especially concerning consent.

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Finding Balance in the Lifestyle: Conquering FOMO
In this episode, Jason dives deep into the art of balancing your vanilla life with the lifestyle, and how to tackle the dreaded FOMO (fear of missing out).

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Embrace the Fun: Outfits & Confidence in the Lifestyle
In this unscripted episode, Jason dives into the importance of outfits in the lifestyle and how they can help boost your confidence, especially if you feel socially awkward at parties and events.


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Empowerment in the Lifestyle: Dancing in the Rain
Jason shares his experience from a recent hotel takeover event that was more than just a party — it was a celebration of life, freedom, and the empowerment that the lifestyle offers.

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Mastering Conversations in the Lifestyle
In today's episode, Jason delves into the art of conversation, exploring what makes a good conversation and how it differs in lifestyle compared to the vanilla world.

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Unlocking the Secrets to a Better You: Lifestyle Wellness Tips
Jason discusses lifestyle health and wellness with special guest Matt Shannon from HealthFitMD.


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Confronting Fear in the Lifestyle
This week, Jason discusses the raw and often unspoken fears that many face within the lifestyle community.

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Single Guy Antonio on Swinger Parties, Gangbangs, & More
Antonio is a single guy in the lifestyle who attends swingers parties, gangbangs, orgies, and more, and he called in to talk all about it.

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Girl Talk with Layla: Vulvas, Gangbangs, Gloryholes, & More
Layla calls in to talk all about beef curtains, faking orgasms, gangbangs, gloryholes, and a whole lot more.


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Raven Cuckolds her Husband & is Now in Love with Someone Else
Raven is a dominatrix who is married to a cuck, and now she’s in love with one of her clients, and she called in to talk all about it.

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Trey Loves Seeing his Wife with Other Guys and Joining In
Trey loves watching his wife Luci with other guys and joining in, so he called in to talk about it.

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Naughty Confessions: Cuckqueans, Cheating, Hotwifing, & More
Tune in to hear a whole bunch of naughty confessions, and then listen to what I think about them.