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Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
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It’s Mike’s Birthday!
Despite the odds, Mike and Chloe got to celebrate Mike's birthday with friends!

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We’re Officially Swingers
Listen in as Chloe and Mike talk about their first full swap!


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We Went to a Swingers Resort!
After talking about it for years, we finally did a weekend getaway to a swingers resort!

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Did We Just Become Best Friends?!
In this episode, Mike and Chloe reflect on the unforgettable connections and lasting friendships that have made our lifestyle journey truly special.

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Sophia and Rod are in a Stag Vixen Relationship
Sophia and Rod are in a Stag Vixen relationship, and they both called in to talk all about it.


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Our Unicorn Experience
Listen in as Mike and Chloe retell their time with a third.

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Our First Swingers Club!
Chloe and Mike launch their podcast with their newbies' story — from sharing fantasies to their first club experience

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We are Not in Utah Anymore
Listen in as Lauren and Ben talk about episode 7 of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, which all takes place in Sin City.


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Seeking Pleasure Can Get Out of Hand
Lauren and Ben discuss the complexities of episode two of the series The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.

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Peach on the Beach and Cream Colored Jeans
In this spicy episode, Lauren and Ben discuss labiaplasty, why no one does paintings of balls, and whether rubbing oil on a Chippendale's chest will keep you out of (Mormon) heaven.

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Garments, Drama, and Oh Boy, the Truth Box!
In this episode, Lauren and Ben discuss Episode 4 of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives and share their personal updates before diving into THE key event, the “sh*t show” of the birthday celebration weekend.


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Topless Tastings & The ‘Book of Rumors’ Season Send-Off
In this episode, Ben and Lauren recap The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives finale.

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Introducing: The Examined Lives of the Secret Wives!
Join Lauren Hayes, your Swinging Lifestyle Coach and expert in ethical non-monogamy, alongside her co-host Ben, an ex-LDS polyamorous friend, as they dive into the reality TV show The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.

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Book of Broken Friendships
In this episode, Lauren and Ben discuss friendship, ENM, stress, conflict, and soda shops.