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Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
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SDC.com Partners with Bliss Cruise
SDC.com, the world’s largest international community for open-minded couples and singles, has just announced their partnership with Bliss Cruise, the premier leader in lifestyle cruising.

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10 Signs Another Couple is Interested in Playing with You
From eye contact to subtle touches, these 10 signs will help you read the room and know when it’s time to take things to the next level.

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Ethical Non-Monogamy vs. Consensual Non-Monogamy
If you've been exploring open relationships, polyamory, or alternative relationship structures, you've likely come across the terms Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) and Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM).


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What Regular Therapists Don’t Get About Ethical Non-Monogamy
Many relationship therapists are trained in monogamy-based frameworks — which means when non-monogamous clients seek support, they often get advice that does more harm than good.

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Valentine’s Day Spotlight 2025
Make your Valentine’s Day red-hot with these sexy couples' gift ideas.

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Interview with Hedo Joe
Joe Canino shares his experience and insights about Hedonism II in Jamaica, a popular vacation spot for those in the lifestyle.


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You Want to Go to a Swingers Resort
Stephanie and Jason discuss the thought process leading up to their first trip to Hedonism in Jamaica.

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Awkward Stories: 3 Real-Life Soft Swap Adventures
Jason and Stephanie open up about three of their most memorable — and hilariously awkward — soft swap experiences.

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Embracing Your Sexuality While Everyone is Watching!
Hosts Jason and Stephanie Class introduce themselves, emphasizing the importance of embracing their awkwardness and being genuine in their content.


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You Want to Go to a Glory Hole!
Jason and Stephanie Class discuss their experiences with glory holes, including their visits to two different parties.

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Help, Jason Keeps Growing! & How We Wrangle Unicorns
Jason and Stephanie talk about their experiences with unicorns, including how they engage safely with them in practice.

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Talking to Your Partner About Trying Something New
Jason and Stephanie discuss their experiences and challenges in exploring new sexual experiences as a couple, from using sex toys to going to a swingers club.


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Your Coochie Hurts: Treating Chronic Sexual Pain in Women
In this episode, Jason and Stephanie Class interview Naomi Harris, a practitioner who works with women who have sexual pain and issues.

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From Vanilla to... Spicy?
Ever wondered how a shy, naïve, barely-ever-touched-a-vibrator girl transforms into a full-on, sex-positive content creator?

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Dirty 30s Birthday Sex
Jason and Stephanie Class discuss their plans for Stephanie's Birthday... which is nothing.