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Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
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What Regular Therapists Don’t Get About Ethical Non-Monogamy
Many relationship therapists are trained in monogamy-based frameworks — which means when non-monogamous clients seek support, they often get advice that does more harm than good.

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Ethical Non-Monogamy vs. Consensual Non-Monogamy
If you've been exploring open relationships, polyamory, or alternative relationship structures, you've likely come across the terms Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) and Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM).

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Valentine’s Day Spotlight 2025
Make your Valentine’s Day red-hot with these sexy couples' gift ideas.


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From Vanilla to... Spicy?
Ever wondered how a shy, naïve, barely-ever-touched-a-vibrator girl transforms into a full-on, sex-positive content creator?

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Embracing Your Sexuality While Everyone is Watching!
Hosts Jason and Stephanie Class introduce themselves, emphasizing the importance of embracing their awkwardness and being genuine in their content.

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Talking to Your Partner About Trying Something New
Jason and Stephanie discuss their experiences and challenges in exploring new sexual experiences as a couple, from using sex toys to going to a swingers club.


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Are We "Swingers" or are We in "The Lifestyle?"
These terms are often used interchangeably. Do they mean the same thing? Is one better than the other?

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Is Swinging Right for You? 9 Questions to Ask Yourself
Curious about the swinging lifestyle? Explore nine essential questions to determine if swinging is the right path for you and your relationship.

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The Truth About Queefs and VARTs
A VART, or vaginal flatulence, occurs when air is expelled from the vagina, often during activities like sex or yoga.


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The Secret to Successful Non-Monogamy: Staying Connected
Swinging offers freedom and excitement, but if coupled, your connection with your spouse remains the foundation of it all.

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From Vanilla to Spice: Introducing Swinging to a Partner
Introducing the idea of swinging to your partner requires good communication, patience, and sensitivity.

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Easy Does It: Open Marriage Gets Real on the Small Screen
Lauren and Ben are back with a fresh take on their podcast! Say goodbye to Mormon wife drama and hello to a spicier exploration of non-monogamy in mainstream media.


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Love, Drama, and Boundaries on Couple to Throuple
If you’ve ever wondered what happens when The Bachelor meets ethical non-monogamy (ENM), here it is.

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How I Had the BEST Orgasm EVER — and How You Can, Too!
I had the most intense orgasm EVER and discovered new erogenous zones and sex skills — and so can you!

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5 Ways to Avoid Being That Couple at a Lifestyle Event
Want to have spectacular fun at lifestyle events? Here are five fun but essential tips to avoid being that couple and ensure your night is unforgettable — for the right reasons!