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Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
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Are We "Swingers" or are We in "The Lifestyle?"
These terms are often used interchangeably. Do they mean the same thing? Is one better than the other?

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The Truth About Queefs and VARTs
A VART, or vaginal flatulence, occurs when air is expelled from the vagina, often during activities like sex or yoga.

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From Vanilla to Spice: Introducing Swinging to a Partner
Introducing the idea of swinging to your partner requires good communication, patience, and sensitivity.


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How I Had the BEST Orgasm EVER — and How You Can, Too!
I had the most intense orgasm EVER and discovered new erogenous zones and sex skills — and so can you!

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5 Ways to Avoid Being That Couple at a Lifestyle Event
Want to have spectacular fun at lifestyle events? Here are five fun but essential tips to avoid being that couple and ensure your night is unforgettable — for the right reasons!

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Ignite Dramatically Intense Orgasms with the Prostate Massager Molto
This doctor-designed prostate vibrator unlocks the secrets to next-level pleasure and sexual health.


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It’s Mike’s Birthday!
Despite the odds, Mike and Chloe got to celebrate Mike's birthday with friends!

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We’re Officially Swingers
Listen in as Chloe and Mike talk about their first full swap!


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We Went to a Swingers Resort!
After talking about it for years, we finally did a weekend getaway to a swingers resort!

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Did We Just Become Best Friends?!
In this episode, Mike and Chloe reflect on the unforgettable connections and lasting friendships that have made our lifestyle journey truly special.

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Sophia and Rod are in a Stag Vixen Relationship
Sophia and Rod are in a Stag Vixen relationship, and they both called in to talk all about it.


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Our Unicorn Experience
Listen in as Mike and Chloe retell their time with a third.

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Our First Swingers Club!
Chloe and Mike launch their podcast with their newbies' story — from sharing fantasies to their first club experience

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We are Not in Utah Anymore
Listen in as Lauren and Ben talk about episode 7 of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, which all takes place in Sin City.