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Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
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SDC.com Partners with Bliss Cruise
SDC.com, the world’s largest international community for open-minded couples and singles, has just announced their partnership with Bliss Cruise, the premier leader in lifestyle cruising.
10 Signs Another Couple is Interested in Playing with You
From eye contact to subtle touches, these 10 signs will help you read the room and know when it’s time to take things to the next level.
What Regular Therapists Don’t Get About Ethical Non-Monogamy
Many relationship therapists are trained in monogamy-based frameworks — which means when non-monogamous clients seek support, they often get advice that does more harm than good.
Ethical Non-Monogamy vs. Consensual Non-Monogamy
If you've been exploring open relationships, polyamory, or alternative relationship structures, you've likely come across the terms Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) and Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM).
Valentine’s Day Spotlight 2025
Make your Valentine’s Day red-hot with these sexy couples' gift ideas.
Are We "Swingers" or are We in "The Lifestyle?"
These terms are often used interchangeably. Do they mean the same thing? Is one better than the other?
Is Swinging Right for You? 9 Questions to Ask Yourself
Curious about the swinging lifestyle? Explore nine essential questions to determine if swinging is the right path for you and your relationship.
Relationship Signals That Show You’re Losing Your Vanilla
Ready to leave the vanilla behind? These signs may indicate you’re ready to at least throw in some spice.
Avoiding Sticky Situations: Money Shots in Swinging
In the swinging lifestyle, clear communication is key, even about the ‘money shot.’ Don’t assume where to finish! This guide dives into boundaries, consent, and keeping the energy fun and respectful during play.
Myth-Busting Squirting: The Science of Female Pleasure
Squirting is one of the most debated and misunderstood aspects of female pleasure. But here’s the truth: it’s real, it’s natural, and for many, it can be an incredibly satisfying experience.
Stay Together, Play Together: Examining ‘Swapless’ Swinging
Think of swapless swinging as going to the party, dancing in the spotlight, but staying arm in arm with your favorite partner-in-crime. It’s the thrill of connection, the electric vibe of sensual adventure, all while keeping the fun between just the two of you.
The Secret to Successful Non-Monogamy: Staying Connected
Swinging offers freedom and excitement, but if coupled, your connection with your spouse remains the foundation of it all.
The Truth About Queefs and VARTs
A VART, or vaginal flatulence, occurs when air is expelled from the vagina, often during activities like sex or yoga.
From Vanilla to Spice: Introducing Swinging to a Partner
Introducing the idea of swinging to your partner requires good communication, patience, and sensitivity.
How I Had the BEST Orgasm EVER — and How You Can, Too!
I had the most intense orgasm EVER and discovered new erogenous zones and sex skills — and so can you!