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Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
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Are We "Swingers" or are We in "The Lifestyle?"
These terms are often used interchangeably. Do they mean the same thing? Is one better than the other?

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The Truth About Queefs and VARTs
A VART, or vaginal flatulence, occurs when air is expelled from the vagina, often during activities like sex or yoga.

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From Vanilla to Spice: Introducing Swinging to a Partner
Introducing the idea of swinging to your partner requires good communication, patience, and sensitivity.


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How I Had the BEST Orgasm EVER — and How You Can, Too!
I had the most intense orgasm EVER and discovered new erogenous zones and sex skills — and so can you!

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5 Ways to Avoid Being That Couple at a Lifestyle Event
Want to have spectacular fun at lifestyle events? Here are five fun but essential tips to avoid being that couple and ensure your night is unforgettable — for the right reasons!

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Ignite Dramatically Intense Orgasms with the Prostate Massager Molto
This doctor-designed prostate vibrator unlocks the secrets to next-level pleasure and sexual health.


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Reclaiming the Term “Swinger”
Over the years, certain words have carried negative connotations, creating stigmas that linger long after their initial usage. For those of us in the ethically non-monogamous (ENM) community, one of those words is swinger.

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How Do I MAKE My Partner Join the Lifestyle?
This is a very common question appearing on forums and social media. It cannot be answered, but a clear response is needed.

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Queen of Spades: Unpacking the Fetishization of Black Men
Understanding the Queen of Spades Symbol in the Swinger Community: A Complex Intersection of Desire and Stereotypes


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Hottest Swingers Clubs: World Edition
Discover the most seductive swinger lifestyle clubs around the globe and the sexy secrets within.

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Swinging During Perimenopause & Menopause
The article discusses how perimenopause and menopause can impact the swinging lifestyle for women.

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Unraveling the Psychology of the Swinging Lifestyle
Dr. Stephanie Sigler explores the psychological threads that make the swinging lifestyle not just a sexual choice but a nuanced interpersonal dynamic.


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Naturally Improve His Sexual Health & Wellness
How can men use sex toys to improve their sexual health and wellness?

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Embracing Nerves & Excitement Before a Same-Sex Play Session
Starting a new experience can be both thrilling and nerve-wracking, especially when it involves a same-sex play session.

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Hotwifing and Swinging: Are They the Same Thing?
Do Hotwifing and Swinging overlap? Let's talk about it.