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Swingers
Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
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The Truth About Queefs and VARTs
A VART, or vaginal flatulence, occurs when air is expelled from the vagina, often during activities like sex or yoga.
From Vanilla to Spice: Introducing Swinging to a Partner
Introducing the idea of swinging to your partner requires good communication, patience, and sensitivity.
How I Had the BEST Orgasm EVER — and How You Can, Too!
I had the most intense orgasm EVER and discovered new erogenous zones and sex skills — and so can you!
5 Ways to Avoid Being That Couple at a Lifestyle Event
Want to have spectacular fun at lifestyle events? Here are five fun but essential tips to avoid being that couple and ensure your night is unforgettable — for the right reasons!
Ignite Dramatically Intense Orgasms with the Prostate Massager Molto
This doctor-designed prostate vibrator unlocks the secrets to next-level pleasure and sexual health.
Sophia and Rod are in a Stag Vixen Relationship
Sophia and Rod are in a Stag Vixen relationship, and they both called in to talk all about it.
Our First Swingers Club!
Chloe and Mike launch their podcast with their newbies' story — from sharing fantasies to their first club experience
Did We Just Become Best Friends?!
In this episode, Mike and Chloe reflect on the unforgettable connections and lasting friendships that have made our lifestyle journey truly special.
It’s Mike’s Birthday!
Despite the odds, Mike and Chloe got to celebrate Mike's birthday with friends!
The First Look at The First Book of Taylor
Lauren, a swinger, and Ben, who is polyamorous, set the stage by introducing themselves and sharing their frustrations with how the media often misrepresents their communities.
Peach on the Beach and Cream Colored Jeans
In this spicy episode, Lauren and Ben discuss labiaplasty, why no one does paintings of balls, and whether rubbing oil on a Chippendale's chest will keep you out of (Mormon) heaven.
Topless Tastings & The ‘Book of Rumors’ Season Send-Off
In this episode, Ben and Lauren recap The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives finale.
We are Not in Utah Anymore
Listen in as Lauren and Ben talk about episode 7 of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, which all takes place in Sin City.
Book of Broken Friendships
In this episode, Lauren and Ben discuss friendship, ENM, stress, conflict, and soda shops.
Garments, Drama, and Oh Boy, the Truth Box!
In this episode, Lauren and Ben discuss Episode 4 of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives and share their personal updates before diving into THE key event, the “sh*t show” of the birthday celebration weekend.
Introducing: The Examined Lives of the Secret Wives!
Join Lauren Hayes, your Swinging Lifestyle Coach and expert in ethical non-monogamy, alongside her co-host Ben, an ex-LDS polyamorous friend, as they dive into the reality TV show The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.
Seeking Pleasure Can Get Out of Hand
Lauren and Ben discuss the complexities of episode two of the series The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.
Reclaiming the Term “Swinger”
Over the years, certain words have carried negative connotations, creating stigmas that linger long after their initial usage. For those of us in the ethically non-monogamous (ENM) community, one of those words is swinger.
How Do I MAKE My Partner Join the Lifestyle?
This is a very common question appearing on forums and social media. It cannot be answered, but a clear response is needed.
Queen of Spades: Unpacking the Fetishization of Black Men
Understanding the Queen of Spades Symbol in the Swinger Community: A Complex Intersection of Desire and Stereotypes
Hottest Swingers Clubs: World Edition
Discover the most seductive swinger lifestyle clubs around the globe and the sexy secrets within.
Swinging During Perimenopause & Menopause
The article discusses how perimenopause and menopause can impact the swinging lifestyle for women.