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Recently, my sexuality has reached ecstatic new heights, thanks to the transformative practice of tantric yoni massage. 

With the expert techniques we learned in Beducated’s Yoni Massage course, my partner helped me discover new erogenous zones, leading me to have the most powerful orgasm of my life (so far)! Spoiler alert: squirting was involved!

Despite being experienced sexual explorers, yoni massage was new to me (the receiver) and my partner (the giver). Yoni is a Sanskrit term meaning "womb" or "source," and includes the vulva, vagina, and cervix. Massaging these areas internally and externally can lead to experiencing deeper pleasure and a release of pent-up tensions and trauma that are trapped in those areas of the body. While the focus is more on the yoni owner’s pleasure, healing, and connection than it is about orgasm, that’s definitely possible to achieve — as I did.

I used to think that yoni massage seemed too complicated for me to do on my own, or for a partner to do to me, but Beducated made it easy for us. Beducated.com is an online adult sex ed platform that offers 100+ courses on sex and relationships from top experts. Their step-by-step tutorials, videos, and cheat sheets are practical, super helpful, and make everything simple to grasp and do.

Since receiving a yoni massage, I feel cleansed, and more open and receptive to pleasure. It helped me release tensions and energetic blockages I didn’t even realize I held within my yoni. I can feel my sexual energy flowing all day, which has also given me a boost outside of the bedroom. The experience was deeply pleasurable and healing, awakening dormant parts of me. It’s enhanced my connection to my own body, and to my partner, in ways I could never have imagined.

Let me share with you how my partner and I enhanced our sexuality and our relationship with yoni massage — and how you can, too!

Why We Tried Yoni Massage

Early on in the course, our instructor, Mariah Freya (who is also the founder of Beducated.com), says it’s important to know why you are taking this course and what you want to feel and get out of giving / receiving a yoni massage. 

I was drawn to the idea of unlocking new pleasures and releasing stored emotions and trauma while surrendering to the comfort, safety, and trust of my partner’s loving, healing, and protective touch. I’m passionate and open-minded about sex and relationships in my personal life and in my professional coaching practice, so I wanted to absorb new knowledge and skills that could help myself and others experience more pleasure and fulfillment. 

I chose to share this unique experience with my partner, who I trust completely and with whom I feel comfortable enough being open and vulnerable. 

As for my partner’s why, he said: “I want you to help make you feel amazing. And it would be a privilege to worship you and give you the relaxation and release that you deserve. Plus, I want to learn some new sex skills!”

Taking Beducated’s Yoni Massage Course As a Couple

This course isn’t just for couples — there’s also a module just on solo yoni massage, which I watched and found helpful because even after trying this with my partner, I think I’d like to try this solo.

I’ve done a lot of online courses, and I was impressed by the quality of video production and the wealth of information I learned. We felt comforted by Mariah’s ease as she clearly explained her yoni massage techniques while demonstrating on a Fleshlight so that we could really see close-up where to touch and how to apply pressure to specific areas of my yoni. 

The real-life video demonstrations with a live model were also helpful in showing the different ways to position the giver and the receiver for the most comfort and access throughout the yoni massage. And we loved the cheat sheets for this course, which my partner printed out in case he needed reminders of certain techniques while he was in the midst of giving me a yoni massage.

He was surprised to discover that he’s been doing the spiral principle on me even before knowing what it was — working up my body from the outside towards the inside like a spiral. There were also some other techniques that he was already familiar with and truly mastered with this course. He also found it helpful to learn that in a yoni massage, it’s important not to overstimulate the clitoris to create an “explosive” orgasm, and instead work toward giving me an implosive orgasm that I would feel on an even deeper level. 

I highly recommend trying partnered yoni massage together to really solidify your trust, communication, and bond in ways that extend way outside the bedroom, as it did for us!

Putting the Course Into Yoni Massage Action

While I kind of knew what to expect after having taken the course, I didn’t realize just how intensely wonderful it would feel to experience a yoni massage for the first time. It was unlike anything I’d ever felt or tried before. 

Since we’d watched Beducated’s Yoni Massage course together and talked about each of the modules and yoni massage techniques throughout our learning, my partner and I were on the same page. We took Mariah’s helpful advice and we let go of any expectations as to what may or may not happen. I let go of any lingering feelings of self-consciousness about having my naked body so exposed that might have held me back from being fully immersed in my yoni massage. 

He created a sacred space fit for worshipping me in our extra-warm bedroom, a soft and cozy velvet and sherpa comforter with an electric warming blanket underneath a squirting blanket to keep me cozy. After the initial yoni / heart connection exercise, I felt even more safely connected to him and to my body, and ready to receive the worship and healing he so wanted to give me. 

Our trust, patience, and communication were essential for me to be able to truly relax. We took our time, allowing me to focus on myself and how incredible it felt to have the energy and warmth that flowed from his hands into and throughout my body. He patiently moved from full-body massage to external yoni stimulation to internal massage only when I felt ready to receive his touch inside me. 

Throughout this yoni massage, my partner remained fully present and engaged throughout and extra receptive to my body’s needs, which allowed me to really connect with him. While we mapped and de-armored my yoni, I expressed which areas felt tense or numb or just really good. He paid special attention to those specific spots and adjusted the pressure of his massaging touch to what I wanted and needed. The pelvic breathing technique really helped me get some good blood flow and relaxation to my pelvic floor, which made it easier for him to do the yoni massage on me.

As he pleasured me, I felt completely worshipped — like a true goddess — and I surrendered.

The gradual buildup of pleasure and connection was so deep and heightened my sensory awareness. I couldn’t believe how different and pleasurable it felt to have him massage my G-spot and cervix in ways we’d never tried before. 

The result was a deep, resounding, quaking orgasm that rocked my entire existence — and even brought with it some squirting! I didn’t even realize what was happening at the time because I was so in the moment and my eyes were closed, but I felt a release in my muscles and body before I later saw on the squirting blanket the fluids that had escaped my yoni. 

My partner somehow looked more satisfied than I was! It was the first time he’d ever gotten me to squirt, which was a surprising and unexpected result for both of us that we will never forget — but which we will definitely repeat again.

My Life and Relationship After Yoni Massage

My partner and I learned so much from this course that we’ve integrated into our sexual repertoire. We both know more about my body, and thanks to clearing up those blocked energies, I can now FEEL more of my body than ever before. I didn’t even realize that there was so much that had been holding me back from my fullest orgasmic potential!

Our sex has been even more fiery than ever. I feel every sensation more intensely, and my partner knows secrets about specific moves and parts of my body to stimulate and massage. He’s incorporated into our daily playtime the pussy shiatsu he learned and a variety of other techniques he learned in this course. He has made me squirt again even without doing the full yoni massage. I’ve also been using pelvic breathing exercises on a multi-daily basis to keep the energy flowing.

I feel more in tune with myself and my body than I ever have, and I’m even more connected to my partner than before. We’re so grateful for Mariah’s incredible yoni massage course.

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Speaking personally, we had such a profound shared experience that overnight has helped our relationship ascend to immeasurable new heights — and you can enjoy this ecstatic experience in the comfort of your own home!

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Even if you decide that you don’t want to go all-in and do the full yoni massage, there are TONS of insanely pleasurable techniques in this course that anyone who has a yoni or who enjoys playing with them can learn to bring their sex skills to the highest level.

And who wouldn’t want to enjoy better and more pleasurable sex?!