San Francisco
Open-minded and diverse, San Francisco is full of possibilities for swingers and anyone else in search of erotic liberation. By day, the Bay area is home to sunny beaches, bustling markets, and a thriving art scene. At night, it reveals its wild side. Looking for a lifestyle party? San Francisco has large events and private gatherings – choose whichever suits you. If clubs or dungeons are more your style, the options are just as many. This sex-positive city in California is ripe for adventure!
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Swingers Clubs
There are multiple swingers clubs in San Francisco and its surrounding areas, each with its own unique vibe, but always sexy. Come to play, flirt, and indulge your fantasies with lifestyle couples and other adventurous souls. Just dress to impress and leave your inhibitions at the door.
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Swingers Parties
Parties in the Bay area are hot and frequent! Whether you’re looking to hook-up or spectate, there are always adults-only events going on for those in the swinger lifestyle, so you’re sure to find a party that satisfies your personal tastes.
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Erotic Boutiques
It’s fun to shop for sex toys online, but there’s something special about browsing the shelves of a local adults-only shop. Sometimes you’ll see a racy new toy that inspires your next lifestyle adventure. However, for those times when you’re feeling indecisive, it’s helpful to be able to ask a real person for advice! Employees of erotic boutiques aren’t shy when it comes to discussing sex, and they might have great suggestions about goodies that you and your lover would enjoy.
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BDSM / Fetish
Lovers of BDSM and fetish will find plenty of thrills in San Francisco. It’s like a kinky heaven where the angels wear leather! Dungeons, dommes, classes, and munches are only the beginning of what the city has to offer. If your fantasies involve ropes, paddles, and Dom/sub dynamics, you’ll find yourself in good company.
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Lifestyle-Friendly BNBs
There are currently no hotels that specifically cater to swingers in the San Francisco area. However, you’ll find many romantic and luxurious options for your stay. Charming boutique hotels are popular with visitors, and there are many rooms offering gorgeous views over the Bay.
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Boudoir / Erotic Photography
San Francisco has many amazing boudoir photographers, including some who offer truly creative photoshoots. One studio will style you like a vintage pin-up model, while another has an option to wear angel wings. Whatever your preferred style, you’re sure to find a photographer in San Francisco who can help you channel the look.
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Saunas / Wet Clubs
San Francisco isn’t shy about nudity! Clothing-optional saunas are quite popular locally, and some are even co-ed, making them wonderful locations to relax with your lifestyle friends. There’s even a banya with clothing-optional yoga classes.
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Bars & Lounges
In a non-monogamous lifestyle, you’re always open to making new connections. Where better to meet up with hotwives in San Francisco or flirt with a unicorn than one of the local bars or lounges? The free-spirited atmosphere of San Francisco makes it easy to open up and be yourself. Where the night takes you from there is entirely up to your imagination!
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Nude Beaches
San Francisco is the place to be if you’re aiming for a tan without bikini lines! There are many options for nude sunbathing in the Bay area, official and unofficial. The two locations nearest the city are North Baker Beach and Marshall’s Beach. Baker Beach is popular with tourists, but you’ll have a fantastic view of the Golden Gate Bridge while you soak up the sun. Marshall’s Beach is less well-known and secluded below steep cliffs; figuring out how to access it can be difficult, so we recommend looking up parking directions.
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Patricia Babin PhD, PharmD, MCLC |
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Power Exchange |
San Francisco | Club |
Private Party |
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Amsterdam is the perfect city for a rendezvous with those lusty-eyed couples and singles in the swingers lifestyle.
It’s no surprise that this 24-hours-a-day capital with elaborate canals adorned by beautiful 17th-century façades is the epicenter of sexy with exciting choices on its erotic menu. Amsterdam is home to a seductive world waiting to be discovered by experienced swingers in the swinging lifestyle, as well as erotic daters and lifestyle newbies.
We’re not just talking about the sensual red glow at night of the windows in the renowned red-light district, which is by far one of the most infamous red-light districts in the world and the number one tourist spot for anyone who visits Amsterdam from abroad. Amsterdam also embraces the LGBTQ+ community and is the proud host of the most famous annual gay boating parade in the world.
Find all of the swinging lifestyle information in the Atlanta area.
If rooftop bars, breweries, nightclubs, and speakeasies are your thing, Atlanta is a great choice destination for swingers! Georgia is the Peach State, which is a highly erotic fruit, and yes, there is lots to find to inspire you to get your sexy on! It helps that it’s easy to get to from literally anywhere in the world. The swingers' community and lifestyle scene in Atlanta is a happy one and very much alive. Atlanta is a great lifestyle destination, and you can plan to stop over to explore the area on your way to other destinations as well.
Austria has been one of SDC’s favorite go-to countries for yearly ski events for many years in the past. With its glorious mountains, picturesque ski towns, and daily après-ski parties, Austria is pretty much the ultimate swingers winter vacation retreat. Even though the country has a somewhat reserved reputation, nothing is further from the truth! There is so much to discover together and with like-minded others that one visit will not be enough!
Belgium offers anything from beaches to hilltops in the Ardennes, making it ideal for outdoorsy people. Romantics at heart are well-served, as many cities are offering up a diverse palette of medieval architecture and ditto atmosphere. Belgium is also a very sexually-infused country with an abundance of swinger clubs and other sexy locales for the naughty at heart. So, swinger couples and sexy singles, erotic dates, and hotwives can enjoy the lifestyle to the fullest and find what they are looking for.
The erotic pulse of the State of California is palpable. Los Angeles, San Francisco, and San Diego are most certainly sublime places for sexy players of the like-minded kind looking to unlock their fantasies. With a line-up of naughty soirees for the bi-curious, erotic daters, swingers, kinksters, dungeon seekers, and/or the otherwise hedonistically inclined, the many mansions, clubs, and parties all around the towns are an awesome way to test the waters and/or rock the boat for novices and well-versed players alike.
Canada is not only a spectacular place to visit — it’s also a diverse country that is wonderfully open-minded and embraces all alternative lifestyles, including swinging. Apart from a broad selection of clubs, parties, and events for swingers and erotic daters, the LGBTQIA+ community is graciously supported and embraced as well. Polyamory is on the rise in Canada, where November 23 has been dedicated as National Polyamory Day. Polyamory is the practice of having more than one intimate relationship with consent, which has been determined legal in Canada.
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