San Diego
Find all of the swingers lifestyle information for the San Diego area.
San Diego's sun-kissed beaches and vibrant nightlife make it a paradise for visitors who want to experience the swingers lifestyle. By day, the atmosphere is pure California – chill and laid-back – but at night, those in search of non-monogamous thrills come out to play! Whether your idea of a good time is lounging around nude on the beach or cruising the clubs in the Gaslamp Quarter, San Diego has something to satisfy your every desire.
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Swingers Clubs
San Diego’s open-minded locals are always up for a good time, making it the perfect place to find fun, flirtation, and more. Check out our links to these can’t-miss swingers parties in San Diego. Some even have free entry for women attending solo — welcome, unicorns!
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Swingers Parties
San Diego’s open-minded locals are always up for a good time, making it the perfect place to find fun, flirtation, and more. Check out our links to these can’t-miss swingers parties in San Diego. Some even have free entry for women attending solo — welcome, unicorns!
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Erotic Boutiques
Every swinger enjoys novelty in the bedroom, so why not spice up your lifestyle with a new toy or accessory? Sex toys have evolved quite a bit over the years, and there are now more ways than ever to enhance your pleasure. Just imagine your favorite fantasy and go from there.
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BDSM / Fetish
BDSM is alive and well in San Diego! Those with an interest in the kinky side of life will find dungeons, dominatrixes, munches, and more. The fetish community is especially dedicated to welcoming and educating newcomers to the scene, so if you ever wanted to learn more about the art of spanking or bondage, you can easily find a class for some hands-on education.
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Lifestyle-Friendly BNBs
San Diego boasts an array of intimate BnBs and classy hotels with couples’ needs in mind. There are few adults-only hotels, but many are advertised for romance, and it’s common for pools to be 21+ after nightfall.
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Boudoir / Erotic Photography
Embrace your sensual side by treating yourself to an erotic or boudoir photoshoot. Bring your favorite lingerie or strip down to the nude – your photographer will capture your essential self in artful, empowering images.
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Saunas / Wet Clubs
San Diego offers a wide variety of wellness experiences for those in search of that laid-back, SoCal vibe. Soak up the sun while getting an oceanfront massage, or relax in one of the popular float spas. There’s also a Korean spa with herb-scented saunas and yoni steam treatment. When you know the night will be long and sexy, you deserve to feel your best!
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Bars & Lounges
Imagine the sun setting over the ocean as you relax at a beachside bar with a potential unicorn or bull, or other hot swinger couples in San Diego. The town’s laid-back atmosphere makes it easy for everyone to unwind and be themselves, which is when the magic happens! If sophisticated lounges or speakeasies are more to your liking, this diverse city has you covered there, too.
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Nude Beaches
Beaches in San Diego range from serene and scenic to crowded and lively, but they’re always a great place to strip down with your lifestyle friends! Several places will let you go further than a string bikini. Black’s Beach is the most well-known, but there are also some unofficial nude beaches in secluded locales.
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Temecula | Club |
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San Diego | Club |
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Temecula | Party |
Extreme Designs |
Beaumont | BNB |
Gates of Hades |
Riverside | Club |
Hankie Pankie |
San Diego | SDC Contributor |
HOUSEOFBLACK |
San Diego | Club |
Mountain Acres Resort |
Murrieta | Club |
Pineapple House |
Culver City | Party |
Plush Parties |
Huntington Beach | Party |
San Diego Couples |
San Diego | Party |
Sea Mountain Lifestyles Nude Resort |
Palm Springs | Club |
Secret Springs Resort |
Desert Hot Springs | Club |
SoCal Lifestyler’s |
Lake Forest | Party |
The Steam Box |
El Cajon | SDC Contributor |
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Riverside | Party |
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Amsterdam is the perfect city for a rendezvous with those lusty-eyed couples and singles in the swingers lifestyle.
It’s no surprise that this 24-hours-a-day capital with elaborate canals adorned by beautiful 17th-century façades is the epicenter of sexy with exciting choices on its erotic menu. Amsterdam is home to a seductive world waiting to be discovered by experienced swingers in the swinging lifestyle, as well as erotic daters and lifestyle newbies.
We’re not just talking about the sensual red glow at night of the windows in the renowned red-light district, which is by far one of the most infamous red-light districts in the world and the number one tourist spot for anyone who visits Amsterdam from abroad. Amsterdam also embraces the LGBTQ+ community and is the proud host of the most famous annual gay boating parade in the world.
Find all of the swinging lifestyle information in the Atlanta area.
If rooftop bars, breweries, nightclubs, and speakeasies are your thing, Atlanta is a great choice destination for swingers! Georgia is the Peach State, which is a highly erotic fruit, and yes, there is lots to find to inspire you to get your sexy on! It helps that it’s easy to get to from literally anywhere in the world. The swingers' community and lifestyle scene in Atlanta is a happy one and very much alive. Atlanta is a great lifestyle destination, and you can plan to stop over to explore the area on your way to other destinations as well.
Austria has been one of SDC’s favorite go-to countries for yearly ski events for many years in the past. With its glorious mountains, picturesque ski towns, and daily après-ski parties, Austria is pretty much the ultimate swingers winter vacation retreat. Even though the country has a somewhat reserved reputation, nothing is further from the truth! There is so much to discover together and with like-minded others that one visit will not be enough!
Belgium offers anything from beaches to hilltops in the Ardennes, making it ideal for outdoorsy people. Romantics at heart are well-served, as many cities are offering up a diverse palette of medieval architecture and ditto atmosphere. Belgium is also a very sexually-infused country with an abundance of swinger clubs and other sexy locales for the naughty at heart. So, swinger couples and sexy singles, erotic dates, and hotwives can enjoy the lifestyle to the fullest and find what they are looking for.
The erotic pulse of the State of California is palpable. Los Angeles, San Francisco, and San Diego are most certainly sublime places for sexy players of the like-minded kind looking to unlock their fantasies. With a line-up of naughty soirees for the bi-curious, erotic daters, swingers, kinksters, dungeon seekers, and/or the otherwise hedonistically inclined, the many mansions, clubs, and parties all around the towns are an awesome way to test the waters and/or rock the boat for novices and well-versed players alike.
Canada is not only a spectacular place to visit — it’s also a diverse country that is wonderfully open-minded and embraces all alternative lifestyles, including swinging. Apart from a broad selection of clubs, parties, and events for swingers and erotic daters, the LGBTQIA+ community is graciously supported and embraced as well. Polyamory is on the rise in Canada, where November 23 has been dedicated as National Polyamory Day. Polyamory is the practice of having more than one intimate relationship with consent, which has been determined legal in Canada.
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