New York City
New York City, known as “the city that never sleeps,” is a haven for swingers looking for a good time. Travelers from around the globe are drawn into the entertainment and New York City nightlife, and that’s also true for lifestylers seeking a more salacious experience in a North American hotspot. New York pulses with dynamic activity and unparalleled energy; you’ll find that the party truly doesn’t stop until dawn! New York caters to every taste, so whether it’s romance, kink, or sensuality that you seek, the Big Apple is the ultimate destination.
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Swingers Clubs
Swinger clubs in New York are gathering places for the liberated and lifestyle-curious. In NYC, there are many clubs for swingers to choose from, so you can take your pick — or play/watch them all! Dress codes vary, as do theme nights, so check in advance if you plan to go.
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Swingers Parties
Those in search of erotic freedom will find many like-minded swinging couples and singles in New York City. Whether you’re looking for seduction in an intimate setting or a wild hotel takeover, there’s always a swingers party happening somewhere in the city!
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Erotic Boutiques
Sex toys are tools of the trade for swingers and hotwives. Some of the erotic boutiques in New York are quite extensive, so swingers are sure to find something new to excite their partners! NYC is also home to the Museum of Sex, which, in addition to its fascinating exhibits, also has a gift shop with distinctly adults-only souvenirs.
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BDSM / Fetish
If kinky roleplay is your style, New York will be your wildest fetish dream come true! Themed dungeons are all the rage, with options including medical chambers, classrooms, Inquisition torture chambers, and more. Professional dommes offer full menus of BDSM services. You and your open-minded friends are sure to find anything your dark heart desires.
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Lifestyle-Friendly BNBs
Round beds, heart-shaped hot tubs, mood-lighting — while none of the hotels in New York advertise themselves as swinger-friendly, you’ll find that many of them are absolutely so! One hotel in particular has floor-to-ceiling windows with bathtubs positioned to look out over the city. There are also various lifestyle-friendly BNBs and short-term rentals.
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Boudoir / Erotic Photography
Those gorgeous photos that come out of a boudoir or erotic photoshoot? That isn’t simply the magic of makeup! Under the guidance of a professional photographer, you’ll experience an empowering session that will leave you feeling radiant with beauty and strength. There’s nothing sexier than confidence!
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Saunas / Wet Clubs
After a long night of adults-only fun, a trip to the spa or sauna will feel rejuvenating! Your options in New York are as diverse as the city’s residents. Visit a Russian banya or unwind in a co-ed pool at the Korean spa. Relax at a Turkish hammam or experience the tranquility of a Japanese onsen. If modern luxury is what you crave, New York City has no shortage of contemporary spas and saunas, either.
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Bars & Lounges
If you’re looking for lifestyle couples or hot-to-trot singles, you’ll find many of a similar mindset at New York’s bars and lounges. Meet up with that unicorn you found on SDC.com at a sexy rooftop lounge, or relax with like-minded friends at a trendy wine bar. The city truly has it all!
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Nude Beaches
There are no official nude beaches in NYC, but you’ll find plenty of thrill-seekers who are willing to take their chances! Fort Tilden is a popular location for those who want to soak up the sun in the buff, and you’ll also see many free spirits at Jacob Riis. Please keep in mind that nudity is not legal in New York, however, so follow the lead of the locals! If you’d like topless fun without the risk, Gunnison Beach in New Jersey is the largest legal nude beach in the U.S., and it’s only a ferry ride away.
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JADELOTUS |
Mahopac | Business |
@FWAT_Podcast |
Plymouth Meeting | Business |
Beautiful Events LLC |
New York | Party |
Caligula NY |
Astoria | Club |
Checkmate-NYC |
Manhattan | Club |
Club Giggity Lifestyle Events |
Forks Township | Party |
Club Labyrinth |
Manhattan | Club |
FLUID |
New York | Party |
FWCS |
Port Jefferson Harbor | Party |
Green Light Secret's |
Village of Garden City | Party |
Karizma Social Club |
Glen Gardner | Club |
Latishaluxuryplace |
Brooklyn | BNB |
Le Rouge Lounge, AKA Lido Louge |
New York | Party |
Leveled Up Love, LLC |
Chalfont | SDC Contributor |
LifestyleLynx |
Morristown | SDC Contributor |
LONG ISLAND FUN CLUB |
Centereach | Party |
Marcela Alonso |
New York | SDC Contributor |
MEDUSAS PLAYHOUSE |
West Babylon | Club |
MINDBENDER PARTIES |
Center Moriches | Party |
MISSY KING EVENTS LLC |
New York | Party |
Mizzy's Boutique |
Center Moriches | Shop |
My Frisky Business |
Babylon | Party |
Naked Folk |
Brooklyn | SDC Contributor |
Naughty Nytes NYC |
The Bronx | Party |
Neurogasm |
New York | Business |
PROVOKE NYC |
Long Island City | Photography |
PRVCYLI |
Bethpage | Party |
Samantha's Stable |
Glassboro | Party |
ShareNation Events |
Parsippany-Troy Hills | Party |
SJ Erotica |
Ocean County | SDC Contributor |
Social Swingers Club |
New York | Party |
Strictly Anonymous podcast |
New York | SDC Contributor |
Subspace Swingers |
ny | Party |
TEMPTATIONS NYC |
New York | Club |
The Deviate Network |
Newburgh | Party |
The Great Gatsby Club of New York |
New York | Party |
The Loft NYC |
Brooklyn | Club |
The People's Party (TPP) |
Babylon | Club |
The Secret Society of NY&NJ LLC |
New York | Party |
Wandering Pleasures |
Philadelphia | Business |
Wicked Fun Club |
Plymouth | Club |
Yourbeautyportraits.com |
Greenwich | Business |
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Amsterdam is the perfect city for a rendezvous with those lusty-eyed couples and singles in the swingers lifestyle.
It’s no surprise that this 24-hours-a-day capital with elaborate canals adorned by beautiful 17th-century façades is the epicenter of sexy with exciting choices on its erotic menu. Amsterdam is home to a seductive world waiting to be discovered by experienced swingers in the swinging lifestyle, as well as erotic daters and lifestyle newbies.
We’re not just talking about the sensual red glow at night of the windows in the renowned red-light district, which is by far one of the most infamous red-light districts in the world and the number one tourist spot for anyone who visits Amsterdam from abroad. Amsterdam also embraces the LGBTQ+ community and is the proud host of the most famous annual gay boating parade in the world.
Find all of the swinging lifestyle information in the Atlanta area.
If rooftop bars, breweries, nightclubs, and speakeasies are your thing, Atlanta is a great choice destination for swingers! Georgia is the Peach State, which is a highly erotic fruit, and yes, there is lots to find to inspire you to get your sexy on! It helps that it’s easy to get to from literally anywhere in the world. The swingers' community and lifestyle scene in Atlanta is a happy one and very much alive. Atlanta is a great lifestyle destination, and you can plan to stop over to explore the area on your way to other destinations as well.
Austria has been one of SDC’s favorite go-to countries for yearly ski events for many years in the past. With its glorious mountains, picturesque ski towns, and daily après-ski parties, Austria is pretty much the ultimate swingers winter vacation retreat. Even though the country has a somewhat reserved reputation, nothing is further from the truth! There is so much to discover together and with like-minded others that one visit will not be enough!
Belgium offers anything from beaches to hilltops in the Ardennes, making it ideal for outdoorsy people. Romantics at heart are well-served, as many cities are offering up a diverse palette of medieval architecture and ditto atmosphere. Belgium is also a very sexually-infused country with an abundance of swinger clubs and other sexy locales for the naughty at heart. So, swinger couples and sexy singles, erotic dates, and hotwives can enjoy the lifestyle to the fullest and find what they are looking for.
The erotic pulse of the State of California is palpable. Los Angeles, San Francisco, and San Diego are most certainly sublime places for sexy players of the like-minded kind looking to unlock their fantasies. With a line-up of naughty soirees for the bi-curious, erotic daters, swingers, kinksters, dungeon seekers, and/or the otherwise hedonistically inclined, the many mansions, clubs, and parties all around the towns are an awesome way to test the waters and/or rock the boat for novices and well-versed players alike.
Canada is not only a spectacular place to visit — it’s also a diverse country that is wonderfully open-minded and embraces all alternative lifestyles, including swinging. Apart from a broad selection of clubs, parties, and events for swingers and erotic daters, the LGBTQIA+ community is graciously supported and embraced as well. Polyamory is on the rise in Canada, where November 23 has been dedicated as National Polyamory Day. Polyamory is the practice of having more than one intimate relationship with consent, which has been determined legal in Canada.
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