California
The erotic pulse of the State of California is palpable. Los Angeles, San Francisco, and San Diego are most certainly sublime places for sexy players of the like-minded kind looking to unlock their fantasies. With a line-up of naughty soirees for the bi-curious, erotic daters, swingers, kinksters, dungeon seekers, and/or the otherwise hedonistically inclined, the many mansions, clubs, and parties all around the towns are an awesome way to test the waters and/or rock the boat for novices and well-versed players alike.
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Swingers Clubs
Insanely hot clubs with on-premises orgies — or more private play for those who wish — are no longer a big secret to those living their best salacious lives. Openness and sex-positivity are required when visiting these clubs, as are safety, respect, and adhering to conduct rules.
Many places in California require a membership, so it’s best to check things beforehand and make sure you are on that guest list!
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JOIN FREE NOW!Swingers Parties
Sinful, swanky, and delicious — perhaps sometimes even a bit over-the-top parties — are all the rave in Sunny California. Sexually liberal couples and singles have many places to play when it comes to fetish parties, swinger events, and kinky gatherings. Those exploring the boundaries of their erotic relationships and beyond are well-served, indeed!
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JOIN FREE NOW!Erotic Boutiques
Many sex toys and sultry outfits used to end up in the bottom of a drawer, as they were, after all, “the unmentionables.” Thankfully, even though they probably still end up in a drawer outside of prying eyes, things are evolving. When you visit a sexy boutique or kinky store as a single male, female, or as a couple, the initial awkwardness of buying sexy gadgets and outfits usually and quickly goes out the window. If it's still awkward for you, online shopping is always a fun option, too!
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JOIN FREE NOW!BDSM / Fetish
Whether club, party, dungeon, or resort, California will lead you to the darker and more decadent places that you may search for. Kinksters and fetishists into roleplay and those who love a good spanking, fancy cuckolding, hotwifing, or when you entertain even more salacious urges, California is where you’ll find it.
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JOIN FREE NOW!Lifestyle-Friendly BNBs
So many states, so many rules. This might explain why there are so few places to go in California when it comes to enjoying the clothing-optional life with like-minded others and/or the swinger’s lifestyle, unlike in Mexico or Cap d’Agde in France, for instance. However, the Californian B&Bs and dungeons are totally worth checking out for a more extended stay when you feel you need to explore yourself and others!
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JOIN FREE NOW!Boudoir / Erotic Photography
Feel bootyful, beautiful, and empowered with an intimate photoshoot that captures you at your best angles. A boudoir session is a wonderful gift to yourself, your significant other, or, why not do a shoot together? Erotic photoshoots are awesome additions to your online profile with SDC.com. California has many studios and photographers to choose from.
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JOIN FREE NOW!Saunas / Wet Clubs
Dance, mingle, and play the wet way! Hot water, waterfalls, and saunas have a way of creating the best ambiance for swingers. When it comes to such steamy indulgences, California has one of the most world-renowned spa resorts that caters to the lifestyle.
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JOIN FREE NOW!Bars & Lounges
There are plenty of bars and lounges in Los Angeles, where even the décor functions as an aphrodisiac. The mix-&-mingle vibe varies from sexy, sultry, and glamorous to edgy. If you are in for some celebrity spotting, yes, there are those places, too!
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JOIN FREE NOW!Nude Beaches
There are more than 30 nude beaches on the West Coast, and California has been, without a doubt, a clothing-optional mecca for decades. These secluded beaches are where bottomless sunbathing is an option if the mood strikes you. To name just a few:
Black’s Beach – La Jolla
Boneyard Beach – Encinitas
Pirate's Cove Beach – San Luis Obispo County
San Onofre – Gaviota State Park – Santa Barbara County
Vista Del Mar – Goleta – Santa Barbara County
Garrapata State Beach – Carmel
Carmel Meadows – Carmel River State Beach
Indian Head Beach - Monterey County
Laguna Creek – Davenport – Santa Cruz County
Bonny Doon State Beach – Santa Cruz County
Lands End – San Francisco
Trinidad – Humboldt County
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JOIN FREE NOW!Special Mention
Please let us know if something is missing that you feel should be included on this page — we love to hear your suggestions and comments! Also, if you wish to add your business to this page, please contact us!
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JOIN FREE NOW!LOCAL BUSINESSES
NAME | CITY | TYPE |
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Temecula | BNB | |
A Hedonist Society |
Los Angeles | Party |
Allures |
Citrus Heights | Party |
Bocanegra |
Los Angeles | Club |
Bronze Party |
San Mateo | Party |
Club Elation |
Temecula | Club |
Club Joi |
Beverly Hills | Party |
Club Safe Word |
San Diego | Club |
clubOROTICA |
Desert Hot Springs | Club |
Dark Room Productions |
San Francisco | Photography |
Dungeon East |
Los Angeles | BNB |
Embrace Lifestyle connections |
Temecula | Party |
Extreme Designs |
Beaumont | BNB |
Freedom Acres /Club FA |
San Bernardino | Club |
Friends Como Le Gusta |
San Francisco Bay Area | Party |
Gates of Hades |
Riverside | Club |
Hankie Pankie |
San Diego | SDC Contributor |
HiJinx |
Los Angeles | Party |
HOUSEOFBLACK |
San Diego | Club |
KlubThirty3 |
Los Angeles | Party |
KnowMyTruth (CandysAdventures) |
Pleasanton | Party |
LABYRINTH LA |
Los Angeles | Club |
Love Shack 818 |
Los Angeles | Party |
Malibu Strings |
Los Angeles | Shop |
Monterey Stay and Play |
Salinas | BNB |
Mountain Acres Resort |
Murrieta | Club |
Patricia Babin PhD, PharmD, MCLC |
San Jose | SDC Contributor |
Pineapple House |
Culver City | Party |
Plush Parties |
Huntington Beach | Party |
Power Exchange |
San Francisco | Club |
Private Party |
San Francisco | Party |
San Diego Couples |
San Diego | Party |
Sea Mountain Lifestyles Nude Resort |
Palm Springs | Club |
Secret Springs Resort |
Desert Hot Springs | Club |
Sex Stories |
Los Angeles | SDC Contributor |
SoCal Lifestyler’s |
Lake Forest | Party |
Swinger University Podcast |
Sacramento | SDC Contributor |
Swingers Emporium |
Los Angeles | Shop |
Swingersinsations |
Victorville | Party |
Swinghearts |
Northridge | Party |
Tangerine's Dream |
Coarsegold | Party |
The hideaway 559 |
Clovis | Party |
THE LS PLAYGROUND |
Temple City | Club |
The Steam Box |
El Cajon | SDC Contributor |
The Victorian Mansion |
Los Alamos | BNB |
Twist SF |
San Francisco | Club |
Vanilla Swingers Podcast |
San Francisco Bay Area | SDC Contributor |
Vice Eventz |
Riverside | Party |
Vixen Club |
Los Angeles | Club |
WeArePrime |
San Francisco | Party |
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