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The More The Merrier: The Ménage à Trois
Having a threesome is a common request among many males, but many women are also interested in this activity.
Consent and Communication
The first thing when considering a threesome is consent. You should never try to force, coerce, bribe or guilt your partner into having a threesome. This is where honesty and communication come in. Make sure that this is something your partner wants to do and if you’ve got consent all around, you’re golden.
Finding a Third
Now your next question may be “how can I find someone to do this with?”
There are plenty of options you can explore to find a third. Consider a close friend who both you and your partner know! The benefit is that you already have a pre-existing relationship.
If looking within your friend pool isn’t an option, try some personal sites. Make sure you exercise caution when trying to find someone online. I suggest talking to them and agreeing to meet before you ask them to join you in the bedroom.
The Club Scene
A club is a great place to meet someone too. This is something that you can do with your partner and find someone you both find mutually appealing. And one of the best locations to find someone to add to your play party is an adult vacation club. Many open-minded couples will be in attendance and you should be able to find some prospects there, or at the very least, some great friends.
The Rules
So now you all have consent and a third party. What is the next step?
Now is the time to discuss the rules. This is a very important step in negotiating a threesome.
The conversation should include what behavior is ok and what is not. For instance, is kissing on the mouth ok with your third, or is that something that is going to upset your partner? Discuss different acts and “what if” scenarios and ensure you have agreement all around before embarking on your sexual adventure together.
Breaking The Ice
So once your threesome checklist is complete: consent, a third playmate, and the rules, now the play can commence!
There are many different configurations you can be in when having a threesome, but breaking the ice can be the toughest.
I think one of the easiest ways to break the ice is with a triple kiss. It is something light, and can let you gauge each partner's willingness. From there, you can ease up or go in for more. And this advice can go for all sorts of configurations whether it is FMF (two females and a male), MFM (two males and one female), MMM, FFF, a foursome, or a moresome.
Don’t be afraid to try different things. You won’t be a pro at first. Your body is a sexual playground, so never leave your hands or mouths idle.
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