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11 Tips to Relight Your Sexual Fire

Maddy V

A study at the University of Granada shows that about 95% of people have sexual fantasies.

A study at the University of Granada shows that about 95% of people have sexual fantasies. Women have fantasies more frequently than men. Also, the kinds of fantasies are different: Women's fantasies are more romantic, men fantasize more about swinging and participating in an orgy. Some more common role-play fantasies are: Boss and Employee; Doctor and Nurse; Teacher and Student; damsel in distress and knight in shining armor. So, spice up your sex life by living your fantasies.

Domination

A lot of women dream about having a man obey their every wish or being submissive themselves. So unleash your inner dominatrix or submissive and try it out. There is no need to start hardcore. Use feathers, handcuffs, etc.

Sex Outside

According to Men's Health over 64% of women want to step outside the bedroom and get frisky in public. And what a thrill the risk of getting caught can be. There are plenty of possibilities to have sex outside. Think about the beach, a park, a swimming pool, an airplane, or an elevator. Use your imagination and the opportunities will arise.

Threesome

Having sex with two people at the same time is one of the most popular fantasies. And people make them real: The LELO Global Sex Survey reveals that about 20% of women indeed have had a threesome either with another woman or another man.

Watch or Be Watched

19% of people fantasize about being watched during sex. Do you like to be watched? Have sex near the windows of your home. Want to watch? Go to a sex show or club with your partner.

Masturbate Together

A twist on your voyeuristic fantasy might be watching your partner masturbate or letting them watch you. It's an instant turn-on.

Make a Sex Video

A Stanford University study found that women reach their peak arousal after just two minutes into an erotic flick. According to Men's Health, 40% of women want to make a homemade sex tape with their partners. So get on it while it's hot. After you watch it, though, make sure to hide it safely or quickly delete it.

Use Sex Toys

The LELO survey shows that 76% of women prefer to use their sex toys with their partner. Also, the survey found that 89% of men would be happy to use them. So to speak about mutual benefit: 68% of couples both climax during intercourse with sex toys.

Visit a (Strip) Club

Again according to Men's Health, 47% of women want to visit a strip club with their guy. It's exciting, sexy and you'll share the fun together.

Put on a Strip Show

To stay on theme: Your man will surely love this one. But dear men, the ladies may find it just as enjoyable. Dress up in your sexiest outfit and slowly take it off...

Not Just to Eat

Use food like ice, fruit, and whipped cream to play with or cool your partner off with peppermint. Use it in a belly button, on the breasts or wherever you like the combination of hot and cool.