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What Kind of Unicorn Are You?

10 Questions | Time: 5 minutes

A unicorn is a term used within the open lifestyle to identify single females or female-identified individuals who are open to playing with singles and couples for threesomes, group sex, or to be involved romantically within an open relationship.

Choose the answers that best describe you from the questions below and discover what kind of unicorn you are. Enjoy!

1. Your ideal night out would be:

a) Going out as a group with your fellow unicorns and perusing for fresh meat at a party or club
b) Having a quiet dinner date with a sexy single or couple you’re attracted to
c) Reserving a room at a karaoke bar with your unicorn friends
d) Hanging out at the park with your bestie

2. When someone’s dating profile says they’re “looking for a unicorn,” what’s your first reaction?

a) Curious, because maybe they’ll fit the criteria of what you’re looking for, too
b) Annoyed, because you’re more than just a piece of meat!
c) Uncertain, because you’re not sure how you feel about identifying as a unicorn
d) Aroused, because you’re hot to trot, and you’ve got the goods

3. You’re planning to have a unicorns’ night in. Which activity are you MOST excited to do?

a) Play Truth or Dare
b) Indulge in a game of Spin the Bottle or “7 Minutes in Heaven”
c) None of the above – unicorns’ night in is not my style.
d) Movie marathon while doing each other’s nails, hair, etc.

4. As a unicorn, what is usually your main goal when it comes to the lifestyle?

a) Standing out as the Queen of the Unicorns by taking charge and helping my fellow unicorn friends to explore the lifestyle
b) Enjoying being the center of attention at every lifestyle party and club
c) Having the freedom of flirting and playing with anyone I find attractive
d) Waiting for people to come to me and enjoying saying “no” when I’m not interested in them

5. When someone’s dating profile gets you excited, it’s usually because:

a) They check off most of the points on your long checklist for vetting ideal partners
b) They have a soft touch and are interested in really getting to know you as a person first before arranging to meet
c) They’re sexy, they live close by, and they’re available to play right now
d) You’ve met them in person before, and you’re already comfortable with them

6. Which of the following is most likely to be your response to someone sliding into your DMs to ask you to send nudes?

a) I’m going to leave them on “read” and not bother answering their request
b) Tell them you only feel comfortable with the possibility of sending nudes if you establish trust and a connection first
c) Send them a long response about why it’s so inappropriate to ask someone to send nudes when you’ve just met, with suggestions about how to approach a unicorn in the future
d) Take a sexy snap of yourself and immediately send it to them to get their reaction

7. You meet a person or couple you’re attracted to, and you’re all connecting well with each other, but they ask you to play with other people exclusively with them around and not by yourself anymore. How are you most likely to react?

a) Explain that the boundary doesn’t work for you, and discuss further to explore a possible compromise that’s comfortable for all of you
b) Say yes to them. How are they going to know who and what you do when they’re not around? You don’t have to share everything with them.
c) Say yes to their offer. Even though you’re not sure you’re up for being exclusive, you like them, and you’re willing to try it.
d) Bid them adieu! I won’t be restricted by anyone else’s rules.

8. You meet a fellow unicorn at a lifestyle event, and they ask you for tips. How do you reply?

a) Give them some safer sex tips and encourage them to bring protection wherever they go
b) Share your craziest unicorn sex stories with them to get them excited about the possibilities
c) Give them the rundown and gossip of which lifestylers are good in bed, which couple is most likely to start drama in the playroom, who to stay away from, etc.
d) If you’re not interested, then use your NO, and don’t be shy about it!

9. For you, the lifestyle is like:

a) An offbeat romantic comedy where the unicorn finds their true love
b) A bag of jelly beans that you can enjoy at your leisure and pick the flavors you enjoy most
c) A choose-your-adventure book where you can experiment with choosing exciting new possibilities
d) A never-ending all-you-can-eat buffet

10. When you’re around other unicorns at a social event, you tend to:

a) Enjoy the competition to get as much attention as possible from everyone
b) Say hi to everyone and maybe chat with one or two unicorns before socializing or dancing with other guests at the event
c) Get to know each of the soon-to-be members of your new unicorn crew
d) Ignore them completely and do your own thing

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