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Is Your Relationship Ready for Hotwifing?

10 Questions | Time: 5 minutes

If you’re intrigued by the sexy world of hotwives and hotwifing, but you’re not sure if you and your partner are ready to dive in just yet, this is the quiz for you!

Before you get started, here are some popular hotwifing terms that we’ll be using throughout this quiz, for your reference: Hotwife | Hot Husbandry | Vixen | Stag | Bull

For best results, we recommend taking this quiz as a couple. Together, choose the answers from the questions below that best describe your relationship, and discover if you’re ready to explore hotwifing!

1. Are you currently in an open relationship?

a) No, we’re not sure yet if an open relationship is right for us
b) Yes, we’re experienced in the open or swinging lifestyle
c) We just opened up our monogamous relationship

2. How do you both feel about one of you being sexual with someone else without the other partner being involved in the experience?

a) Turned on, but a little jealous that we’re not playing with our partner and their playmate
b) Turned on by the idea that one of us is experiencing pleasure with someone else
c) Very jealous – we prefer not to play separately

3. At any point throughout your current relationship, have you ever had sex with someone else with your partner’s consent, but without your partner present?

a) No
b) No, but we’ve considered it
c) Yes

4. Do you feel comfortable sharing details of your separate sexual encounters with each other?

a) No, one or both of us does not want to hear any details about sexual experiences that happen when we’re not together
b) One or both of us enjoy hearing about some details, but too much detail makes one or both of us feel uncomfortable
c) Yes, we love hearing about each other’s sexual adventures!

5. Do you trust each other to be honest about your feelings, comfort levels, and boundaries as you open up your relationship to exploring a new hotwifing dynamic?

a) We sometimes experience challenges when it comes to trust and honesty in our relationship
b) We currently have some issues handling honesty and trusting each other in our relationship
c) Yes, we feel we have a strong foundation of trust and honesty in our relationship!

6. Do you feel confident that you are able to clearly express your needs, wants, thoughts, and feelings to each other, without the other person judging you?

a) Yes, we both value open and honest communication with each other in our relationship
b) One or both of us often have issues expressing ourselves to each other, and/or being non-judgmental when we listen to our partner’s concerns
c) We’re usually good at communicating with each other, but we’d like to improve a bit more in this area of our relationship

7. Which type of hotwifing relationship dynamic would best describe your comfort levels?

a) Separate play, but her Stag would want to join in at the end
b) A Hotwife who plays separately with her Bull without her Stag’s involvement
c) A Hotwife who plays with her Bull with her Stag present throughout the experience

8. What’s your comfort level in having the Stag in your relationship be in charge of the details of each hotwifing experience? (For example, what the Hotwife will wear, the venue, the details of the fantasy to play out with the Bull, etc.)

a) One or both of us is not comfortable with the Stag taking the lead of our hotwifing experiences
b) We’re still talking about who will be in charge of which details of our future experiences
c) We’re totally comfortable with the Stag directing our hotwifing adventures!

9. Do you feel comfortable taking and sharing photos or videos during sexual play?

a) We sometimes enjoy it, but it depends on our mood and the people involved
b) Yes! We love getting photos and videos taken during sex and sharing them with each other and our partner(s)
c) We don’t feel comfortable taking or sharing sexy photos or videos of ourselves or each other

10. Are you and your partner on the same page about the qualities of a potential Bull, and invested in vetting them for hotwife play?

a) Yes, we’re both looking for the same qualities and are ready to take time to vet potential matches
b) No, we are not sure yet if we’re both seeking the same qualities in a potential new playmate
c) We’re still talking about who we’d want to have in our hotwifing dynamic

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