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Are You a Jealous Partner?

10 Questions | Time: 5 minutes

Choose the answers from the questions below that best describe you to find out if you're a jealous partner. Enjoy!

This quiz is designed for couples who are new to the swinger lifestyle or are considering opening up their relationship.

1. When you see your partner looking at someone else, how do you react?

a) Nothing — they can look!
b) Check out the person to see what all the fuss is about!
c) Hit, pinch, nudge partner to get their attention

2. Have you ever snooped on your partner’s phone?

a) I’ve never tried but may be tempted
b) Whenever I can!
c) Hell no — I respect my partner’s privacy and trust them.

3. Do you check out your partner’s activity on social media (e.g., who they interact with, whose pictures they like, whose comments they reply to, emojis they use, etc.)

a) I don’t have time or desire to check my partner’s stuff — why bother?!
b) I check from time to time when I’m on the social platform anyway
c) I know everything they do on socials.

4. Do you ever eavesdrop on your partner’s conversations?

a) Sometimes, I’m curious and catch pieces of their conversations to get a gist of what is going on, but I try not to listen to their full convo
b) I always try to give my partner privacy when they’re talking to someone else.
c) Not my fault — they have a loud voice! And the walls are thin, etc.

5. How do you feel when your partner is paying attention to someone else? (e.g., texting with someone else, spending time with someone else?)

a) How dare they!
b) Fine — other people exist, you know
c) If they’re spending more time with someone else than me, then I may feel upset

6. If your partner says they’re going out with friends for the night, how do you react?

a) Finally! A night alone / off!
b) You tell them to have fun, but to check in with you throughout the night.
c) Fuck no, you’re not allowed!

7. If you and your partner are watching a movie, and your partner comments about the attractiveness about one of the actors, how does that make you feel?

a) I wish they’d just pay attention to the plot and stop talking so we can watch the movie
b) Upset because I’ll never be as attractive to [partner] as [name of celebrity]
c) I feel a little uneasy, but I know that just because they find someone else attractive, it does not mean they don’t find ME attractive

8. If your partner reminisces about a previous relationship / lover in a positive light, how does that make you feel?

a) Glad they had a positive experience in the past and take mental notes on adding new moves to our repertoire in the future
b) If we’re going through a slump, I feel insecure by comparison.
c) Angry — how dare they compare me to someone else they had sex with?!

9. When it comes to self-esteem, which statement best describes you?

a) I know who I am, what I want, and I’m comfortable being me
b) I feel like no matter what I do, I’ll never be as attractive, smart, sexy, interesting, etc. as my sister / friends / family / Instagram models, etc.
c) Sometimes I’m very confident about who I am as a person, but other times I feel self-conscious or feel like I’m not good enough

10. If you find your partner watching porn, how would you react?

a) They’re cheating on you, how dare they, etc.
b) Leave them to their moment of privacy and pleasure
c) “Move over! Let me watch!” Intrigued, I would ask them if it’s OK to join them to watch

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