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Tips for Swinger's Parties (and Newbies)
The most effortless and effective way to meet other swingers is to become a member of SDC. You will have access to people worldwide and in your own area who are into the lifestyle. This will also make it easier to find a local swinger's party or event. What's a swinger's party like? There is no easy answer for that since there are lots of varieties from a huge club to a swinger's cruise to a home party. It comes down to what you prefer or what appeals to you.
It Takes Two
Swinging is for couples! You come as a couple and leave as a couple. Yes, you can have threesomes with either a second man or a woman, but still... it's a couple's affair.
Please, Do Behave
Watch the Clock
Present a Present
It’s a party, so don’t arrive empty-handed. Unless the host specifically asks not to bring anything. Ask beforehand what their wishes are/what they want you to bring. Bringing your own condoms is a good gift idea.
Dress Up, Dress Right
Ask if there is a theme so that you can bring the right outfit. If there is no dress code, wear clothes that you are comfortable in. Also, wear nice and clean lingerie/underwear. Leave all your valuables at home. No need for fine jewelry!
Clean as a Whistle
Talk about clean: not only your underwear needs to be fresh, but also your personal hygiene should not be forgotten. Shower and shave before you go, and take your deodorant with you.
No Means No
You always have the right to say "no thank you." And so does everyone in the Lifestyle. You can explain why, but it is not necessary to do so. Better a polite "no" than doing something you feel bad about or you might regret afterward. And if your partner says "no," that's a "no" for you, too!
Cool is the Word
Even if you are new, act "cool." Yes, you may ask some questions about "how" and "what" at that specific party, but don’t let your eyes pop out when you see a live porn scene! Just join in. Talk to your partner and sex partners about your wants and desires. Be honest and most of all: Have fun and enjoy yourself! Read these tips for a first date, too!
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