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Swinging is Partner Exchange and So Much More
The word swinging literally means partner exchange. Of course, this is also the intention of swinging, but for me, and I think for many others, swinging means so much more.
Lifestyle in Different Degrees
First, take the swingers themselves. Not one is the same. You cannot say in advance that a swinger is someone of a certain age, with a particular hair color, or a specific figure. No, they really do come in all shapes and sizes, and they are all over the world.
Nor is there one way of swinging. In my opinion, swinging is a lifestyle that can occur in many different degrees. The basis for this is always openness with your partner. Speaking and fantasizing about sex with others can be a lot of fun and exciting. Together, you create a form of connection that makes your relationship even more special. If desired, this base can be extended — for example, by coming into contact with like-minded people via SDC. It can be nice to chat with people who think the same as you. That could be a serious conversation, but also a conversation with a flirtatious undertone. Tease a little.
Do you want to go further than just chat? Sharing photos can be an exciting next step. This can be done very safely via your SDC profile; by using a password, you can give other profiles access to your private albums. This access can be canceled at any time. Would you rather (show) moving material? Take your time together and film various exciting things in the bedroom, or in the living room, or in the kitchen, or in the garden... Plenty of options! Videos are easy to add to your private album. These movies are horny to exchange but just as horny to make!
One Step Further
Do you want to go one step further? Then there will probably be a real meeting with a like-minded person or couple. Super exciting! Because where do you meet and what are your limits? It is important that you have clearly discussed the latter together well in advance. Maybe you want to stick first with kissing and feeling (soft swap), maybe you prefer to set no limits and go with the right click for a full partner exchange (full swap). Everything is good in the swingers’ world because respect is of paramount importance.
A date, but where? There are quite a few options. The most logical may seem like home, but in practice, this is not always the case. Sometimes this comes too close; maybe several roommates live in one house, or the neighbors can be far too curious. An alternative is a hotel room. Nice and anonymous, in a different place, and just as luxurious as you want. Another option is to meet at an (erotic) party or in a public place. This is especially useful if you don’t want to go full swap right away.
I personally like this step — the real deal. Over the years, I have made some wonderful permanent contacts with my husband, which we now miss quite a bit. Because like many other things in the world, we also go back to basics. We talk and fantasize, we chat and flirt, we take photos and videos. We focus on everything that is now possible. Virtually, we can still keep in touch with each other. And that’s nice. I hope you can also maintain virtual contact or maybe even make new contacts via SDC.
Stay healthy and take good care of each other.
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