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Polyamory

Open relationships take many forms, and polyamory is one of them. Polyamorous relationships can be complex for all the partners and metamours involved. Get tips on managing poly relationships with multiple partners, how to handle jealousy, communication tips, and more.
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Ignite Dramatically Intense Orgasms with the Prostate Massager Molto
This doctor-designed prostate vibrator unlocks the secrets to next-level pleasure and sexual health.

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Topless Tastings & The ‘Book of Rumors’ Season Send-Off
In this episode, Ben and Lauren recap The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives finale.

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We are Not in Utah Anymore
Listen in as Lauren and Ben talk about episode 7 of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, which all takes place in Sin City.


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Peach on the Beach and Cream Colored Jeans
In this spicy episode, Lauren and Ben discuss labiaplasty, why no one does paintings of balls, and whether rubbing oil on a Chippendale's chest will keep you out of (Mormon) heaven.

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Introducing: The Examined Lives of the Secret Wives!
Join Lauren Hayes, your Swinging Lifestyle Coach and expert in ethical non-monogamy, alongside her co-host Ben, an ex-LDS polyamorous friend, as they dive into the reality TV show The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.

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The First Look at The First Book of Taylor
Lauren, a swinger, and Ben, who is polyamorous, set the stage by introducing themselves and sharing their frustrations with how the media often misrepresents their communities.


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Book of Broken Friendships
In this episode, Lauren and Ben discuss friendship, ENM, stress, conflict, and soda shops.

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Seeking Pleasure Can Get Out of Hand
Lauren and Ben discuss the complexities of episode two of the series The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.

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Garments, Drama, and Oh Boy, the Truth Box!
In this episode, Lauren and Ben discuss Episode 4 of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives and share their personal updates before diving into THE key event, the “sh*t show” of the birthday celebration weekend.


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Prioritizing Your Mental Health in Your Coming Out Journey
Coming out can feel daunting and overwhelming, especially if you are a little later in life.

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Embracing Nerves & Excitement Before a Same-Sex Play Session
Starting a new experience can be both thrilling and nerve-wracking, especially when it involves a same-sex play session.

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Bunny's in a Poly Throuple with her Cuck Boyfriend & Husband
Bunny is in a poly throuple with a cuck and another guy, and she called in to talk all about it.


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How God Wants Us to Put Pleasure Over Performance
Dr. Jeannelle and Taylor Sparks discuss how great sexual pleasure and religion can exist in your heart and between your legs at the same time.

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The Evolution of Miami Velvet: From Club to Lifestyle Empire
Explore Miami Velvet's bold plans to elevate its lifestyle nightclub with sophistication, kink, and luxurious amenities.


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E. Michelle Certifies Pleasure to Future Pleasure Coaches
Loving what you do and being good at what you do are two entirely different things. Fortunately for clients and future intimate coaches and sex educators, E. Michelle has perfected both.

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A Heart to Heart Conversation with Courtney Brame of SPFPP
Does herpes have a bigger stigma than other STIs? Why does herpes have such a stigma in the Black community? Join Taylor for this insightful sexual health conversation with Courtney Brame!

How Queer Love and Ethical Non-Monogamy Saved My Life: Margo Renate
Queer love is a savior for many — and so is ethical non-monogamy.


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The Sexiest BNBs to Book Now!
Embrace romance and sexy adventures at these unique BNBs around the world.

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Recognizing and Dealing with Red Flags Part 1
This episode is a comprehensive guide to help novice and veteran swingers recognize and mitigate undesirable actions and behaviors that might spell trouble in the thrilling swinging lifestyle.

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BNB Rules Around the World
We have more vacation rental options than ever before, but the rules and regulations vary widely by type and location. Read on for more worldwide insights.


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Brooklyn Xrated Curated Fantasies at Grey House Society
If you and/or your partner(s) have sexual, kink, or cosplay fantasies and are wondering where to get them fulfilled... look no further.

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Elevate Your Bedroom into a Sensuous Sanctuary
Your bedroom is more than just a place to sleep; it's a sanctuary for relaxation and intimacy.

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VoyeurX: Where Fetish Meets Fashion
Who is the kinky mind behind the luxuriously refined VoyeurX brand and hand-crafted fashions? Learn more in this exclusive interview!