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Polyamory

Open relationships take many forms, and polyamory is one of them. Polyamorous relationships can be complex for all the partners and metamours involved. Get tips on managing poly relationships with multiple partners, how to handle jealousy, communication tips, and more.
Glamorous Couple Posing SDC Valentine's Spotlight 2025
Valentine’s Day Spotlight 2025
Make your Valentine’s Day red-hot with these sexy couples' gift ideas.

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Are We "Swingers" or are We in "The Lifestyle?"
These terms are often used interchangeably. Do they mean the same thing? Is one better than the other?

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Love, Drama, and Boundaries on Couple to Throuple
If you’ve ever wondered what happens when The Bachelor meets ethical non-monogamy (ENM), here it is.


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Easy Does It: Open Marriage Gets Real on the Small Screen
Lauren and Ben are back with a fresh take on their podcast! Say goodbye to Mormon wife drama and hello to a spicier exploration of non-monogamy in mainstream media.

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How I Had the BEST Orgasm EVER — and How You Can, Too!
I had the most intense orgasm EVER and discovered new erogenous zones and sex skills — and so can you!

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Ignite Dramatically Intense Orgasms with the Prostate Massager Molto
This doctor-designed prostate vibrator unlocks the secrets to next-level pleasure and sexual health.


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It’s Mike’s Birthday!
Despite the odds, Mike and Chloe got to celebrate Mike's birthday with friends!

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Did We Just Become Best Friends?!
In this episode, Mike and Chloe reflect on the unforgettable connections and lasting friendships that have made our lifestyle journey truly special.

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The Latin Party
We dust off our dancing shoes and head to a Latin-themed party!


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We’re Back! It’s The Boat Party!
Mike and Chloe find themselves on a topless boat cruise!

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Introducing: The Examined Lives of the Secret Wives!
Join Lauren Hayes, your Swinging Lifestyle Coach and expert in ethical non-monogamy, alongside her co-host Ben, an ex-LDS polyamorous friend, as they dive into the reality TV show The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.


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Book of Broken Friendships
In this episode, Lauren and Ben discuss friendship, ENM, stress, conflict, and soda shops.

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We are Not in Utah Anymore
Listen in as Lauren and Ben talk about episode 7 of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, which all takes place in Sin City.

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The First Look at The First Book of Taylor
Lauren, a swinger, and Ben, who is polyamorous, set the stage by introducing themselves and sharing their frustrations with how the media often misrepresents their communities.


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Saints & Sinners — The Big Divide
In this episode, Lauren and Ben discuss Episode 3 of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.

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Garments, Drama, and Oh Boy, the Truth Box!
In this episode, Lauren and Ben discuss Episode 4 of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives and share their personal updates before diving into THE key event, the “sh*t show” of the birthday celebration weekend.

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Seeking Pleasure Can Get Out of Hand
Lauren and Ben discuss the complexities of episode two of the series The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.


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Topless Tastings & The ‘Book of Rumors’ Season Send-Off
In this episode, Ben and Lauren recap The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives finale.

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Peach on the Beach and Cream Colored Jeans
In this spicy episode, Lauren and Ben discuss labiaplasty, why no one does paintings of balls, and whether rubbing oil on a Chippendale's chest will keep you out of (Mormon) heaven.

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Unlocking Sacred Sexuality: Empowering Women in the Lifestyle
Jason explores the intricate world of sacred sexuality and tantric integration with his special guest, Sol from Sol Lifestyle.


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Bunny's in a Poly Throuple with her Cuck Boyfriend & Husband
Bunny is in a poly throuple with a cuck and another guy, and she called in to talk all about it.

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How God Wants Us to Put Pleasure Over Performance
Dr. Jeannelle and Taylor Sparks discuss how great sexual pleasure and religion can exist in your heart and between your legs at the same time.

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The Evolution of Miami Velvet: From Club to Lifestyle Empire
Explore Miami Velvet's bold plans to elevate its lifestyle nightclub with sophistication, kink, and luxurious amenities.