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Swinging and polyamory are two types of open relationships, but there are so many more ways to explore being open! Whether you call it Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) or Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM), being in an open relationship can present different challenges for all the partners involved. Discover how to go from monogamy to an open relationship, how to talk to your partner about swinging and open relationships, what the swinging lifestyle and open lifestyles are really like, and much more. Whether you're a newbie to open relationships or a veteran ethical non-monogamist, you'll find resources to guide you.
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Introducing: The Examined Lives of the Secret Wives!
Join Lauren Hayes, your Swinging Lifestyle Coach and expert in ethical non-monogamy, alongside her co-host Ben, an ex-LDS polyamorous friend, as they dive into the reality TV show The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.

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Confronting Fear in the Lifestyle
This week, Jason discusses the raw and often unspoken fears that many face within the lifestyle community.

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Mastering Conversations in the Lifestyle
In today's episode, Jason delves into the art of conversation, exploring what makes a good conversation and how it differs in lifestyle compared to the vanilla world.


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Empowerment in the Lifestyle: Dancing in the Rain
Jason shares his experience from a recent hotel takeover event that was more than just a party — it was a celebration of life, freedom, and the empowerment that the lifestyle offers.

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Embrace the Fun: Outfits & Confidence in the Lifestyle
In this unscripted episode, Jason dives into the importance of outfits in the lifestyle and how they can help boost your confidence, especially if you feel socially awkward at parties and events.

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Orgy Etiquette: Navigating Group Activities in the Lifestyle
This episode is all about orgies — covering protocols, etiquette, and how to find them.


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Finding Balance in the Lifestyle: Conquering FOMO
In this episode, Jason dives deep into the art of balancing your vanilla life with the lifestyle, and how to tackle the dreaded FOMO (fear of missing out).

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How to Navigate Lifestyle House Parties: Tips and Etiquette
Drawing from his extensive experience in hosting and attending such parties, Jason offers invaluable advice on how to successfully navigate lifestyle house parties.

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Unlocking the Secrets to a Better You: Lifestyle Wellness Tips
Jason discusses lifestyle health and wellness with special guest Matt Shannon from HealthFitMD.


The Truth About Key Parties: Myth, History, and Consent
In this episode, Jason dives deep into the myth and history of key parties, exploring why they are problematic in the modern lifestyle, especially concerning consent.

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Cultivating Compersion in the Lifestyle
Host Jason delves into the world of ethical non-monogamy, discussing the essence of compersion — a unique form of happiness derived from witnessing another's joy.

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Allie is a Hotwife and Swings with her Stag Fiancé
Allie and her fiancé are in a hotwife/stag relationship, and they’re now swinging, too, and she called in to talk all about it.


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Jim on Cucks, Hotwives, and What They Look for in a Bull
Jim called in to talk all about cucks, hotwives, and what they look for in a bull.

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Swinger Kyle is into Cuckolding, Gangbangs, Hotwifing, & More
Kyle is a swinger into cuckolding, gangbangs, hotwifing, and more, and he called in to talk all about it.

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Jennae is a Hotwife
Jennae is a hotwife, and she called in to talk all about it.