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Swinging and polyamory are two types of open relationships, but there are so many more ways to explore being open! Whether you call it Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) or Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM), being in an open relationship can present different challenges for all the partners involved. Discover how to go from monogamy to an open relationship, how to talk to your partner about swinging and open relationships, what the swinging lifestyle and open lifestyles are really like, and much more. Whether you're a newbie to open relationships or a veteran ethical non-monogamist, you'll find resources to guide you.
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Did We Just Become Best Friends?!
In this episode, Mike and Chloe reflect on the unforgettable connections and lasting friendships that have made our lifestyle journey truly special.

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Sophia and Rod are in a Stag Vixen Relationship
Sophia and Rod are in a Stag Vixen relationship, and they both called in to talk all about it.


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We’re Officially Swingers
Listen in as Chloe and Mike talk about their first full swap!

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Peach on the Beach and Cream Colored Jeans
In this spicy episode, Lauren and Ben discuss labiaplasty, why no one does paintings of balls, and whether rubbing oil on a Chippendale's chest will keep you out of (Mormon) heaven.

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Garments, Drama, and Oh Boy, the Truth Box!
In this episode, Lauren and Ben discuss Episode 4 of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives and share their personal updates before diving into THE key event, the “sh*t show” of the birthday celebration weekend.


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We are Not in Utah Anymore
Listen in as Lauren and Ben talk about episode 7 of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, which all takes place in Sin City.

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Seeking Pleasure Can Get Out of Hand
Lauren and Ben discuss the complexities of episode two of the series The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.

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Introducing: The Examined Lives of the Secret Wives!
Join Lauren Hayes, your Swinging Lifestyle Coach and expert in ethical non-monogamy, alongside her co-host Ben, an ex-LDS polyamorous friend, as they dive into the reality TV show The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.


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Topless Tastings & The ‘Book of Rumors’ Season Send-Off
In this episode, Ben and Lauren recap The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives finale.

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Book of Broken Friendships
In this episode, Lauren and Ben discuss friendship, ENM, stress, conflict, and soda shops.

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The First Look at The First Book of Taylor
Lauren, a swinger, and Ben, who is polyamorous, set the stage by introducing themselves and sharing their frustrations with how the media often misrepresents their communities.


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Mastering Conversations in the Lifestyle
In today's episode, Jason delves into the art of conversation, exploring what makes a good conversation and how it differs in lifestyle compared to the vanilla world.

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Unlocking the Secrets to a Better You: Lifestyle Wellness Tips
Jason discusses lifestyle health and wellness with special guest Matt Shannon from HealthFitMD.

The Truth About Key Parties: Myth, History, and Consent
In this episode, Jason dives deep into the myth and history of key parties, exploring why they are problematic in the modern lifestyle, especially concerning consent.