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Swinging and polyamory are two types of open relationships, but there are so many more ways to explore being open! Whether you call it Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) or Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM), being in an open relationship can present different challenges for all the partners involved. Discover how to go from monogamy to an open relationship, how to talk to your partner about swinging and open relationships, what the swinging lifestyle and open lifestyles are really like, and much more. Whether you're a newbie to open relationships or a veteran ethical non-monogamist, you'll find resources to guide you.
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Introducing: The Examined Lives of the Secret Wives!
Join Lauren Hayes, your Swinging Lifestyle Coach and expert in ethical non-monogamy, alongside her co-host Ben, an ex-LDS polyamorous friend, as they dive into the reality TV show The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.

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Cultivating Compersion in the Lifestyle
Host Jason delves into the world of ethical non-monogamy, discussing the essence of compersion — a unique form of happiness derived from witnessing another's joy.

The Truth About Key Parties: Myth, History, and Consent
In this episode, Jason dives deep into the myth and history of key parties, exploring why they are problematic in the modern lifestyle, especially concerning consent.


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Unlocking the Secrets to a Better You: Lifestyle Wellness Tips
Jason discusses lifestyle health and wellness with special guest Matt Shannon from HealthFitMD.

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How to Navigate Lifestyle House Parties: Tips and Etiquette
Drawing from his extensive experience in hosting and attending such parties, Jason offers invaluable advice on how to successfully navigate lifestyle house parties.

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Finding Balance in the Lifestyle: Conquering FOMO
In this episode, Jason dives deep into the art of balancing your vanilla life with the lifestyle, and how to tackle the dreaded FOMO (fear of missing out).


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Orgy Etiquette: Navigating Group Activities in the Lifestyle
This episode is all about orgies — covering protocols, etiquette, and how to find them.

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Embrace the Fun: Outfits & Confidence in the Lifestyle
In this unscripted episode, Jason dives into the importance of outfits in the lifestyle and how they can help boost your confidence, especially if you feel socially awkward at parties and events.

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Empowerment in the Lifestyle: Dancing in the Rain
Jason shares his experience from a recent hotel takeover event that was more than just a party — it was a celebration of life, freedom, and the empowerment that the lifestyle offers.


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Mastering Conversations in the Lifestyle
In today's episode, Jason delves into the art of conversation, exploring what makes a good conversation and how it differs in lifestyle compared to the vanilla world.

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Confronting Fear in the Lifestyle
This week, Jason discusses the raw and often unspoken fears that many face within the lifestyle community.

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Hotwife Ember Rae Now Monogamous to Her New, Well-Hung Bull
Tune in to hear all the details about Ember Rae's hotwifing story.


Sexy Soccer Mom Hotwifes for her Husband Sexy Soccer Daddy
Listen to the story of how this couple discovered Hotwifing and how they live the lifestyle.

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GIRL TALK: Brandi on Threesomes, Her Sugar Daddy, and More
Brandi called in to talk all about being a unicorn, her ex-baby-daddy drama, and more.

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Sunny is into Hotwifing, Swinging, Orgies, and More
Sunny and her husband are into hotwifing, swinging, orgies, and more, and she called in to talk all about it.