Swingers Lifestyle Community for Open-Minded Couples & Singles

Join free now! Join free now!

Open

Swinging and polyamory are two types of open relationships, but there are so many more ways to explore being open! Whether you call it Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) or Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM), being in an open relationship can present different challenges for all the partners involved. Discover how to go from monogamy to an open relationship, how to talk to your partner about swinging and open relationships, what the swinging lifestyle and open lifestyles are really like, and much more. Whether you're a newbie to open relationships or a veteran ethical non-monogamist, you'll find resources to guide you.
cropped view of a woman holding Molto by MysteryVibe with a man's arm and torso leaning over her
Ignite Dramatically Intense Orgasms with the Prostate Massager Molto
This doctor-designed prostate vibrator unlocks the secrets to next-level pleasure and sexual health.

couple flirting at a dimly lit cocktail lounge
Sophia and Rod are in a Stag Vixen Relationship
Sophia and Rod are in a Stag Vixen relationship, and they both called in to talk all about it.

open pineapple themed notebook on an angle with a fresh pineapple resting on the right page
We’re Officially Swingers
Listen in as Chloe and Mike talk about their first full swap!


partial view of woman holding opened handcuffs
Seeking Pleasure Can Get Out of Hand
Lauren and Ben discuss the complexities of episode two of the series The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.

group of women getting ready together in a mirror
Introducing: The Examined Lives of the Secret Wives!
Join Lauren Hayes, your Swinging Lifestyle Coach and expert in ethical non-monogamy, alongside her co-host Ben, an ex-LDS polyamorous friend, as they dive into the reality TV show The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.

wooden peg people representation of someone leaving or being removed from a group
Book of Broken Friendships
In this episode, Lauren and Ben discuss friendship, ENM, stress, conflict, and soda shops.


white box with lid askew and emitting bright white light
Garments, Drama, and Oh Boy, the Truth Box!
In this episode, Lauren and Ben discuss Episode 4 of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives and share their personal updates before diving into THE key event, the “sh*t show” of the birthday celebration weekend.

three peaches on a wooden table
Peach on the Beach and Cream Colored Jeans
In this spicy episode, Lauren and Ben discuss labiaplasty, why no one does paintings of balls, and whether rubbing oil on a Chippendale's chest will keep you out of (Mormon) heaven.

The Welcome to Fabulous Las Vegas sign in Las Vegas Nevada USA
We are Not in Utah Anymore
Listen in as Lauren and Ben talk about episode 7 of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, which all takes place in Sin City.


heart shapes made with popcorn scattered on a wooden table
The First Look at The First Book of Taylor
Lauren, a swinger, and Ben, who is polyamorous, set the stage by introducing themselves and sharing their frustrations with how the media often misrepresents their communities.

two glasses of whiskey clinking together to resemble breasts
Topless Tastings & The ‘Book of Rumors’ Season Send-Off
In this episode, Ben and Lauren recap The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives finale.

black chalkboard with digital white chalk megaphone and the term swinger writing
Reclaiming the Term “Swinger”
Over the years, certain words have carried negative connotations, creating stigmas that linger long after their initial usage. For those of us in the ethically non-monogamous (ENM) community, one of those words is swinger.


silhouetted faces of a man and woman with a full color puppeteer hand between them
How Do I MAKE My Partner Join the Lifestyle?
This is a very common question appearing on forums and social media. It cannot be answered, but a clear response is needed.

blonde woman wearing a red textured dress and black stiletto heels reclining on a sofa in a luxury n
Hottest Swingers Clubs: World Edition
Discover the most seductive swinger lifestyle clubs around the globe and the sexy secrets within.

femme hand wearing red nail polish holding a rainbow pride flag among leafy green foliage
Prioritizing Your Mental Health in Your Coming Out Journey
Coming out can feel daunting and overwhelming, especially if you are a little later in life.