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Improvements

  • You can now add an event to your device's calendar by clicking on the Add to Calendar button on the Party pages. This applies to private and public parties and will also soon become available on our apps.
  • You can now select individual photos or videos from an album to send via messenger. Click on the album title, and the album will open to select the media you wish to share. You can share the entire album or just individual photos.
  • Group owners can now select videos from their profile to post in the group forum as well as YouTube links.

The Importance of Non-Adult Photos

Did you know that many SDC members only access our site using the SDC App? For your profile to be noticed within our App, it is important to upload some photos without nudity, even if you are not an App user.

Profiles with photos have a much greater success rate on SDC! So, don’t miss out on your chance to connect with even MORE members by uploading some G-rated photos.

Upload your non-adult photos TODAY and increase your potential to hook up tonight!

Contests

Congratulations to RUREADY08 for winning the My Sexy Toys video contest and to FUN2BWITH937 for winning the My Kinkiest Sexcapde writing contest.

Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Bijoux Indiscrets, Swingers Paradise & René Moon.

Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests:

NEW – My Wildest Group Sex Experience – Writing Contest
Current – Wet n Wild – Video Contest
Voting Underway – Hottest Selfie – Photo Contest

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Wow, That Was Fast — Crete has Sold Out!

You all are amazing! Rooms for our SDC on Crete event 2025 flew off the shelves faster than lightning! We knew this event would be popular, but you all have completely blown us away!

But don’t worry — if you missed out on grabbing your room, you can still snag one!
Life happens, and sometimes plans change, so hop on our waitlist to be first in line if a room becomes available.

Why is it worth the wait?
1. Incredible theme parties
2. Sexy entertainment
3. Meeting lots of hotties like you!

Don’t miss your opportunity to be part of this — you’ll want to be there!

Ready to roll the dice? Click here to join the waitlist now, write to TRAVEL inside the site, or email travel@sdc.com outside the site. Keep an eye on your inbox — we’ll let you know the moment a spot opens up!

We can’t wait to (hopefully) see you at the event! 

Explore our BNBs!

If you haven’t checked out our BNB section lately, you’re in for a treat! It’s growing faster than a drawer of sex toys, and it’s packed with incredible places to stay for you to discover!

Our BNB section is bursting with charm. Each BNB has its own unique vibe. Whether you’re a traveler searching for your next sexy getaway or a host looking to connect and promote your accommodation, this is the place to be!

For our amazing members:
New listings are popping up daily, so there’s always something fresh to explore! These handpicked BNBs aim to offer you a one-of-a-kind experience because you deserve the best!

For our fantastic hosts:
Showcase your space to an ever-growing, worldwide community of travel enthusiasts where you shine in the spotlight!

So why wait? Dive into our BNB section today and see what all the buzz is about. Whether you’re booking your next adventure or listing your sexy space, there’s something for everyone!

PARTNER CONTENT

Calling All Single Men in the Lifestyle!

Walk into any Lifestyle space, party, event, and date with confidence and swagger!

You’ll unlock the deep secrets of exploring the Lifestyle as a single man in the new virtual course, Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle.

Created by Jayson Lee, host of the podcast That Other Lifestyle, this groundbreaking course is designed to help single men be successful and enjoy smooth and sexy hookups.

There's an entire community of women in the Lifestyle who are looking for men of quality and character, trained in the art of delivering every time. Jayson holds the keys to helping you thrive as a single man, and they're within your reach. 

Discover how YOU can become a Lifestyle LEGEND!

PARTNER CONTENT

Conscious Couples Retreat with Coach Lauren Hayes

Imagine a weekend spent with your partner, surrounded by other like-minded couples who share your values and lifestyle, all in a safe, intimate container. A weekend where you can explore your relationship in a safe and supportive environment and learn new tools for deepening your connection with each other.

My Conscious Couples Retreat is the perfect place to do just that. You'll experience:

– Couples Workshops: Topics include communication, dream-building, and the art of conflict management.

– Journey-Work: Activities to help you heal or have more difficult conversations, led by the legendary Mayah Rose.

– Recreational Activities: Enjoy play, dancing, music, hiking, breathwork, and more.

Space for this retreat is limited to only seven couples to ensure that you receive personalized attention and support.

Reserve your spot and learn more about how SDC members can get $200 off our unique Conscious Couples Retreat.

Note: All participants must have experience in the lifestyle and complete an interview/application process to ensure that the retreat is a safe and supportive space for all.


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LIBERATOR is your ultimate destination for sexual wellness, pleasure, and intimacy enhancement. We believe that everyone deserves a fulfilling and enjoyable sex life, so we aim to break down barriers, eliminate taboos, and provide high-quality products that enhance your intimate experiences.

FEATURED EXPERT

Friends with Pineapples

Welcome to Friends with Pineapples, a podcast where your hosts, Paul and Nikki, share their journey and insights from over a decade in the Ethically Non-Monogamous swinging lifestyle. As a couple in their mid-thirties, they have experienced the highs and lows, and are here to talk about it all, from mental health and physical well-being to the tips and tricks that have made their lifestyle more enjoyable and fulfilling.

Join Nikki and Paul as they dive into candid discussions about maintaining strong mental health and navigating the unique dynamics of swinging. They share personal stories, expert advice, and practical tips that have helped them thrive in the lifestyle.

Whether you're a seasoned swinger or just curious about what it's all about, "Friends with Pineapples" offers a supportive and informative space to explore this exciting and diverse community.

Tune in for engaging conversations, valuable insights, and a bit of fun as we all celebrate the swinging lifestyle and the friendships that come with it.

Listen to the Friends with Pineapples podcast here on SDC!