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Swingers Lifestyle Community for Open-Minded Couples & Singles

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Improvements

  • Members now have the option to call via audio only (no video) on the SDC app.
  • Light and Dark Mode options are now available in our SDC app messenger. If you have not yet downloaded our app, try it out today!
  • By popular demand, contest Photos, Videos, and Stories will refresh their order every 24 hours to give members more exposure.

Interesting Groups to Join

There are close to 2800 interest groups within the SDC site, and we have highlighted a few below to show the diversity of our groups. If you are interested in finding out more, go to the Groups page and use the filter button to find what you are looking for.

Intimate Tutorial
Tempting Seas LLS Yacht Trips
Pantyhose Lovers  Swinging Lifestyle Coach
Polyamory 

Interested in creating your own group? Click Here to submit your group request.

Private Parties

The lifestyle is often a private and intimate encounter of like-minded people. You have the right to be as selective as you want to be when it comes to choosing that sexy couple (or couples) you wish to play with. So, with that in mind, we are proud to offer a fun way for you and your lifestyle friends to get together without any added pressure. 

Check out our Private Party calendar, where you can host the next hot event in the comfort of your home or any intimate location of your choosing. Send out invites to just those you wish to play with or to your entire friends list, and have a sexy soirée of your very own! Incognito party option is also available for ultra-private affairs, along with the ability to hide your guest from view for regular parties.

You have the right to be as picky as you want to be, so plan your next party today!

To post your first private party, please go to:

Parties & Events —> +Private Party

Or

Click here to post one right now!

SDC Contests

Congratulations to PRAGUECOUPLE4BULL for winning the Sexy in Nature Video Contest! 

Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Bijoux Indiscrets, & Swingers Paradise.

Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests:

New – Kissing Video Contest
Current (hurry — deadline’s Sept. 6th!) – Wet Wet Wet Photo Contest
Voting Underway – My Hottest Summer Sex Story Writing Contest

Sexy Diamond!

Enjoy intense stimulation thanks to the Ohh! Anal Plug — the diamond gives a nice finishing touch during your intimate moment.

Made of aluminum, you can determine the product's heat by holding it under a hot or cold tap. Both for men and women, several sizes, and easy to clean.

Check them out now!


PARTNER CONTENT

The Lifestyle is an Adventure. Enlist a Guide.

Looking for guidance along your journey for a smooth ride within the lifestyle?

Get your free relationship coaching consult for non-monogamous couples, and let Lauren Hayes, The Swinging Lifestyle Coach, help you navigate those tricky waters!

Through relationship coaching, you’ll:
  • Create a shared vision for what you both want in your relationship and in the lifestyle.
  • Facilitate important conversations to have before you realize you need them!
  • Help you work through emotional hurdles you might encounter in the lifestyle.
  • Guide you to experience new things in a way that everyone feels safe.

PARTNER CONTENT

FREE WEBINAR: Swingers Clubs, Parties, and Events

What can you expect at a swingers club or party?


Lexi Sylver is here to help you navigate the swinging social scene with a new LIVE webinar from her Swinging 101 series!


If you’ve ever wanted to attend a swingers club, swingers party, or swingers event, but you weren’t sure what to expect or how to approach everything, then this webinar is for you!


**This event is FREE for SDC members, but you MUST register to get your free tickets via the event link on Eventbrite to get access and receive the video replay.**


In this webinar, we’ll explore:


- What to talk to your partner about before attending

- What to expect at a swinging club or event

- The best ways to prepare before a sexy night out

- How to set boundaries and limits with your partner(s)

- How to approach consent, safety, and sexual health

- Tips for what to do in case something goes wrong


If you miss the live webinar, your ticket includes the video replay (which will be shared within 7 days of the webinar date).


At the end of this webinar, you can ask Lexi your questions during a Q&A segment.


Register for your FREE tickets HERE!


FEATURED EXPERT

TorontoUnicorn

TorontoUnicorn is a bold, honest, real, and oversharing swinger storyteller and sex club vlogger on YouTube, TikTok, and via podcast. Her insightful single-woman unicorn perspective is rare in the swinger podcast space (also in the swinger lifestyle itself).


TorontoUnicorn pulls back the curtain of secrecy on the swinger lifestyle, normally underground, for those curious to find their way to this sex-positive lifestyle for themselves.


Her mission is to “take the scary out of swinging and sex clubs” and invite sex-positive people to observe the swinging world through her podcast journey. 


Watch TorontoUnicorn’s swinging videos here!