New SDC Messenger is Live!
Last week we launched our brand new SDC Messenger, and so far, your feedback has been super positive. We look forward to implementing even more functions to the messenger in the coming months, so stay tuned...
Here’s a taste of what’s to come:
- send/receive voice messages
- send videos, not only photos
- recall sent photos/messages if they haven’t been read yet by the receiver
- receive a notification for incoming video calls with the option to accept or decline the call (In Settings > Notifications, you can allow/block such calls. You can allow everybody to call you, just your friends, or no incoming video calls at all.)
As always, we will keep you updated on our progress!
Featured Members Coming Soon...
Would you like to have more exposure, receive more messages, and find a date faster?
Statistics show that Featured Members have much more success connecting with others on our site, and we are delighted to announce that our Featured Member option will be available again very soon.
If you choose to be a Featured Member, your profile will appear in rotation on the SDC signup page to give you maximum exposure to potential new members near you.
To opt-in to this popular feature, be sure to have an app-approved photo ready to go, as profiles with only nude photos cannot be accepted. Remember, you can opt-out or update your app-approved photo at any time.
As always, we will notify you once this exciting feature becomes available!
Interesting & Key Destination Groups
There are close to 2500 interest groups within the SDC site, we have highlighted a few below to show the diversity of our groups. If you are interested in finding out more, go to the Groups page and use the options button to find what you are looking for.
Intimacy Matters
Mizzy’s Boutique
Swinging Iceland
Tesla-EV
Sturgis Swingers
Interested in creating your own group? Contact PARTY to find out how.
For those of you that belong to some of our key destination travel groups, there is now an even easier way to connect with those visiting at the same time as you.
We have implemented a travel calendar within these groups that is linked to our general Travel Calendar. Your plans will automatically show up and you also have the ability to post plans within the group.
The option to leave reviews within these destination groups is also available. If you have added a travel plan, you will receive an email with the option to leave a review after your first travel plan only. There is also the option to leave a review under the review section within the group.
Check out these groups to take advantage of these features:
Hedonism Resort
Cap d’agde
Faralda Hotels
Caliente Resort
Sea Mountain
La Mirage
Rooftop Resort
Secrets Hideaway
Swingers Mykonos
SDC Contests!
Congratulations to TWISTED777 for winning the Wife Swapping Stories Writing Contest!
Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by SeaMountain Nude Resort & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Sylvie-Monthule Jewelry, Malibu Strings, Lexi Sylver, & Bijoux Indiscrets
Click the links below to access the contests and show your fellow SDC members some love:
New - My Hottest Gangbang Experience Writing Contest
Voting Underway - Summer Splash Video Contest
Current - Back to School Photo Contest
SDC Shop
LoveBotz special offer: €995!
The LoveBotz is a powerful machine, which gives you the ride of your life! Just like the well-known Sybian, you have various vibration speeds and pulsations and a wonderfully velvety-soft dildo.
You can even give the remote control to your partner to make it extra exciting.
Be quick, as we only have a few left! Shop now!
Shop the best toys @SDC shop!
PARTNER CONTENT
Fall in Love with Erotic Jewelry by Sylvie Monthulé
Made in France, Sylvie Monthulé’s jewels exquisitely decorate and pleasure men and women’s most intimate areas.
This season’s new collection features gold- and silver-plated erotic jewels that adorn and arouse the clitoris for her intense pleasure.
Enjoy 15% off all clitoral jewelry throughout the month of September.
Enter your exclusive promo code SDC921 during checkout to get your discount.
See all of Sylvie Monthulé’s uniquely sexy body jewelry here!
Fall in Love with Erotic Jewelry by Sylvie Monthulé
Made in France, Sylvie Monthulé’s jewels exquisitely decorate and pleasure men and women’s most intimate areas.
This season’s new collection features gold- and silver-plated erotic jewels that adorn and arouse the clitoris for her intense pleasure.
Enjoy 15% off all clitoral jewelry throughout the month of September.
Enter your exclusive promo code SDC921 during checkout to get your discount.
See all of Sylvie Monthulé’s uniquely sexy body jewelry here!
Trending Now: IBIZA!
The place. The event. The experience! You are in for a treat when SDC makes the most magical place on earth that much more magic! You can still join all the hot couples at the Melía ME this coming September 14 – 19 for the chic & sensual vacation you’ve been craving! The theme nights are stellar, the shows are nothing short of amazing, and the vibe is sexy on steroids! Awesome Lifestyle fun is not hard to find — just click here!
Pricing starts at only €1950 per couple, but hurry — rooms will be sold out soon!!!
Capture the essence of Ibiza. Come luxuriate in the essence of the Swingers Lifestyle with SDC!
Book now!
Featured Expert: Dr. Cari Oneal
A Lifestyle veteran for over a decade, Dr. Cari Oneal, Ph.D., is a certified Clinical Sexologist dedicated to sex, psychology, and the intimate relationship needs of individuals and couples active in the Lifestyle.
She loves working with open-minded people and sexual experimenters because they are highly motivated and want results that work. She has taught Lifestyle courses in person and online to thousands of students looking to “Have More Fun and Less Drama” and learn sex skills like how to have and give Squirting Orgasms.
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Sandy Becomes a Hotwife
As Thomas grew older, he had to have helped satisfy his hotwife, Sandy.
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Sandy Becomes a Hotwife
As Thomas grew older, he had to have helped satisfy his hotwife, Sandy.
Thomas and Sandy invite a new friend from SDC to fulfill the specific desires of a hotwife... READ MORE.
EVENT SPOTLIGHT
Official ZODIAC Virgo Party @ THE ROOFTOP
Saturday, September 4, 2021
Starts at 9:00pm
This is an Official ZODIAC COMMUNITY Party!!!
Birthdays between August 23rd - September 22nd come on out and celebrate your Birthday with fellow Virgos and your Friends. This party is for you!
Virgo is an Earth sign, so come out and let’s all get down and dirty!
B.Y.O.B. - Mixers & Set-ups provided
DJ Luis Providing a variety of hot sexy music!
Miami Velvet 21 Year Anniversary Party
Saturday, September 4, 2021
Doors Open at 10:00p
SDC.com Couples with screen names on the guest list are just $85 at the door!
Strict Dress Code Enforced
BYOB Private Club
Single Gents Welcome Except Saturdays
Join the Miami Velvet SDC Community for more information about upcoming Miami Velvet events and specials!
Naughty School Girls Back to School Party at Eden DFW
Saturday, September 11, 2021
9pm - 4am
BYOB - SETUPS - PRIVATE ROOMS
Couples Pricing: VIP Members $40 / Members $65
Singles Pricing: Females $25 / Males $100
EdenClubs.com
11050 S Pipeline Road
Euless, TX 76040
Dinner & Decadence Couple's Night
Saturday, 18th September, 2021
Dinner & Decadence Couples Night for the discerning couple who enjoy social and sensual foreplay before any sex.
This night is aimed for mixed-gender couples to meet and engage with other like-minded couples in a safe environment. The term couple means you attend with a member of the opposite sex you are happy to explore with – this could be a life partner, a friend with benefits, or anything in between. This may mean you take this opportunity to chat and enjoy the company of like-minded couples. It may be that you would like to strip off and give and receive a sensual massage with your partner or if you feel a wider chemistry, you may like to explore erotic touch with others. As long as its fully consensual, what you choose to do and how far you go is up to you. The choice is yours as to how you enjoy the late-night hours
This is a mixed gender event and is open to all sexualities. This is a safe space for you to have a fabulous fun flirtatious frisky sexually fulfilling evening, where there are no expectations or pressure to engage in any activity that you are uncomfortable with.
S.U.E. Presents Pasties & Panties Party at CALIENTE RESORT
Saturday, September 18, 2021
8pm
Just a little is a lot of sexy at Caliente Club & Resorts. Come show us your Pasties and Panties with hosts Sexually Unique Events (SUE)
Contact us for Day and Evening Passes or to Book a Room Overnight
Caliente Club & Resorts
21240 Gran Via Blvd
Land O Lakes FL 34637
813-996-3700 x0
Caliente is a full resort that is clothing-optional and lifestyle-friendly. YOU can be YOU here. And you don’t need a passport or clothes! Dress up or dress down. Either way, just have fun!
Penthouse Presents PLAY-BI-PLAY
Saturday, 18th September, 2021
A new monthly night for bisexual, bi-curious and any LGBTQ+ members.
Are you a bi-couple looking to play with a flirty T-girl? Or just a member seeking out some same sex fun? Release a year of locked down and pent up frustration and party like it's 1969.
Take a sultry wander through our dark maze of playrooms, lounges and even a vintage velvet porn cinema. Feeling brave? Explore your kinky side and explore the dungeon’s cages, St. Andrews Cross, swings, grope room, and more… don’t get caught by the dungeon master??
Penthouse is pure luxury, imagine tough leathers, hot DJ tunes, rich velvets, secret viewing points, a gothic designer dungeon and a Studio 54 hedonistic dance floor. This is a premium swinging and fetish experience.
Is this your first club experience? Has being locked down broadened your sexual horizon? Penthouse is the perfect club to try before you bite! Relax at the cocktail bar whilst you check out the flirty glances coming your way, or get to know your partner intimately on the dancefloor before heading into the labyrinth of playrooms.
Elegantly Wasted Presents Fetish & Fantasy Ball at DEFY
Saturday, September 18, 2021
9pm - 4am
Elegantly Wasted Presents Fetish & Fantasy Ball
Dress Code: Fetish or Fantasy attire
Featuring music sets by Florida’s Sexiest DJ Samantha XO, Michael Venezuela from Lifestyle DJs and special guest DJ Louis Dee
Saturday Pool Party AND Naughty Cavers Party @ Secrets Hideaway
Saturday, September 25, 2021
10am-5pm
“Saturday Pool Party”
Celebrate Saturday in the sexiest way possible at Secrets Hideaway’s clothing-optional pool party! The weather is hot, so come strip down and cool off poolside. Join all of your sexiest friends at Secrets Hideaway Resort and Spa for a day in the sun, drink in hand, hot music, and even hotter friends. Our courtyard pool area and two outdoor tiki bars are the perfect location to let loose, be free, and celebrate summer!
Whether you’re in the mood for lunch, dinner or pool-party snacks, we’ll keep you fueled while you party away the afternoon, no bikini required! With frozen cocktails, mojitos, margaritas and more, our tiki bar will make you feel like you escaped to the tropics, if only for the day! Reserve your pool-side cabana and lounge in luxury for a full 8 hours of arousing fun. Or sneak off to our playrooms and create your own heat. However you choose to spend your afternoon, your Saturdays are always hotter at Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa!
Room check in is after 3pm. Check out is 11am sharp.
Reserve your poolside cabana, and it’s all yours for 8 hours of fun and relaxation (9am to 5pm OR 7pm to 3am)!!
“Naughty Cavers”
Take a trip back in time with this party theme. Cavemen and Cavewomen welcome! Dinosaur costumes are also encouraged for anyone who can pull that off. And if you cannot think of anything else to wear, anyone dressed in camouflage will also do. Decoration may include a jungle theme so look out for plants such as massive amounts of bamboo and fake wildlife that can be found throughout the party!
Make sure you take the time on Friday and Saturday nights to visit Club Swinkster, Secrets premiere kinky ultra-lounge and dungeon allows you to experience some of your darkest desires in an environment that is inviting and yet… Let Sir Tank and Goddess Ellez from Carnivale Risque take you on a journey of delicious debauchery, and tasteful taboos followed by an exclusive EXTENDED HOURS PARTY every Saturday night for the select few that Sir Tank and Goddess Ellez deems worthy. Extended Hours passes MUST be purchased at the Front Desk ONLY!!
Remember, what happens at Secrets Always Stays a Secret!
Skin Luxury Swingers @ Sea Mountain Nude Lifestyles Spa Resort
Friday, September 24th, 2021
Sea Mountain Swingers Luxury Spas and Resorts are the capital of Lifestyle as seen on TMZ ultimate celebrity sex secret and Best of Playboy 8 years in a row. Indulge in 24-hour hot water naked pools and waterfalls and indoor Love areas and the world’s only 24-hour lifestyles dance lounge. For couples and women only with no single men on the property or staff; all food and all beverages available 24 hours a day.
Remember Sea Mountain Nude Resort lifestyles couples swingers Hotel and Spa and Day Lounge is OPEN Every Day of the Year as seen on, best of MTV-VH1, the greatest 4-20 Friendly play areas in the world.
Official ZODIAC Virgo Party @ THE ROOFTOP
Saturday, September 4, 2021
Starts at 9:00pm
This is an Official ZODIAC COMMUNITY Party!!!
Birthdays between August 23rd - September 22nd come on out and celebrate your Birthday with fellow Virgos and your Friends. This party is for you!
Virgo is an Earth sign, so come out and let’s all get down and dirty!
B.Y.O.B. - Mixers & Set-ups provided
DJ Luis Providing a variety of hot sexy music!
Miami Velvet 21 Year Anniversary Party
Saturday, September 4, 2021
Doors Open at 10:00p
SDC.com Couples with screen names on the guest list are just $85 at the door!
Strict Dress Code Enforced
BYOB Private Club
Single Gents Welcome Except Saturdays
Join the Miami Velvet SDC Community for more information about upcoming Miami Velvet events and specials!
Naughty School Girls Back to School Party at Eden DFW
Saturday, September 11, 2021
9pm - 4am
BYOB - SETUPS - PRIVATE ROOMS
Couples Pricing: VIP Members $40 / Members $65
Singles Pricing: Females $25 / Males $100
EdenClubs.com
11050 S Pipeline Road
Euless, TX 76040
Dinner & Decadence Couple's Night
Saturday, 18th September, 2021
Dinner & Decadence Couples Night for the discerning couple who enjoy social and sensual foreplay before any sex.
This night is aimed for mixed-gender couples to meet and engage with other like-minded couples in a safe environment. The term couple means you attend with a member of the opposite sex you are happy to explore with – this could be a life partner, a friend with benefits, or anything in between. This may mean you take this opportunity to chat and enjoy the company of like-minded couples. It may be that you would like to strip off and give and receive a sensual massage with your partner or if you feel a wider chemistry, you may like to explore erotic touch with others. As long as its fully consensual, what you choose to do and how far you go is up to you. The choice is yours as to how you enjoy the late-night hours
This is a mixed gender event and is open to all sexualities. This is a safe space for you to have a fabulous fun flirtatious frisky sexually fulfilling evening, where there are no expectations or pressure to engage in any activity that you are uncomfortable with.
S.U.E. Presents Pasties & Panties Party at CALIENTE RESORT
Saturday, September 18, 2021
8pm
Just a little is a lot of sexy at Caliente Club & Resorts. Come show us your Pasties and Panties with hosts Sexually Unique Events (SUE)
Contact us for Day and Evening Passes or to Book a Room Overnight
Caliente Club & Resorts
21240 Gran Via Blvd
Land O Lakes FL 34637
813-996-3700 x0
Caliente is a full resort that is clothing-optional and lifestyle-friendly. YOU can be YOU here. And you don’t need a passport or clothes! Dress up or dress down. Either way, just have fun!
Penthouse Presents PLAY-BI-PLAY
Saturday, 18th September, 2021
A new monthly night for bisexual, bi-curious and any LGBTQ+ members.
Are you a bi-couple looking to play with a flirty T-girl? Or just a member seeking out some same sex fun? Release a year of locked down and pent up frustration and party like it's 1969.
Take a sultry wander through our dark maze of playrooms, lounges and even a vintage velvet porn cinema. Feeling brave? Explore your kinky side and explore the dungeon’s cages, St. Andrews Cross, swings, grope room, and more… don’t get caught by the dungeon master??
Penthouse is pure luxury, imagine tough leathers, hot DJ tunes, rich velvets, secret viewing points, a gothic designer dungeon and a Studio 54 hedonistic dance floor. This is a premium swinging and fetish experience.
Is this your first club experience? Has being locked down broadened your sexual horizon? Penthouse is the perfect club to try before you bite! Relax at the cocktail bar whilst you check out the flirty glances coming your way, or get to know your partner intimately on the dancefloor before heading into the labyrinth of playrooms.
Elegantly Wasted Presents Fetish & Fantasy Ball at DEFY
Saturday, September 18, 2021
9pm - 4am
Elegantly Wasted Presents Fetish & Fantasy Ball
Dress Code: Fetish or Fantasy attire
Featuring music sets by Florida’s Sexiest DJ Samantha XO, Michael Venezuela from Lifestyle DJs and special guest DJ Louis Dee
Saturday Pool Party AND Naughty Cavers Party @ Secrets Hideaway
Saturday, September 25, 2021
10am-5pm
“Saturday Pool Party”
Celebrate Saturday in the sexiest way possible at Secrets Hideaway’s clothing-optional pool party! The weather is hot, so come strip down and cool off poolside. Join all of your sexiest friends at Secrets Hideaway Resort and Spa for a day in the sun, drink in hand, hot music, and even hotter friends. Our courtyard pool area and two outdoor tiki bars are the perfect location to let loose, be free, and celebrate summer!
Whether you’re in the mood for lunch, dinner or pool-party snacks, we’ll keep you fueled while you party away the afternoon, no bikini required! With frozen cocktails, mojitos, margaritas and more, our tiki bar will make you feel like you escaped to the tropics, if only for the day! Reserve your pool-side cabana and lounge in luxury for a full 8 hours of arousing fun. Or sneak off to our playrooms and create your own heat. However you choose to spend your afternoon, your Saturdays are always hotter at Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa!
Room check in is after 3pm. Check out is 11am sharp.
Reserve your poolside cabana, and it’s all yours for 8 hours of fun and relaxation (9am to 5pm OR 7pm to 3am)!!
“Naughty Cavers”
Take a trip back in time with this party theme. Cavemen and Cavewomen welcome! Dinosaur costumes are also encouraged for anyone who can pull that off. And if you cannot think of anything else to wear, anyone dressed in camouflage will also do. Decoration may include a jungle theme so look out for plants such as massive amounts of bamboo and fake wildlife that can be found throughout the party!
Make sure you take the time on Friday and Saturday nights to visit Club Swinkster, Secrets premiere kinky ultra-lounge and dungeon allows you to experience some of your darkest desires in an environment that is inviting and yet… Let Sir Tank and Goddess Ellez from Carnivale Risque take you on a journey of delicious debauchery, and tasteful taboos followed by an exclusive EXTENDED HOURS PARTY every Saturday night for the select few that Sir Tank and Goddess Ellez deems worthy. Extended Hours passes MUST be purchased at the Front Desk ONLY!!
Remember, what happens at Secrets Always Stays a Secret!
Skin Luxury Swingers @ Sea Mountain Nude Lifestyles Spa Resort
Friday, September 24th, 2021
Sea Mountain Swingers Luxury Spas and Resorts are the capital of Lifestyle as seen on TMZ ultimate celebrity sex secret and Best of Playboy 8 years in a row. Indulge in 24-hour hot water naked pools and waterfalls and indoor Love areas and the world’s only 24-hour lifestyles dance lounge. For couples and women only with no single men on the property or staff; all food and all beverages available 24 hours a day.
Remember Sea Mountain Nude Resort lifestyles couples swingers Hotel and Spa and Day Lounge is OPEN Every Day of the Year as seen on, best of MTV-VH1, the greatest 4-20 Friendly play areas in the world.