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Improvements
Group Chat is now available within SDC groups. It’s only available when activated by the Group Owner and can be found within the group itself next to the Members tab. You will receive a message about BNBs & Clubs near your Travel Destination when submitting your Travel Plans. App-to-App non-video, audio-only calls are now available. Our profile photo editor will now give you the option to blur parts of your picture, e.g., faces, as part of the Edit Photo features.
SDC Book Club
Welcome to the SDC Book Club, where we feature exciting books recommended by lifestyle-related Authors, Educators, and even SDC Members. This month, we are introducing The Unofficial Guide to Hedonism II by Mike Walker — SDC Member TOGETHERWESWING.
The Clinician's Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamous Relationships By SDC Member EVOLVEYOURINTIMACY
MORE: Hotwives & Husbands Book Series By SDC Member AUTHORSMOJAS
SDC Contests
Congratulations to LADYLOVERS for winning the Hottest Selfie photo contest and to ZIP2SWING for winning the Wet n Wild video contest! Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Bijoux Indiscrets, Mizzy’s Boutique, Swingers Paradise, & René Moon. Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests: New – Make Me Scream – Video Contest
Current – Naughty School Girls & Boys – Photo Contest
Voting Underway – My Wildest Group Sex Experience – Writing Contest
Unlock the Ultimate BNB Experience with SDC BNB!
At SDC, it’s all about finding that wow moment for our members. This is why we are well on our way to having the most listings of sexy hidden — and not-so-hidden — gems with authentic guest reviews. We are welcoming more and more BNBs of all kinds to our site, from cozy retreats to chic urban lofts and anything in between!
Best of all, and quite unlike any other listing site out there, SDC doesn’t charge any commissions for any booking, no matter which side of the deal you’re on!
So, whether you are hosting or exploring, there’s a lot to discover on our BNB pages.
Why not take it up a notch — are you ready?
SDC Shop
Besides sexy toys, you will also find official SDC merchandise in our webshop. Items like the SDC fan, sarong, tube top, or cap, to name a few. If you prefer personalized merchandise, we’ve got you covered for that, too! Check them out now at sdcshop.com!
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Hottest Swingers Clubs: World Edition
Where do adventurous singles and couples go when they’re looking for an erotic space to connect and play? Look no further than these world-class swingers clubs and all of their seductive play spaces and luxurious amenities, all designed with your fun and pleasure in mind. Whether you’re a newbie in the open lifestyle or a more seasoned lifestyler, you’ll find all the elements you need to guide you to swinging success. At these sexy swinger clubs, you can let your inhibitions melt away, indulge in hedonistic experiences, explore your wildest fantasies, embrace your sensual side, and interact with other open-minded couples and singles to create some unforgettable experiences together. Check out our roundup of the hottest swingers clubs around the world!
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Pussy Massage Tricks That’ll Make Her Cum
The vulva is a pleasure palace just waiting for you to try the techniques in this course by Beducated! Start your journey to yoni bliss today with detailed video tutorials, cheat sheets, and guided audio meditation.
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Swingers Paradise
Swingers Paradise is a new digital Sex Party Game for swingers! This game will be the naughty host of your private party of 4, giving you exciting and quite adventurous challenges to complete. Like any good host, the game knows the importance of warming up and creating a passionate connection between its guests before inviting them to the ‘play room.’ You’ll be taken through the journey of getting to know each other better, exploring each others’ fantasies, sharing juicy information, and trying new, exciting things for the first time. From playful dares to never-seen-before sex challenges (including Kama Sutra for four), this game has everything you need for a truly unforgettable night! All you need to do? Invite another couple over and hit ‘’Play’’ — we’ll take care of the rest.
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Cherish Amber
Cherish Amber is a fierce advocate for pleasure, empowerment, and consent. As a sex & kink-positive, ethical, and evidence-based coach, she integrates trauma-informed practices into her work, prioritizing the creation of safe queer spaces. Cherish offers personalized online coaching sessions, whether it's one-on-one, couples coaching, or sessions for your entire swing team, aimed at helping you experience the best sex of your life. 'Wet Your Appetite' is her pre-recorded video series designed to tantalize your senses and enhance your hosting prowess. Embark with Cherish on a journey where pleasure meets purpose, and every moment is a celebration of connection. Join her in exploring the art of intimacy — where passion knows no limits.
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Jealousy and Compersion with Multiple Partners
How polys deal with jealousy and feel happy when their lover loves someone else.
From The Lives of the Rich and Famous to Real Housewives of Atlanta, mainstream culture in the U.S. is saturated with jealousy. Popular images of romance cast jealousy as an emblem of true love, because someone must really care if they are jealous, right? The flip side of jealousy, compersion or the warm glow of happiness that comes when one’s lover is happy with one of their other lovers, is so little known that the polyamorists had to make up a word for it.
The majority of polyamorists (and a significant number of serial monogamists) experience jealousy at some point in their relationships. Polys have several primary responses to jealousy, frequently moving among them and combining them so that they can go from freaking out to introspection, through compersion, and back to freaking out again in the same evening.
Here are some of the ways polyamorists typically respond:...READ MORE.
PARTIES AROUND THE WORLD
DesirousParty presents Halloween Erotica Ball - 21st Annual
Houston, TX
Friday - Sunday, October 25 - 27, 2024 Unleash your carnal cravings at the 21st annual Houston Halloween Erotica party at the DoubleTree IAH for a total weekend takeover. With two nights of parties starting on October 25th, with the annual theme, FreakShow, plus multiple different party zones, separate stages, and multiple DJs spinning each night. This complete Houston hotel takeover lures in the sexiest crowd nationwide. Expect a night of costumed Halloween erotica and stimulating adult fun where you can leave your inhibitions at the door. Push the limits of your imagination, nothing is too wild or too mild for this Houston Halloween party. This again is a private hotel event open to couples and single females only. Highlights:
Full hotel takeover for both nights of the 21st Halloween Erotica Ball
State-of-the-art dance lighting, dance floor (Grand Ballroom), DJ stages
DJ List- Please check the music section below
The event is for Couples and Single Females Only
Multiple bars and beer wells throughout event areas
Select reserved bottle service tables in the Grand Ballroom
You DO NOT have to be a member of DesirousParty.com to attend the Halloween Erotica Ball. However, you must be a couple or a single female to attend the party. Gentlemen, grab a date. 21+ only.
Monster Bash Hotel Takeover Convention
Niagara Falls, Ontario, Canada
Friday - Sunday, October 25 - 27, 2024 Sexy meets carnal as hundreds of like-minded couples descend on Niagara Falls, exploring the debauchery they have often dreamed of. Let your inner angel, demon or naughty nurse out to play for a Full Weekend Hotel Takeover at our Premier Niagara Hotel, an upscale tropical paradise with Indoor Water Park and Poolside Lounge. As always, you can count on TABOTA to pull out ALL the stops, with a full weekend of sexy, Halloween-themed activities
Fetish Factory presents HALLOWEEN FETISH BALL 2024 at Manor Complex
Wilton Manors, FL
Friday, October 25, 2024 10PM-4AM The Fetish Factory is excited to once again animate the largest and most enduring fetish revelry in all of North America. Prepare to immerse yourself in an unparalleled All Hallow’s Eve Ritual, brimming with world-class performances and intoxicating ambiance, crafted meticulously through ethereal lights, resonating sounds, and a strictly adhered Fetish dress code. Since 1995, our enchanting festival summons vibrant crowds of over 1000 devotees, teeming with shared energy and collective spirit. Mark your calendars for FRIDAY, October 27th and join us at the mystical Epic Nightclub for a Bacchanalian frenzy like no other. Our ceremonies are profoundly pansexual, embracing a diverse array of attendees, all drawn together in mutual appreciation and respect for the sacred and sensual. WHERE:
Epic Nightclub
2345 Wilton Drive, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33305 BOTTLE SERVICE MENU
https://fetishfactory.com/the-manor-complex-bottle-list/ TABLE SERVICE & RESERVATIONS
Email Donna@fetishfactory.com after ticket purchase with name, phone number, number of guests and desired bottle. TICKETS:
• $35 in Showroom CASH ONLY
• $40 Online
• $45 at the venue door
HALLOWEEN SUPER PARTY! Sponsored by SDC
Marbella, Spain
Saturday, 26 October, 2024 COUPLES & LADIES ONLY! HALLOWEEN SUPER PARTY! THE SUPERHEROES BALL! Showgirls & Live Entertainment! Dress Code: Dress to the theme (optional) or LESS to Impress, Provocative and/or elegant. FIXED MENU DINNER AVAILABLE FROM 21:00 PLEASE WHATSAPP (0034) 697 935 224 TO RESERVE Party from: 22:00 www.wickedclub.com
Follow us on IG: @wickedclubmarbella
Fang Bang - Caliente Resorts Official Halloween Theme Party
Land o Lakes, FL
Saturday, October 26, 2024 7 PM It's time to sink your teeth into Caliente's official Halloween party for 2024! We're certain you'll wanna take a bite. Join us Saturday, October 26 at 7 PM for Fang Bang - Caliente Resorts Official Halloween Theme Party! Buffet reception, costume contest, AND NoFilter! Ticket information coming soon! Add this party to your calendar and start thinking about your costumes! Contact us for Day and Evening Passes or to Book a Room Overnight
Caliente Club & Resorts
21240 Gran Via Blvd
Land O Lakes FL 34637 Caliente is a full resort that is clothing-optional and lifestyle friendly. YOU can be YOU here. And you don’t need a passport, or clothes! Dress up or dress down, either way just have fun! Visit for a day or join us as your Vacation Club
- Clothing-Optional Adult Luxury
- Beautiful Waterfall and Grotto
- Studio, Condo and Villa Rentals
- Huge Lagoon Pool and 4 Other Pools (2 heated)
- Four Poolside Bars
- Hot Tub and a Sexy Conversation Pool
- Elegant Dining and Piano Bar
- Sexy Nightclub and Sports Bar
- Lifestyle-friendly Themed Parties
- Special Events, Shows and Bands
- Full Service Spa and Fitness Facilities
SDC INTERNATIONAL HALLOWEEN PARTY
Milan, Italy
Thursday, 31 October, 2024 On the night of HALLOWEEN CLUB MILAN is organizing an INTERNATIONAL and unmissable party in collaboration with SDC. CLUB MILAN in addition to FREE MEMBERSHIP for HALLOWEEN offers all SDC members*, 1 free DRINK per person! *please show at the door that you are a member of SDC Have you already made dinner plans? Choose VOGLIA MILANO! In addition, for members of the world's largest community who wish to dine on one of the evenings of the long Halloween weekend, we thought of creating this beautiful synergy with VOGLIA MILANO, the first erotic restaurant in Italy. VOGLIA MILANO in collaboration with CLUB MILANO reserves for SDC members a voucher, worth €60,00*, different shows and the experience of a drink inside the SECRET RED ROOM ( the concept of the red room is purely for aesthetic and show purposes, you can't start playing! for that we are waiting for you at CLUB MILANO :) ) For info and reservations send an email to booking@vogliarestaurant.com communicating the code HALLOWEENCLUBMILANOSDC. - Usable ONLY for a 1-couple dinner with a reserved menu of €140.00 per person ( to be discounted ) on the evenings of 31-1-2, upon reservation made with the restaurant and partial deposit paid. Let this beautiful HALLOWEEN weekend begin!
Dance Macabre
Bangkok, Thailand
Saturday, 26 October, 2024 In the mysterious depths of Asia, hidden within the ancient and magical city of Shangri-La, whispers traveled through the luxurious halls of the Jade Dragon Society. Excitement filled the air as guests, dressed in extravagant and captivating outfits, gathered for a Halloween party unlike any other. The captivating Mistress of Ceremonies, known simply as Mei-Lin, stood in front of the gathered attendees, her eyes shining with a blend of charm and enigma. With a playful grin, she invited them closer, her words spinning a story of mystery and allure. ‘In the time of the Jade Tiger, a myth began,’ Mei-Lin started, her voice a smooth tune that captivated the senses. ‘In the core of the Forbidden City lived a man of unmatched power and passion. He was known as Liang Wu, a sorcerer with an ancient lineage and an insatiable craving for forbidden knowledge.’ As the guests leaned in, enchanted by Mei-Lin’s tale, she carried on, her words tinged with a mix of sensuality and peril. ‘Liang Wu’s court was a place of indulgence and pleasure, where delight and pain intertwined in a deadly dance. His partner, the enchanting Meiying, possessed a beauty that could enchant even the most pure-hearted souls. But beneath her flawless exterior, a heart as cold as the winter moon resided.’ The attendees gasped, their minds ignited by Mei-Lin’s storytelling as she painted a picture of mystery and longing. ‘It is believed that Liang Wu delved deep into the forbidden arts, seeking power beyond mortal understanding. With Meiying by his side, he called forth spirits from the underworld, their eerie whispers resonating through the palace corridors.’ Mei-Lin paused, her eyes locking onto each guest with a meaningful glance. ‘And tonight,’ she murmured, her voice a seductive touch, ‘we will summon the spirits of Liang Wu and Meiying, exploring the enigmas of the East and unlocking secrets thought lost to time.’ As the attendees whispered in anticipation, Mei-Lin’s eyes sparkled with a mischievous glint, promising a night of celebration and dark pleasures. With a grand gesture, she urged them to wear their most eerie costumes, each one a homage to the forbidden desires lurking within the shadows of the Jade Dragon Society. And as the moon ascended high above the city, casting its silver glow on the ancient streets, the society members readied themselves for a journey into the depths of darkness, where pleasure and pain harmonized in a symphony of ecstasy and turmoil. NOTE: If you are traveling to Thailand from overseas for this party please speak to us to arrange your accommodation, transportation and sightseeing activities. http://lussuriaclub.com/landing-dance-macabre/
Saturdays Halloween Party For Couples & Females
Las Vegas, NV
Saturday, October 26th, 2024 Couples/Females Only Join Us Every Friday & Saturday Night At The PlayhouseLV Ultra Lounge & Every Saturday At PlayhouseLV's New Pool Complex We Host The Sexiest Most Exclusive Lifestyle Events in Las Vegas.
This is Where the Sexy Play. We require ALL first-time guests to be registered and vetted by our board of members on our website (PlayhouseLV.com ). Everyone can apply but not all will be approved. Everyone must buy a ticket on our site to attend any event. Walk-ins will be turned away. Come Get Together With The Hottest Lifestyle Couples and Females In Las Vegas. All Our Guests Are Hand Picked, Just Like All Our Events! We Have Event Flyers All Over So Don't Worry If You Don't See Anyone On This List Besides You. You Will Not Be The Only One There.
HALLOWEEN: Manìla
Milan, Italy
Thursday, 31 October, 2024 Entrance: 10pm
End of party: 5am
Event with limited places: 50 couples and a limited number of singles, men and women WELCOME
On October 31st, on Halloween night, in the heart of Milan, a one-of-a-kind event will take place: Malìa. Here, darkness intertwines with the deepest and most seductive charm, dragging you into a timeless spell. Malìa means spell, charm, and refers to a seductive and magical power, capable of exerting an irresistible attraction, enchanting and capturing the soul. THE PARTY
In the beating heart of Milan, an exclusive location is ready to transform into the perfect setting in an atmosphere of seduction and mystery. Every detail has been taken care of to create an intimate and enveloping environment, where only 50 selected couples will have the privilege of experiencing the magic of Malìa. A rich buffet and fine bubbles will accompany you throughout the evening, up to the “Malìa Ritual”, which will mark the beginning of a night of pleasure and enchantment. GOLD PASS
For those who want to get to the heart of the party before everyone else, we offer an exclusive experience with our Private Pre Party. This intimate and private moment will allow you to meet the guests of the evening in advance, immersed in a quiet and refined atmosphere. The Chef will prepare delicious gourmet dishes for you, perfect to accompany the evening with taste and elegance, washed down with Champagne.
http://libertinequeen.com