Featured Members are Live!
Exciting news! Our Featured Member option is live and now available to all couples and females that are full members of SDC.
To opt in to this popular feature, be sure to have an app-approved photo ready to go, as profiles with only nude photos cannot be accepted.
To Switch On this feature, go to SETTINGS and then Privacy, where you will be prompted to select a photo from your app-approved photos, select one, click OK, and you are good to go.
Remember, you can opt out or update your app-approved photo at any time.
Once you become a Featured Member, your profile will appear in rotation on the SDC signup page to give you maximum exposure to potential new members near you.
SDC Messenger Update:
We are currently in the process of preparing a transition from mailbox to messenger. You may have noticed some new notifications showing in your messenger already.
Over the next months, your SDC messenger will provide the same if not better functionality than your mailbox. We intend to make this a smooth transition and, once all the functions are available in your SDC messenger, the mailbox will be eliminated.
As always, we look forward to your feedback along the way and we will keep you updated with our progress.
Ibiza 2021 Was AMAZING!
Let us elevate your lifestyle experience…
This video is unedited and was filmed during our event in Ibiza 2021.
What you see is exactly what members witnessed and experienced during this amazing one-of-a-kind event.
So, sometimes, in life, you need to dare… dare to offer your partner and yourself a totally different lifestyle experience.
From 13–18 September 2022, prepare to be elevated!
Click here to come with us and experience new heights of pleasure in Ibiza!
As always, Ressan, our artist/photographer, will be present.
Get a Free Proposal!
Advertising your business or product has never been easier with SDC. We have created a form so you can get started and easily find out if working with us is right for you!
Fill out the short form and receive a custom proposal from SDC that outlines how we can help market and grow your business.
There is absolutely no obligation when filling out the form, so if you want to get the word out about your business simply CLICK HERE and get started today!
SDC Contests
Congratulations to 24SHOW for winning the Summer Splash Video Contest! & LANAANDALEX for winning the Back 2 School Photo Contest!
Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by Sea Mountain Nude Resort & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Sylvie-Monthule Jewelry, Malibu Strings, Lexi Sylver, & Bijoux Indiscrets
Click the links below to access, enter, or vote for the latest contests:
Voting Underway - My Hottest Gangbang Experience Writing Contest
Current - Tik Tok #boomchallenge Video Contest
New - Fallen Angels & Devils Photo Contest
SDC Interest Groups
There are close to 2500 interest groups within the SDC site, and we have highlighted a few below to show the diversity of our groups. If you are interested in finding out more, go to the Groups page and use the Options button to find what you are looking for.
Right Connections
VIPineapples Lifestyle Party
BDSM Kinky Lifestylers
Love with Audacity
Interested in creating your own group? Contact PARTY to find out how.
SDC Shop
Spice up your sex life with the best toys ever! Shop them at our SDC webshop!
Special offer! Buy the vibrating strapless strap on today and get our SDC bodyglide for free!
Eve's Vibrating Strapless Strap On gives you all the fun of a strap-on but with extra vibration and no straps.
SDC on Crete is Nothing Short of Amazing!
It’s never too early to book your next ALL-INCLUSIVE lifestyle vacation and have something to look forward to!
So, why not join us from May 8–13, 2022, for our SDC on Crete event?! With 6 glorious days and 5 steamy nights, this is undisputedly one of our favorite lifestyle events that draws sexy couples from near and far!
SDC on Crete has developed the reputation as one of the lifestyle’s most coveted event to see and be seen at! You are on one of the most glorious of Greek Islands, after all.
So, whether you like to party like it’s 1999, just sit back and relax at the multiple pools, dance and flirt at the parties, explore the fascinating island and its paradise beaches, or happily play the sensual way with all the hot, mostly-naked couples there along with you... you can do it all at SDC on Crete!
This event holds many pleasurable surprises for all you gods and goddesses! Pricing starts at only € 2498 per couple — all-inclusive of food and beverages (à la carte at a cost). Don’t wait — Book your Grecian getaway now!
PARTNER CONTENT
Couples’ Guide to Ultimate Anal & P-Spot Play with a Vibrator
Never tried anal play or want to take it to the next level?
You need to try this super bendy finger-like vibrator!
We all have butts, which means that everybody — and every body — can experiment with and enjoy anal pleasure.
Adding a sex toy into the mix is a fun and exciting way to spice up your sex life, connect with each other, and learn more about your own and each other’s bodies.
A versatile couples vibrator like MysteryVibe’s Crescendo can create a pleasurable and intimate sexperience for both of you, and help ease some of the nervousness that may come with trying new things sexually.
Here are some things you should know as you and your partner start your anal exploration, and some sexy tips to help you reach orgasmic new heights together!
Read more about how to spice up your sex life with Crescendo!
Your Guide to Drama-Free Sex Parties & Events
Navigate sex parties and events so that you can have more fun and less drama!
While many new couples are excited about participating in the Lifestyle and attending parties and events, countless couples who enter this brave new world often find themselves experiencing more drama than the fun they were expecting.
The last thing these couples want to do is mess up the life they've built outside of the bedroom when all they were looking for was a little sexual excitement and spark in their relationship.
So, how can you prepare yourselves for this exciting (and delicate) new chapter in your life, and start to have more fun and less drama at sex parties and events?
Read on for Dr. Cari Oneal’s expert tips on how you can enjoy all the amazing benefits the Lifestyle has to offer your relationship!
Couples’ Guide to Ultimate Anal & P-Spot Play with a Vibrator
Never tried anal play or want to take it to the next level?
You need to try this super bendy finger-like vibrator!
We all have butts, which means that everybody — and every body — can experiment with and enjoy anal pleasure.
Adding a sex toy into the mix is a fun and exciting way to spice up your sex life, connect with each other, and learn more about your own and each other’s bodies.
A versatile couples vibrator like MysteryVibe’s Crescendo can create a pleasurable and intimate sexperience for both of you, and help ease some of the nervousness that may come with trying new things sexually.
Here are some things you should know as you and your partner start your anal exploration, and some sexy tips to help you reach orgasmic new heights together!
Read more about how to spice up your sex life with Crescendo!
Your Guide to Drama-Free Sex Parties & Events
Navigate sex parties and events so that you can have more fun and less drama!
While many new couples are excited about participating in the Lifestyle and attending parties and events, countless couples who enter this brave new world often find themselves experiencing more drama than the fun they were expecting.
The last thing these couples want to do is mess up the life they've built outside of the bedroom when all they were looking for was a little sexual excitement and spark in their relationship.
So, how can you prepare yourselves for this exciting (and delicate) new chapter in your life, and start to have more fun and less drama at sex parties and events?
Read on for Dr. Cari Oneal’s expert tips on how you can enjoy all the amazing benefits the Lifestyle has to offer your relationship!
FEATURED WEBINARS & ONLINE COURSES
Swinging 101 Webinar Series
Swinging isn't always easy, but it CAN go smoothly!
And when you do get into the "swing of things," the Lifestyle can open you up to an exciting new world of erotic possibilities and deep connections.
Here to share her expert advice is SDC's Media Director, sex educator, and open relationship coach Lexi Sylver who will help you explore The Lifestyle in an all-new season of Swinging 101.
As an exclusive for SDC members, you can get FREE access to each webinar!
Reserve your free tickets now to any of these upcoming Swinging 101 events:
Swinging Seduction: October 16th, 2021
Virtual Swinging Tips: November 6th, 2021
What To Do When Swinging Goes Wrong: November 20th, 2021
Sexy (and REAL!) Swinger Stories: December 4th, 2021
Whether you're a newbie to the Lifestyle or an experienced swinger looking to boost your skills and enhance your relationship, Lexi will help guide you.
Get your free Swinging 101 tickets now — limited spots are available!
Swinging 101 Webinar Series
Swinging isn't always easy, but it CAN go smoothly!
And when you do get into the "swing of things," the Lifestyle can open you up to an exciting new world of erotic possibilities and deep connections.
Here to share her expert advice is SDC's Media Director, sex educator, and open relationship coach Lexi Sylver who will help you explore The Lifestyle in an all-new season of Swinging 101.
As an exclusive for SDC members, you can get FREE access to each webinar!
Reserve your free tickets now to any of these upcoming Swinging 101 events:
Swinging Seduction: October 16th, 2021
Virtual Swinging Tips: November 6th, 2021
What To Do When Swinging Goes Wrong: November 20th, 2021
Sexy (and REAL!) Swinger Stories: December 4th, 2021
Whether you're a newbie to the Lifestyle or an experienced swinger looking to boost your skills and enhance your relationship, Lexi will help guide you.
Get your free Swinging 101 tickets now — limited spots are available!
RECOMMENDED READING
Open: Conversations for People Considering an Open Relationship
What if in one afternoon, you and your partner can learn the conversations you need to have in order to build a healthy open relationship, without the fears of jealousy or secrecy driving you apart?
That’s exactly what OPEN can do for you!
Dr. James Whittard is a PhD professor in the social sciences, and he’s had two open marriages collectively spanning 25 years.
His book, Open, is a set of stories, tools, questions, and conversations that you can use in order to build an amazing open relationship with your partner while remaining committed to each other.
Open: Conversations for People Considering an Open Relationship
What if in one afternoon, you and your partner can learn the conversations you need to have in order to build a healthy open relationship, without the fears of jealousy or secrecy driving you apart?
That’s exactly what OPEN can do for you!
Dr. James Whittard is a PhD professor in the social sciences, and he’s had two open marriages collectively spanning 25 years.
His book, Open, is a set of stories, tools, questions, and conversations that you can use in order to build an amazing open relationship with your partner while remaining committed to each other.
Featured Expert: Julieta Chiara
Julieta is a sex blogger, entrepreneur, and sex toy fanatic. A digital sex nomad, she travels the world full-time with her luggage full of sex toys, connecting with folks through her adventures and advocacy for pleasure, exploring kink, sexual health, and reclaiming your power in pleasure, life, and business.
She started her blog in 2017 as a complement to her studies in human sexuality, and never looked back at a normal life. Working closely with adult brands and having multiple appearances as a writer, podcast guest, and interviewee, her passion has been connecting with her community.
POPULAR
Sandy Becomes a Hotwife
As Thomas grew older, he had to have help to satisfy his hotwife Sandy
Thomas and Sandy invite a new friend from SDC to fulfill the specific desires of a hotwife... READ MORE.
Sandy Becomes a Hotwife
As Thomas grew older, he had to have help to satisfy his hotwife Sandy
Thomas and Sandy invite a new friend from SDC to fulfill the specific desires of a hotwife... READ MORE.
EVENT SPOTLIGHT
The Vanilla Club Presents Halloween Party
Saturday, 23rd October 2021
9:30pm till 4:00am
Join us for our very special event for couples, single females, and select single guys. Enjoy 3 big playrooms, Hot Tub, Sauna, Sex Swing, Full Bar, Pole Dancing, and much more...
All Hallows Eve Soiree The Swan Mansion
Saturday, October 30, 2021
Dark. . . Sexy. . . and Sinfully delicious!
Join with other erotic explorers for a night of devilish indulgence. Chef Vincent is preparing the sacrificial lamb, the wine will flow, and the primal spirits will howl from deep within us all.
Reserve and pay in full by October 9th and save $50.
Visit www.swanmansion.life for membership information or contact your host.
SINZ 17th Annual Halloween at WICKED
Saturday, October 30, 2021
8 pm – 1 am
SINZ is going all out once again for New England’s largest Halloween event! Our Halloween parties are legendary with hundreds in attendance, and we expect this year to be our biggest ever! Pre-purchase of tickets is HIGHLY suggested. This party has sold out the past several years. Booking hotel rooms NOW is an absolute must if you even THINK you may stay the night.
Here are a few details of what is in store.... (lots more details in the works so check back periodically!) This year, SINZ is going BIG or going home and we aren’t going home so... We are taking over the ENTIRE building. We will be partying on ALL floors!
HALLOWEEN / Penthouse's Annual Monster Bang Ball
Saturday, October 30th, 2021
8 pm – 4 am
Penthouse Members-Only Dirty Hour (2 for 1 Cocktails) 8 pm – 9 pm
Doors closes at 1 am
Bar closes at 3 am
At Penthouse, we take Halloween VERY seriously! It's our favourite holiday, and we won't cut corners on making it an absolute freak-fest and night of deliciously dark debauchery.
So, sharpen your claws, dust off your cauldron, and mix up your love potions — it's the first-ever MONSTER BANG BALL at Penthouse Playrooms.
Join us for a creepy cocktail, and then see where the darkness leads you. Penthouse is perfect for people new to the alternative lifestyle, and being in costume takes the edge off.
Take a sultry wander through our dark maze of playrooms, lounges, and even a vintage velvet porn cinema. Feeling brave? Explore your kinky side and explore the dungeon's cages, St. Andrews Cross, swings, grope room, and more… don't get caught by the dungeon goblin.
Penthouse is pure luxury — imagine tough leathers, hot DJ tunes, rich velvets, secret viewing points, a gothic designer dungeon, and a Studio 54 hedonistic dance floor. This is a premium swinging and fetish experience and the place to be on Halloween!
Fright Night — Halloween at Le Boudoir
Saturday, 30th October 2021
We are excited to invite you back into a world of naughtiness and sexual exploration!
Make this Saturday night a date and join the liberated fun at Le Boudoir for our clothing-optional parties and meet sexy, open-minded professionals just like you.
Party, Connect & Play
With an intoxicating mix of great drinks, hot tunes, and hot bodies, lose yourself to wild abandon across 3 floors of stylish and playful surroundings.
Enjoy a cocktail and relax in our lounge as couples cast a flirtatious glance your way. Take a seat in the gallery and peruse all the action unfolding right below you.
Tip-toe down to the catacombs of this wonderful old building and immerse yourself in far more than 50 shades of kink. Play within our beautiful, vaulted ceiling dungeon playroom, with swings, spanking benches, St. Andrews Cross, glory holes, and more… Remember to bring your own paddles and floggers.
Climb the stairway to heaven and find our private playrooms, including our famous Headmasters Office, the Loft, and our open plan, group playroom.
Doors open 21.30 (close at 03.00) and Saturday nights are open to couples and single females only.
No matter if this is your hundredth party or your first, you’ll meet great people and live out your fantasies. Are you a nervous newbie? Don’t be. No one will bite… unless you ask them to!
Le Boudoir is a private members club which means no open door policy. There are NO MEMBERSHIP FEES to join, but existing and new members are required to register via our website.
More information about events, tickets & new applications are available at www.leboudoir.club.
Halloween Un-Dressed @ TopSecret Resort
Friday, October 29, 2021
Naked Halloween It’s All Hallows’ Eve, so it is officially Aahz Party and TopSecret Resorts’ Halloween UNDRESSED Party. Since all of you will be dressing up in your sexiest Halloween costume for tomorrow night’s Exotic Erotic Ball, we want to make tonight about being undressed. Think “less dressed” when you decide what to wear tonight. So go grab those pasties and garters, bras and panties, or just tape and paint… Less is best for tonight’s party.
Come hang out early for Happy Hour from 6–9 pm for our 2-4-1 drink specials!!!
Membership is required for entry * 21+ Only
For more information: 407-627-0126 or www.topsecretfl.com
The Vanilla Club Presents Halloween Party
Saturday, 23rd October 2021
9:30pm till 4:00am
Join us for our very special event for couples, single females, and select single guys. Enjoy 3 big playrooms, Hot Tub, Sauna, Sex Swing, Full Bar, Pole Dancing, and much more...
All Hallows Eve Soiree The Swan Mansion
Saturday, October 30, 2021
Dark. . . Sexy. . . and Sinfully delicious!
Join with other erotic explorers for a night of devilish indulgence. Chef Vincent is preparing the sacrificial lamb, the wine will flow, and the primal spirits will howl from deep within us all.
Reserve and pay in full by October 9th and save $50.
Visit www.swanmansion.life for membership information or contact your host.
SINZ 17th Annual Halloween at WICKED
Saturday, October 30, 2021
8 pm – 1 am
SINZ is going all out once again for New England’s largest Halloween event! Our Halloween parties are legendary with hundreds in attendance, and we expect this year to be our biggest ever! Pre-purchase of tickets is HIGHLY suggested. This party has sold out the past several years. Booking hotel rooms NOW is an absolute must if you even THINK you may stay the night.
Here are a few details of what is in store.... (lots more details in the works so check back periodically!) This year, SINZ is going BIG or going home and we aren’t going home so... We are taking over the ENTIRE building. We will be partying on ALL floors!
HALLOWEEN / Penthouse's Annual Monster Bang Ball
Saturday, October 30th, 2021
8 pm – 4 am
Penthouse Members-Only Dirty Hour (2 for 1 Cocktails) 8 pm – 9 pm
Doors closes at 1 am
Bar closes at 3 am
At Penthouse, we take Halloween VERY seriously! It's our favourite holiday, and we won't cut corners on making it an absolute freak-fest and night of deliciously dark debauchery.
So, sharpen your claws, dust off your cauldron, and mix up your love potions — it's the first-ever MONSTER BANG BALL at Penthouse Playrooms.
Join us for a creepy cocktail, and then see where the darkness leads you. Penthouse is perfect for people new to the alternative lifestyle, and being in costume takes the edge off.
Take a sultry wander through our dark maze of playrooms, lounges, and even a vintage velvet porn cinema. Feeling brave? Explore your kinky side and explore the dungeon's cages, St. Andrews Cross, swings, grope room, and more… don't get caught by the dungeon goblin.
Penthouse is pure luxury — imagine tough leathers, hot DJ tunes, rich velvets, secret viewing points, a gothic designer dungeon, and a Studio 54 hedonistic dance floor. This is a premium swinging and fetish experience and the place to be on Halloween!
Fright Night — Halloween at Le Boudoir
Saturday, 30th October 2021
We are excited to invite you back into a world of naughtiness and sexual exploration!
Make this Saturday night a date and join the liberated fun at Le Boudoir for our clothing-optional parties and meet sexy, open-minded professionals just like you.
Party, Connect & Play
With an intoxicating mix of great drinks, hot tunes, and hot bodies, lose yourself to wild abandon across 3 floors of stylish and playful surroundings.
Enjoy a cocktail and relax in our lounge as couples cast a flirtatious glance your way. Take a seat in the gallery and peruse all the action unfolding right below you.
Tip-toe down to the catacombs of this wonderful old building and immerse yourself in far more than 50 shades of kink. Play within our beautiful, vaulted ceiling dungeon playroom, with swings, spanking benches, St. Andrews Cross, glory holes, and more… Remember to bring your own paddles and floggers.
Climb the stairway to heaven and find our private playrooms, including our famous Headmasters Office, the Loft, and our open plan, group playroom.
Doors open 21.30 (close at 03.00) and Saturday nights are open to couples and single females only.
No matter if this is your hundredth party or your first, you’ll meet great people and live out your fantasies. Are you a nervous newbie? Don’t be. No one will bite… unless you ask them to!
Le Boudoir is a private members club which means no open door policy. There are NO MEMBERSHIP FEES to join, but existing and new members are required to register via our website.
More information about events, tickets & new applications are available at www.leboudoir.club.
Halloween Un-Dressed @ TopSecret Resort
Friday, October 29, 2021
Naked Halloween It’s All Hallows’ Eve, so it is officially Aahz Party and TopSecret Resorts’ Halloween UNDRESSED Party. Since all of you will be dressing up in your sexiest Halloween costume for tomorrow night’s Exotic Erotic Ball, we want to make tonight about being undressed. Think “less dressed” when you decide what to wear tonight. So go grab those pasties and garters, bras and panties, or just tape and paint… Less is best for tonight’s party.
Come hang out early for Happy Hour from 6–9 pm for our 2-4-1 drink specials!!!
Membership is required for entry * 21+ Only
For more information: 407-627-0126 or www.topsecretfl.com