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Improvements
- Member-Recorded Live Streams now show on our Video Page
- Our profile photo editor will now give you the option to blur parts of your picture, e.g., faces, as part of the Edit Photo features, which are also available in our SDC App this month
- Coming soon — new bottom menu for mobile devices
Hot Tips
Navigating Parties & Events: Our Parties & Events page, found in the main menu, is a great way to find out about private parties and commercial parties close to you AND all over the world. Once you arrive on the page, you will notice parties listed in a grid view by date and distance up to (in most cases) a 200-mile radius. Important information — such as the type of event, location, event organizer, party criteria, and how many people are on the guest list — is visible at a glance. Click on the party flyer to open the full page to see more detailed information and to add yourself or request an invite to the event that appeals to you. You can even click Remember to save your choices for later. At the top of the grid view, you will notice the option to post your own private party; this option is only available for paying members of SDC. Once you post your own party, it goes through an approval process and then shows up on the party page and on your profile. There is also the option for an incognito private party for those who prefer their party to be completely private. The calendar button, also located at the top of the page, gives you the option to view an entire month at a glance, showing the number of private parties in green and commercial parties in orange on each day of the week. Click the day, and it will pull up a list of events taking place; if there are many events, you will need to click on Show More to see the entire list. A cool thing about the calendar view is it allows you to go back to previous parties and find those that were on the guest list that you may have met in person. The Filter button offers many options to help you find what you’re looking for. For example, you can search for webinars only without having to scroll through hundreds of events. Commercial events also have sub-categories to help you find specific types of events, like Fetish parties. Use the Saved Events slider to find the parties that you wanted to Remember for later. You also have the option to extend your mile radius or just type in a completely different zip code, state, or country, and the calendar will take you there. Always remember to click the OK button after making your selection.
SDC Book Club
Welcome to the SDC Book Club, where we feature exciting books recommended by lifestyle-related Authors, Educators, and even SDC Members.
Contests
Congratulations to FITCOUPLE80 for winning the My Wildest Group Sex Experience Writing Contest! Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Bijoux Indiscrets, Swingers Paradise, & René Moon. Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests: New – Secret Erotic Fantasies – Writing Contest
Current – Make Me Scream – Video Contest
Voting Underway – Naughty School Girls & Boys – Photo Contest
SDC Shop
Have you discovered our online shop yet?
Check out all the Sexy toys and SDC merchandise. Shop now!
The SDC BNB: Growing Stronger
We’re thrilled to announce that about a year from the start, the SDC BNB service is growing faster than ever, and it’s all thanks to you — our amazing community of members and hosts!
As we continue to grow, we’re committed to keeping your wishes at the heart of everything we do.
For hosts, stay tuned for new features and opportunities headed your way to make your accommodations stand out even more! One of which is the recent addition of a direct BNB link to the side menu. This significantly increases visibility for this service and makes it much easier for all our members to find you!
Thank you for being part of this journey! If you own a BNB and would like to be included, write to SDCBNB on the site or email bnb@sdcmedia.com for more information.
Let Crete Steal Your Heart!
Prepare for the ultimate Cretan getaway! Next year’s all-inclusive event is all about celebrating the lifestyle in ways you’ve not yet imagined. Our Crete event is low-threshold, has something for everyone, and we’ll make sure you don’t miss anything.
When: May 1st – 7th, 2025
Whether you’re soaking up the island’s vibrant sights or love getting lost in the beauty of the hotties there with you, this event is the perfect chance to immerse yourselves in all things sexy!
We know the event has sold out, but it’s totally worth it to add yourselves to the guest list at this time. It’s still early, and cancellations can happen! Let’s create some amazing memories together!
Add yourselves to the guest list here.
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FEATURED BUSINESS
Bijoux Indiscrets
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We welcome Jay and Bella Mojas as new Contributors to SDC! These erotic authors are dedicated to promoting the lifestyle in an authentic and positive relationship alternative. Their exclusive articles on SDC also blend their personal and educational insights to help you learn more about hotwifing and the swinging lifestyle. Their "MORE" book series not only offers an unapologetic glimpse into the sensual pleasures of adventurous couples exploring the lifestyle in various styles of play but also challenges two societal norms around sexuality. Jay and Bella write and publish books that portray relatable "ordinary" couples who embark on extraordinary sexual adventures together. They hope these stories will not only be enjoyed but also be helpful and encouraging to anyone considering or already exploring their own CNM adventures. Learn more and read their exclusive articles on SDC here.
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PARTIES AROUND THE WORLD
SDC Halloween Party @ Miami Velvet
Miami, FL
Saturday, November 2nd, 2024 Doors Open at 10:00pm For the 24th year, Miami Velvet is transformed into the ultra-erotic ghoulish nightmare that is the Halloween Party. This year we are teaming up with SDC to take this party out of this world! COSTUME CONTEST PRIZES
1st Place: $1000
2nd Place: $500
3rd Place: $250
4th place SDC lifetime membership
5th place SDC lifetime membership
6th place SDC lifetime membership Please arrive EARLY to attend the Biggest Party in Miami Celebrate Halloween with SDC! We are offering a FREE ONE DAY Membership for Couples On The SDC Guest List All Night Tonight SDC.com Couples with screen names on the guest list are just $150 at the door!
SDC.com Single Females with screen names on the guest list are just $25 at the door!
www.miamivelvet.com
“Scare Your Pants Off” Halloween Party @ Xtasia
West Bromich, UK
Saturday, 2nd November, 2024 Screaming out to all you sexy witches, horny devils, vampires and werewolves - it's that time of year to blow away your cobwebs for a howling night of mischievous debauchery and depravity. The doors to Flirts bar will creek open early afternoon for a pre-event ghostly gathering and that's where you will find us early on.
The main event in the club will run from 8pm until 3pm. You will also find us huddled round Satan's pot to welcome you all until 10.30pm. Free complimentary glass of our special Halloween potion on arrival from the witches cauldron to satisfy your thirst. The club will be dressed as per theme. Whether you do is completely optional and there is no commitment to join in on the fancy dress, but we are offering a free Flirts Spa day of your choice for the most beastly costume on the night. And the club does have lockers to keep a change of outfits, once the fun starts.
Xtasia also has a licensed bar stacked with all the spirits and devils brew you will need along with a superb in-house DJ to spin thrilling tunes throughout the night bringing your dancing feet alive and to shake your booty to death. You MUST be a club member to attend this frighteningly good night. If you're not a member there is nothing to fear! It is easy to join online through Xtasia's website or bring along formal ID and join us on the night. There are plenty of local hotels to rest your bones until you fully recover or if you are quick on your feet there are hotel rooms within the Xtasia complex that are available.
For this event we are also doing a monster raffle for anyone on the guest list, who attends with a spook-tacular prize!! A full 12 months FREE ENTRY to Xtasia for EVERY EVENT on ANY NIGHT. We will draw this winning ticket at the stroke of midnight. Ladies £15
couples £30
After Halloween Party For Couples & Females
Las Vegas, NV
Saturday, November 2nd, 2024 Couples/Females Only Join Us Every Friday & Saturday Night At The PlayhouseLV Ultra Lounge We Host The Sexiest Most Exclusive Lifestyle Events in Las Vegas.
This is Where the Sexy Play. We require ALL first-time guests to be registered and vetted by our board of members on our website (PlayhouseLV.com). Everyone can apply but not all will be approved. Everyone must buy a ticket on our site to attend any event. Walk-ins will be turned away. Come Get Together With The Hottest Lifestyle Couples and Females In Las Vegas. All Our Guests Are Hand Picked, Just Like All Our Events!
SDC Eyes Wide Shut Super Party!
Marbella, Spain
Saturday 9th November, 2024 COUPLES & LADIES ONLY!
Showgirls & Live Entertainment! Dress Code: Dress to the theme (optional) or LESS to Impress, Provocative and/or elegant. FIXED MENU DINNER AVAILABLE FROM 21:00 PLEASE WHATSAPP (0034) 697 935 224 TO RESERVE Party from: 22:00
SDC Veterans Party @ Eden DFW
Euless, TX
Saturday, November 9, 2024
9pm - 4am RED HOT & BLUE
VETERANS DAY PARTY FEATURING
"The Enablers" Party Band The band will start playing @ 10:30 p.m. the garden of Eden stage,
Along with the DJ spinning the hottest dance beats. CONTEST:
Ladies Wet T-Shirt Contest
(Judged by the band)
1st place $FREE SATURDAY PASS Prize Men’s Wet Underwear Contest
(Judged by the women)
1st place $$FREE SATURDAY PASS Prize So wear your sexy military uniforms, camouflage or USA red, white and blue, to support our Troops SDC MEMBERS ON THE GUEST LIST RECEIVE $5 OFF THE DOOR COVER!
Hard Party @ Hollywood Club
Torino Piemonte, Italy
Saturday, 9th November, 2024 Saturday night is the TOP night of the libertine nightlife in Turin, dedicated to the most demanding clientele of Swingers Couples, Singles and Singles... It is an event that encompasses all the erotic nuances of the transgressive scene.
Therefore, give your ladies the opportunity to be able to express themselves.
This evening always enjoys a truly extraordinary participation of swingers on average 100 Couples and 30 Singles with an average age of around 35 years.
We therefore position ourselves as the favorite hangout of the most beautiful, selective and youthful swingers' Movida in Turin. We always offer a rich aphrodisiac buffet throughout the evening, intriguing animated parties with varying themes, and our exhilarating group of professional artist(s) with ever-changing choreographies depending on the event will cheer and entertain you throughout the events. Our state-of-the-art nightclub, from the most captivating light shows, fireworks displays along with our Resident DJs and Vocalists will be dedicated to your dancing entertainment until dawn with 360° music
Intriguing private rooms and private suites for your libertine encounters! Finally, our beautiful Spa & Wellness Area is the panacea for a Saturday night of relaxation and intrigue. ( SPA & WELLNESS summer closure June-July-August) The Hollywood in Turin is the most important reference point in Piemonte for all those who seek libertine moments, Eroticism, Swinging, Naturism, Exhibitionism and Erotic Transgressions with strong emotions.
SDC Sexy Fetish Night!
Pompano Beach, FL
Friday, November 15th, 2024 Doors Open at 9:00 pm Unleash your inhibitions at our SDC Sexy Fetish Night! SDC.com Couples with screen names on the guest list are $80 online or $100 at the door!
Single Men online $120 or $150 at the door SDC.com Single Females with screen names on the guest list are $20. Strict Dress Code Enforced
BYOB Private Club Join the Velvet FTL SDC Community for more information about upcoming Velvet FTL events and specials!