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SDC Feature Update
NEW Lifetime Member Gold Star! We have recently enhanced our Lifetime Membership status with a Gold Star symbol. Lifetime Members will benefit from increased visibility, including the online page, top priority placement on private and public party guest lists, and search by Lifetime Member has been added to our member search page. We hope you enjoy our latest update.
Interesting Groups to Join!
There are close to 2500 interest groups within the SDC site, and we have highlighted a few below to show the diversity of our groups. If you are interested in finding out more, go to the Groups page and use the filter button to find what you are looking for. Dirty Martini
Syn Chicago
Swinger Sailing
Exotic Cars
BDSM Lovers
SDC Contests
Congratulations to FOXYANDRHINO for winning the Nudist Adventures Writing Contest and to SEXXXY69 for winning the Short Skirts no Undies Photo Contest! Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resort & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Erotic Depot & Bijoux Indiscrets. Click the links below to access, enter, or vote for the latest contests: New - Frightfully Sexy Photo Contest!
New - Kinkiest Halloween Sex Party Writing Contest!
Voting Underway - Assume the Position Video Contest!
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You’re Invited to ASN Awards & After-Party on SDC
The ASN Awards show will be broadcast LIVE on SDC on Sunday, November 6th at 8 PM ET! So, if you haven’t RSVPed yet, you can still join the guestlist for our LIVE Virtual Watch Party on SDC.com and find out which of your favorite lifestylers will take home the trophies! Right after the awards show, join the exclusive awards after-party in our SDC chatroom, where you can stream live and share pics with other members, award winners, and nominees. Add yourself to the Watch Party guest list here.
PARTNER CONTENT
Naughty November Starts Now!
This month just got even sexier with exclusive deals for our SDC members, brought to you by our amazing partners!
Keep an eye out for decadent deals from:
Kandi Events - $350 discount - coupon SDCErotic
Erotic Depot - 25% discount - coupon SDC
MysteryVibe - 25 - 30% discount - on select collections this month Sea Mountain Nude Lifestyle Resort & Spa - $20 off booking California location
Voyeur X - 50% discount - Nov 11th - Nov 25th
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WTF To Do When Swinging Goes Wrong
**This LIVE webinar is FREE exclusively for SDC members!**
Nearly EVERYONE in the swinging lifestyle has an experience that did not go quite as they hoped or expected… and that’s okay! It doesn't *necessarily* mean the end of your relationship or require halting your open lifestyle adventures.
Join Lexi Sylver, sex, relationship, and swinging coach, for the final webinar of Season 3 of her Swinging 101 webinar series.
In this webinar, we’ll explore:
- Most common swinger mishaps
- Dealing with jealousy and other feelings that arise
- How to handle a scenario that goes awry in the moment
- What to do if your boundaries have been broken or pushed too far for comfort
- What to do in the aftermath of a bad experience
Lexi will answer all your questions at the end during the Q&A segment. If you miss the webinar or want a refresher, registered guests will also get access to the video replay.
These events are FREE exclusively for SDC members. Limited space is available, so reserve your free tickets today!
Sierra Nevada, Spain: An Unforgettable Experience!
It’s coming closer — a full-on lifestyle vacation on the spectacular mountains of beautiful Sierra Nevada, in the most southerly mountain range of Europe. This resort town has everything you could ever wish for, offering a smorgasbord of cozy restaurants, bars, shops, and terraces. Whether you love to ski, snowboard, hike, or perhaps even none of that at all, this is the place to be from January 15 – 20, 2023!
This unique event offers a lot of something for everyone. Our party event delivers you the naughty edge off the slopes. Daily après-ski, evening themed parties, wonderful playroom, international DJs, an erotic cinema, FREE PlayShops to hone your sexy skills, and so many hot couples there with you… it will be impossible to feel the winter cold at any time! Sierra Nevada is known to have the sunniest days in Europe, so getting a tan in the snow is a well-known and much-beloved activity here as well!
Don’t feel like a day in the snow? No problem at all, as we offer a daily program of sexy activities to enjoy, and not only that, the gorgeous surrounding Andalusia areas are perfect for sightseeing, including the world-famous Alhambra!
Join us for a wonderful time at this winter wonderland event!
Don’t miss it — book today!
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SwingerClass, led by Sue McGarvie and Dr. Will Philip, is a company which provides online education, certification and coaching support for couples and singles who are new to the lifestyle or those who want to improve their game.
Their coaches, educators, and researchers come from many backgrounds and interests and can help you safely and confidently navigate this amazing world.
Check out their videos and articles here on SDC!
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How to Talk to Your Wife About Your Cuckolding Fantasies
Venus Cuckoldress shares her tips on how cuckolding hopefuls can better navigate conversations about making their fantasy a reality.
By Venus Cuckoldress for ASN Lifestyle Magazine
Sharing your sexual fantasies with your partner can be a scary thing to do, especially if those fantasies involve “outside of the norm” kinds of themes. For a lot of people, the fear of being harshly judged or rejected by their partner is enough to keep those fantasies buried deep in the closet. Cuckolding is no different. I’ve heard many stories over the years of men who got the courage to tell their wives about their cuckolding fantasies and it didn’t go well. This is what has inspired me to share my tips on how to approach her in a way that will hopefully make things go well....READ MORE.
PARTIES AROUND THE WORLD
Leather and Lace Party at The Loft NYC
Saturday, December 19th, 2022
Brooklyn, NY 9pm - 4am The party you have been looking forward to.
Leave your inhibition at home and let your wild self explore.
The Libertine Sunday Lunch Party
4th December, 2022
London, UK 12.30pm to 8pm Designed to be exclusive yet friendly and non-ostentatious, this daytime version of Dinner & Decadence Party runs along the same lines as all our previous D & D parties but is held in the afternoon running into the early evening. The Libertine Lunch Party is personally hosted by Colin and his partner Clare with the help of a naked butler and guest masseurs. Guest numbers are limited to around 30 as we only accept a maximum of ten mixed-gender or same-gender couples and ten singles (five female & five male). The Libertine Lunch party is an event open to all sexualities. The term couple means you attend with a member of the opposite or same gender that you are happy to explore with – this could be a life partner, a friend with benefits or anything in between.
New Year's Eve Gala @ TheSwanMansion
December 30th - Jan 1st, 2022
Baytown, TX As Father Time ushers out the old we will let Mother Wine seduce us towards the new. The elegance of black tuxedos and formal gowns will charm and delight as we anticipate that explosive moment. Together we will explore the new and uncharted worlds of erotic pleasures as we ring in a new year together.
Fetish Factory SPECIAL NYE FETISH BALL @ The New SOLID GOLD
When: Saturday December 31st, 2022 - 9pm - 3am Where: Solid Gold Pompano, FL Tickets:
Store $40
Online $45D
oor $60 Bottle Service
Fetish Dinner Option
Performers
New Years Eve Rock the Boat Party at Caliente Resort
Saturday, December 31, 2022
8pm Land O Lakes, FL The time has come to say goodbye to 2022! We think you should do it the best way possible, and Rock the Boat with your sexiest friends at Caliente! This is one party you don’t want to miss. Doors open at 7 PM, with dinner served from 7-10 PM. The night will ROCK with TL Jentgens AND NoFilter taking the stage at 8 PM. Champagne toast for everyone at midnight. Dress to impress and let's say SEE YA to 2022! Tickets available HERE Contact us for Day and Evening Passes or to Book a Room Overnight
Caliente Club & Resorts
21240 Gran Via Blvd
Land O Lakes FL 34637
813-996-3700 x0 Caliente is a full resort that is clothing-optional and lifestyle friendly. YOU can be YOU here. And you don’t need a passport, or clothes! Dress up or dress down, either way just have fun!
NYE Roaring 20's Couples & Females Event
Saturday, December 31, 2022
Las Vegas, NV Join Us For Our Roaring 20s NYE Theme Costume Event Weekend Tickets go on sale Dec 1st Couples/Females Only Join us at PlayhouseLV Ultra Lounge!
We Host The Sexiest Most Exclusive Lifestyle Events in Las Vegas. This is Where the Sexy Play. We require ALL first-time guests to be registered and vetted by our board of members on our website (PlayhouseLV.com ). Everyone can apply but not all will be approved. Everyone must buy a ticket on our site to attend any event. Walk-ins will be turned away. Come Get Together With The Hottest Lifestyle Couples and Females In Las Vegas. All Our Guests Are Hand Picked, Just Like All Our Events!
Come Dressed in Your Best Roaring 20's Outfits. The Whole Venue Will Be Decorated Up So You Should Be Too!
EUPHORIA 3-Day Vegas Summer event
Las Vegas, NV Join us Thursday AUGUST 31st - Sunday SEPTEMBER 3rd, 2023 EUPHORIA LAS VEGAS! 3 Day Summer Event!
Adult Pool Parties - Sexy Club Parties & FREE Multiple After Parties.
Come join the hotties from around the globe for this destination event!
An authentic Vegas VIP experience for couples and Singles Dance, Flirt & Play
(Each night's Dance Party will be followed by a free sexy After Party) www.PurrfectLV.com