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  • Messenger icon including counter is now located on the header menu.
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  • Webinar Live icon! Never miss an educational Live Stream Event again.

Webinar LIVE

Introducing our brand new "Webinar Live" icon that is visible at the top of the screen when there is a FREE educational webinar taking place in the SDC Live Stream.

The icon will show at the start of the SDC Live Stream and disappear again once it is over.  Just click on it and you will be directed straight to a valuable, complimentary webinar hosted by one of our SDC Contributors.  By entering the Live Stream event you are able to either sit back and take it all in or participate by typing your questions in the messenger box.  Don’t worry you can’t be seen or heard during these Live Stream events.

To find out about upcoming webinars go to the Parties & Events tab on the menu and select Webinars in the Filter menu.


SDC Contests

Congatulations to CE1986 for winning the My First Lifestyle Club Experience Writing Contest. And to SGACOUPLE21 for winning the Ladies On Top Video Contest!

Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Bijoux Indiscrets, & René Moon.

Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests:

New – Funniest Sex Blooper – Writing Contest
New  – Oil & Lube Me Up – Video Contest
Voting Underway – My Bedtime Story – Photo Contest

SDC Shop

June: It's almost summer!

Holidays, festivals and you are probably even more in the mood for sexy parties. 

SDC has a suitable offer for all this in the webshop. Check it out here!

Crete 2025: A hot event with hotties!

From 1 - 7 May 2025 we once again flock to the island of Crete in Greece! Join us as we delve into the heart of sensuality and immerse you in all things sexy! Expect thrilling night time parties, mouthwatering cuisine, and hot encounters with felow lifestylers who share your passions. Mark your calendars and prepare to embark on the ultimate experience. Don't miss out on this opportunity to fuel your sense of adventure and expand your horizons. Let's make memories together and celebrate the beauty of the Lifestyle! See you there! Book Now!


Ready to elevate your Sexy Getaways?

Escape the ordinary and elevate your travel experience with our listings of top BNB rentals for getaways!

SDC BNBs provide a welcoming retreat. Whether it's a charming cottage, a stylish apartment, or a spacious villa, you'll be sure to find that intimate space that suits your unique taste. This is where you can immerse yourself in the local vibe by choosing rentals close to where you need to be for a party, businesses, vacation, or just to relax away from daily stresses.

Experience SDC BNBs hidden gems and enjoy a more intimate connection with your partner(s). Check our listings now!

PARTNER CONTENT

The Evolution of Miami Velvet: From Club to Lifestyle Empire

Miami Velvet is Florida’s largest private swinger lifestyle nightclub and a premier destination for sexy couples and singles.

Patrons can enjoy the electrifyingly erotic atmosphere and freely express themselves in their sexiest attire, all within the classy and stylish party experience that Miami is known for.

With various awards to their name, including Best Intro to Swinging by Playboy Magazine, and their international acclaim, Miami Velvet is setting the standard for lifestyle clubs. And now, with their new renovation plan, they’re bringing the club to the next level.

Our Media Director Lexi Sylver had an exclusive interview with Justin Gottlieb, the fresh face spearheading this transformative new era of Miami Velvet, and got some insider knowledge of the exciting changes ahead for their members.

Read the exclusive interview here — only on SDC!

PARTNER CONTENT

FREE WEBINARS: Lexi Sylver’s Swinging 101 Series

Swinging 101 host Lexi Sylver is an internationally accredited open lifestyle and relationship coach and educator, as well as the Media Director for SDC.com. She blends her knowledge about the open lifestyle with her own personal experiences to give you the advice and info you need for smooth, sexy swinging!

As an SDC member, you get FREE access to all of Lexi’s Swinging 101 events

Check out this lineup of juicy Swinging 101 webinars:

How to Deal with Jealousy
May 8 @ 8 PM EDT 

WTF to Do When Swinging Goes Wrong
May 22 @ 8 PM EDT 

Swinger Icebreakers
June 5 @ 8 PM EDT 

Newbies in the Open Lifestyle
June 26 @ 8 PM EDT

***Only those who register for their free tickets on Lexi’s site can access the live webinar with Q&A, and the video replay.***

Reserve your FREE tickets for any or all of Lexi’s events here!

FEATURED BUSINESS

i.Candy Clothing Co

i.Candy Clothing Co. Lifestyle Apparel Made in Candyland!

i.Candy Clothing Co., is an apparel brand created for the discreet Lifestyler. All of our apparel is branded with our signature skull/pineapple emblem. Those who know… know. Those who don’t will want to know! 

We have both Men’s and Women’s fashions including hats, bathing suits, tees, panties, pasties and more! We are always updating our styles and inventory and you are almost guaranteed to see someone wearing i.Candy at your favorite lifestyle event or even at the mall!

We put the “style” in Lifestyle. Check out our website and purchase your i.Candy today! Wear it like you own it…

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FEATURED EXPERT

Jayson Lee: That Other Lifestyle

Let’s all give a warm welcome to one of the newest contributors to SDC Media: Jayson Lee, the host and producer of the show “That Other Lifestyle!”

Each episode explores the good, the bad, and the weird aspects of the Lifestyle. He delves into the history, what, why, and how of swinging to help you in your journey, covering topics for the vanilla world, newbies, and all couples in the Lifestyle.

Jayson’s That Other Lifestyle group on SDC is inclusive of everyone who participates in lifestyle, regardless of gender identity, gender expression, or play type. They respect everyone's need for discretion in this lifestyle and aim to provide a safe and accepting environment for everyone.

Listen to Jayson’s That Other Lifestyle podcast here on SDC!