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- Dark & Light Mode available for SDC Messenger.
- Webinar Live icon! Never miss an educational Live Stream Event again.
Webinar LIVE
Introducing our brand new "Webinar Live" icon that is visible at the top of the screen when there is a FREE educational webinar taking place in the SDC Live Stream. The icon will show at the start of the SDC Live Stream and disappear again once it is over. Just click on it and you will be directed straight to a valuable, complimentary webinar hosted by one of our SDC Contributors. By entering the Live Stream event you are able to either sit back and take it all in or participate by typing your questions in the messenger box. Don’t worry you can’t be seen or heard during these Live Stream events. To find out about upcoming webinars go to the Parties & Events tab on the menu and select Webinars in the Filter menu.
SDC Contests
Congatulations to CE1986 for winning the My First Lifestyle Club Experience Writing Contest. And to SGACOUPLE21 for winning the Ladies On Top Video Contest! Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Bijoux Indiscrets, & René Moon. Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests: New – Funniest Sex Blooper – Writing Contest
New – Oil & Lube Me Up – Video Contest
Voting Underway – My Bedtime Story – Photo Contest
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June: It's almost summer! Holidays, festivals and you are probably even more in the mood for sexy parties.
Crete 2025: A hot event with hotties!
From 1 - 7 May 2025 we once again flock to the island of Crete in Greece!
Join us as we delve into the heart of sensuality and immerse you in all things sexy! Expect thrilling night time parties, mouthwatering cuisine, and hot encounters with felow lifestylers who share your passions.
Mark your calendars and prepare to embark on the ultimate experience.
Don't miss out on this opportunity to fuel your sense of adventure and expand your horizons. Let's make memories together and celebrate the beauty of the Lifestyle!
See you there! Book Now!
Ready to elevate your Sexy Getaways?
SDC BNBs provide a welcoming retreat. Whether it's a charming cottage, a stylish apartment, or a spacious villa, you'll be sure to find that intimate space that suits your unique taste. This is where you can immerse yourself in the local vibe by choosing rentals close to where you need to be for a party, businesses, vacation, or just to relax away from daily stresses.
Experience SDC BNBs hidden gems and enjoy a more intimate connection with your partner(s). Check our listings now!
PARTNER CONTENT
The Evolution of Miami Velvet: From Club to Lifestyle Empire
Patrons can enjoy the electrifyingly erotic atmosphere and freely express themselves in their sexiest attire, all within the classy and stylish party experience that Miami is known for.
With various awards to their name, including Best Intro to Swinging by Playboy Magazine, and their international acclaim, Miami Velvet is setting the standard for lifestyle clubs. And now, with their new renovation plan, they’re bringing the club to the next level.
Our Media Director Lexi Sylver had an exclusive interview with Justin Gottlieb, the fresh face spearheading this transformative new era of Miami Velvet, and got some insider knowledge of the exciting changes ahead for their members.
Read the exclusive interview here — only on SDC!
PARTNER CONTENT
FREE WEBINARS: Lexi Sylver’s Swinging 101 Series
Swinging 101 host Lexi Sylver is an internationally accredited open lifestyle and relationship coach and educator, as well as the Media Director for SDC.com. She blends her knowledge about the open lifestyle with her own personal experiences to give you the advice and info you need for smooth, sexy swinging! As an SDC member, you get FREE access to all of Lexi’s Swinging 101 events! Check out this lineup of juicy Swinging 101 webinars: How to Deal with Jealousy WTF to Do When Swinging Goes Wrong Swinger Icebreakers Newbies in the Open Lifestyle Reserve your FREE tickets for any or all of Lexi’s events here!
May 8 @ 8 PM EDT
May 22 @ 8 PM EDT
June 5 @ 8 PM EDT
June 26 @ 8 PM EDT
***Only those who register for their free tickets on Lexi’s site can access the live webinar with Q&A, and the video replay.***
FEATURED BUSINESS
i.Candy Clothing Co
i.Candy Clothing Co. Lifestyle Apparel Made in Candyland! i.Candy Clothing Co., is an apparel brand created for the discreet Lifestyler. All of our apparel is branded with our signature skull/pineapple emblem. Those who know… know. Those who don’t will want to know! We have both Men’s and Women’s fashions including hats, bathing suits, tees, panties, pasties and more! We are always updating our styles and inventory and you are almost guaranteed to see someone wearing i.Candy at your favorite lifestyle event or even at the mall!
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FEATURED EXPERT
Jayson Lee: That Other Lifestyle
Let’s all give a warm welcome to one of the newest contributors to SDC Media: Jayson Lee, the host and producer of the show “That Other Lifestyle!” Each episode explores the good, the bad, and the weird aspects of the Lifestyle. He delves into the history, what, why, and how of swinging to help you in your journey, covering topics for the vanilla world, newbies, and all couples in the Lifestyle. Jayson’s That Other Lifestyle group on SDC is inclusive of everyone who participates in lifestyle, regardless of gender identity, gender expression, or play type. They respect everyone's need for discretion in this lifestyle and aim to provide a safe and accepting environment for everyone. Listen to Jayson’s That Other Lifestyle podcast here on SDC!
POPULAR
Unicorn Hunting: 5 Common Mistakes and How to Avoid Them
By Lexi Sylver for ASN Lifestyle Magazine
Ah, the elusive unicorn!
Within the realm of ethical non-monogamy, unicorns are the rarest and most sought-after species.
Let me get you up to speed with the lingo I’ll be using throughout this article ...READ MORE
PARTIES AROUND THE WORLD
SDC Pastease Party
Miami, FL
Saturday, MAY 4th Doors Open at 10:00pm Join SDC & Miami Velvet as we celebrate a night just for COUPLES AND SINGLE LADIES! Thank
We are offering a FREE ONE DAY Membership for Couples On The SDC Guest List All Night Tonight
SDC.com Couples with screen names on the guest list are just $125 at the door!
MUST BE DRESSED IN THEME TO RECEIVE FREE MEMBERSHIP AND $15 DISCOUNT AT THE DOOR. Strict Dress Code Enforced
BYOB Private Club
Single Gents Welcome Except Saturdays
S*X POSITIVE PARTY, BIG EDITION
Amsterdam, Holland
Saturday, May 11th S*x positive party! Strict Dress Code: Kinky Fetish Attire. New venue - we never did events there before
4 large rooms - 1 exclusively for couples and ladies, 2 common play areas, dance floor Music - from house to techno Approximate location - Westerpark in Amsterdam exact location announced 48h before the event only to the ticket holders Open to All: Everyone is invited! Regardless of your gender or orientation, this is a space for all who share our respect for s*xual positivity. Average age of visitors 28 years old Shows and Artists: Prepare for exciting performances that will lift your spirits and broaden your entertainment horizons. Unexpected Surprises: It’s not just a party it’s an adventure into a world of pleasure and self-discovery. Minimum of 8+ international shows, performances and sensual practices included! Be ready for surprises and fun!
Pineapple Bash - All Day Party at Caliente Resort
Land O’Lakes, FL
Saturday, May 11
8pm May is upon us. To get us ready for Memorial Day weekend, we are practicing early! Join us for our all day party - Pineapple Bash! Play all day, party all night with special poolside guests Sugar Vibe! Then DJ Ian takes over in the Nightclub. Mark this on your calendar...Saturday, May 11...ALL DAY! Contact us for Day and Evening Passes or to Book a Room Overnight
Caliente Club & Resorts
21240 Gran Via Blvd
Land O Lakes FL 34637
813-996-3700 x0
www.CalienteResorts.com Caliente is a full resort that is clothing-optional and lifestyle friendly. YOU can be YOU here. And you don’t need a passport, or clothes! Dress up or dress down, either way just have fun!
Euphoria SDC Party
Milan, Italy
Saturday, May 18th *EUPHORIA the Unique... International... Without Limits
The evening will start with a buffet dinner and our best artists will entertain you with the dinner show from 8.30 pm to 10.30 pm and then continue the night with a lot of good music, fun and transgression Recommended dress code:
for her elegant/sexy
for him elegant/casual The club reserves the right of selection at the entrance
Possibility of hotel agreements with the Club For info
whatsapp: 3482983271
www.infinitoclubmilano.com We are waiting for you!!!!!
Memorial Day Weekend Bash @ Oasis Estate Resort
Baytown, TX
Friday - Sunday, May 24 - 26, 2024 The Oasis Estate Resort & Spa (formerly The Swan Mansion) hosts its annual Memorial Day Weekend Bash, and this year is going to be the hottest yet. Last year was sold out early so grab your reservation today. Book a poolside cabana and ELEVATE - INDULGE - EXPERIENCE the hottest resort in the U.S. with our open bar, poolside party, and the best members to be found. Spa services sell out fast, and we will have poolside massages as an added bonus.
www.OasiseStateResort.com
SDC Blackout Saturday @ TABU
Catonsville, MD
Saturday, May 25th Open 9pm - 3am, all alcohol must be out by 2am Home of the one and ONLY Original Blackout Party! Official SDC Event...want a discount at the door? RSVP Here and let them know at the door when you arrive. We provide all the Glow Sticks and Necklaces, you provide the FUN. We turn the lights out at Midnight and relax normal upstairs play restrictions for some really HOT Times.
Blackout party package fees are in place at the door.
Roma Libertina
Milano, Italy
Saturday, June 1st WELCOME
We are excited to make the dream of hosting a Libertine Queen party in the center of Rome come true. "Roma Libertina" promises to be an unforgettable experience, where elegance meets desire in a timeless setting, celebrating the unique charm of the Capital in a night of unforgettable transgression and pleasure. THE EVENT
The Libertine Queen staff is ready to guide you in an event that stands out for its unique charm and enveloping atmosphere in a night of enchanting seduction in the heart of Rome. "The Rite" at midnight represents the moment in which you will completely immerse yourself in the atmosphere of "Roma Libertina", where fantasy and seduction reign undisputedly. GOLD PASS
A limited number of guests will have the opportunity to access the Gold Pass, our exclusive Pre Party. The latter will take place on a splendid terrace and you will have the privilege of being able to meet the other participating couples in advance. With the Gold Pass you can enjoy freshly prepared delicacies and Champagne.
This Premium experience is offered at a cost of €50 per person. What does it include? Early entry compared to other guests. From 8.30pm instead of 10pm
Possibility to socialize more calmly and earlier than others
Dedicated food and buffet
Champagne DRESS CODE
Clothing appropriate to the elegance of the evening is expressly required:
Ladies: in elegant dress, color of your choice.
Gentlemen: in an elegant total black suit, including a black shirt. Tie and bow tie are not obligatory. Elegant shoes can be of any color.