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Join in Our LIVE Events with Lifestyle Experts
Watch and listen in on our lively discussions with your favorite lifestyle influencers and educators! May 4th at 7 PM CST
Ask us questions about the swinging lifestyle, hotwifing, open relationships, sexuality, and much more.
Here are some upcoming streams to look out for:
Monthly Q&A on SDC’s Live Streams with Dr. Stephanie, ABD, of Evolve Your Intimacy
Social Media Takeover on SDC’s Instagram with Mizzy Bender
Plus, we’d like to welcome Marco and Ranee of MIAMISWINGS to our SDC Live Streams! This sexy hotwifing and swinging couple are video podcasters and educators, and they just love to share real-life experiences and give you their fresh insights on the lifestyle.
Are you an influencer in the lifestyle who’s interested in collaborating with us to entertain and educate our SDC community? Connect with SDCMEDIA here.
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Good sex involves more than great toys and a willing person. It involves authentic, safe, and vulnerable communication from a place of knowing, relinquishing insecurities, and being free enough to be yourself at the core.
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Secrets, Lies, and Dirty Games: An Erotic Short Story
What happens when two conniving and devious PR pros go head-to-head when they vie for the same client?
The stakes are high at Casino Night, a glamorous fundraising event for celebrity A-listers. While she’s busy making sure her clients are on their best behavior, Charlie’s vying to score a hot new one: a notorious pop star with a scandalous lifestyle and juicy secrets to hide.
And the only person standing in Charlie’s way is her arch-nemesis and competitor, Braxton.
Will Charlie be able to sign the pop star to her own roster, or will she be too distracted by Braxton’s smooth-talking, charming seduction to seal the deal?
Read the provocative power struggle in Secrets, Lies, and Dirty Games, Lexi Sylver's new erotic short story, coming May 31st, 2023.
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Lauren Hayes: Swinging Lifestyle Coach
Our SDC Media team would like to welcome Lauren Hayes, Swinging Lifestyle Coach, to our amazing group of educators.
About Lauren:
One day, my husband turned to me and said, “I think there is something more.” Neither one of us knew what he meant by this, exactly (I was particularly confused and upset), but through lots of conversations, online research, books, and articles, we found it. We are so glad we did. We have been enjoying the lifestyle and have considered ourselves “monogamish” for over four years. We had all of the same questions and concerns in the beginning that most people have. It seemed exciting but also complicated, and it was scary because there were so many unknowns. Mostly, we didn’t want to mess up what we already had, which we both felt was a great marriage.
I’m here to make the unknowns known. To make the complicated less so. To guide you through the options and to keep what’s most important in focus — the two of you. Here's the thing: I have done the work. I have been married to my husband for 18 years, over four years of it in the lifestyle, working through the fears, the "I'm not enough." The payoffs are connection, amazing sexual experiences, mind-blowing fun, and a relationship with your partner that you didn't know was possible. Even though you already thought it was great, and it was.
Read Lauren’s articles here on SDC.com.
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Complete Guide to Hotwifing and Hotwife Relationships
What is hotwifing? What’s it like to be a hotwife? Discover how to be a hotwife, what hotwifing is really all about, and more about this growing trend in sex and relationships.
Whether you’re new to the open-minded lifestyle or an experienced swinger or kinkster, chances are you’ve heard the terms “hotwifing” and “hotwife” before — even if the first place you heard the term was when you were watching porn. ...READ MORE.PARTIES AROUND THE WORLD
Chardmore Society Play Party
London, UK Thursday, 18th May This is a kinky play party, for good humoured people of all persuasions. Our venue is a large and pleasant house in South London. It's a friendly little affair — expect up to around twenty people. There’s a lounge area for socialising, a dungeon (with a cage, cross and whipping bench) and several bedrooms you can use if you get really friendly… There is no compulsory dress code — you can wear what you like. A few guys cross dress, fetish is very welcome and quite a few people coming directly from work wear ordinary clothes. (Always arrive in street clothes, though, so as not to alarm the neighbours! You can change and shower at the venue.) You can play all you like — but our parties are relaxed, there is no pressure and newcomers are very welcome. All ages are welcome too — just be nice people! We don’t sell alcohol, so please bring your own booze. Our venue is in Sutton, South London, near the station. Trains to Sutton are really easy and only 30 mins from Victoria - make sure you get the faster train. Parking nearby is easy and free. (The full address is emailed to all ticket holders.)
The party is from 6pm to 10pm. Please note that cameras and drugs of any kind are NOT allowed at our partiesTick
ets are £50 m/f couple, £30 single woman, £30 t-girl, NB, gender fluid, £60 single man
(+ booking fee) Book here
FlirtsLV Lingerie & Ties Party Couples & Single Females
Las Vegas, NV Saturday, May 20th FlirtsLV Welcomes You to Upscale Private Night Parties with Class & Sophistication. We encourage you to dress to impress and bring your upbeat attitude to mix, mingle and indulge with other like-minded individuals.
All guests must make a reservation to attend through our website. ( www.FlirtsLV.com )
NO Walk-Ins will be allowed.
Please choose your parking option as NO on Street Parking is Permitted.
Doors open at 10 pm, but you must arrive no later than midnight. NO EXCEPTIONS Max Capacity for our party is 100 guests. We will run out of Parking so please make your reservations in advance. Reservations stop when the party guest list is full or at 9 pm. NO Reservations AFTER 9 pm.
Eyes Wide Shut by Libertine Queen
Viterbo (near Rome), Italy Saturday, May 20th Entrance 9:30 pm - 11:00 pm
Limited number: for couples and a limited number of single men and women
Participation fee: €450 per couple and for singles, free for single women
Dinner: for a limited number of couples, information in the description
Accommodation in the structure: information in the description
Fidelio Package: Hotel 4 stars + transport service with NCC
Dress code: black cloak, mask, elegant suit for him, and sexy lingerie for her.
To register, contact us by message on SDC. “The sex is the portal to another world" - Eyes Wide Shut WELCOME
Libertine Queen is pleased to present its first Eyes Wide Shut event.
The party will be held in Viterbo on Saturday, May 20th, in a location straight out of a movie, perfect for hosting a sensual and intriguing event like the one we have in store for you. It will be an evening dedicated to passion and transgression, where you can unleash your deepest fantasies and be transported into a universe of limitless pleasure. The obligation to wear a black cloak and mask will add a touch of mystery and charm to the event. Women under the cloak must strictly wear lingerie. At midnight, the ritual inspired by the famous movie will mark the beginning of the evening where sex will be the portal to another world. Let yourself be seduced by the allure of the unknown, experiencing a unique couples' swapping experience. The entrance is from 9:30 pm to 11:00 pm, after which the evening will continue behind closed doors.
en.libertinequeen.com/eyeswideshut
Memorial Day Weekend LUAU
Baytown, TX Friday, May 26th - Sunday, May 29th Spring has sprung, and Summer has begun. . . Let's get wet. The mansion's award winning pool will be filled and surrounded by beautiful bodies and the air sweet with smells of summertime thrills. This casual weekend is a must for sun worshipers.
Fun in the Sun Pool Party & Ride the Tide: Swingers Break Takeover
Kissimmee, FL Friday, May 26th
10am-5pm
Secrets Hideaway™ Presents: “Fun in the Sun Pool Party: Swinger Break Takeover” Join us at Secrets Hideaway™ and kick off Memorial Weekend at Orlando’s hottest clothing-optional pool party! Why should kids have all the summer-break fun? We deserve to play too, so starting at 10am Secrets is ready with cold drinks at our two tiki bars, yummy menu items, and a professional DJ to play all your favorite songs. Pool-side games, and plenty of naughty fun ensure that this is one wild weekend event you don’t want to miss! It’s time for fun in the sun with all your Secrets friends as we take on Swinger Break®! Make sure you take the time on Friday and Saturday nights to visit Club Swinkster, Secrets premiere kinky ultra-lounge and dungeon allows you to experience some of your darkest desires in an environment that is inviting and yet… Let Sir Tank and Goddess Ellez from Carnivale Risque take you on a journey of delicious debauchery, and tasteful taboos followed by an exclusive EXTENDED HOURS PARTY every Saturday night for the select few that Sir Tank and Goddess Ellez deems worthy. Extended Hours passes MUST be purchased at the Front Desk ONLY!! Room check in is after 3pm. Check out is 11 am sharp. Reserve your poolside cabana, and it's all yours for 8 hours of fun and relaxation (9am to 5pm OR 7pm to 3am)!! Secrets Hideaway™ Presents:
“Ride The Tide: Swingers Break Takeover” This Friday night we are bringing the beach to Secrets as we invite all the beach bunnies and surfer dudes to join us for a summer trip like no other! Surf’s up and the perfect wave has graced our lush shores, so drop-in and ride a break over to Secrets Hideaway™ for the biggest swell yet! The sexiest wahines are coming out to celebrate Swingers Break as our professional DJ and light-show keeps the party going all night long. With two bars, bottle service & intimate VIP areas available by reservation, your night at Secrets is just getting started. Make sure you take the time on Friday and Saturday nights to visit Club Swinkster, Secrets premiere kinky ultra-lounge and dungeon allows you to experience some of your darkest desires in an environment that is inviting and yet… Let Sir Tank and Goddess Ellez from Carnivale Risque take you on a journey of delicious debauchery, and tasteful taboos followed by an exclusive EXTENDED HOURS PARTY every Saturday night. Room check in is after 3pm. Check out is 11 am sharp. Reserve your poolside cabana, and it's all yours for 8 hours of fun and relaxation (9am to 5pm OR 7pm to 3am)!!
Glow Night - Memorial Day Weekend Party
Land O Lakes, FL Saturday, May 27th
8pm It’s time to GLOW your true colors! What better place to do it than Caliente for Memorial Day weekend. Join special guest TL Jentgens and all your sexy friends on Saturday, May 27 at 8 PM. How bright will you glow? Contact us for Day and Evening Passes or to Book a Room Overnight
Caliente Club & Resorts
0 Gran Via Blvd
Land O Lakes FL 34637
813-996-3700 x0 Caliente is a full resort that is clothing-optional and lifestyle friendly. YOU can be YOU here. And you don’t need a passport, or clothes! Dress up or dress down, either way just have fun!
Luscious SATURDAY at THE LOFT NYC
New York, NY Saturday, May 27, 2023
9pm - 4am GREAT PARTY DESIGNED TO PLUNGE YOU INTO A WORLD OF EROTIC PLEASURE AND ECSTASY!
* LUSCIOUS SATURDAY Glamorously wild
Tickets
https://theloftesl.com
All the ingredients to party the night away.
Live DJs
BYOB
Great location
Plenty of street parking
Hottest Crowd.
Stylish facilities
Dress code strictly enforced