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Hotwifing 101: Complete Guide to Hotwife Relationships
What IS hotwifing, really? Is it a kink, relationship style, or both?! And how did hotwifing become such a growing trend in sex and relationships? Whether you’re new to the open-minded lifestyle or an experienced swinger or kinkster, chances are you’ve heard the terms “hotwifing” and “hotwife” before.
Before you dive headfirst into your hotwifing journey, our SDC team of experts is here to help guide you.
Contests
Congratulations to MELISSACPL for winning the Missionary Impossible video contest! Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Bijoux Indiscrets, Swingers Paradise. Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests: Current – Sexiest Masked Party – Writing Contest (Entry deadline 8th March)
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Crete is Calling! Are you in?
Join us for sultry nights, world-class DJs, all-inclusive food & drinks, and 350 hotties ready to turn up the heat together with you! Does this sound right up your alley?
Good news! Thanks to a few last-minute cancellations, you still have a chance to join! But don’t wait — these spots will disappear fast!
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New BNB Listings Alert! Don’t Miss ‘Em!
Here’s the fun part — some of these fabulous spots are also party-friendly! So, if you’re on the hunt for the perfect spot to host your next gathering, now’s the time to take a peek!
Interested in listing your space? It’s easy! Just fill out our business request form (log out of your dating account first). You can also reach out to us directly on SDCBNB inside the site or drop us an email at bnb@sdcmedia.com; we’d love to hear from you!
Happy hosting & happy staying and playing
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FREE Swinging 101 Webinars
As an SDC member, you get FREE access to all of Lexi’s Swinging 101 events (including the video replay)!
March 26 @ 8 PM EST
How to Seduce a Unicorn
April 9 @ 8 PM EST
Swinger Icebreakers
April 23 @ 8 PM EST
***Only those who register for their free tickets on Lexi’s site can access video replay and the live webinar with Q&A.***
Reserve your FREE tickets for any or all of Lexi’s events here!
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Steven & Ember: Swingosphere
Let’s all give a warm welcome to Steven and Ember of Swingosphere, our new SDC Contributors! Swingosphere is the go-to source for insights on the swinging lifestyle, ethical non-monogamy, and everything in between. As contributors to SDC Media, Steven & Ember focus on etiquette, communication, and best practices to help others navigate the lifestyle with confidence and respect. Beyond expert tips and advice, Swingosphere offers detailed reviews of clubs, resorts, party organizers, podcasts, and takeovers — helping readers make informed choices for their next adventure. Their content also includes personal stories, unique experiences, and erotic short stories that capture the excitement of the lifestyle. For those seeking even more adventure, they contribute to Tales of Dante & Onyx — a passion-filled journey through the lifestyle. As the voices behind Swingosphere, Steven & Ember bring years of experience, a love for storytelling, and a deep appreciation for connection and exploration. Check out their articles here on SDC!
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The Hard Truth: In Defense of Men Sending Nudes
Cooper takes a stand for people with penises, expressing his appreciation for and defense of consented dick pics.
I have a collection of pictures featuring my cock, with me at this very moment.
Not Polaroids or anything, what is this, 1996?
I have a collection of the hated, reviled, cock shots. You know the ones. Big dick in frame (not an explanabrag), occasionally a hand, not much else. Seriously.
Why? ...READ MORE.
PARTIES AROUND THE WORLD
SDC Naughty School Girl Spring Break Party
San Antonio, TX
Saturday, March 8, 2025 9:00pm - 3:00am Swing Break
Naughty School Girl
Picture Day SDC MEMBERS ON THE GUEST LIST RECEIVE $5 OFF THE DOOR COVER!
(Limited to Couples & Single Females) ADMISSION:
Couples pricing: VIP Members $75 / Daily Members $95
Daily Singles Pricing: Females $35 / Males $200
St. Patty's & Mardi Gras
Livonia, MI
Friday, March 14th & Saturday, March 15th Alllllllright.... we're doing it!! Two HUGE events... under ONE roof... all in ONE weekend! We'll be adding Corn Hole & Green Beer Pong Tournaments to the schedule for early Friday evening! Grab a partner, a complimentary sausage and kraut dog and LET'S GO! We're FINALLY back at one of our FAVORITE venues... the Embassy Suites in Livonia, MI!
We're going to make this one count!! Who's getting lucky?? This event goes ON SALE this Monday, January 13th at 9 am EST and we are expecting this to sell out VERY quickly! You will only be charged one night plus tax to secure your room. The second night will be charged 7 days prior to the event. With Play Champagne, you can book NOW and pay LATER! ALL Lifestyle... ALL Inclusive... ALL Champagne
St Patrick’s Day Glow Party at Caliente
Land o Lakes, FL
Saturday, March 15th 8 PM It’s time to get lucky at Caliente! The luck of the Irish is what we mean, you dirty pervs. ) Join us for our St. Patricks Day Glow party on Saturday, March 15 at 8 PM. Featuring special guests DJs Blaze and Dirty Talk, plus body painting by Orlando! It’s going to be lucked up and lit! Contact us for Day and Evening Passes or to Book a Room Overnight
Caliente Club & Resorts
21240 Gran Via Blvd
Land O Lakes FL 34637
813-996-3700 x0
http://CalienteResorts.com Caliente is a full resort that is clothing-optional and lifestyle friendly. YOU can be YOU here. And you don’t need a passport, or clothes! Dress up or dress down, either way just have fun!
M4 Couples St. Patrick’s Saturday Nite
Mississauga Ontario, Canada
Saturday, March 15th Let the luck of Club M4 and the Irish be with you! This is a night you could really get lucky and find yourselves a four-leaf clover or better yet a foursome match. Wear your St. Patty’s Day hats or your green outfits or better yet wear next to nothing at all! Either way, come out and enjoy another fun celebration at Club M4. *Couples $60.00
*Single Females Free
*With valid Club M4 Membership Club M4
1989A Dundas Street East
Mississauga, Ontario
647-430-7975
www.clubm4.com
Traveling Chaos Post St. Pat's Day Party
Bonita Springs, FL
Saturday, March 21st Keep out those green outfits! We're heading to The Center Bar again! And the band...Randy and Brad...will be playing! Bonus!! Let's keep that St. Patty's Day celebration going! Join us at an incredible outside venue to meet some of our awesome members, new and old. If you didn't attend the last, you missed an over-the-top party! Let's try to get over the 200 mark again! Hope to see everyone there! Please be aware...this is an open venue. The Center Bar, 26811 S. Bay Dr., Bonita Springs, FL
International Erotic Festival Brussels (BE) - 4, 5, 6 April
30 years of love stories, breathtaking shows, beautiful creatures... 30 years ago, the Brussels International Erotic Festival began its sparkling life! You know how it is, it changed locations for a while, its name. It's a classic sequence in life: you move, you get married... You become sexually mature and then your climax begins to appear! The Erotica Festival is a life in a Festival, 3 days of unforgettable intensity.
Many exhibitors, Fetish Village, Swinger Party, tastings & food trucks, a main stage with the most sexy shows and the International Carwash "Bikini" Championship!
www.erotica-bruxelles.be
DECAMERON
Florence, Italy
Saturday, 12 April Florence bears the seal of Libertine Queen, and with it the return of the most transgressive experience: Decameron. In a location hidden from prying eyes, the doors open to a night that smells of history and lust. Only for those who dare to cross the threshold of absolute pleasure. Elegance cannot be improvised, exclusivity cannot be copied: in Florence, Decameron is the only night that leaves its mark.
Every detail of Decameron is designed to offer you an unforgettable experience , curated by art and music professionals.
Impeccable welcome: Valet parking, cloakroom service and a dedicated team to ensure maximum comfort. Excellence without compromise: Unlimited Ca' del Bosco all night long, premium cocktails prepared by expert bartenders, and an exceptional gourmet buffet to delight every sense.
A journey through music and shows: Two excellent DJ sets, immersive sound design and artistic performances will transform every corner of the location into a universe of desire. The heart of the night: At the stroke of midnight, the ritual will begin an immersive experience, where your wishes will come true.
This is not just any night. This is a masterpiece by Libertine Queen. NB: To ensure absolute privacy and exclusivity, the use of cell phones or recording devices is strictly prohibited.
www.libertinequeen.com
KamaSutrA Utrecht (NL) - 10, 11, 12, 13 April
In 2025 we're going even bigger! Even more eroticism, even more attractions and even more SEX! Don't miss the biggest Erotic Event in Europe! More artists on our main stage, the new KamaSutrA XXX Circus Theatre with interactive sex shows that you literally can't ignore. The largest swingers club in Europe including the fantastic dance parties of Secret Underground. More than a hundred stands to shop extensively for the latest gadgets in the field of eroticism. A wonderful Ladies Club with beautiful men. The biggest Dutch porn stars and content creators of the moment with whom you can take a picture, and who knows what else you will find in the Porn Star Zone!
Delicious food and drinks in our extensive food court or the Cocktail Zone! From 10 to 13 April, KamaSutrA, Jaarbeurs Utrecht. We are just getting started!
www.kamasutrabeurs.nl