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Join the world’s largest international swinging lifestyle community! With our SDC Messenger and speed dating features, you'll meet and connect instantly with swingers near you, see who's going to swingers parties and clubs, and meet members traveling to your area. Get expert tips and media resources on the open lifestyle and relationships, and join groups based on your shared interests. Plus, discover our network of lifestyle-friendly businesses, BNBs, travel destinations, and more. SDC has everything you need to safely and discreetly navigate the lifestyle, while always prioritizing your privacy.
Our new FAQ page is designed to not only keep you informed of any updates we are doing, but it will also help to answer questions you may have without the need to contact a staff member.
We plan to update this page on a regular basis so if you have a question, take a quick look as you may find the answer.
New SDC Notifications Board!
By popular demand, we have upgraded your SDC Feed to include a notifications board; this way, your notifications won’t get lost in your SDC Feed. You will notice there is a reply option for each notification so you can contact the appropriate staff profile that is related to each notification.
Here are the notifications that will show in this section:
Contest approved / denied
Member service approved / denied
Picture & Video approved / denied
New Private or Public Party approved / denied
Speed Date & Travel Plan denied
Membership expired
New member signed up with your promo code
Membership payment confirmation
Look for the red counter that will indicate how many new notifications you have. We hope you enjoy this improvement and, as always, feel free to contact us with any questions.
Interesting Groups to Join!
There are close to 2500 interest groups within the SDC site, and we have highlighted a few below to show the diversity of our groups. If you are interested in finding out more, go to the Groups page and use the filter button to find what you are looking for.
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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One sexy couple had such an amazing night at Checkmate, one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs, that they went back the next night for round two!
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There are plenty of well-known resorts that actively encourage you to get into the mood for good sex. Visiting those same spots over and over again can get a bit stale. Do you find yourself yearning for a change of scenery? Getting frisky at one of our upcoming events is easier than ever! When you are looking to experience a very erotic vacation together with like-minded swingers, it’s time to check out what luxurious “sex-a-thons” we’ve got going on!
What happens when the sexy southern unicorn meets the charming northern stud? The ultimate swinger couple!
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Gangbang, Group Sex, or Threesome: The Differences & Similarities
Many people know that there is a difference between a gangbang, group sex, or a threesome. Sometimes, at a party or in a club, something starts as a trio and spontaneously becomes a fun game of group sex. But that will not necessarily soon become a gangbang. Why not?... READ MORE.
EVENT SPOTLIGHT
Doms & Subs in the Afternoon
London, UK 4th March, 2022 12:00pm - 5:00pm
This is a kinky afternoon play party, for good humoured people of all persuasions, from 12 noon until 5pm. Our venue is a lovely old former vicarage in South London. It's a friendly little party, expect up to around 20 people. There's a lounge area for socialising, a well equipped dungeon and several bedrooms.
There is no compulsory dress code – you can wear what you like. A few guys cross dress, some women wear fetish, one gentleman always wears nothing at all and quite a few people coming directly from work wear ordinary clothes. (Always arrive in street clothes, though, so as not to alarm the neighbours! You can change and shower at the venue.)
You can play all you like - but our parties are relaxed, there is no pressure and newcomers are very welcome. All ages are welcome too - women, men, couples, t-girls, whatever! Just be nice people!
The vicarage is near Sutton station. Trains to Sutton are really easy and only 30 mins from Victoria - make sure you get the faster train. Parking nearby is easy and free. The full address is emailed to all ticket holders.
You must book a ticket - there is no entry on the door.
MF couple £50, single woman £30, T-girl, NB etc £30, single male £60 (+ booking fee)
Please note... *We don’t sell alcohol, so please bring your own booze. *Cameras and drugs of any kind are NOT allowed at our parties - see our guide to dungeon etiquette here: http://chardmoresociety.com/dungeon-etiquette/
*Our party has no connection with other events that hire the same venue.
Threesome Friday | Viernes de Trio
Marbella, Spain March 11th, 2022 10:00pm - 4:00am
COUPLES & SINGLES EVENT! Dress Code: Dress sexy , Provocative and/or elegant. Select single gents will be allowed by GUESTLIST ONLY! Please help us prepare for your visit and not waste time at the door by registering online (www.wickedclub.com) for your membership card.
LIMITED AVAILABILITY, BUY TICKET ONLINE OR GET ON THE GUESTLIST TODAY!
Hours may change due to regional restrictions, thank you for understanding.
SDC St Patty’s Day Bash @ Eden Club SA
San Antonio, TX March 12th, 2022 9:00pm - 4:00am
Wear Your Green or get pinched.
SDC MEMBERS ON THE GUEST LIST RECEIVE $5 OFF THE DOOR COVER! (Limited to Couples & Single Females)
ADMISSION: VIP MEMBER COUPLES - $45 MEMBER COUPLES - $70 MEMBER FEMALES - $25 MEMBER MALES - $150
EdenClubs.com 4435 Rittiman Road San Antonio, TX 78218
Unseen: Rogue
Derby, UK 12th March, 2022 8:00pm - 1:00am
The Unseen Lounge is very proud to present our first female only play and social event Unseen:Rogue
Theme : Red or Deadly Female only play and social space Two open play rooms to explore Private play rooms to enjoy Sensual kink displays Welcome drinks Fully licensed bar Fully equipped venue All female staff and stewards
It’s time to find yourself, let your desires lead the way and allow your untempered feminine power to go Rogue. Have fun with our theme Red or Deadly - this can be your favourite shade of crimson or your vision of a deadly femme fatale. The theme is not compulsory and you are encouraged to wear what makes you feel your best, dress to impress! Unseen:Rogue will be hosting at the beautiful Celestial Studios, a fully equipped kink and swing venue with an inspiring female presence. We want to create a safe, supportive and sexy environment for all of our ladies - cis, trans and non binary inclusive ??
The night will provide a fun, sensual ambience without pressure or expectation - Our goal is to simply give you space to explore whichever version of yourself you wish to. Women support women and this night will be full of it!
There will be interactive displays to admire and inspire and you will have the opportunity to explore should you wish to. We can’t wait for you to join us!
“Look into the fire and let your soul breathe deeply”
Baytown, TX March 19th & 20th 2022 3:30pm to 12:00pm
These cowgirls will be decked in their gowns and socialite apparel. . . even if their boots and smiles reveal they are ready for a rodeo. Gentlemen in western yoked suits, cowboy hats and stetsons (not required) will be the epitome of Texas.
Are ya feeling lucky? Did you know that you can find your pot of gold right here at Caliente Club & Resorts?! ) Come party all day AND night with sexy lasses and lads for our Green Is Gold St Paddy’s Bash. Nightbreakers will be poolside from 1-5 PM, No Filter Tampa in the nightclub from 9PM - 12:30 AM, and DJ Ian playing before and after No Filter.
Contact us for Day and Evening Passes or to Book a Room Overnight
Caliente is a full resort that is clothing-optional and lifestyle friendly. YOU can be YOU here. And you don’t need a passport, or clothes! Dress up or dress down, either way just have fun!
Visit for a day or join us as your Vacation Club - Clothing-Optional Adult Luxury - Beautiful Waterfall and Grotto - Studio, Condo and Villa Rentals - Huge Lagoon Pool and 4 Other Pools (2 heated) - Rouge On-Premise Playroom - Four Poolside Bars - Hot Tub and a Sexy Conversation Pool - Elegant Dining and Piano Bar - Sexy Nightclub and Sports Bar - Lifestyle-friendly Themed Parties - Special Events, Shows and Bands - Full Service Spa and Fitness Facilities
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