Seek, Discover, Connect
New Improvements
- Coming in June: Member profile cards on all pages of our site, including the Online, Viewed Me, and New Members pages, will be updated to a new, more functional look, showing not only how many friends / followers you have but also the option to connect without the need to open up a profile. Also, on mobile, you will be able to enjoy our new ‘swipe for more info’ option.
- Live Stream Quality — the quality of our Live Stream video has improved over the last weeks, and we continue to monitor its service.
Hot Tips
SDC Messenger Our SDC Messenger is THE tool for communication on SDC. Chat with your favorite SDC members individually or in a group chat. Simply click Messenger on the side menu to get started. New messages are indicated with a red dot and a number inside; just tap the message to open. The three dots icon indicates actions you can take with your messages: The icons at the top of the Messenger allow you to: During messaging, the plus icon allows you add photos, videos, and SDC album photos to your chats directly from your device. The T icon allows you to add template messages that you have already created, and the microphone allows you to add audio messages. When using the SDC app, be sure to activate Push Notifications and never miss a message from your SDC friends and group chats.
SDC Contests
Congratulations to SUGARFOX18 for winning the My First Bisexual Experience Writing Contest! Also to UNICORNHUNTER81 for winning the Lush Lingerie Photo Contest! Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings & Bijoux Indiscrets. Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests: New – My Sexy Ass Photo Contest
New – Outdoor Sex Adventures Writing Contest
Voting Underway – Screaming Orgasm Video Contest
SDC Shop
New: Lifestyle Bracelet!
A beautiful black bracelet with a steel or black center that features the lifestyle symbol. Perfect to combine with your classy, sexy, or fetish outfit! For both women and men and can be shortened to your liking. With this SDC bracelet, you wear the lifestyle symbol in a discreet way — at a lifestyle event, in a swingers club, at a festival, or just in everyday life. The new standard to show you’re a lifestyler.
Choice of five different styles. Check them out now!
Become an SDC Media Contributor!
Did you know that SDC.com works with educators from all over the world?
We would love to collaborate with you to entertain and provide advice for our SDC community while also helping you grow your own brand!
NEW Quiz: Is Your Relationship Ready for Hotwifing?
If you’re intrigued by the sexy world of hotwives and hotwifing, but you’re not sure if you and your partner are ready to dive in just yet, this is the quiz for you! For best results, we recommend taking this quiz as a couple. Together, choose the answers from the questions below that best describe your relationship, and discover if you’re ready to explore hotwifing.
LIVE on SDC: Marco and Ranee of MIAMISWINGS
Join MIAMISWINGS on our SDC.com LIVE streams this month! The dynamic podcasting duo of Marco and Ranee, a swinging and hotwifing couple, will share their personal experiences and lend their unique, bubbly, and insightful style to answer your questions about swingers' party and event etiquette.
Wednesday, June 28th at 7 PM ET
All About Swingers Events: Q&A with Marco and Ranee You can ask your questions in the live chat during the live stream or send MIAMISWINGS a message before the event.
Check out Marco and Ranee on SDC, and join the guest list for their upcoming events!
Wednesday, June 14th at 7 PM ET
Our Kandi Vegas Experience
PARTNER CONTENT
Have Better Sex Naturally with Mr. Stiff
Can herbs really help you get your libido back?
If you or your partner(s) have ever experienced low libido, erectile dysfunction (ED), and/or premature ejaculation (PE), you’ll be pleased to know there are natural ways to help you overcome these common challenges to your confidence, sex life, and relationship.
Here comes the ever-so-sly, foxy Mr. Stiff: a brand whose 100% natural products for men and women will have you rising to the occasion — literally.
PARTNER CONTENT
Secrets, Lies, and Dirty Games: An Erotic Short Story
What happens when two conniving and devious PR pros go head-to-head when they vie for the same client?
The stakes are high at Casino Night, a glamorous fundraising event for celebrity A-listers. While she’s busy making sure her clients are on their best behavior, Charlie’s vying to score a hot new one: a notorious pop star with a scandalous lifestyle and juicy secrets to hide.
And the only person standing in Charlie’s way is her arch-nemesis and competitor, Braxton.
Will Charlie be able to sign the pop star to her own roster, or will she be too distracted by Braxton’s smooth-talking, charming seduction to seal the deal?
Read the provocative power struggle in Secrets, Lies, and Dirty Games, Lexi Sylver's new erotic short story, now available in paperback and ebook formats!
Order yours now at LexiSylver.com!
FEATURED EXPERT
Dan and Lacy (The Swing Nation)
What happens when the sexy southern unicorn meets the charming northern stud? The ultimate swinger couple!
Dan and Lacy of The Swing Nation have taken to SDC.com and social media to help shine a positive light on the underground world of swinging, push back against the negative stigmas associated with the lifestyle we love, and give an insiders perspective on what it’s like being a consensual non-monogamous couple in the 21st century.
Explore The Swing Nation’s podcasts and articles here on SDC.com.
POPULAR
"Now, How are you Supposed to Get Horny in this Place?"
This couple shares their perspective on how they felt overwhelmed upon entering a swing club and how they overcame it on their very first visit.
Newbie swingers can feel intimidated in the presence of a groups of people having lots of sex. It's one thing to want to potentially find another person or couple to have sex with, but to do so in front of strangers, and in a new environment, can overwhelm the senses and lead you to think that maybe you won't be able to actually get turned on. This couple puts us in their shoes for their first visit to a swing club....READ MORE.
PARTIES AROUND THE WORLD
Kandi Vegas is almost HERE!
From June 8th - 10th join hundreds of SDC members as they ascend to Las Vegas to partake in what can only be described as Kandi Mania !! 3 Hot Days and 3 Wild nights of debauchery and wicked fun in Sin City itself….. It’s not too late to join the party. Need Tickets? Go Here. (code SDCEROTIC) Need a Room? Go Here. Make Kandi memories to last a lifetime, see ya’ll in Vegas!
SDC School Girl Party
Miami, FL Saturday, JUNE 3, 2023
Doors Open at 10:00pm Join SDC & Miami Velvet as we celebrate a night just for COUPLES AND SINGLE LADIES!
We are offering a FREE ONE DAY Membership for Couples On The SDC Guest List All Night Tonight SDC.com Couples with screen names on the guest list are just $85 at the door!
Strict Dress Code Enforced
BYOB Private Club
Single Gents Welcome Except Saturdays
4th June Summer Party @ The Vanilla Club
Dublin, Ireland Sunday, 4th June, 2023 Our summer Party is ON!
You don’t want to miss it!
SDC Sunday Funday Pool Party @ THE ROOFTOP
Hollywood, FL Sunday, June 4, 2023
Noon till 4pm Come on out to our Hottest, Sexiest pool party ever!!!
IMPORTANT:
Arrive early if you want to get a parking space close to the hotel, otherwise you will have to walk a distance. Helpful reference: https://www.hollywoodfl.org/285/Parking-Locations
Hotel lot is ONLY for Guests with a Hotel Room.
If the weather does not cooperate, no worries..the party will be moved to the 2nd floor, where the club and playrooms are. So, Come on out and join us for some Naked Fun!!!
Sun your buns, visit with old friends and make a few new ones. B.Y.O.B. - Mixers & Set-ups provided
COVER CHARGE:
$80 - Couple / $30 - Single Ladies (Get $5 OFF Per Person when you add yourself to the SDC Guest List and mention your screen name when you arrive.)
$100 - Select Single Men (Strictly Limited w/current Rooftop Membership and Must contact ROOFTOP to be added to the guest list.) DON’T DRINK AND DRIVE!
GET A ROOM!
Mention Your SDC Screen Name when booking your room. 1215 N Ocean Drive
Hollywood, FL 33019-3310
Phone: (954) 925-0301
See website for more details: www.RooftopResort.com
Meet & Greet : Lifestyle Event in Hidden Speakeasy - Montreal Edition
Montreal, Canada
Saturday, June 10th , 2023
7pm - 10pm Come have a drink and meet local swingers couples from your area as well as SDC members in an inclusive, safe, and sexy environment. This is another edition of our local Meet & Greets, which takes part in a series of prestigious and high-end events in exclusive venues such as penthouses, art galleries, yachts, hotel-palace, manor houses, and so much more. These events are for those looking for exhilarating and high-end events where discretion and anonymity are a priority. This time, we are taking you on a whole different experience, to a well-kept secret in the basement of a restaurant on Notre-Dame Ouest. It is said that this place was inspired from the famous Playboy house from 1970, which creates a mysterious and sensual ambiance for all those enjoying themselves, sippin' on a delicious cocktail while looking flirtatiously at each other.
The perfect place to host the very special guests that you are. Don't be shy, you know you want to.
The place will be reserved for SDC members and fellow swingers who would like to join us from 7 PM to 10 PM.
Please note that after 10 PM, the speakeasy will be open to the general public, so make sure to arrive early in order to spend some quality time with your fellow swingers! For whom? Couples and single women When? Saturday, June 10th (reserved for SDC members from 7 PM to 10 PM, but opened until midnight for those who would like to stay) How much? 20$ per person
Where? Griffintown, on Street Notre-Dame Ouest (the exact location will be revealed once attendance has been confirmed)
Dress code mood? "Casually going out on a Saturday night, not knowing where the night will take me, but ready for it all!" + Private speakeasy reserved for SDC members from 7 PM to 10 PM
+ Food and drinks menu available
+ Amazing cocktails and a private bartender
+ Coat check
+ Cash bar on the premises
+ A 1-year free membership to SDC will be drawn around 9 PM!
+ Contact us if you want to add a single man as your +1
+ Please note that the event is not exclusive to SDC members. You can contact us if you wish to bring a couple who is not an SDC member with you. No nudity or sexuality on the premises
Eyes Wide Shut Black-tie Masquerade
Baytown, TX Friday, June 23rd - Sunday, June 25th DARK, MYSTERIOUS, MASKED EROTIC EXPLORERS WILL FILL THE MANSION. Don’t settle for the ordinary. Spend your erotic weekend with other sophisticated explorers seeking that psychological fulfillment in an elegant setting with the finest of foods and spirits. Our James Beard nominated and television celebrity chef, Vincet Fiore, and our staff are prepared to give you the white-glove treatment you and your lover deserve. Book now, or wish you had.
Wicked Anniversary Party! WHITE NIGHT!
Marbella, Spain Saturday, July 8th, 2023 OFFICIAL SDC PARTY!
Celebrating our 4th year anniversary in Marbella! COUPLES & LADIES ONLY! SDC OFFICIAL SPONSOR! WHITE PARTY! Dress Code: Dress in WHITE or LESS to Impress, Provocative and/or elegant.
DINNER OPTION @ 20:30 – RESERVE by whatsapp: (0034) 697 935 224 PARTY STARTS: 22:00