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New Improvements

  • Coming in June: Member profile cards on all pages of our site, including the Online, Viewed Me, and New Members pages, will be updated to a new, more functional look, showing not only how many friends / followers you have but also the option to connect without the need to open up a profile. Also, on mobile, you will be able to enjoy our new ‘swipe for more info’ option.
  • Live Stream Quality — the quality of our Live Stream video has improved over the last weeks, and we continue to monitor its service.

Hot Tips

SDC Messenger

Our SDC Messenger is THE tool for communication on SDC. Chat with your favorite SDC members individually or in a group chat. 

Simply click Messenger on the side menu to get started. New messages are indicated with a red dot and a number inside; just tap the message to open. The three dots icon indicates actions you can take with your messages:

  • Pin your message to the top
  • Move to a folder
  • Mark it as unread
  • Archive
  • Delete
  • Mute (used mainly for group chats)

The icons at the top of the Messenger allow you to:

  • Create Template messages for quicker responses.
  • Create Folders to keep track of members that interest you (saving to folders keeps your messages for 365 days).
  • Search by member name to find conversations more easily.
  • Tick icon allows you to delete multiple messages at one time.
  • Group Chat allows you to create a chat and is also the place to find event / party group chats.

During messaging, the plus icon allows you add photos, videos, and SDC album photos to your chats directly from your device. The T icon allows you to add template messages that you have already created, and the microphone allows you to add audio messages.

When using the SDC app, be sure to activate Push Notifications and never miss a message from your SDC friends and group chats.

We hope you are experiencing our SDC Messenger to its full potential! If you have any questions, do not hesitate to contact our SDC Team.

SDC Contests

Congratulations to SUGARFOX18 for winning the My First Bisexual Experience Writing Contest! Also to UNICORNHUNTER81 for winning the Lush Lingerie Photo Contest!

Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings & Bijoux Indiscrets.

Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests:

New – My Sexy Ass Photo Contest
New – Outdoor Sex Adventures Writing Contest
Voting Underway – Screaming Orgasm Video Contest

SDC Shop

New: Lifestyle Bracelet!  A beautiful black bracelet with a steel or black center that features the lifestyle symbol. Perfect to combine with your classy, sexy, or fetish outfit! For both women and men and can be shortened to your liking.

With this SDC bracelet, you wear the lifestyle symbol in a discreet way — at a lifestyle event, in a swingers club, at a festival, or just in everyday life. The new standard to show you’re a lifestyler. Choice of five different styles. Check them out now!

Become an SDC Media Contributor!

Did you know that SDC.com works with educators from all over the world?

We would love to collaborate with you to entertain and provide advice for our SDC community while also helping you grow your own brand!

Apply to become an SDC Contributor today!

NEW Quiz: Is Your Relationship Ready for Hotwifing?

If you’re intrigued by the sexy world of hotwives and hotwifing, but you’re not sure if you and your partner are ready to dive in just yet, this is the quiz for you! 

For best results, we recommend taking this quiz as a couple. Together, choose the answers from the questions below that best describe your relationship, and discover if you’re ready to explore hotwifing.

Take the quiz here now!

LIVE on SDC: Marco and Ranee of MIAMISWINGS

Join MIAMISWINGS on our SDC.com LIVE streams this month! 

The dynamic podcasting duo of Marco and Ranee, a swinging and hotwifing couple, will share their personal experiences and lend their unique, bubbly, and insightful style to answer your questions about swingers' party and event etiquette.
Wednesday, June 14th at 7 PM ET Our Kandi Vegas Experience

Wednesday, June 28th at 7 PM ET All About Swingers Events: Q&A with Marco and Ranee

You can ask your questions in the live chat during the live stream or send MIAMISWINGS a message before the event. 

Check out Marco and Ranee on SDC, and join the guest list for their upcoming events!

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If you or your partner(s) have ever experienced low libido, erectile dysfunction (ED), and/or premature ejaculation (PE), you’ll be pleased to know there are natural ways to help you overcome these common challenges to your confidence, sex life, and relationship. 


Here comes the ever-so-sly, foxy Mr. Stiff: a brand whose 100% natural products for men and women will have you rising to the occasion — literally.

Read on to get a load of why so many people are raving about Mr. Stiff.

PARTNER CONTENT

Secrets, Lies, and Dirty Games: An Erotic Short Story

What happens when two conniving and devious PR pros go head-to-head when they vie for the same client? 


The stakes are high at Casino Night, a glamorous fundraising event for celebrity A-listers. While she’s busy making sure her clients are on their best behavior, Charlie’s vying to score a hot new one: a notorious pop star with a scandalous lifestyle and juicy secrets to hide.


And the only person standing in Charlie’s way is her arch-nemesis and competitor, Braxton.


Will Charlie be able to sign the pop star to her own roster, or will she be too distracted by Braxton’s smooth-talking, charming seduction to seal the deal?


Read the provocative power struggle in Secrets, Lies, and Dirty Games, Lexi Sylver's new erotic short story, now available in paperback and ebook formats!


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FEATURED EXPERT

Dan and Lacy (The Swing Nation)

What happens when the sexy southern unicorn meets the charming northern stud? The ultimate swinger couple!

Dan and Lacy of The Swing Nation have taken to SDC.com and social media to help shine a positive light on the underground world of swinging, push back against the negative stigmas associated with the lifestyle we love, and give an insiders perspective on what it’s like being a consensual non-monogamous couple in the 21st century.

Explore The Swing Nation’s podcasts and articles here on SDC.com.