Destination Reviews
The option to leave reviews within our key destination groups is now available. If you have added a travel plan, you will receive an email with the option to leave a review after your first travel plan to that destination only.
Check out these groups to take advantage of this new feature:
Member Suggestions
We would love to add more key destination groups to SDC, and who better to ask than you, our SDC members?
If you have visited a hotel or resort destination that you feel is for the Lifestyle or Lifestyle-friendly please click on SUGGESTIONBOX and tell us about it. Sharing your experiences with other members of SDC is all part of belonging to a great community.
We look forward to hearing about your recommendations.
Private Party Improvements
We listened to your suggestions and have made some improvements to our Private Party form:
- Location option now available
- Start and End times
- Age range for females, males, & transgender
- Notifying friends now generates an invite
- Coming soon Incognito private parties
We hope you like the improvements so far and we will continue as your suggestions come in.
SDC Contests
Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by SeaMountain Resort, DV8 Dare Games, Sylvie-Monthule Jewelry, Malibu Strings, Lexi Sylver, & Bijoux Indiscrets
We have three brand-new contests this month, so please remember to keep your entries in the theme of the contest. For example, our “Sexy with Desserts” Video Contest requires videos that include you being sexy with any kind of dessert — whipped cream, chocolate sauce, mousse, or any deliciously sexy delights. Be creative and submit your entries with the theme in mind.
Click the links below to access the contests:
New – My First Threesome Writing Contest
Sexperience is the Ultimate Event for Lifestyle Lovers!
The first event of the year is a fact, and it was a blast! The party was on from the moment of arrival to the moment of goodbye.
It was so good to see all those familiar faces and to welcome many sexy new ones! And yes, we are doing it all over again next year! Don't miss it!
Read (and see) more about SSX2021 here.
Ladies First! Checkmate NYC Brings Lifestyle Luxury to Beverly Hills
There are so many factors that go into deciding on which swingers club to attend… especially when you’re a swinging couple or a unicorn!
That’s one major reason why it’s so refreshing to have a swingers club like Checkmate who specifically caters to our needs and lets us feel like the sexy, liberated swingers we are.
Checkmate is a private, safe, and fun swingers club that’s been established in New York City since they opened over twenty-five years ago. West-Coasters will also soon be able to enjoy the same luxurious experience when Checkmate opens their new Beverly Hills location later this year!
Prominent swinger Lexi Sylver interviewed Gianni, the owner of Checkmate, to discover more about his vision of quality swingers club experiences and what the future holds for Checkmate.
FEATURED WEBINARS & ONLINE COURSES
Virtual Erotica Party with Lexi Sylver, Mizzy Bender, Dragonfly, & Casey Carter!
Join erotica author Lexi Sylver with her sexy guest stars: Mizzy Bender, Dragonfly, and Casey Carter!
This virtual party celebrates the 1st anniversary of Mating Season: Erotic Short Stories and will feature:
- Erotic readings from Lexi, Mizzy, Dragonfly, and Casey
- Interactive, naughty games
- Q&A Session: Ask Lexi ANYTHING!
- Win Lexual prizes
- And more!
SDC members can attend FREE, but spots are limited, so you MUST REGISTER to get the exclusive event link. First come, first served...
Virtual Erotica Party with Lexi Sylver, Mizzy Bender, Dragonfly, & Casey Carter!
Join erotica author Lexi Sylver with her sexy guest stars: Mizzy Bender, Dragonfly, and Casey Carter!
This virtual party celebrates the 1st anniversary of Mating Season: Erotic Short Stories and will feature:
- Erotic readings from Lexi, Mizzy, Dragonfly, and Casey
- Interactive, naughty games
- Q&A Session: Ask Lexi ANYTHING!
- Win Lexual prizes
- And more!
SDC members can attend FREE, but spots are limited, so you MUST REGISTER to get the exclusive event link. First come, first served...
Cap d’Agde — the Hottest and the Coolest!
When total freedom is your thing and nudity comes naturally, our events at Le Jardin d’Eden this summer from 6 – 12 and/or 12 – 18 July are where you can be and lose yourselves completely. If you have never been, visiting the Naturist Village with SDC is an experience you MUST at least once in your life. So, come with us and book your stay now!
Featured Expert: MarKus Leather
Born and raised in the rural areas of Hill County, Texas, MarKus’s love of leather started at an early age when he apprenticed for a saddle maker. Having served his country in the U.S. Navy with three tours in the Middle East, he returned home and found his way into the Leather and D/s Community.
Seeing a void in the community for quality implements of pleasurable pain, MarKus began a hobby of making floggers and paddles. Ten years later, this hobby has grown into The House of MarKus, a well-known purveyor of quality impact toys and leatherwork.
MarKus is the founder and President of HOME, a pansexual organization focused on the education and promotion of the D/s, M/s life for beginners, and a resource for those already involved. He has been an avid supporter of numerous charities and happily contributes his energies toward helping out those in his local and the greater communities.
His educational videos on SDC, including BDSM 101 and Flogging 101, help demystify these topics for those interested in BDSM and kink.
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My Sexiest Hotwife Valentine’s Day
Her first time hotwifing happened on Valentine’s Day, making it an especially memorable holiday full of deliciously endowed pleasure.
One of our SDC members submitted the following story to our “My Sexiest Valentine’s Day” Erotic Writing Contest.
My journey toward becoming an insatiable Hotwife began on Valentine’s Day, 2017. A little bit about me first… I am 44 years old, 5’1”, and 112 lbs. I am very petite, but I have always dated larger men physically fit and in shape, like me. My husband, Dave, and I have been married for 22 years. We have always been open and honest about our sexual desires, and Dave was never shy about expressing his desire to see me with another man — more specifically, a black man. Dave knew I had dated a black man before we met, and I knew he was very turned on by my past experience. I was willing to move forward with his sexual request and take a black man as my lover… while Dave watched. We set Valentine’s Day of 2017 as the day I would become a Hotwife... READ MORE.
My Sexiest Hotwife Valentine’s Day
One of our SDC members submitted the following story to our “My Sexiest Valentine’s Day” Erotic Writing Contest.
My journey toward becoming an insatiable Hotwife began on Valentine’s Day, 2017. A little bit about me first… I am 44 years old, 5’1”, and 112 lbs. I am very petite, but I have always dated larger men physically fit and in shape, like me. My husband, Dave, and I have been married for 22 years. We have always been open and honest about our sexual desires, and Dave was never shy about expressing his desire to see me with another man — more specifically, a black man. Dave knew I had dated a black man before we met, and I knew he was very turned on by my past experience. I was willing to move forward with his sexual request and take a black man as my lover… while Dave watched. We set Valentine’s Day of 2017 as the day I would become a Hotwife... READ MORE.
EVENT SPOTLIGHT
The S.L.U.T. Presents Upscale Full Hotel Takeover
Friday - Sunday, July 9 - 11, 2021
The Southern Lifestyle Ultimate Takeover!!
The S.L.U.T is an Upscale Full Hotel Takeover taking place in Houston, Texas in the Galleria District. We're combining the Lifestyle with education, fun, and unique desires and pleasures. We offer a variety of classes at our very own University, SLUT International Freaks.
We are a diverse, down to earth community that strives to bring a unique Lifestyle experience to each and every person we encounter. Please take time to check out our website. We offer different packages to meet all budget needs. We also offer a payment plan as well. So set your calendars, save the date (July 9th-11th), set an alarm you won't want to miss this epic weekend! Book your room, sign up for classes, and get ready to be SLUTted out!
Use code SLUT for 10% off a room purchase
If you have any questions please feel free to email.
Penthouse Playrooms HARD Opening Launch Night
Saturday, 26th June
Penthouse Playrooms - Fetish & Swingers Club Opening Launch Night 2021 | A brand new club for like-minded sexy lifestyle individuals!
After a huge renovation, new owners, and a new name — we're ready to party, and we hope you are, too!
Release a year of locked up and pent up frustration and party like its 1969!
A full licensed cocktail bar, a maze of private and open playrooms for naughty adult fun, couples-only lounge, orgy room, dungeon, porn cinema, and a huge disco-themed dance floor with a dance pole and cages.
IMPORTANT: This is a members-only club, you must hold a membership to enter the party. Visit our site for more information and to buy a membership here: www.penthouseplayrooms.com
Strictly members only! All Penthouse couples and single female members invited! Single guy members must be nominated, or attend with a couple.
18+ ONLY
Buy a ticket to the launch night here: www.penthouseplayrooms.com/events
Midsummers Nights Dream Party @ Defy Lifestyle Club
Saturday, June 19, 2021
Doors Open at 9pm
Elegantly Wasted presents A Midsummer Night's Dream
Featuring music sets by Florida’s Sexiest DJ Samantha XO & Michael Venezuela from Lifestyle DJs
Enjoy a night filled with Magic, Mischief, Fairies, and some fun Surprises!!!!!
Join us and #INDULGE IN THE LIFESTYLE at the Hottest New Venue to hit South Florida!
We are the only South Florida Club that caters to the love of the lifestyle! Featuring an upscale "Ultra Lounge" concept, spinning up to date music, and staffed by hospitality professionals, you will not be disappointed!
Come dressed to impress as our dress code will be rigidly enforced!
Door Fees Are with Current Membership
*Masks Required on Entry
#INDULGEINTHELIFESTYLE
(*Club Membership Required)
PROPER DRESS CODE STRICTLY ENFORCED
Defy Lifestyle Club IS A NON SMOKING ESTABLISHMENT.
Join our SDC community for the latest Club Specials.
Midsummer Night Scream @ Caliente Resort
Saturday, June 12, 2021
8pm
It's a sexy Halloween Party in the middle of Summer at Caliente Club & Resorts.
Let your fantasies come true on this spooky night with Halloween DJ Ian Smith and Rouge Parties.
Dress Up, Dress Down, Dress Sexy, or Dress Scary, it's a summer break for all our sexy ghouls and goblins!
Contact us for Day and Evening Passes or to Book a Room Overnight
Caliente Club & Resorts
21240 Gran Via Blvd
Land O Lakes FL 34637
813-996-3700 x0
Caliente is a full resort that is clothing-optional and lifestyle-friendly. YOU can be YOU here. And you don’t need a passport — or clothes! Dress up or dress down, either way, just have fun!
Learn more about Caliente Club & Resorts at calienteresorts.com or call 813-996-3700 x3203
Naughty School Summer Vacation Party @ Eden DFW
Saturday, June 5, 2021
9pm - 4am
BYOB - SETUPS - PRIVATE ROOMS
Couples Pricing: VIP Members $40 / Members $65
Singles Pricing: Females $25 / Males $100
www.EdenClubs.com
11050 S Pipeline Road
Euless, TX 76040
The S.L.U.T. Presents Upscale Full Hotel Takeover
Friday - Sunday, July 9 - 11, 2021
The Southern Lifestyle Ultimate Takeover!!
The S.L.U.T is an Upscale Full Hotel Takeover taking place in Houston, Texas in the Galleria District. We're combining the Lifestyle with education, fun, and unique desires and pleasures. We offer a variety of classes at our very own University, SLUT International Freaks.
We are a diverse, down to earth community that strives to bring a unique Lifestyle experience to each and every person we encounter. Please take time to check out our website. We offer different packages to meet all budget needs. We also offer a payment plan as well. So set your calendars, save the date (July 9th-11th), set an alarm you won't want to miss this epic weekend! Book your room, sign up for classes, and get ready to be SLUTted out!
Use code SLUT for 10% off a room purchase
If you have any questions please feel free to email.
Penthouse Playrooms HARD Opening Launch Night
Saturday, 26th June
Penthouse Playrooms - Fetish & Swingers Club Opening Launch Night 2021 | A brand new club for like-minded sexy lifestyle individuals!
After a huge renovation, new owners, and a new name — we're ready to party, and we hope you are, too!
Release a year of locked up and pent up frustration and party like its 1969!
A full licensed cocktail bar, a maze of private and open playrooms for naughty adult fun, couples-only lounge, orgy room, dungeon, porn cinema, and a huge disco-themed dance floor with a dance pole and cages.
IMPORTANT: This is a members-only club, you must hold a membership to enter the party. Visit our site for more information and to buy a membership here: www.penthouseplayrooms.com
Strictly members only! All Penthouse couples and single female members invited! Single guy members must be nominated, or attend with a couple.
18+ ONLY
Buy a ticket to the launch night here: www.penthouseplayrooms.com/events
Midsummers Nights Dream Party @ Defy Lifestyle Club
Saturday, June 19, 2021
Doors Open at 9pm
Elegantly Wasted presents A Midsummer Night's Dream
Featuring music sets by Florida’s Sexiest DJ Samantha XO & Michael Venezuela from Lifestyle DJs
Enjoy a night filled with Magic, Mischief, Fairies, and some fun Surprises!!!!!
Join us and #INDULGE IN THE LIFESTYLE at the Hottest New Venue to hit South Florida!
We are the only South Florida Club that caters to the love of the lifestyle! Featuring an upscale "Ultra Lounge" concept, spinning up to date music, and staffed by hospitality professionals, you will not be disappointed!
Come dressed to impress as our dress code will be rigidly enforced!
Door Fees Are with Current Membership
*Masks Required on Entry
#INDULGEINTHELIFESTYLE
(*Club Membership Required)
PROPER DRESS CODE STRICTLY ENFORCED
Defy Lifestyle Club IS A NON SMOKING ESTABLISHMENT.
Join our SDC community for the latest Club Specials.
Midsummer Night Scream @ Caliente Resort
Saturday, June 12, 2021
8pm
It's a sexy Halloween Party in the middle of Summer at Caliente Club & Resorts.
Let your fantasies come true on this spooky night with Halloween DJ Ian Smith and Rouge Parties.
Dress Up, Dress Down, Dress Sexy, or Dress Scary, it's a summer break for all our sexy ghouls and goblins!
Contact us for Day and Evening Passes or to Book a Room Overnight
Caliente Club & Resorts
21240 Gran Via Blvd
Land O Lakes FL 34637
813-996-3700 x0
Caliente is a full resort that is clothing-optional and lifestyle-friendly. YOU can be YOU here. And you don’t need a passport — or clothes! Dress up or dress down, either way, just have fun!
Learn more about Caliente Club & Resorts at calienteresorts.com or call 813-996-3700 x3203
Naughty School Summer Vacation Party @ Eden DFW
Saturday, June 5, 2021
9pm - 4am
BYOB - SETUPS - PRIVATE ROOMS
Couples Pricing: VIP Members $40 / Members $65
Singles Pricing: Females $25 / Males $100
www.EdenClubs.com
11050 S Pipeline Road
Euless, TX 76040