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SDC Voyeur Cam is Back!
Our Voyeur Cam is back by popular demand! For those that love to share their sexy side, this one's for you. Broadcast live to hundreds of SDC members right now!
Just click on Live Stream on the side menu to see the current shows going on or click the Start Streaming button to broadcast your own!
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Your First Lifestyle Experience Video Contest
Tell us about your very first Lifestyle Experience on camera! Keep your identities hidden if you wish. You have until June 14th, 2020 to submit your entries. (remember, no nudity or sexual scenes for this one!)
Enter Our SDC Video Contest Here
Fabulous prizes you can win:
$250 Cash
2 Nights at Sea Mountain Resort
E-book copy of Mating Season: Erotic Short Stories by Lexi Sylver
The hi® personal wellness system
Kinky Box
Promescent Bundle
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Latest SDC Benefits
Here are some of the latest discounts and offers available to Full SDC Members:
Save 15% on any order. Use code: SDC at checkout. Get $5 off any DV8 Dare Lifestyle Card Game & DV8 Dare Pong Use Code: doyoudeviate
We offer all SDC members a 10% discount on all purchases.
SDC members who RSVP to any Oasis SDC event get $10 off per person ($20/couple)
NOTE: If you have a business profile and would like to offer SDC members a discount, please add this to your profile and we can feature you in our upcoming newsletters!
SDC Voyeur Cam is Back!
Our Voyeur Cam is back by popular demand! For those that love to share their sexy side, this one's for you. Broadcast live to hundreds of SDC members right now!
Just click on Live Stream on the side menu to see the current shows going on or click the Start Streaming button to broadcast your own!
Your First Lifestyle Experience Video Contest
Tell us about your very first Lifestyle Experience on camera! Keep your identities hidden if you wish. You have until June 14th, 2020 to submit your entries. (remember, no nudity or sexual scenes for this one!)
Enter Our SDC Video Contest Here
Fabulous prizes you can win:
$250 Cash
2 Nights at Sea Mountain Resort
E-book copy of Mating Season: Erotic Short Stories by Lexi Sylver
The hi® personal wellness system
Kinky Box
Promescent Bundle
Latest SDC Benefits
Here are some of the latest discounts and offers available to Full SDC Members:
Save 15% on any order. Use code: SDC at checkout. Get $5 off any DV8 Dare Lifestyle Card Game & DV8 Dare Pong Use Code: doyoudeviate
We offer all SDC members a 10% discount on all purchases.
SDC members who RSVP to any Oasis SDC event get $10 off per person ($20/couple)
NOTE: If you have a business profile and would like to offer SDC members a discount, please add this to your profile and we can feature you in our upcoming newsletters!
MEDIA
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Top 5 “How To” SDC Podcast Episodes
Are you caught up on your SDC podcasts?! Each week, our host Lexi Sylver and her guest experts cover the ins and outs of sex, health, and relationships.
Listen to some of the hottest episodes that can help guide you to better sex and open relationships:
How to Be a Hotwife
How to Feel Sexy in Self-Isolation
Pick an episode from our full list here, then sit back, relax, and let Lexi guide you to sexier, healthier, and more fulfilling sex and relationships.
Top 5 “How To” SDC Podcast Episodes
Are you caught up on your SDC podcasts?! Each week, our host Lexi Sylver and her guest experts cover the ins and outs of sex, health, and relationships.
Listen to some of the hottest episodes that can help guide you to better sex and open relationships:
How to Be a Hotwife
How to Feel Sexy in Self-Isolation
Pick an episode from our full list here, then sit back, relax, and let Lexi guide you to sexier, healthier, and more fulfilling sex and relationships.
FEATURED WEBINARS & ONLINE COURSES
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Free Webinar: Creating a Shame-Free Sexual Environment
Learn how to overcome the shame that’s stopping you from sharing your desires with your partner(s)!
Angelique and John Luna of Sex Positive Me will help you unlearn shame around sex and pleasure, better communicate your desires, and build healthier relationships with your partner(s)!
Save your FREE seat for the next session on Monday, June 15th at 8 pm.
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Become a Certified Master Sexpert & Sex Coach!
Exclusively from Dr. Ava Cadell’s Loveology University® comes a Master Sexpert training that combines relationship coaching with sex education.
Sex coaches (sexperts) help individuals and couples create healthy, happy sex lives based on the goals they want to achieve. Unlike Sex Therapists who work more on people’s past problems, sex coaches and sexperts focus on future goals and empowerment.
At Loveology University® you can take the Certified Master Sexpert program to earn your certification to become a Sexpert, Sex Educator, Sex Coach, Sex Expert, Sexuality Expert, Sensual Empowerment Coach, Sex Blogger or Writer, Sexual Health Educator or a Pleasure Products Professional or Pleasure Party Consultant. Graduation from this program entitles you to teach other adults about human sexuality and how to empower their intimate lives.
Get certified to become a master sexpert and sex coach at Loveology University today!
Free Webinar: Creating a Shame-Free Sexual Environment
Learn how to overcome the shame that’s stopping you from sharing your desires with your partner(s)!
Angelique and John Luna of Sex Positive Me will help you unlearn shame around sex and pleasure, better communicate your desires, and build healthier relationships with your partner(s)!
Save your FREE seat for the next session on Monday, June 15th at 8 pm.
Become a Certified Master Sexpert & Sex Coach!
Exclusively from Dr. Ava Cadell’s Loveology University® comes a Master Sexpert training that combines relationship coaching with sex education.
Sex coaches (sexperts) help individuals and couples create healthy, happy sex lives based on the goals they want to achieve. Unlike Sex Therapists who work more on people’s past problems, sex coaches and sexperts focus on future goals and empowerment.
At Loveology University® you can take the Certified Master Sexpert program to earn your certification to become a Sexpert, Sex Educator, Sex Coach, Sex Expert, Sexuality Expert, Sensual Empowerment Coach, Sex Blogger or Writer, Sexual Health Educator or a Pleasure Products Professional or Pleasure Party Consultant. Graduation from this program entitles you to teach other adults about human sexuality and how to empower their intimate lives.
Get certified to become a master sexpert and sex coach at Loveology University today!
RECOMMENDED READING
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Mating Season: Erotic Short Stories by Lexi Sylver
Lexi Sylver’s real sexual adventures and darkest fantasies come to life in Mating Season, a provocative collection of erotic short stories.
Mating Season lures you into the depths of the obscene as you read Lexi’s favorite tales of daring group play, sapphic seduction, enticing encounters, and kinky BDSM. Join a cast of shameless characters in their pursuits to satisfy their decadent appetites for pleasure.
Journey into Lexi’s playground, where sexuality is celebrated by curious newbies and erotic adventurers, voyeurs and exhibitionists, masters and slaves — and every kinkster in between.
Turn the pages of Mating Season and transport yourself from the bedroom to a naturist village in France or a sex club in Amsterdam’s Red Light District.
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Obscene Thoughts by Dave Pounder
Obscene Thoughts: A Pornographer's Perspective on Sex, Love and Dating examines progressive, intellectual, and academic constructs regarding mate selection, sexual behavior, and the reasons why people cheat.
Obscene Thoughts investigates and deconstructs core socioeconomic and biological values and the sexual behaviors of men and women, in a fresh, distinct manner.
Get Obscene Thoughts by Dave Pounder on Amazon.
Mating Season: Erotic Short Stories by Lexi Sylver
Lexi Sylver’s real sexual adventures and darkest fantasies come to life in Mating Season, a provocative collection of erotic short stories.
Mating Season lures you into the depths of the obscene as you read Lexi’s favorite tales of daring group play, sapphic seduction, enticing encounters, and kinky BDSM. Join a cast of shameless characters in their pursuits to satisfy their decadent appetites for pleasure.
Journey into Lexi’s playground, where sexuality is celebrated by curious newbies and erotic adventurers, voyeurs and exhibitionists, masters and slaves — and every kinkster in between.
Turn the pages of Mating Season and transport yourself from the bedroom to a naturist village in France or a sex club in Amsterdam’s Red Light District.
Obscene Thoughts by Dave Pounder
Obscene Thoughts: A Pornographer's Perspective on Sex, Love and Dating examines progressive, intellectual, and academic constructs regarding mate selection, sexual behavior, and the reasons why people cheat.
Obscene Thoughts investigates and deconstructs core socioeconomic and biological values and the sexual behaviors of men and women, in a fresh, distinct manner.
Get Obscene Thoughts by Dave Pounder on Amazon.
TRAVEL
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Plan Your Pre-Event Party at Home!
While still valid, the words "safer at home" are perhaps starting to get a wee bit stale by now. We may not be roaming the world like we used to, but nothing can stop us from lifting our spirits, getting into vacation mode, and dreaming about upcoming trips. So, why not get ahead on some fun with other hot couples on the event guest list with you and organize your very own pre-party? Make plans together to repeat these sexy moments at your next lifestyle vacation! For some handy tips, read here.
We are ready to welcome you as soon as the lifestyle world is our oyster again!
Check our upcoming events here!
Plan Your Pre-Event Party at Home!
While still valid, the words "safer at home" are perhaps starting to get a wee bit stale by now. We may not be roaming the world like we used to, but nothing can stop us from lifting our spirits, getting into vacation mode, and dreaming about upcoming trips. So, why not get ahead on some fun with other hot couples on the event guest list with you and organize your very own pre-party? Make plans together to repeat these sexy moments at your next lifestyle vacation! For some handy tips, read here.
We are ready to welcome you as soon as the lifestyle world is our oyster again!
Check our upcoming events here!
FEATURED EXPERT
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Dr. Jay and Liseth
Dr. Jay and Liseth are the experts who brought you SDC’s EXCLUSIVE Lifestyle Inventory Checklist (LIC) Quiz. They bring a wealth of seasoned real-world experience to their work of ‘Relationship Mastery’ where together they coach, teach and facilitate programs (public seminars and private retreats) that teach the art and science of “soulmating” (erotic passion + deep friendship = lovers for life). Liseth is a self-made entrepreneur with successful businesses in real estate and international modeling. She is a Master Certified Coach (with specialties in wellness, nutrition, life, and relationship coaching) who works with women to unleash the power of their sacred feminine birthright to live passionate lives of their choosing. Along with her Soul-Mate, Dr. Jay Ferraro, she is co-founder of Soul Mates For Life, an international training, coaching, and consulting firm dedicated to couples committed to designing extraordinary relationships of their choosing. The author of the best-selling book, “Surprised by Love,” Dr. Jay has appeared on the Today Show, Good Morning America (Australia), The Dr. Drew Show, the Oprah Winfrey Network and is a regular contributor to O Magazine and Psychology Today taking on all the taboo topics others won’t touch.
Find out more about Jay and Liseth, and check out their videos and articles on SDC!
Dr. Jay and Liseth
Dr. Jay and Liseth are the experts who brought you SDC’s EXCLUSIVE Lifestyle Inventory Checklist (LIC) Quiz. They bring a wealth of seasoned real-world experience to their work of ‘Relationship Mastery’ where together they coach, teach and facilitate programs (public seminars and private retreats) that teach the art and science of “soulmating” (erotic passion + deep friendship = lovers for life). Liseth is a self-made entrepreneur with successful businesses in real estate and international modeling. She is a Master Certified Coach (with specialties in wellness, nutrition, life, and relationship coaching) who works with women to unleash the power of their sacred feminine birthright to live passionate lives of their choosing. Along with her Soul-Mate, Dr. Jay Ferraro, she is co-founder of Soul Mates For Life, an international training, coaching, and consulting firm dedicated to couples committed to designing extraordinary relationships of their choosing. The author of the best-selling book, “Surprised by Love,” Dr. Jay has appeared on the Today Show, Good Morning America (Australia), The Dr. Drew Show, the Oprah Winfrey Network and is a regular contributor to O Magazine and Psychology Today taking on all the taboo topics others won’t touch.
Find out more about Jay and Liseth, and check out their videos and articles on SDC!
POPULAR
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Unicorn Hunting: 5 Common Mistakes and How to Avoid Them
One of the most popular fantasies is also one of the most complicated and difficult to achieve, but not all hope is lost!
Ah, the elusive unicorn!
Within the realm of ethical non-monogamy, unicorns are the rarest and most sought-after species.
READ MORE.
Unicorn Hunting: 5 Common Mistakes and How to Avoid Them
One of the most popular fantasies is also one of the most complicated and difficult to achieve, but not all hope is lost!
Ah, the elusive unicorn!
Within the realm of ethical non-monogamy, unicorns are the rarest and most sought-after species.
READ MORE.
EVENT SPOTLIGHT
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SDC Passion Party @ Purple Mamba Club Online
Saturday, June 6th, 2020 — 9 pm – 2 am BST
Join us all night long. Be as naughty as you wish (masks and clothing are optional — it's your choice!)
Membership required — spaces limited!
With SDC ambassadors, prizes and discounts (enter promo code SDCPASSION for £5 off online entry)
Tickets and full details are available on our website purplemambaclub.com
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Cocktails & Erotic Tales: LIVE Webinar with Lexi Sylver
Saturday, June 13th, 2020 — 9–10 pm EST
Enjoy sexy storytelling, get your drink on, and spice up your date night with Lexi Sylver during Cocktails & Erotic Tales! This one-hour online webinar event includes:
- Erotic readings from Mating Season
- Q&A Session: Ask Lexi anything
- Exclusive giveaways
- And more!
Tickets: $10 each or FREE with your purchase of Mating Season!
Reserve tickets and all the dirty details here: https://lexisylver.com/events
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Club M4 OnLine Events
June 4th to June 6th
CLUB M4 ONLINE WEEKEND EVENTS
Here are this week’s current Schedule of Events:
Thursday Night 9pm- Catching up with Sexy Plus.
Hosted by: CurvyGirl & SyrensSong.
Friday Night 10pm- Open Mic On Lifestyle Topics Hosted by: Mark & Cleo (Cleosmaster)
A Zoom Event.
Password: 5JHsH7
https://us04web.zoom.us/j/79108790889?pwdYVBIRWcvajl0M2ZBaFUzVnlab1VGdz09
*Saturday Night 10pm–Submission Teasing and Pleasing.
Our most popular online event as a new female joins the fun on our new M4 play bed. *Watch this Event on Zoom or the Menage Site.
Join us Saturday June 6th Zoom Meeting @ 10pm
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/83909558502
Join us on chat at www.menageaquatre.com
SDC Passion Party @ Purple Mamba Club Online
Saturday, June 6th, 2020 — 9 pm – 2 am BST
Join us all night long. Be as naughty as you wish (masks and clothing are optional — it's your choice!)
Membership required — spaces limited!
With SDC ambassadors, prizes and discounts (enter promo code SDCPASSION for £5 off online entry)
Tickets and full details are available on our website purplemambaclub.com
Cocktails & Erotic Tales: LIVE Webinar with Lexi Sylver
Saturday, June 13th, 2020 — 9–10 pm EST
Enjoy sexy storytelling, get your drink on, and spice up your date night with Lexi Sylver during Cocktails & Erotic Tales! This one-hour online webinar event includes:
- Erotic readings from Mating Season
- Q&A Session: Ask Lexi anything
- Exclusive giveaways
- And more!
Tickets: $10 each or FREE with your purchase of Mating Season!
Reserve tickets and all the dirty details here: https://lexisylver.com/events
Club M4 OnLine Events
June 4th to June 6th
CLUB M4 ONLINE WEEKEND EVENTS
Here are this week’s current Schedule of Events:
Thursday Night 9pm- Catching up with Sexy Plus.
Hosted by: CurvyGirl & SyrensSong.
Friday Night 10pm- Open Mic On Lifestyle Topics Hosted by: Mark & Cleo (Cleosmaster)
A Zoom Event.
Password: 5JHsH7
https://us04web.zoom.us/j/79108790889?pwdYVBIRWcvajl0M2ZBaFUzVnlab1VGdz09
*Saturday Night 10pm–Submission Teasing and Pleasing.
Our most popular online event as a new female joins the fun on our new M4 play bed. *Watch this Event on Zoom or the Menage Site.
Join us Saturday June 6th Zoom Meeting @ 10pm
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/83909558502
Join us on chat at www.menageaquatre.com