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Improvements
- Invite your friends to join SDC (found under settings). Grow your network by inviting friends to join SDC! Share your unique QR code, invitation text, or send email invites to enhance your lifestyle journey together.
- Draft Messages option in our Messenger: Now, when you need to switch to answering another member, your current message will be saved as a draft so you can go back to it without losing it.
SDC Book Club
Welcome to the SDC Book Club, where we feature exciting books recommended by lifestyle-related Authors, Educators, and even SDC Members. This month, we are introducing Modern Love, a True Life Story by Imogen Grant, also known as SDC Member MEXI7000. Modern Love is an engaging look at the much-misunderstood world of swinging. Imogen has a loving husband, two children, a full-time career… and a varied and exciting sex life. In Modern Love, she reveals how she cast aside her conservative, traditional approach to marriage and sex by inviting other people to join her and her husband. Accompanied by Alex, her partner of 20 years, she experiences threesomes, bisexuality, kink, couple swapping, orgies, sex clubs, nudist resorts… and discovers her own confidence along the way. Initially unwilling to explore, Imogen recounts how and why she changed her mind, taking us through her thought process, her fears, and the questions that she had. From the first encounter to the point where she felt like a true swinger, she relates everything: the friends she makes, the awkward moments, the explicit sexual encounters... and how to remain positive, open-minded and always find the humor in a situation – even when she’s the only naked one in a room full of clothed people. She learns to navigate her own way through issues such as violent kink, nudism, the insecurities and jealousy of others, the separation of sex from love – and realizes that life is to be lived in any way you choose, as long as it is done with passion.
SDC Contests
Congratulations to HISANDHERSPLAYTIME69 for winning the Oil & Lube Me Up video contest and to SWINGINGINTHETREES for winning the Funniest Sex Blooper writing contest! Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Bijoux Indiscrets, & René Moon. Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests: New – My Kinkiest Sexcpade – Writing Contest
Current – My Sexy Toys – Video Contest
Voting Underway – No Tan Lines – Photo Contest
SDC Shop
Summer Feelings! Complete your wardrobe with SDC Merch and swimwear.
Crete 2025 is Where the Action Is!
Where will you get pampered in 2025? Why not from May 1 to 7 on one of the most gorgeous Greek Islands? When luxury, culture, sun, fun, and sex are your thing, you are in for a treat at our Crete 2025 event. Greece is a fantastic destination, but when you are there to enjoy yourselves together and with 350 like-minded others immersed in lifestyle fun, nothing compares!
It may seem a while away, but our ALL-INCLUSIVE Crete Lifestyle Holiday is hot and popular, and rooms are flying off the shelves!
Intimate Romance is Trending!
The sexiest BNBs in the world are ready to welcome you! With the Summer full steam ahead, now is a great time to plan a little naughty getaway with your significant other! Our SDC BNB service is growing steadily and offers you a convenient selection of private places that are cheekily erotic and where you and your partner can fully enjoy a sexy tryst. Whether you are looking for something Euro-chic or wish to stay in upscale city dwellings on your way to the nearest swingers club, there is something for everyone! Many give SDC members a nice discount. You can easily find them all under the BUSINESSES tab in the side menu!
PARTNER CONTENT
Summer Event Spotlight: World Edition
Steam up the hottest party season of the year with these sexy and unforgettable world-class swinger events in our SDC Summer Event Spotlight! Let wanderlust sweep you away to seductive new adventures at the wildest parties internationally.
Click here to make your summer red-hot with these sizzling swinger lifestyle events across the globe.
FEATURED BUSINESS
Malibu Strings
Swimsuits for the uninhibited. Malibu Strings designs, markets, and sells its own brand of sexy, fashion-forward swimsuits and clothing. Inspired by the magnificent natural beauty of the Malibu coastline and the free-spirited nature of Southern California, Malibu Strings creates designs that are innocent in form but daring enough to awaken the female body. Specializing in swimwear for the uninhibited, Malibu Strings has become a favorite for customers around the world. From their factory in Sunny Southern California, they manufacture and distribute clothing directly to our customers. They do not sell or distribute products to any third parties. By dealing directly with customers, they are able to build strong, long-lasting, personal relationships with our customers.
FEATURED EXPERT
Strictly Anonymous Confessions Podcast
We’d like to welcome Strictly Anonymous Confessions Podcast as one of our new SDC Media Contributors! If you have a secret, interesting, NAUGHTY life and / or a problem you want to discuss while remaining anonymous, contact STRICTLYANONYMOUS. Listen to people’s naughty, real-life sexy confessions on the podcast here at SDC!
Listen into the secret lives of total strangers. Your Strictly Anonymous host talks to real people about their interesting, secret NAUGHTY lives and gives them her unprofessional advice.
POPULAR
Solo Polyamory, Singleish, Single & Poly
What is solo poly, and what does it have to do with stigma and couple privilege?
Solo polyamory is a fluid category that covers a range of relationships, from the youthful “free agent” or recent divorcee who might want to “settle down” someday but for now wants to play the field with casual, brief, no-strings-attached connections, to the seasoned “solo poly” who has deeply committed, intimate, and lasting relationships with one or more people. Some solo polys have relationships that they consider emotionally primary, but not primary in a logistical, rank, or rules-based sense, and others don’t want the kinds of expectations and limitations that come with a primary romantic/sexual relationship. Solo polys can love deeply; being alone can mean that solo polys are deeply in touch with themselves....READ MORE.
PARTIES AROUND THE WORLD
SDC & AMIGUETES MEET AND GREET
Barcelona, Spain
Saturday, July 6th, 2024 In collaboration and harmony with Amiguetes Club, we would like to invite you to our joint Meet and Greet. Come for a drink and meet other couples and singles in Barcelona! The gathering will be at the rooftop of the Me Melia Barcelona hotel
FREE ENTRY - one welcome Cava drink if you arrive before 10pm.
***LUST*** The Night of Desire - 3 days event by 7SINS PARTY
North Rome, Italy
July 12th - 14th, 2024 7SINS PARTY | FLIRT CLUB | SDC
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THE AWAKENING OF LUST Join us for a weekend of pure indulgence and luxury in the magnificent city of Rome.
An exclusive event that promises to awaken your senses and bring your deepest desires to life.
"LUST" is not just an event; it's a journey through desire and transgression. It's an experience that combines luxury, elegance, and passion, meticulously crafted to ensure a captivating and safe atmosphere. At Flirt Club in Rome, every couple can surrender to the pleasures of the night, living unforgettable moments and becoming part of an exclusive international community.
Join us for the first chapter of the 7SINS party by Flirt & Co. and discover the true meaning of desire.
SDC Wild West Hoedown! | Couples & Select Singles
Dunstable, UK
Saturday, 13 July, 2024 Howdy, sexy! The Wild Wild West returns to Penthouse. Dust off your leather chaps, give your whip a crack, and get ready to ride a buckin' bronco! It's getting hot to trot at Penthouse Playrooms. Dress code
Cowgirls: Daisy dukes, bikinis, cow print, cowgirl hats, cowgirl boots, leather chaps, fringing, denim, western wench, etc.
Cowboys: Cowboy hats, denim, leather chaps, cowboy boots, whips, checked shirts, etc. Themes are always optional, but effort = attention ) We have space for just 20 select single males; membership required! Please contact us directly for the single male tickets and guest list. No invite, no membership, no entry!
Club M4 Special Event Threesome Friday Night Sponsored by SDC
Friday, July 19th, 2024
Mississauga, Ontario, Canada Cum out to our Threesome Friday for a chance to win one of several free membership certificates from SDC.com. Threesome Friday is one of our most popular nights. The night is full of energy & hot people! Arrive early and play late! *$40.00 Couples
*$100.00 Single Males
*Free for Single Females
*Club M4 Membership Required Club M4
1989A Dundas Street East
Mississauga, Ontario
647-430-7975
www.clubm4.com
SDC Haulover Beach Invasion Party at TRAPEZE CLUB
Fort Lauderdale, FL
Saturday, July 27, 2024
8pm - 4am It’s SWINGERS UNITE WEEK at Trapeze Club South Florida! Trapeze will be invading Haulover Beach from 9:30AM – 5:30PM! After the beach, meet us at the club for an epic SDC Beach afterparty! Get on the SDC guest list for $5 off your nightly user fee! Come out and play at South Florida’s best swingers club! Don’t miss:
4-course Dinner Buffet
Late-night Breakfast Buffet
Unlimited non-alcoholic beverages
*Membership to Trapeze required.
https://TrapezeClubs.com/Fort-Lauderdale
Wet and Wild. Honoring the rains – sponsored by SDC
Bangkok, Thailand
Saturday, July 27th, 2024 During the rainy season, a secretive gathering calls out to those craving excitement beyond the ordinary. Tucked away in a lavish mansion, rumors spread of a special event among the bold and the curious. This is no average get-together—it’s a thrilling adventure where boundaries fade away, and inhibitions vanish in the seductive night. While rain creates a captivating scene outside, indoors, an atmosphere of mystery and anticipation fills the air. The chosen theme, designed to awaken primal instincts, captivates with its allure: guests adorned in animal prints hint at hidden desires waiting to be unleashed. Each attire speaks of seduction, silently beckoning to explore dormant primal urges. Behind closed doors, excitement crackles in the air as adventurous souls mix and mingle, eager to indulge in the night’s forbidden pleasures. This is a private event, whispered about discreetly among those in the know, where anonymity is respected, and discretion is key. Here, under the veil of secrecy, fantasies roam free, and inhibitions dissolve in the enchanting embrace of the rain-soaked night. https://lussuriaclub.com/landing-wet-and-wild-honoring-the-rains/