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SDC Book Club

Welcome to the SDC Book Club, where we feature exciting books recommended by lifestyle-related Authors, Educators, and even SDC Members.

This month, we are introducing Modern Love, a True Life Story by Imogen Grant, also known as SDC Member MEXI7000.

Modern Love is an engaging look at the much-misunderstood world of swinging.

Imogen has a loving husband, two children, a full-time career… and a varied and exciting sex life. In Modern Love, she reveals how she cast aside her conservative, traditional approach to marriage and sex by inviting other people to join her and her husband. Accompanied by Alex, her partner of 20 years, she experiences threesomes, bisexuality, kink, couple swapping, orgies, sex clubs, nudist resorts… and discovers her own confidence along the way.

Initially unwilling to explore, Imogen recounts how and why she changed her mind, taking us through her thought process, her fears, and the questions that she had. From the first encounter to the point where she felt like a true swinger, she relates everything: the friends she makes, the awkward moments, the explicit sexual encounters... and how to remain positive, open-minded and always find the humor in a situation – even when she’s the only naked one in a room full of clothed people. She learns to navigate her own way through issues such as violent kink, nudism, the insecurities and jealousy of others, the separation of sex from love – and realizes that life is to be lived in any way you choose, as long as it is done with passion.

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SDC Contests

Congratulations to HISANDHERSPLAYTIME69 for winning the Oil & Lube Me Up video contest and to SWINGINGINTHETREES for winning the Funniest Sex Blooper writing contest!

Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Bijoux Indiscrets, & René Moon.

Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests:

New – My Kinkiest Sexcpade – Writing Contest
Current  – My Sexy Toys – Video Contest
Voting Underway – No Tan Lines  – Photo Contest

SDC Shop

Summer Feelings!

Complete your wardrobe with SDC Merch and swimwear.

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Crete 2025 is Where the Action Is!

Where will you get pampered in 2025? Why not from May 1 to 7 on one of the most gorgeous Greek Islands?

When luxury, culture, sun, fun, and sex are your thing, you are in for a treat at our Crete 2025 event. Greece is a fantastic destination, but when you are there to enjoy yourselves together and with 350 like-minded others immersed in lifestyle fun, nothing compares!

It may seem a while away, but our ALL-INCLUSIVE Crete Lifestyle Holiday is hot and popular, and rooms are flying off the shelves!

So, don’t wait and join us for seven days and six of the hottest, seductive nights ever. Book Now!

Intimate Romance is Trending!

The sexiest BNBs in the world are ready to welcome you! With the Summer full steam ahead, now is a great time to plan a little naughty getaway with your significant other!

Our SDC BNB service is growing steadily and offers you a convenient selection of private places that are cheekily erotic and where you and your partner can fully enjoy a sexy tryst.

Whether you are looking for something Euro-chic or wish to stay in upscale city dwellings on your way to the nearest swingers club, there is something for everyone! Many give SDC members a nice discount. You can easily find them all under the BUSINESSES tab in the side menu!

If you are a host and would love to list with us and promote your accommodation(s) to millions of members worldwide, feel free to reach out to SDCBNB inside the site or write to bnb@sdcmedia.com!

PARTNER CONTENT

Summer Event Spotlight: World Edition

Steam up the hottest party season of the year with these sexy and unforgettable world-class swinger events in our SDC Summer Event Spotlight!

Let wanderlust sweep you away to seductive new adventures at the wildest parties internationally. 

Get ready to dress up, electrify your senses with provocative music, and meet tempting, open-minded couples and singles at these premier lifestyle events.

Click here to make your summer red-hot with these sizzling swinger lifestyle events across the globe.

FEATURED BUSINESS

Malibu Strings

Swimsuits for the uninhibited.

Malibu Strings designs, markets, and sells its own brand of sexy, fashion-forward swimsuits and clothing.

Inspired by the magnificent natural beauty of the Malibu coastline and the free-spirited nature of Southern California, Malibu Strings creates designs that are innocent in form but daring enough to awaken the female body. Specializing in swimwear for the uninhibited, Malibu Strings has become a favorite for customers around the world.

From their factory in Sunny Southern California, they manufacture and distribute clothing directly to our customers. They do not sell or distribute products to any third parties. By dealing directly with customers, they are able to build strong, long-lasting, personal relationships with our customers.

Enjoy shopping at MalibuStrings.com, and please feel free to let them know if there is anything they can do to improve your shopping experience.

FEATURED EXPERT

Strictly Anonymous Confessions Podcast

We’d like to welcome Strictly Anonymous Confessions Podcast as one of our new SDC Media Contributors!

Listen into the secret lives of total strangers. Your Strictly Anonymous host talks to real people about their interesting, secret NAUGHTY lives and gives them her unprofessional advice.

If you have a secret, interesting, NAUGHTY life and / or a problem you want to discuss while remaining anonymous, contact STRICTLYANONYMOUS.

Listen to people’s naughty, real-life sexy confessions on the podcast here at SDC!