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We have reduced the menu for Settings > Profile. The previous sub-menu for Profile > View Profile / Edit Profile / Photos / Video / Album has been removed. Instead, you see Profile only, and the subcategories now show in the form of tabs or as icons on mobile.
Age restriction for party owners to invite members has been lifted. Meaning the party owner can invite a member of any age even if they have set an age criteria for members to invite themselves.
Party guest lists now reflect the number of people attending instead of the number of profiles.
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SDC Travel Calendar
Have you made vacation plans yet? or are you traveling somewhere anytime soon? If you have, post your plans in our Travel Calendar. Posting travel plans will help you make contact with other SDC members during your stay. Just click + Travel Plan to get started.
The travel calendar can be used to: 1. Post your own travel plans with Date and Location. 2. Find out who is traveling near you. 3. Help you to decide when it is the best time to travel and likely meet other SDC members. 4. Popular Destinations with travel plans for Desire RM, Desire Pearl, Hedonism II, Caliente, Secrets Hideaway, Cap d’Agde, or Ibiza. 5. After posting your own plans, see who else will be there. 6. See the travel plans for your SDC Friends or Liked members.
We hope our Travel Calendar is helpful, and if you have any questions or comments, please feel free to contact our Helpdesk.
SDC Contests
Congratulations to DRUGASWEIZOSC for winning the Screaming Orgasm Video Contest!
Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Bijoux Indiscrets, & Swingers Paradise.
Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests:
New – Sexy in Nature Video Contest
Current – My Sexy Ass Photo Contest
Voting Underway – Outdoor Sex Adventures Writing Contest
NEW: SDC Business Tools & FAQ Resources
How can your brand benefit the most from your Business Profile on SDC.com?
Get answers to your questions right here!
With your Business Profile on SDC.com, you’ll have access to many opportunities to grow your brand within our international community of 3+ million members — and beyond.
Check out our new Business Tools page to discover all the features we offer to businesses, plus our top expert tips for making the most of your SDC Business Profile.SDC Shop
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Vibrators, air pressure toys, anal toys, and naughty toys to use together as a couple… or even with more sexy people. You can find it all on our webshop!
LIVE: Tara Takes Over our SDC Instagram Account!
Playboy Bunny and podcast host of Tuned In and Turned On with Tara will be taking over our SDC Instagram account @sdclifestylersclub!
Join us for a lively discussion about sexuality, body positivity, relationships, and the lifestyle — and you can ask your own questions, too!
Save the Date: JULY 11 @ 4 PM EST
Add yourself to the event’s guest list on SDC.
Are you an influencer in the lifestyle who’s interested in collaborating with us to entertain and educate our SDC community? Connect with member SDCMEDIA.PARTNER CONTENT
An African-American Guide To Ethical Non-Monogamy by Taylor K. Sparks
Taylor K. Sparks helps people explore their innermost desires through her erotic education, international public speaking, and coaching for ethically monogamous and ethically non-monogamous singles and couples. She’s certified in human behavior and holistic aromatherapy and has been featured in noteworthy media such as Bustle, BuzzFeed, Oprah, Glamour, GQ, Men's Health, and Shape.
Her new book, An African-American Guide To Ethical Non-Monogamy: The How, Why and With Whom To Explore Your Expanding Love Styles, is a how-to guide that helps African-Americans explore ethical non-monogamy. This book will enlighten you to the red flags, cowboys and cowgirls, and others ‘hiding’ in plain sight within the community. You’ll discover the differences and benefits of Open, Swinging, Polygyny, Polyandry, and Polyamory and resolve which love style(s) is / are best for you.
Her latest book empowers individuals to explore alternative ways of loving and being loved. It also takes a historical dive into marriage, African-American marriage, and monogamy. SDC.com is also included in the list of resources for groups who can provide support, trauma, and guidance to help you as you transition in and / or through this journey.
Get your copy of An African-American Guide To Ethical Non-Monogamy at organicloven.com.
PARTNER CONTENT
Swinging 101 Webinars: FREE for SDC Members!
Season 4 of Lexi Sylver’s Swinging 101 webinar series begins July 12th!
Swinging 101 host Lexi Sylver is an open lifestyle, sex, and relationship coach and educator, and also the Media Director for SDC.com. She blends her knowledge about the open lifestyle with her own personal experiences to give you the advice and info you need for smooth, sexy swinging.
As an SDC member, you get FREE access to all Swinging 101 events! Get all the details at lexisylver.com/SDC. Only those who register for their tickets will receive access to the live webinar link and the video replay.
Check out this lineup of juicy Swinging 101 webisodes:
Newbies in the Open Lifestyle
July 12th @ 8 PM EDT
How to Create a Sexy Dating Profile
July 26th @ 8 PM EDT
Swinger Icebreakers
August 9th @ 8 PM EDT
WTF To Do When Swinging Goes Wrong
August 23rd @ 8 PM EDT
Swingers Clubs, Parties, and Events
September 13th @ 8 PM EDT
Get details & your FREE tickets at lexisylver.com/SDC.
FEATURED EXPERT
NEW to SDC.com: Tuned In and Turned On with Tara
Please give a warm welcome to Tara Michelle, the newest member of our SDC Media family!
Tara is a body- and sex-positive advocate and podcast host of Tuned In and Turned On with Tara. She aims to break stigmas and end shame when it comes to women’s sexuality and their body confidence.
For thousands of years, women have been defined by, shamed because of, and oppressed for their bodies and sexuality. Societies globally and historically have attempted to keep women’s power at bay by controlling the narrative over our bodies and sexuality.
If you’re ready to reclaim your power, recharge your relationship with your own body, and reignite your sexuality, then you have come to the right place.
Listen to Tara’s Tuned In and Turned On podcasts on SDC:
Pulling Back the Curtain: Playboy & Pineapples
Your Highest Sexual Self
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My Husband Watched My First MFM Threesome
This newbie hotwife and her husband received quite the island initiation when two Jamaican locals helped them to their resort villa!
One of our SDC members submitted the following story to our “My First Threesome” Erotic Writing Contest.
After checking in, the reality of where we were hit me as I looked around the resort and saw a gorgeous, barely-dressed couple wandering down a path that passed the open lobby area. Two handsome and very tall Jamaican gentlemen approached us and asked if we would like a hand with our bags and to show us to our room. They must have read John’s face before he could say anything about how they didn’t look like they worked for the hotel. Neither were wearing shirts or shoes, just shorts and their smiles. Both had similar perfect builds without an ounce of visible body fat. ‘Sunglasses, don’t fail me now,’ I thought to myself as my eyes wandered to them.
PARTIES AROUND THE WORLD
Meet & Greet: Lifestyle Event in Hidden Speakeasy - Montreal Edition
Montreal, Canada Friday, July 7th, 2023
Come have a drink and meet local swingers couples from your area as well as SDC members in an inclusive, safe, and sexy environment.
This is another edition of our local Meet & Greets, which takes part in a series of prestigious and high-end events in exclusive venues such as penthouses, art galleries, yachts, hotel-palace, manor houses, and so much more. These events are for those looking for exhilarating and high-end events where discretion and anonymity are a priority.
This time, we are taking you on a whole different experience, to a well-kept secret in the basement of a restaurant on Notre-Dame Ouest. It is said that this place was inspired from the famous Playboy house from 1970, which creates a mysterious and sensual ambiance for all those enjoying themselves, sippin’ on a delicious cocktail while looking flirtatiously at each other. The perfect place to host the very special guests that you are. Don’t be shy, you know you want to.
The place will be reserved for SDC members and fellow swingers who would like to join us from 7 PM to 10 PM.
Please note that after 10 PM, the speakeasy will be open to the general public, so make sure to arrive early in order to spend some quality time with your fellow swingers!
For whom? Couples and single women When? Friday, July 7th (reserved for SDC members from 7 PM to 10 PM, but opened until midnight for those who would like to stay) How much? 20$ per person Where? Griffintown, on Street Notre-Dame Ouest (the exact location will be revealed once attendance has been confirmed) Dress code mood? « Casually going out on a Friday night, not knowing where the night will take me, but ready for it all! »
- Private speakeasy reserved for SDC members from 7 PM to 10 PM - Food and drinks menu available - Amazing cocktails and a private bartender - Coat check - Cash bar on the premises - A 1-year free membership to SDC will be drawn around 9 PM!
- Contact us if you want to add a single man as your +1 - Please note that the event is not exclusive to SDC members. You can contact us if you wish to bring a couple who is not an SDC member with you.
No nudity or sexuality on the premises
Wicked Anniversary Party! WHITE NIGHT!
Marbella, Spain Saturday, July 8th, 2023
OFFICIAL SDC PARTY! Celebrating our 4th year anniversary in Marbella!
COUPLES & LADIES ONLY!
SDC OFFICIAL SPONSOR! WHITE PARTY!
Dress Code: Dress in WHITE or LESS to Impress, Provocative and/or elegant. DINNER OPTION @ 20:30 – RESERVE by whatsapp: (0034) 697 935 224
PARTY STARTS: 22:00
Select single gents will be allowed if accompanied by a couple upon request. www.wickedclub.com
FlirtsLV Couples & Single Females Party
Las Vegas, NV Saturday, July 8th, 2023
FlirtsLV Welcomes You to Upscale Private Night Parties with Class & Sophistication. We encourage you to dress to impress and bring your upbeat attitude to mix, mingle and indulge with other like-minded individuals.
All guests must make a reservation to attend through our website. ( www.FlirtsLV.com ) NO Walk-Ins will be allowed.
Please choose your parking option as NO on Street Parking is Permitted. Doors open at 10 pm, but you must arrive no later than midnight. NO EXCEPTIONS Max Capacity for our party is 100 guests. We will run out of Parking so please make your reservations in advance. Reservations stop when the party guest list is full or at 9 pm. NO Reservations AFTER 9 pm.
We will have Free Mixers for Your BYOB. We have Night Party Flyers All Over So Don't Worry If You See Limited Guests On The List Here. You Will Not Be The Only One There. www.flirtslv.com
FREE Meet & Greet @ Blue Martini Upstairs Bar - hosted by AtEase
Phoenix, AZ Friday, July 14th, 2023
Couples and ladies, join us at Blue Martini Friday,July 14th, 2023 at 6:00pm - 9:00pm, we have adjusted the time to allow for Blue Martinis Happy Hour (4:00PM to 7:00PM.)
Our group will have the entire upstairs bar area (near the restrooms) during this time, after 9:00 the upstairs bar opens to the public but we don't have to leave, feel free to stay and enjoy the band!
Blue Martini is located 5455 E High Street Suite 101, Phoenix, AZ 85054.
Mention our group, Dirty Martini at the door and they should waive the cover charge.
Just For Dinner: Detroit
Detroit, MI Friday, July 21st, 2023
For those in the lifestyle who appreciate a slender ankle in a red-soled pump, the hand-stitched interior of a classic German automobile, and a 2007 Insignia, this is for you.
Combining each chef's seasonal tasting menu with the sommelier's best pairings, these five-course experiences are discreet, elegant, and leisurely. They are also a perfect way to meet other professional couples, like yourselves, who are in the lifestyle.
Hosted at one of the best-reviewed restaurants and held in the city's finest private dining rooms, the guest list is always selective and by invitation only. The above photo was taken just before our guests arrived at a prior event. www.JustForDinner.com Sponsored by: The-Group.com
Decadent Pool Soirée Weekend & Formal Affair
Baytown, TX Friday, July 21st - 23rd, 2023
Join us for a fun-filled weekend of decadence and relaxation. On Friday take your time to settle in, enjoy the optional spa services and relax by our pool. Be ready for our welcome reception at 6pm followed by a casual dinner at 7pm. A chance to meet and mingle with your fellow guests and be introduced to the amazing staff that will take care of you for the entire weekend. After dinner, dance the night away and enjoy our open bar.
On Saturday be part of our Decadent Pool Soirée, this will be a party not to be missed, enjoy our margarita machine as you partake in the fun activities around the pool area. Educational classes will also be available for your enjoyment and of course our award winning spa is open all day.
Social cocktail hour begins at 6pm, be dressed in your formal attire and enjoy our open bar. Our very own Executive Chef, Vincent Fiore will call for dinner at 7pm.
Vincent Fiore of "The Wiseguy Kitchen," and "Coast to Coast- Food, Fun, & Travel." He is a 6 time Telly Award recipient, a 4 time Taste Award recipient, Ferrara Flame Award, People's Choice Award for Best Chef/Host 2006 and 2019. In addition to taking care of the members of The Swan Mansion, Chef Vincent is also the Executive Chef for the Phillies MLB Baseball team during spring training and The Texas Rangers Triple A team. With over 30 years of creating sensational culinary experiences, members of The Swan Mansion will be treated to a hybrid of true fine-dining and LS dining fun.
During and after dinner enjoy our superb entertainment, then dance and socialize whilst enjoying the Open Bar until Midnight.
As the sun plunges below the horizon, and the evening settles upon us, our decadent desires will be met by other willing souls. The hot tub with poolside bar service will help us escape to those dark and decadent thoughts that will allow our bodies to follow.
Don't delay, ensure you have a suite on the estate by booking today. Come find out what all the whispers are about. www.SwanMansion.life
SDC Pin-ups Girls Party at TRAPEZE CLUB
Fort Lauderdale, FL Saturday, July 22nd, 2023 8pm - 4am
It’s a sexier, simpler time at SDC’s Pin Up Girls party. Ladies, it’s time to find your best dress, stocking, heels and red lipstick. Pull off your best Bettie Page or Dita von Teese. The made-up ladies are so fun to deflower in all sorts of ways.
Don your pin-up looks for $5 off!*
Add yourself to the SDC Guest List (by 7:30pm day of the event) and get $5 OFF your Nightly User Fee.)
Don’t miss: 4-course Dinner Buffet Late-night Breakfast Buffet Unlimited non-alcoholic beverages Come out and play at Atlanta’s and South Florida’s best swingers club!
Nightly User Fees: Couples: $80 | Single Ladies: $40 | No Single Men
Trapeze Membership required. (Cannot be combined with other discounts, vouchers or passes. You must arrive before Midnight and mention your SDC screen name to receive discounts.)
So, what are you waiting for? Make your plans now!!!. TrapezeClubs.com/Fort-Lauderdale