Swingers Lifestyle Community for Open-Minded Couples & Singles
Join the world’s largest international swinging lifestyle community! With our SDC Messenger and speed dating features, you'll meet and connect instantly with swingers near you, see who's going to swingers parties and clubs, and meet members traveling to your area. Get expert tips and media resources on the open lifestyle and relationships, and join groups based on your shared interests. Plus, discover our network of lifestyle-friendly businesses, BNBs, travel destinations, and more. SDC has everything you need to safely and discreetly navigate the lifestyle, while always prioritizing your privacy.
We are so happy to see you all coming back online after a few months of unpredictable times. As you know, we are constantly making improvements and updates to SDC with your user experience in mind.
We have recently updated our Chatroom and Live Stream experience by eliminating flash and implementing a new technology that allows you to stream from any device.
We have also added the ability for you to Live Stream only to your friends. Keep checking the Live Stream page, as there is a lot more to come.
It’s Time to Vote: Bump & Grind Video Contest
Voting is underway for our latest SDC Video Contest. Click here to check out all contest videos and show your sexy SDC members some support! For mobile users, please go to the CONTEST link on the side menu.
Latest SDC Benefits
Here are some of the latest discounts and offers available to Full SDC Members:
www.instagram.com/velvetartbycarter/?hl=en Velvet Art by Carter If you are a member of SDC, you will receive a 10% discount on your intimacy session. Sessions include lingerie, underwear, full nude of both male and female, full-on sexual acts or any other various requests that you might want photographed.
built4swingers.com 10% off for SDC members that come in and ask for a built4swingers discount.
www.providencefilms.co Direct, bonus compensation for SDC members interested in participating.
NOTE: If you have a business profile and would like to offer SDC members a discount, please add this to your profile and we can feature you in our upcoming newsletters!
Promote & Advertise with SDC
We have updated and improved our affiliate program with a new dashboard, payout, activity, signups, and banners layout! Each has its own specific function with regard to your account and who signed up using your promo code! You will also find our new advertiser dashboard for those who wish to promote your business within our SDC.com website. This includes an option to move earned affiliate money to be used as a credit on our advertiser platform; when you use this option, you will receive a 10% bonus on your advertising spend! To access your partner account, log in here: https://www.sdc.com/partner. If you have any questions, please email partner@sdc.com. Thanks again for promoting SDC.com!
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For Your Listening Pleasure: Popular Podcasts!
Are you caught up on your SDC podcasts?! Each week, our host Lexi Sylver and her guest experts cover the ins and outs of sex, health, and relationships.
Listen to these popular episodes, including some new ones you may have missed:
Pick an episode from our full list here, then sit back, relax, and let Lexi guide you to sexier, healthier, and more fulfilling sex and relationships.
RECOMMENDED READING
The Ultimate Guide to Seduction & Foreplay
Renowned sexuality experts Jessica O’Reilly, PhD (Sex with Dr. Jess) and Marla Renee Stewart, MA (Sex Down South) want to help everyone have better, more fulfilling, and more meaningful sex!
Their new book, The Ultimate Guide to Seduction & Foreplay, teaches readers how to tune into their own desires, become better communicators, and ultimately be more confident, passionate, and attentive lovers. Inspired by fantasies of seduction, Marla and Jess take you on a journey of sexual exploration and help you understand the many factors that add to or inhibit arousal and pleasure on psychological, sociological, and sexological levels.
As you explore your own learning and seduction styles (and your lover’s), you’ll discover and experiment with new and exciting ways to stimulate arousal and deepen intimacy: verbal, emotional, and digital seduction, foreplay, eroticizing daily actions, games, fantasy play, mindfulness, and more.
You don’t have to be a rockstar in (or out of) the sack each time you have sex, but this book will help you approach your lovers with the confidence and comfort you deserve! Whether you're adding to your repertoire for later or striving to please your current lover, you’ll discover thrilling new pathways to pleasure and intimacy.
Seductive Swingers, Tempting Threesomes, and Kinky BDSM
Lexi Sylver’s real sexual adventures and darkest fantasies come to life in Mating Season, a provocative collection of erotic short stories. Mating Season lures you into the depths of the obscene as you read Lexi’s favorite tales of daring group play, sapphic seduction, enticing encounters, and kinky BDSM. Join a cast of shameless characters in their pursuits to satisfy their decadent appetites for pleasure.
On July 28, 2020, Black women and the people who love, celebrate, and support them will converge in a digital space to explore the intersections of Black womanhood, pleasure, love, justice, activism, and liberation.
This 4-day summit of webinars, workshops, and content is led, organized, and created by Black women, including Amina Peterson, Dr. Wanda Swan, Nia Sade, and Jet Setting Jasmine, among other inspirational and influential speakers and leaders.
This is an opportunity for us all to learn from Black women who are thought leaders, healers, and teachers. A summit where we are safe to share our concerns, fears, and questions while healing and celebrating our survival and existence.
It is no secret that the Atlanta Institute of Tantra & Divine Sexuality centers Black women and their pleasure, but what does that mean right now, in these strange new times? This summit is a safe space where all can discuss exactly what that looks like.
Join Marla Renee Stewart and Luna Matatas for intellectual conversations around race and kink and its effects on the various intersections of identities and kinky particulars.
Our Goals:
To create conversations about racism in kink communities, industries, and spaces To empower BIPOC people to navigate and thrive in kinky pursuits To educate allies on how implicit bias, racism, and interpersonal racism happens in kink To raise awareness of racial dynamics in kinky activities and events Feed your brain and your kinky soul with lively conversation with some of the industry's leading kinky professionals! You'll have the ability to ask questions and engage and, better yet, learn more things that can help your kinky experience evolve.
So far, our guests include:
July 14th - Luna & Marla July 28th - Dirty Lola Aug. 11th - Midori Aug. 25th - Ignacio Rivera & Aredvi Azad of Heal2End Sept. 8th - Jet Setting Jasmine & King Noire of Royal Fetish Films Sept. 22nd - All of the above for our Exclusive BIPOC ONLY meeting All people are welcome, except for every sixth session, where it will be exclusively BIPOC. Please only register for the sixth session if you identify as BIPOC.
Accessibility: Closed Captions are available. NO ONE WILL BE TURNED AWAY FOR LACK OF FUNDS. Please email marla@velvetlipsllc.com or luna@lunamatatas.com if you'd like to attend.
**These sessions will be recorded. Everyone who signs up will get access to the recording.**
For those loving the freedom of the completely-buff lifestyle and those who are ready for erotic adventures, it's good to know that Cap d'Agde has opened up for business! The beaches are open, the restaurants are open, and by the end of this month, the clubs will once again be open as well. With that glorious news, it goes without saying that our groups will be taking place as planned, and you are welcome to book your stay at Le Jardin d'Eden.
Our groups will enjoy a daily breakfast buffet, daily room cleaning, DJ parties, color themes, and all that Cap is well-known for! Click here to book your last-minute stay in paradise!!! Hurry!
FEATURED EXPERT
Marla Renee Stewart
Marla Renee Stewart, MA is a professional sex, intimacy, and relationship coach and sex educator. Not only is she a lecturer at Clayton State University, but she is also the co-founder of the Sex Down South Conference and the Sexual Liberation Collective. Gaining her reputation for being "The Sex Architect," she created Velvet Lips to empower people of all ages to embrace, educate, and enjoy their sexuality and their sexual lives. She has studied human sexuality for more than 16 years at San Francisco State University and Georgia State University, respectively, and has expert knowledge in a wide variety of subjects. She has published academic articles and continues to do sexuality research. She has conducted workshops at conferences, not-for-profit and private organizations, as well as universities in the Atlanta area. She has been featured on many radio shows, documentaries, books, magazines and has been invited to speak at Universities around the country. She also sits on the board for the Atlanta Harm Reduction Coalition and SPARK Reproductive Justice Now!
Unicorn Hunting: 5 Common Mistakes and How to Avoid Them
One of the most popular fantasies is also one of the most complicated and difficult to achieve, but not all hope is lost! Within the realm of ethical non-monogamy, unicorns are the rarest and most sought-after species. Let me get you up to speed with the lingo I’ll be using throughout this article.... READ MORE.
EVENT SPOTLIGHT
Virtual Naughty N'awlins
Wednesday–Sunday, July 8–12, 2020
Naughty N'awlins is the largest annual lifestyle convention in the world. With over 1,400 couples, this event is not only a full takeover of one of the French Quarter's biggest hotels, but it also takes over Bourbon Street. This year, because of the current COVID crisis, Naughty Events is moving the annual Naughty N'awlins event back to August 19–23, 2020. Virtual Swing Party is producing a completely virtual convention hosted by Naughty Events, at a very discounted price, for those that want to join us virtually in July.
How will this work?
We will have a full 4-day event online that will go from noon until midnight, every day for four days. You can chat with other attendees in the lobby, and you can go to other rooms to see entertainers, join couples live streaming in Meet & Greets, play games and win prizes, attend workshops and seminars, and then join us for our theme night parties each evening.
Cocktails & Erotic Tales
Saturday, July 11th, 2020 — 9–10 pm EST
Enjoy LIVE erotic storytelling, free giveaways, and shameless sex talk with Lexi Sylver!
Get your drink on and spice up your Saturday night with Cocktails & Erotic Tales! This one-hour online webinar event includes:
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