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Happy New Year 2025!
SDC wishes you all a Happy & Healthy 2025! May all your hottest fantasies come true this year.
SDC Book Club
This month, we are introducing For Better or Even Better: 7 Lessons on Life & Love from a Non-Monogamist by Lauren Hayes. Discover the candid, transformative journey of a relationship coach navigating life and love outside traditional boundaries. In this insightful guide, readers are invited into a world where transparency, emotional honesty, and vulnerability shape relationships — both monogamous and non-monogamous. With a unique blend of humor, personal anecdotes, and deep wisdom, this book explores the real-life lessons learned from embracing a non-monogamous lifestyle. Get yours now on Amazon Kindle (eBook).
SDC Contests
Congratulations to SECRETCRUSH for winning the Secret Erotic Fantasies writing contest AND to INCOUPLE for winning the Erotic Photo Shoot photo contest! Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Bijoux Indiscrets, Swingers Paradise.
Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests: New – Unexpected Sex Encounters – Writing Contest
Current – Santa’s Horny Helpers – Photo Contest
Voting Underway – Missionary Impossible – Video Contest
SDC Shop
Have you discovered our online shop yet?
Check out all the sexy toys and SDC merchandise. Shop now!
SDC BNB — Don’t Miss Out!
Some hosts — you know who you are — have not signed up yet for their FREE listing, so now is as good a time as ever! Why wait?
Receive more guests at your accommodations who share your free-minded vision and who would love to come and stay to fully enjoy what you offer!
When you are ready to give your BNB business a boost, fill out our business profile request form and finally get that ball rolling!
New Year, New Live Streams — Exclusively on SDC!
Learn more about sex, swinging, hotwifing, and relationships from our SDC Contributors! Check out our Webinars section for upcoming live streams from our experts, EXCLUSIVELY for SDC members. In this section, you can also view Past Videos from previous streams that you may have missed.
PARTNER CONTENT
How I Had the BEST Orgasm EVER — and How You Can, Too!
How can the transformative practice of tantric yoni massage help you reach ecstatic new heights with your sexuality and relationships?
With the expert techniques she and her partner learned in Beducated’s Yoni Massage course, Lexi Sylver shares her personal experience about discovering new erogenous zones, leading her to have the most powerful orgasm of my life (so far)! Spoiler alert: squirting was involved!
Discover how she and her partner enhanced their sex lives with yoni massage — and how you can, too!
PARTNER CONTENT
FREE WEBINARS: Lexi Sylver’s Swinging 101 Series
And season 6 of the popular Swinging 101 webinar series starts soon!
As an SDC member, you get FREE access to all of Lexi’s Swinging 101 events (including the video replay)!
Check out this lineup of juicy Swinging 101 webinars:
Newbies in the Open Lifestyle
January 15 @ 8 PM EST
Swinger Relationship Dynamics
February 12 @ 8 PM EST
How to Deal with Jealousy
March 5 @ 8 PM EST
WTF to Do When Swinging Goes Wrong
March 26 @ 8 PM EST
How to Seduce a Unicorn
April 9 @ 8 PM EST
Swinger Icebreakers
April 23 @ 8 PM EST
***Only those who register for their free tickets on Lexi’s site can access video replay and the live webinar with Q&A.***
Get your FREE tickets for Swinging 101 here!
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FEATURED EXPERT
Dr. Laurie Betito
Dr. Laurie is a clinical psychologist specializing in sexual wellness and has been a practicing psychotherapist for over 35 years. For the last three decades, she has been doing radio and television, dispensing sex and relationship advice. She currently hosts a weekly podcast and regularly contributes to various magazines, newspapers, and television shows. For 22 years, she was the host of the nightly Canadian syndicated show "Passion." Dr. Laurie has also done two TEDx talks on the subject of sexuality, and she has also published a book, The Sex Bible for People Over 50. Dr. Laurie is the President of the non-profit organization, The Sexual Health Network of Quebec, and past President of the Canadian Sex Research Forum. She is also the Director of the Pornhub Sexual Wellness Center, an online sexual health information platform. Tune in to her weekly "Passion with Dr. Laurie and Jon Pole" podcast, available on all streaming platforms, to learn more about sexuality and relationships. Learn more about Dr. Laurie and listen to her podcasts on SDC.
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Your Guide to Drama-Free Sex Parties & Events
Navigate sex parties and events so that you can have more fun and less drama!
While many new couples are excited about participating in the Lifestyle and attending parties and events, countless couples who enter this brave new world often find themselves experiencing more drama than the fun they were expecting.
The drama almost always comes from a case of not knowing what they don’t know. Many couples find their way into my Lifestyle Sex Coaching practice after stumbling out of the gate and realizing that participation in the Lifestyle and sexual engagement with others requires a lot more communication skills than they're used to. Believe me, the last thing these couples want to do is mess up the life they've built outside of the bedroom when all they were looking for was a little sexual excitement and spark in the bedroom.
So, how can you prepare yourself for this exciting (and delicate) new chapter in your life, and start to have more fun and less drama at sex parties and events?
Read on for my tips on how you can enjoy all the amazing benefits the Lifestyle has to offer your relationship!... READ MORE.
PARTIES AROUND THE WORLD
SCISSOR SISTERS @ Xtasia
West Bromich, UK
Wednesday, January 8, 2025 SCISSOR SISTERS - WOMEN ONLY SPA AND PLAYROOM EVENT. *Invite Only
Bisexual, Lesbian, Bi-curious women and Non Binary females. Fancy an evening of social or naughty play?
Want to make new friends?
Any fantasies to tick off?
Curious about being in WOMEN ONLY safe space?
Then this is the event for you whether you're a regular or newbie.
Dedicated Play Area, Bar and Spa. Fun Games, Music and Naughty Nibbles. PUSSY ONLY PLAYZONE. WEDNESDAY 8TH JANUARY 2025.
8PM - 12AM. In Flirts Spa at Xtasia,
High Street, West Bromwich, B70 6JJ.
www.xtasia.co.uk
Fetish Factory presents: CYBEROTICA FETISH PARTY
Fort Lauderdale, FL
Friday, January 10, 2025
10pm - 3am We’re starting off 2025 with a blend of chooms IRL having a blast at The Venue Fort Lauderdale for our CYBEROTICA Fetish Party! Get down in Realspace with jumpin music and slick DJs on January 10th, so get your tickets NOW! WHERE
The Venue Ft. Lauderdale
2345 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305 3 ROOMS, 2 SOUNDS
BDSM Bunker * Dance Room * Vibe Room
Dark Wave, Industrial, EBM, Agrotech, Dark Techno, Alternative, Electro, Goth BOTTLE SERVICE MENU https://fetishfactory.com/the-manor-complex-bottle-list
TABLE SERVICE & RESERVATIONS
Contact Donna@fetishfactory.com to reserve your table DRESS CODE:
Fetish Factory prides itself at being one of the few promoters of Glam Style Fetish Parties where dress code is strictly enforced without exception. We hope that you will respect our dress code and don’t let yourself down! This event has a strict dress code — no exceptions. We command the following attire:
Rubber – Leather – Vinyl – Uniforms – Victorian - Kinky Drag – Fetish Glam – Steampunk – Goth - Nu Goth – Punk – Cyber Punk – Animal – Fantasy - Cosmic Wear – Erotic Lingerie ABSOLUTELY NO JEANS, NO ALL BLACK STREETWEAR, NO SLACKERS, NO RUNNING SHOES, NO EXCEPTIONS!
SDC Sunday Funday Pool Party @ The Rooftop
Hollywood, FL
Sunday, January 12, 2025
Noon till 4pm Come on out to our Hottest, Sexiest pool party ever!!! IMPORTANT:
Arrive early if you want to get a parking space close to the hotel, otherwise you will have to walk a distance.
Helpful reference: https://www.hollywoodfl.org/285/Parking-Locations
Hotel lot is ONLY for guests with a Hotel Room.
If the weather does not cooperate, no worries..the party will be moved to the 2nd floor, where the club and playrooms are. So, Come on out and join us for some Naked Fun!!! Sun your buns, visit with old friends and make a few new ones. B.Y.O.B. - Mixers & Set-ups provided See website for more details: www.RooftopResort.com So, what are you waiting for? Make your plans now and add yourself to the SDC Guest List.
Winter Pajama Jam Play Party!
Aurora, CO
Saturday, January 18th, 2025 Ready to turn up the heat this winter?
Join us for a night of cozy comfort and naughty fun at our Winter Pajama Jam Play Party. Slip into your sexiest sleepwear and let's make this winter unforgettable. http://lsplayground.com/events/70774
SDC Short Skirts (no undies) @ Krave
Pompano Beach, FL
Saturday, January 18th, 2025 Short Skirts (No Undies) sponsored by SDC! Come out to Krave on Saturday, Jan 18th for the SDC sponsored event: Short Skirts (No Undies) for a sexy night of dancing and play! SDC.com Couples with screen names on the guest list are $75 online or $85 at the door!
SDC.com Single Females with screen names on the guest list are $40 online and $50 at the door. Purchase your tickets on Kravelifestyle.com Krave - The Inclusive Lifestyle Club
1000 East Sample Rd
Pompano Beach, FL 33064
SAT. 25 JAN! KINK Fetish Party!
Marbella, Spain
Saturday, 25 January, 2025 COUPLES & LADIES ONLY! Dress Code: Dress to the theme (optional) LEATHER, LACE, PVC or whatever your KINK is! or LESS to Impress, Provocative and/or elegant. FEATURE SHIBARI SHOW BY SHIBARI STUDIO (LA CUEVA DEL GATO ROJO)
Sponsored by SDC FIXED MENU DINNER AVAILABLE FROM 21:00
PLEASE WHATSAPP (0034) 697 935 224 TO RESERVE
Party from: 22:00
www.wickedclub.com