Swingers Lifestyle Community for Open-Minded Couples & Singles
Join the world’s largest international swinging lifestyle community! With our SDC Messenger and speed dating features, you'll meet and connect instantly with swingers near you, see who's going to swingers parties and clubs, and meet members traveling to your area. Get expert tips and media resources on the open lifestyle and relationships, and join groups based on your shared interests. Plus, discover our network of lifestyle-friendly businesses, BNBs, travel destinations, and more. SDC has everything you need to safely and discreetly navigate the lifestyle, while always prioritizing your privacy.
SDC wishes you all a Happy & Healthy 2022! We look forward to a year of positive vibes and lots of sexy fun.
SDC Features Update
Here are the latest improvements over the last month:
Group filters have been improved and can now be found under Options on the group page, and new group categories have been added.
Profile Pictures setting now clearly shows which of your photos show up on the app and the web.
We merged contest pages with a new look and filters!
Party Improvements
Personal Message Option Our SDC guest lists are a fantastic way to get to know other members before you attend an event, so we are excited to announce a new enhancement to our guest list feature for both public and private parties.
When you add yourself to a guest list, you will be presented with a white box that gives you the option to add a few words about yourself.
For example: Let everyone know where you will be hanging out at the club, what you’re wearing, or if you are brand new to a club or party and would like others to say hello and introduce themselves…. There are so many ways to help break the ice!
Incognito Private Parties As promised, we have implemented the option for Incognito Private Parties, as we received so many requests for this.
When selecting Incognito Private Party, the event will not appear anywhere in the site — not under Parties & Events, nor in feed announcements to friends and people in your area. It's just for the host to see when viewing their profile under Settings and for members that have accepted the host's party invitation. Sending an automatic invite to friends is still an option when selecting an Incognito Private Party.
Guest List Full Option We have added another useful tool for those that have limited space at their public and private parties — you can now set your guest list to Full. This keeps members informed, and it will prevent them from being able to request an invitation to your party.
SDC Contests
Congratulations to MRJAMESBOND for winning the Oral Ecstasy Video Contest and to EUROFUNCOUPLE for winning the Where’s the strangest place you’ve had sex? Writing Contest!
Lexi Sylver will explore your personal dating profile on SDC and give you honest and personalized advice to maximize your sexy potential — whether you're a newbie or experienced swinger with a singles or couples profile.
As a swinger, lifestyle coach, educator, and host of the series "Swinging 101," Lexi has lots of expert tips to help you up your dating game.
Learn more about Exploring Your Lexuality and check out real-life testimonials at LexiSylver.com/SDC.
*Offer valid until February 14th, 2022. Not combinable with other offers. Full details on site.
Exciting Times Ahead!
Travel is starting off 2022 with a solid offering of sexy events! Pick one or pick ‘em all, as there are many reasons to celebrate the lifestyle together and with others, and these experiences are all wonderful!
Our events are known worldwide for their personal touches, welcoming style, and warm smiles with a focus on lifestyle elements that pamper your needs. These are all intimate and unmatched experiences for couples, whether new in the lifestyle as well as swingers who have been around for a while. Explore all sexy options during the day, after dark, and all night long!
CRETE, GREECE: May 8 – 13, 2022 A crowd-pleaser for sure! A much-beloved hotel takeover where relaxations and fun are number one. The food, the pools, the playroom, the hot couples — it’s all just so good!
SEXPERIENCE, MEXICO: May 17 – 22, 2022 The Riviera Maya is world-renowned for its spectacular hotels and parties. This ultra-sensual event is no exception plus our largest gathering of swingers. Five-star luxury from start to finish!
NEW NEW NEW!!! SIERRA NEVADA SKI, SPAIN: January 15 – 20, 2023 Finally! For all you winter holiday & ski aficionados who have been impatiently waiting for another legendary SDC winter event, this one has your name on it! White powdered slopes while basking in the sun — it’s all a go!
Check our travel pages for pictures, videos, and reviews! Let your wanderlust roam free once again — join us for a hot adventure and book now!
Featured Expert: Taylor Sparks
While traveling around the globe, Taylor Sparks has become renowned in the adult travel industry and open living lifestyle as a leading facilitator and Experience Advisor for thousands of international travelers. She is a powerful public speaker both nationally and internationally, especially with her popular workshop series: ‘How To Make Good Pussy, Better.’
Her wellness brand, Organic Loven, provides the safest and most nourishing intimate products to help people love, be sexy, and enhance their pleasure. All products labeled “organic” are Certified Organic. Whether you are purchasing your first toy or your fifteenth, you can feel confident that products you receive from Organic Loven have been vetted and verified to be truly body-safe.
Taylor is socially and environmentally conscious and a strong supporter of all things organic, natural and eco-friendly… including Love.
Relationship Coaching: Strengthen Your Bond with Soul Mates for Life
Anyone committed to having an extraordinary relationship where friendship, shared purpose, passion, and fulfillment are present will benefit from this unique and powerful relationship enrichment experience.
Eric and Rosemarie came to a Soul Mates for Life™ live event due to chronic conflict and were on the brink of a separation when they arrived (most couples who attend are not in crisis; they want to learn and grow). A solid relationship for five years, both in their early 40s, she a small business owner with a successful cosmetics line, and he an entrepreneur who sold a technology company a few years ago and is semi-retired. Eric is a veteran in the lifestyle, and Rosemarie agreed to “try out swinging,” knowing that this would be the only model Eric would be content in. They had several missing/incomplete conversations, and each had different interests and intentions for what role the lifestyle would play in their relationship.
Neither of them knew exactly what that was nor the extent to which they were not aligned.
Until, on a lifestyle cruise, Eric actively pursued a unicorn who caught his eye, assuming he had Rosemarie’s consent to do so (there was neither “agreement” nor “consent”). Conflict ensued, revealing the core underlying issues: Eric was interested in polyamory and seeking emotionally committed relationships with select partners; Rosemarie was open to swinging with select partners who they did not necessarily see again..... READ MORE.
EVENT SPOTLIGHT
SDC Miami Hustle Party @ Eden DFW
Saturday, January 8th, 2022 Euless, TX 9:00pm - 4:00am
MIAMI HUSTLE PARTY PIMPS, HOES, COPS, & CARTEL
Best Costume Contest
SDC MEMBERS ON THE GUESTLIST RECEIVE $5 OFF THE DOOR COVER!
Sunday, January 9th, 2022 Hollywood, FL Noon 'til 4pm
Come on out to our Hottest, Sexiest pool party ever!!!
IMPORTANT: Arrive early if you want to get a parking space close to the hotel, otherwise, you will have to walk a distance. Helpful reference: https://www.hollywoodfl.org/285/Parking-Locations Hotel lot is ONLY for Guests with a Hotel Room. If the weather does not cooperate, no worries... the party will be moved to the 2nd floor, where the club and playrooms are.
So, come on out and join us for some Naked Fun!!!
Sun your buns, visit with old friends, and make a few new ones.
B.Y.O.B. — Mixers & Set-ups provided
DON’T DRINK AND DRIVE! GET A ROOM! Mention Your SDC Screen Name when booking your room.
Join us tonight for a brand-new twist on one of the sexiest, classic themes. We all love to see our friends in uniform, so tonight, show us what you've got in your naughtiest police or firefighter attire! That's right — we want to see your guns and your hoses as we dance the night away in our 3000 sq ft club, Club Secret®. With two bars, a huge dance floor, and tons of comfy seating, we have all the ingredients to make this the wildest night yet!
Make sure you take the time on Friday and Saturday nights to visit Club Swinkster. Secrets' premiere kinky ultra-lounge and dungeon allows you to experience some of your darkest desires in an environment that is inviting and yet… Let Sir Tank and Goddess Ellez from Carnivale Risque take you on a journey of delicious debauchery, and tasteful taboos followed by an exclusive EXTENDED HOURS PARTY every Saturday night for the select few that Sir Tank and Goddess Ellez deems worthy.
Remember, what happens at Secrets Always Stays a Secret!
Thursday, 20th January, 2022 London, UK 6pm to 10pm
This is a kinky play party, for good-humoured people of all persuasions. Our venue is a large and pleasant house in South London. It's is a friendly little affair — expect up to around twenty people. There’s a lounge area for socialising, a dungeon (with a cage, cross, and whipping bench), and several bedrooms you can use if you get really friendly…
There is no compulsory dress code — you can wear what you like. A few guys crossdress, fetish is very welcome, and quite a few people will be coming directly from work and wearing ordinary clothes. (Always arrive in street clothes, though, so as not to alarm the neighbours! You can change and shower at the venue.)
You can play all you like, but our parties are relaxed — there is no pressure, and newcomers are very welcome. All ages are welcome, too — just be nice people! We don’t sell alcohol, so please bring your own booze.
Our venue is in Sutton, South London, near the station. Trains to Sutton are really easy and only 30 mins from Victoria; make sure you get the faster train. Parking nearby is easy and free. (The full address is emailed to all ticket holders.)
Please note that cameras and drugs of any kind are NOT allowed at our parties.
WELCOME Welcome to the intriguing world of Odalik. An evening with an Arabian taste in which you can give life to all your most hidden desires, surrounded by the atmosphere of the magical Orient.
THE VILLA For Odalik, we chose a dream location, a classy venue that dominates the Veronese hills, an enchanted place surrounded by greenery and by the beautiful Veronese vineyards, but just a few kilometers from the city center. With its unique aesthetic charm, the villa reflects both the concepts of luxury and sobriety.
The address of the villa will remain secret and will be revealed to the guests only a few hours before the event.
THE EVENING Once at the location, you will be greeted by an evocative dance with fire that will immediately transport you to the world of Libertine Queen. Our sexy and elegant libertine princesses will take care of your coats and offer you a welcome glass. Throughout the whole night we will tease your senses with a refined buffet and ethnic-inspired finger food, all accompanied by French champagne and premium cocktails served by our libertine princesses. The belly dance show, the entertainment of Libertine Queen, and a DJ set will accompany you until midnight when the Ritual will mark the beginning of our luxurious night of pleasure. Admission is strictly scheduled from 10 pm to 11 pm; after 11 pm, the evening will continue closed-doors. Mobile phones and any other recording tools will be strictly forbidden.
To register, you can contact us via SDC.
DRESS CODE Evening gown for ladies, and black smoking jacket with a black shirt for gentlemen.
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