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Congratulations to JERMA for winning the Santa’s Horny Helper photo contest and to PLAYWITHMILA for winning the Unexpected Sex Encounters writing contest. Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Bijoux Indiscrets, Swingers Paradise. Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests: New – Sexiest Masked Party – Writing Contest
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Spring Will Soon Be in the Air!
Those with a BNB listing on our site: Please know that there are two upcoming opportunities to promote your sexy accommodation to the world by partaking in our BNB Spring Spotlight article in April or our BNB Fall and Winter Holiday article for September! There is limited availability for these, so please reach out to our BNB team at bnb@sdcmedia.com or SDCBNB inside the site to get all the specs if you’re interested!
Members: If you have a sexy BNB yourselves or know of someone who does, please don’t hesitate to sign up. The process is fairly simple, and we are excited to add to our ever-growing list!
For those who love to stay in spaces that offer a bit (or a lot!) more than a regular hotel room, make sure to check out all the listings in our BNB section, which you can easily find in the side menu.
Crete is Waiting for You!
If you are still looking for a luxury lifestyle ALL-INCLUSIVE getaway, then make sure to place yourselves on the waitlist. We have people needing to cancel for private reasons before it’s go time, so chances are, you can still make it onto the guest list! Prices start at €3,249 per room, based on double occupancy.
If you are interested, please click here, write to TRAVEL inside the site, or send an email to travel@sdc.com. We love to hear from you!
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Valentine’s Spotlight
Make your Valentine’s Day red-hot with these sexy couples' gift ideas!
Treat your partner — and yourself — to some erotic delights: swingers events, sexy getaways, and kinky couples’ gifts designed for intimacy, connection, and pleasure!
Take a peek at our exclusive spotlight below for inspiration to make this Valentine’s Day unforgettable.
Read our exclusive Valentine’s Spotlight here.
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The Group
By invitation only, The Group appeals to those in the lifestyle who demand quality over quantity and are seeking something well beyond traditional house parties and nightclubs. Group members experience truly one-of-a-kind events where they can satisfy their indulgences for great food, fine wines, world-class accommodations, and — of course — like-minded people.
Entrée to The Group starts by attending a Just For Dinner event where The Group’s founders get an opportunity to meet you personally while you get to experience just a taste of what it’s like to be a member of The Group.
Check out The Group here.

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Diary of a Swinging Couple
Chloe and Mike are the playful and adventurous duo behind Diary of a Swinging Couple! With nearly a decade in the lifestyle, they are passionate about building connections, embracing new experiences, and sharing plenty of laughs along the way. Their podcast offers a glimpse into their journey, capturing the ups, downs, and everything in between — whether they’re diving into wild parties, traveling to destinations like Temptation Cancun, or chatting with fascinating people from the community.
Their vibe? Fun, flirty, and genuine. They love meaningful conversations and are always up for meeting like-minded people, whether at a lifestyle club, a themed event, or over cocktails. Boundaries and respect are key to them, and they strive to create an open and positive space for themselves and others. For those who enjoy great company, exciting adventures, and maybe a little mischief, Diary of a Swinging Couple is just a play button away!
Listen to their podcasts here on SDC!
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5 Ways to Improve Your Sexual Relationship(s)
Over the years, I’ve learned that many couples (and single folk, too) have a hard time realizing their own sexual identity. For those who work around sexuality it can be easier, but at the same time they can also struggle with their concerns surrounding their own sexuality.
Many times we fault the lack of knowledge surrounding our own sexuality due to communication issues, but what we don’t realize is that it’s that kind of communication that is needed to sustain a fulfilling sexual (and non-sexual) relationship. Here are some key ways to help your growth as a sexual being ... READ MORE.
PARTIES AROUND THE WORLD
ArouseVegas Presents: Valentine’s Sexy
Las Vegas, NV
Friday, February 14th, 2025 Join us for this intimate, erotic event open to couples and singles.
Saturday's Valentine’s Party for Couples & Females
DFW, TX
Saturday, February 15th, 2025 Join us every Friday and Saturday Night at PlayhouseDFW Ultra Lounge! We Host The Sexiest Most Exclusive Lifestyle Events in the DFW area. This is Where the Sexy Play. We require ALL first-time guests to be registered and vetted by our board of members on our website (PlayhouseDFW.com). Everyone can apply but not all will be approved. Everyone must buy a ticket on our site to attend any event. Walk-ins will be turned away. Come Get Together With The Hottest Lifestyle Couples and Females In the DFW Area. All Our Guests Are Hand Picked, Just Like All Our Events! We Encourage You To Dress To Impress. We Have Event Flyers All Over So Don't Worry If You Don't See Anyone On This List Besides You. You Will Not Be The Only One There. Don't Forget To Check Out Our Profile, Events Page, Or PlayhouseDFW.com for All Our Other Events and FAQ
Exclusive Night - Valentine’s
Prague, Czech-Republic
Friday, February 14th, 2025 Let us invite you to the continuation of our exclusive private party for adults, which this year will be dedicated to the holiday of Saint Valentine's Day. This unique evening is an opportunity to celebrate the holiday of love in the company of like-minded people who believe that more people means more joy, more passion and more love. The event will take place in a brand new, stylishly equipped club True Funny with luxurious wellness facilities. 4 wellness suites with jacuzzis await you, where you can relax and enjoy intimate moments. For those looking for more intense experiences, we have also prepared a special BDSM play room. A colorful evening full of fun and excitement awaits you. You can look forward to quality dance music, an interesting accompanying program, and an exceptional space that will brighten up the entire evening. The club's capacity is limited to 30 couples and 5 solo women to ensure enough space and comfort for all participants. Therefore, we recommend booking your place as soon as possible! You can find all information needed at www.exclusivenights.cz Looking forward to meeting you!
SDC Mixer at EYZ WIDE SHUT
Tampa, FL
Friday, February 14th, 2025 7pm-3am Nightclub - 7pm - 3am
Playrooms - 11pm - 5am *Last tickets to Playrooms sold at 2am*
*Free Tour of Playrooms nightly at 9:30pm* Full Access INCLUDES FREE USE OF 10 PRIVATE, 2 GROUP ROOM, 1 LARGE DUNGEON AND 1 SMALL DUNGEON. We welcome swingers, exhibitionists, voyeurs, fetishists! ~ Full Liquor Bar & Dance Floor
~10 Sexy Theme Rooms
~2 Giant Group Playrooms/ Over 20,000 SF of “WILDNESS”
~1 Large Dungeon & 1 Small Dungeon *Panties and underwear must be worn in the nightclub, NO NUDITY IN THE NIGHTCLUB. DRESS CODE ON FRIDAYS AND SATURDAYS: NO HATS, OR FLIP-FLOPS/SANDALS. Complete Dress Code can be found on our website. 21+ Only and Cash Bar Only See website for dress code and pricing information. www.EyzWideShut.com
Sexy Valentine’s Erotic Ball!
Marbella, Spain
Saturday, February 15th, 2025 SEXY VALENTINES BALL WITH EROTIC FASHION SHOW AND LIVE ENTERTAINMENT!
Exciting Theme Party at Wicked Club Marbella, Exclusively for Couples and single ladies! Looking for an unforgettable night of fun, connection, and adventure? Join us at Wicked Club for our exclusive themed party, where open-minded people come together for an evening of thrilling experiences in a safe, judgment-free environment. Whether you’re looking to explore your fantasies, meet new people, or simply enjoy a night out with like-minded individuals, our swingers club offers the perfect setting. This event is open to all, from first-timers to seasoned lifestyle enthusiasts, with exciting themes to spark conversation and create an atmosphere of playful seduction. Enjoy the sexy, vibrant atmosphere with themed décor, live DJ sets, dance floors, private lounges, and sensual play spaces designed to help you relax and indulge. Event Highlights: Exclusive Theme: Dress to the theme or dress provocative, sexy and elegant!
Open to Couples & Ladies only: Whether you’re flying solo or coming with a partner, there’s something for everyone. Luxury Play Spaces: Experience our private, upscale play areas designed for comfort and intimacy. Dress Code Encouraged: Dress to impress and fit the theme, or come as you are and enjoy the party atmosphere.
VALENTINE’S PARTY
Pierson, FL
Saturday, February 15th, 2025 8pm-3am Bangin’ Events is an exclusive private member only group. The Hotpot is a private house party that takes place in a large commercial building on 30 secluded acres. We are the largest weekly private house party with the most amenities in the Southeast U.S. since 2011. For membership information and advanced tickets, please visit our website. www.HotSpotParties.com
DESIRÈ
Milan, Italy
Saturday, February 15th, 2025 MASQUERADE PARTY WITH THEMED ROOMS
Libertine Queen presents the return of the event Desirè, the news 2024 that won everyone over. A masquerade party with themed rooms open only to couples and single. Each couple or single, will therefore have to wear a mask.
This edition will be held in a new location in Milan, specially selected to make this a unique and unforgettable experience. Hours: admission from 8:30 p.m. Closed number event: for Couples and a limited number of singles.
Dress code: Ladies elegant dress, sexy and mask. Gentlemen, black smart suit, white shirt, black bow tie and mask. The mask is mandatory until the start of the games, after which it will be at the discretion of the participants to keep it or not. Any color and type is allowed, as long as it is elegant. Fees:
The fee includes a lavish gourmet buffet, curated by our Chef, open bar, and a second gourmet buffet throughout the night.
The Love Connection!
Aurora, CO
Saturday, February 15th, 2025 Ready to ignite the spark? Join us for a night of passion, romance, and party at The Love Connection! Dress to impress in your most seductive, sexy attire and let Love guide you. We'll have everything you need to ignite your desires: ambiance, playful games, sweet treats, sensual music, and a dance floor to let loose. Don't miss this opportunity to find your Valentine's Day match or simply indulge in a night of pure ecstasy. Let's make this Valentine's Day unforgettable. Shenanigans will commence at 8pm and go until 3am!! This is a connection based party, we REALLY ENCOURAGE everyone to be here to socialize and get comfortable with everyone a little before the party! This is important to me for the vibe I'm trying to create!