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SDC Update
Our profile page has recently received a makeover. Our updated, mobile-friendly look gives you the option to see a lot more information at a glance. You will notice that each icon around the profile photo is clearly labeled so you can understand exactly what each one represents. We separated the Adult (XXX) photos from the G-rated photos to make it more clear what you will see if you are logged into our SDC App or if you are using the full browser version on your device. Our hope for the future is that all members will have both G-rated and Adult photos to give everyone the best user experience across all platforms. Quick Tip Did you know that a large number of SDC members only access our site using the SDC App? For your profile to be noticed within our App, it is important to upload some photos without nudity, even if you are not an App user. Profiles with photos have a much greater success rate on SDC! So don’t miss out on your chance to connect with even MORE members by uploading some G-rated photos. Upload your vanilla photos TODAY and increase your potential to hook up tonight!
SDC Book Club
Welcome to the SDC Book Club, where we feature exciting books recommended by lifestyle-related Authors, Educators, and even SDC Members.
This month, we are announcing a sneak peek at The Gentleman’s Almanac by Peter Roy.
Exclusive to the members of SDC! This exciting new book, The Gentleman’s Almanac, is being launched on March 1st exclusively within the SDC worldwide community.
During his last 26 years of producing American national lifestyle events, author Peter Roy has deeply studied the exceptional men in the lifestyle who are extraordinarily successful in their partnerships with women.
“Here is the truth: You don’t have to be in the lifestyle to be exceptional with women. But you do have to be exceptional in your relationships with women… to be successful in the lifestyle. The Gentleman’s Almanac invites you to open the door to potentially amazing relationships and sexual encounters whether you’re a single guy, new couple or married for many years.”
The Gentleman’s Almanac is designed to give good men the knowledge, awareness, and confidence to be at their best in virtually any situation with women.
The twenty-four chapters of The Gentleman's Almanac are based upon an integrated set of core concepts and skill-based practices. You will find blueprints extracted from real-life lessons learned from men who have both created and maintained extraordinarily successful relationships with their women. The hundreds of extraordinary men who contributed their examples of success to this book are, at their core — each and every one — True Gentlemen.
SDC is launching a new group called “Lifestyle Gentlemen,” inviting the best stories and advice from the vast league of extraordinary men in the lifestyle. Please join us on the adventure!
SDC Contests
Congratulations to TXFUNCPL817 for winning the Boobs & Baubles Photo Contest! Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Bijoux Indiscrets, & René Moon. Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests:
New – Heels and Thongs – Photo Contest
Voting Underway – Dogging in the Snow – Writing Contest
Voting Underway – Bend Over Baby – Video Contest
SDC Lifestyle Bracelet!
A beautiful black bracelet with a steel or black centerpiece that features the lifestyle symbol — perfect to combine with your classy, sexy, or fetish outfit! Our bracelet is unisex and adjustable for the perfect fit. With this SDC accessory, you discreetly wear the lifestyle symbol, whether at a lifestyle event, swingers club, festival, or everyday life. It’s the new standard to show you’re a lifestyler. Choice of five models — check them out now!
Elephant Prive Luxe Party Weekend
May 31 to June 2, 2024
Vera Playa Almeria, Spain
More than 300 beautiful couples will meet in Vera Playa, arriving from the 5 Continents for Elephant Party Weekend!
From May 31 to June 2, 2024, enjoy warm temperatures and beautiful sunshine! Spa Resorts 4* Verá Playa Swingers Naturists
Nightclubs, a theater, a themed spa, and an exclusive Playroom area that is 500m2. Excellent and spacious rooms: standard with sea views; suites with jacuzzi and private pool available. Don't delay and book the experience of a lifetime of luxury, sex, and glamour with Swingerstours & SDC. Information and reservations at info@swingerstours.com
Excellent and exclusive facilities, large garden areas, and several swimming pools right on the beach Vera Swinger Naturista, a lifestyle oasis with large restaurants with the capacity for 600 guests.
Sexy Retreats Await You!
Calling all BNB hosts! Does showcasing your rental space to a global audience while setting your own rules and pricing sound good? SDC believes in empowering our BNB hosts! Sign up today and let your BNB shine! Write to SDCBNB inside the site or email bnb@sdcmedia.com for more information.
PARTNER CONTENT
VoyeurX: Where Fetish Meets Fashion
Who is the kinky mind behind the luxuriously refined VoyeurX brand and hand-crafted fashions?
Meet Melanie, the owner and designer of VoyeurX!
In this exclusive interview, our SDC Media Director Lexi Sylver uncovers the secrets behind the success of the renowned Dutch brand VoyeurX and the deeper meaning of their slogan, “the perfect mix between fetish and fashion.”
Melanie also reveals what makes her luxury leather lingerie and exclusive BDSM accessories so unique, shares some extra style tips on how and where to wear your VoyeurX designs, and more.
Read this exclusive interview with VoyeurX here on SDC.
PARTNER CONTENT
Conscious Couples Spring Mountain Retreat
APRIL 12–14, 2024 in Park City, Utah, USA
Imagine a weekend spent with your partner, surrounded by other couples who share your values and lifestyle. A weekend where you can explore your relationship in a safe and supportive environment and learn new tools for deepening your connection with each other.
This Conscious Couples Retreat is the perfect place to do just that.
This weekend getaway in the Park City area in Utah will include a variety of activities designed to help you and your partner connect on a deeper level, such as:
- Couples workshops on topics such as communication, dream-building and the art of conflict management
- Journey-work to help you heal or have difficult conversations
- Play, dancing, hiking, breathwork, and more (activities are weather-dependent)
This retreat is limited to six couples (three spots left!), so you can be sure that you will receive personalized attention and support. We also require that all participants have experience in the lifestyle and complete an interview/application process. This ensures that the retreat is a safe and supportive space for all.
Pricing More information here.
Email to set up a call: info@swinginglifestylecoach.com. You can also use my scheduler and use the 20-minute consult button. After your interview / acceptance, payment will secure your spot.
FEATURED EXPERT
Throuple Talk Podcast
Meet Char, Josh, and Liv, a real-life throuple and a dynamite podcasting trio who are our newest SDC Media Contributors!
With Throuple Talk Podcast, their mission is to bring help, hope, and community to those seeking meaningful non-monogamous relationships by sharing the wisdom they've gathered as a result of their personal, real-world experience, as well as interviews with their guests.
Through open and honest conversations and sharing the story of their egalitarian plural marriage, they aim to change societal norms by proving that monogamy is not the only healthy relationship structure.
Whether you are already in a relationship that is open, polyamorous, or somewhere in between, or are still just dipping your toes in the water to see if non-monogamy is even right for you, their podcast is a go-to resource for you.
Listen to Throuple Talk Podcast’s episodes here on SDC!
POPULAR
Zen and the Art of Swinging or How I Achieved Equilibrium
How I learned to turn the questions off and enjoy the ride.
That title makes it sound like I’m going to explain something to you, or take you step-by-step through a process, doesn’t it? I’m not sure I could do that.
I am going to tell you that I feel enlightened. I feel calm and comfortable. I feel like, for the first time maybe ever, I understand a great mystery about male and female interaction that I never quite grasped before. But before you ask, I don’t think I could put it into words at the moment.
“Real nice, Coop,” you say. “So, you called us all here to say nothing?”
Not “nothing.” This is gonna be a bit of a stroll for me as I sort of center around a concept. It’s well known that I have a problem with expectations, the want for something to happen that almost becomes a need, but it wasn’t until recently that I realized how powerful that drive within me is. How strongly my brain pushes its expectations....READ MORE.
PARTIES AROUND THE WORLD
SDC Voyeur Valentines Party @ Eden DFW
Euless, TX
Saturday, February 10, 2024
9pm - 4am
SDC MEMBERS ON THE GUEST LIST RECEIVE $5 OFF THE DOOR COVER! ADMISSION:
VIP MEMBER COUPLES - $75
MEMBER COUPLES - $95
MEMBER FEMALES - $35
MEMBER MALES - $200 EdenClubs.com
11050 S Pipeline Road
Euless, TX. 76040
The Vanilla Club Valentines Party
Dublin, Ireland
Saturday, 10th, February, 2024 Join us for our Valentine's Party!
Only a few places left for couples and single ladies.
Already fully booked for single males.
The 4th Annual Sweetheart's Ball At The Mansion!
Baytown, TX
February, 9th & 10th, 2024 The Mansion Presents
"THE SOUNDS OF LEGENDS"
Our Trio of Tribute artists ignite your passion with love songs from Elvis, Country Icons, and your favorite Divas. Dr Bear as "The Country Crooner"
Country Crooner, "Dr. Bear '' shares his love of classic country songs. Paying tribute to artists such as George Jones, Ed Bruce, Don Williams, George Strait, Keith Whitley, Merle Haggard and others. Bear performs your favorite classics from the 70's, 80's and early 90's. Vince Fiore as "The Velvet Elvis"
Dubbed "The Velvet Elvis" by critics, Vince brings the songs of Elvis' concerts to the stage as he performs the King's greatest hits, taking the audience back in time with songs such as "I Can't Help Falling in Love," "The Wonder of You," "Steamroller Blues" and many more! If you close your eyes, you will swear that Elvis has not left the building! Kathy McGuire as "The Diva"
This powerhouse vocalist performs with undeniable sincerity and leaves you with goosebumps every time she hits the stage! Her tributes include songs from every musical genre - Disco, Rock, Standards, R&B, and Motown! Experience a Formal Affair With Your Love To Celebrate 2 Nights of Romance. . . DINNER & SHOW ONLY TICKETS AVAILABLE
Don't delay, ensure you have a suite on the estate by booking today.
Come find out what all the whispers are about. The Swan Mansion exists for the sole purpose of providing for the social and entertainment desires of our members. We will adhere to high standards of excellence as we provide an elegant and comfortable place for personal exploration. The Swan Mansion mission is to provide a safe place for erotic exploration and development of relationships. Carnal pleasures will always be an aspect of such explorations and our Black-tie masquerades, formal dinners, and poolside soirees provide the opportunities. Join with other erotic explorers for a weekend of elegance at The Swan Mansion!
Valentine's Day Candlelight Dinner
Marbella, Spain
Wednesday 14th, February 2024 COUPLES & SINGLES!
Valentine's Day Special: Come for dinner! Stay to Party!
Dress Code: Dress to the theme (optional) or LESS to Impress, Provocative and/or elegant. Dress Code: Dress sexy, Provocative and/or elegant. FIXED MENU DINNER AVAILABLE FROM 21:00 PLEASE WHATSAPP (0034) 697 935 224 TO RESERVE Party from: 22:00
Hearts On Fire - Valentines Night Dinner at Caliente Resort
Land O’ Lakes, FL
Wednesday 14th, February 2024
6-10pm Enjoy a romantic dinner by candlelight, including live music and romantic sensual vibes! Reservations are encouraged. Spend this night with your special someone and keep the romance alive!
Contact us for Day and Evening Passes or to Book a Room Overnight Caliente Club & Resorts
21240 Gran Via Blvd
Land O Lakes FL 34637
813-996-3700 x0 Caliente is a full resort that is clothing-optional and lifestyle friendly. YOU can be YOU here. And you don’t need a passport, or clothes! Dress up or dress down, either way just have fun!
Play Champagne presents: Red Dress Event
Glenview, IL
Friday - Sunday, February 16 - 18, 2024 **PLEASE NOTE** The hotel booking link defaults to three days. We do this because so many of our members come in a day early to get the party started. This way we can offer them our rate for all three days. You are only required to book for Friday & Saturday night. Please edit the dates to the days you want to book. The GORGEOUS Renaissance All Suites Hotel in Glenview, IL will be home to our Play Champagne Red Dress Convention on February 16th & 17th! This property is perfectly located just a short drive North of downtown Chicago and only 10 minutes from the Rivers Casino! Friday nights Meet n Greet from 5:30 – 7:30 pm will bring out the fiery Little Red Dress in all of us! The Little Red Dress Main Event will be from 8 – Midnight in the Main Atrium filled with RED everywhere you look with the HOTTEST DJs on the planet! At Midnight, the party moves to the convention level with another LIVE DJ, afterparty snacks and the MASSIVE ballroom themed playrooms open! Saturday morning starts with a full schedule of classes, demos and activities. The Red Glow Pool Party and SEXY pool games kick off at 1 pm. Saturday evening is the Red Dress Main Event followed by the convention level Afterparty & Playrooms!
Before you check out at Noon on Sunday, feast on the complimentary breakfast buffet and grab a Mimosa or Bloody Mary while you’re chatting with all your new SEXY friends before saying Goodbye!
DECAMERON: intrigo cortese
Florence, Italy
MARCH 1-2, 2024 WELCOME
Libertine Queen with great enthusiasm presents her return to Florence, the city that inspired the Decameron, for a unique, unprecedented event. Art, history and lust come together in two days of pure pleasure and transgression, Friday and Saturday, recalling the spirit and magic of the Decameron. FRIDAY
"Lounge Party", a unique opportunity to facilitate meeting and getting to know new people in an ideal atmosphere to envelop guests in an intriguing atmosphere. A perfect opportunity to socialize, where every corner is an invitation to explore and every glance can be the beginning of an adventure. SATURDAY
"The Event", the culminating evening of this unforgettable weekend. The expert Libertine Queen staff will lead you through an evening full of charm and seduction, with two engaging DJ sets and exciting performances. "The Rite" at midnight will immerse you in the universe of the Decameron, where seduction and fantasy reign supreme. Only for Saturday evening, a limited number of guests will have the opportunity to access the Gold Pass, an exclusive Pre Party to experience the event in an even more unique and privileged way. Friday: Lounge Party
Saturday: The Event
Location: Firenze
Start: from 22.00 to 23.00
Limited number event: for couples and a limited number of singles, men and women