Swingers Lifestyle Community for Open-Minded Couples & Singles
Join the world’s largest international swinging lifestyle community! With our SDC Messenger and speed dating features, you'll meet and connect instantly with swingers near you, see who's going to swingers parties and clubs, and meet members traveling to your area. Get expert tips and media resources on the open lifestyle and relationships, and join groups based on your shared interests. Plus, discover our network of lifestyle-friendly businesses, BNBs, travel destinations, and more. SDC has everything you need to safely and discreetly navigate the lifestyle, while always prioritizing your privacy.
Here’s why we moved to SDC Messenger for all communication:
Instant connection
Video calling
More functions available
Less wait time for responses
See who is online now
Push notifications for app users for immediate response
We understand this is an adjustment for some of you, and we appreciate your patience. Our goal is for you to connect with as many fabulous SDC members as possible and enjoy communicating with them quickly and easily.
Apple & Google Pay + Privacy
We are excited to announce we are now accepting Apple & Google Pay through your mobile devices, so you can feel even more confident when paying your membership fees.
To enhance your privacy, we no longer require your personal information when paying on either of our platforms. as we know how important privacy is in the lifestyle. Also, if you provided us with this information in the past, you will be pleased to know that we do not store this information.
If you have questions regarding privacy, please do not hesitate to contact us.
The Importance of Vanilla Photos
Did you know that a large number of SDC members only access our site using the SDC App? For your profile to be noticed within our app, it is important to have some photos uploaded without nudity — even if you are not an App user.
Profiles with photos have a much greater success rate on SDC! So, don’t miss out on your chance to connect with even MORE members by uploading some G-rated photos.
Upload your vanilla photos TODAY and increase your potential to hook up tonight!
SDC’s Sexy Valentine’s Calendar
WE LOVE VALENTINE’S DAY!
Originally a celebration for the coming of spring, February 14th is now a day to celebrate love, when sweethearts and lovers exchange sexy and romantic gifts.
Starting February 3rd, check out our Sexy Valentine’s Day Calendar each day to reveal a new promotion from one of our partners – exclusively for you, our valued SDC community.
The lifestyle is often a private and intimate encounter of like-minded people, and you have the right to be as selective as you want to be when it comes to choosing that sexy couple (or couples) you wish to play with. So, with that in mind, we are proud to offer a fun way for you and your lifestyle friends to get together without any of the added pressure.
Check out our Private Party calendar, where you can host the next hot event in the comfort of your home or any intimate location of your choosing. Send out invites to just those you wish to play with and have a sexy soirée of your very own! You have the right to be as picky as you want to be, so plan your next party today!
Valentine's Day packages in the SDC shop: Special offers!
Countdown to Valentine's Day!
Do you surprise your lover with a sexy gift?
Surprise him or her with something naughty!
We have even put together special Valentine packages for you with a discount. Shop Now!
PARTNER CONTENT
Julieta Chiara
If you've been wondering where to start on your kink journey, the answers are here!
Julieta Chiara's signature course "Discovering Kink" gives BDSM newbies the tools to explore, communicate, and harness the power of kink (& 30+ ways to discover which kinks are yours) in her easy to follow, cohesive course!
Sexy Ski 2023: An Unforgettable Winter Wonderland Getaway!
If you relish experiencing a lifestyle adventure with more than 250 hot couples set in among spectacular snow-covered mountains, this is your chance. From January 15 – 20, 2023, you can spend the day skiing, snowboarding, or just watching the flakes fall from the sky as you enjoy the warmth of a roaring fire. Relax and enjoy massages in a world-class spa with saunas, steam rooms, and pools. At night, there will be sexy theme nights and lots of lifestyle excitement! This is one toasty event where you can have it all!
Prices start at only € 1,799 per couple, so BOOK NOW and join the fun!
ASN is the natural go-to for everything swinging in our Lifestyle community, filled with exciting, sexy, and informative news and advice from leading Lifestyle and kink experts.
In this episode, Bella and Jase, hosts of the 4OURPLAY Podcast, share the sexy story of a night that was months in the making. What started as a match on a dating app that led to meeting each other at an event, to a double date, and eventually ended in a night to remember! ... READ MORE.
EVENT SPOTLIGHT
Club Giggity presents Gettin’ Stupid with Cupid PRE-Valentine’s Couples Bash at Caligula NY
New York, NY
Saturday, February 5, 2022 9pm – 4am
Valentine's Day parties are for lovers, but pre-Valentine's Day parties at Caligula NY are for sexy stoners, gorgeous ganja girls, and cannabis couples!! Club Giggity is back for the Puff, Puff, Play Gettin Stupid with Cupid 420 Exxxtravaganja!! The area’s ONLY 420-friendly on-premise party.
This BYOB... Bring your own Bud, Blunts, or Bowls, to our monthly 420-friendly (but not required) on-premise event at NYC's HOTTEST club. Caligula NY offers two floors of sexy on-premise fun, including a BYOB bar, live DJ, intimate lounge area, smoking lounge, private, semi-private and open play areas, free dinner, free street parking, and located minutes from NYC. DJ Giggity will be in the house all night playing the hottest Hip Hop, Reggae, Reggae-ton & Latin hits all night, so it's time to get dressed up to get messed up!
We are excited to invite you back into a world of naughtiness and sexual exploration! Make this Saturday a night date and join the liberated fun at Le Boudoir for our clothing-optional parties and meet sexy, open-minded professionals, just like you.
Party, Connect, & Play With an intoxicating mix of great drinks, hot tunes, and hot bodies, lose yourself to wild abandon across three floors of stylish and playful surroundings. Enjoy a cocktail and relax in our lounge as couples cast a flirtatious glance your way. Take a seat on the gallery and peruse all the action unfolding right below you. Tip-toe down to the catacombs of this wonderful old building and immerse yourself in far more than 50 shades of kink. Play within our beautiful, vaulted ceiling dungeon playroom, with swings, spanking benches, St. Andrews Cross, glory holes, and more… Remember to bring your own paddles and floggers.
Climb the stairway to heaven and find our private playrooms, including our famous Headmasters Office, the Loft, and our open plan, group playroom. Doors open at 21:30 (close at 03:00), and Saturday nights are open to couples and single females only. No matter if this is your hundredth party or your first, you’ll meet great people and live out your fantasies. Are you a nervous newbie? Don’t be. No one will bite… unless you ask them to!
Le Boudoir is a private members club which means no open door policy. There are NO MEMBERSHIP FEES to join, but existing and new members are required to register via our website. More information about events, tickets & new applications are available at www.leboudoir.club.
Sweethearts & Tarts at The Swan Mansion
Baytown, TX
Saturday, February 12, 2022
Come enjoy the elegance of a black-tie evening with your sweetheart and fellow explorers. Indulge your darling in an afternoon of spa services and prepare for an evening of fine dining. Let the spirits lift your desires and plunge headlong into romantic and erotic explorations at our Sweethearts & Tarts soiree.
Join us for our sensual Valentine’s Party, we welcome Couples and Single Females (and select single guys). Enjoy our lounge, full bar, dance area including dance pole, 4 private rooms, 1 large public room, BDSM area, shower, sauna, and hot tub!
Don’t miss this very special evening!
Lovers Karaoke Valentine's Day Party @ Secrets Hideaway™
Kissimmee, FL
Monday, February 14, 2022 6pm
It’s Valentine’s Day!!! Join us for Lovers Karaoke!! This is a great night to have a couple of drinks and let your inner star shine. So, come on out, meet some sexy new friends, and enjoy all the skimpy outfits. Take the microphone in hand, sing your heart out and rock the night away. We’ve got your entire night covered with menu items available for purchase, starting at 6pm, and two pool-side bars. Take a dip in one of our two clothing-optional pools, or meet new friends in one of our indulgent hot tubs. Grab a few new accessories at our on-site boutique, Fairavilla’s Sexy Things.
Make sure you take the time on Friday and Saturday nights to visit Club Swinkster, Secrets premiere kinky ultra-lounge and dungeon allows you to experience some of your darkest desires in an environment that is inviting and yet… Let Sir Tank and Goddess Ellez from Carnivale Risque take you on a journey of delicious debauchery, and tasteful taboos followed by an exclusive EXTENDED HOURS PARTY every Saturday night for the select few that Sir Tank and Goddess Ellez deems worthy.
Room check in is after 3pm. Check out is 11am sharp. Reserve your poolside cabana, and it’s all yours for 8 hours of fun and relaxation (9am to 5pm OR 7pm to 3am)!! www.SecretsFL.com
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