Swingers Lifestyle Community for Open-Minded Couples & Singles
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We thought you might be interested in our NEW expert resource for open-minded couples and singles, whether you’re a newbie or experienced in the lifestyle!
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My First Experience Writing Contest! WINNER - SDC Member - PADOC
My wife and I met in the summer of 2002 in SE Pennsylvania, I was 49, she was 42. We had both recently come out of marriages that were sexually ho-hum to put it mildly. When we started dating, she confessed that she had been with only three men before me and hadn’t had an orgasm with a partner till she started dating a co-worker after her divorce. He was fun and adventurous but unfortunately controlling, married and nuts. He did however show her that sex could be a lot of fun. I think I’m still grateful to him. After six weeks of dating, we finally did the deed. I found her to be playful, sexy, adventurous and with very little effort, multi-orgasmic. We had been dating for several months when we saw a hidden camera news…….. See More
MEDIA
Party Time with SDC at Montréal's Taboo Sex Show 2020
Each year, the Taboo Sex Show comes to Montreal, and SDC makes a splash with our exhibitor's section on the trade show floor. This January 2020, members of our SDC team partook in the sexy atmosphere and help introduce the open-minded lifestyle to people and couples curious to explore open relationships. And we had a blast! Check out what happened in Montreal!
PARTNER CONTENT
Our Radical Lifestyle Journey - Plus a Sweetheart Special!
Cupid sure struck this charming couple! Watch Hotwife Taylor & Gabriel Mann share their candid stories, and celebrate love with their generous Valentine's Day SeXXXperience offer for SDC readers.
When you feel like you deserve a bit of a break, you probably do! Our island getaway may be just what you need. Our super sexy SDC on Crete event from May 7 - 12, 2020 is when booked an absolutely lovely escape to look forward to. Join us for a bit of heaven on earth and book today!
FEATURED EXPERT
Cooper S. Beckett
Author of funny, filthy, and frightening fiction and non-fiction, Cooper co-founded the Life on the Swingset Podcast over a decade ago, and since then has endeavored to bring his perspective as a queer, polyamorous, swinger to the sexy world, reminding them that we are all more alike than different, and getting along can lead to awesome sexy times. Check out Cooper’s articles here.
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Make Her Moan During Oral with These 7 Sexy Tips
Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens can take a back seat to one of our absolute favorite things — oral sex!
Oral sex provides super-powerful pleasure, relieves stress, and brings partners closer together. Plus, it’s the best tool in our toolkit for breaking down that gender orgasm gap! READ MORE.
EVENT SPOTLIGHT
FRICTION presents SweetHeart Swing in VA
Feb 14 - Feb 15, 2020
ANNUAL SWEETHEART SWING BALL 2020 in Richmond VA
Complete Hotel Takeover with After party late night clothing opt sexy Pool party! HWP COUPLES & SINGLE WOMEN
This year skip the flowers, chocolate and mushy cards and give your Valentine what they really want! SOME FRICTION! Some seXXy Friction with the areas Hottest couples!
Join us for our 4th annual Valentine's Event in the Richmond area! It's HUGE every year so BOOK EARLY AS WE SELL OUT EVERY YEAR
Sensual pleasures abound in the marvelous Le Boudoir Club, London. The UK’s premier Member only Club and #TheHomeOfHotParties
Renowned for our stylish and chic permanent London venue, the club is decadent with lots of naughty play spaces. Our parties regularly attract as many as 240 people every weekend. Open every Friday and Saturday 21.30 to 03.00 and occasional midweek parties from 20.00 till 00.00. Our full list of events can be found online.
SDC Valentines Booty Call Party @ Club Privata hosted by SUNCHASERS69
Friday, February 14th, 2020
Friday Booty Call! Valentine’s heats up with our Booty Call party on Valentine’s Day. Forget the flowers as we get down to the BOOTY! All female guests will receive Privata Booty Shorts and our fabulous Kissing Booth will be open. Kick-Off Valentine’s Weekend with DJs, Dancing, cocktails and amazing prizes at Club Privata! Save money and party even more with our Weekend Party Packages. See website for details. Couples arriving by 10 pm save $20 off admission! Every Second Friday is sponsored by SDC This party is sponsored by SDC Adult Site. Meet their representatives. Seek. Discover. Create!
SDC Lady in Red Party @ CHECKMATE (Where the Pretty People Play)
Friday, February 28th, 2020
Open from 10:00pm to 4:00am No entrance after 3:00am All Sexy and Fit couples welcome!!! (Must be 21 and Over) No Single Guys Permitted SINGLE FEMALES ARE ALWAYS FREE!!! Sponsored & Hosted by SDC.com CHECKMATE is a members only private club. ALL GUEST MUST BE REGISTER
SDC Lady in Red Party @ CHECKMATE (Where the Pretty People Play)
Friday, February 28, 2020
Open from 10:00pm to 4:00am No entrance after 3:00am All Sexy and Fit couples welcome!!! (Must be 21 and Over) No Single Guys Permitted SINGLE FEMALES ARE ALWAYS FREE!!! Sponsored & Hosted by SDC.com CHECKMATE is a members only private club. ALL GUEST MUST BE REGISTER www.checkmatenyc.com
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