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SDC Lifetime Membership Special!

If you’re not a Lifetime Member yet, don’t miss your chance! For the month of December, you only pay half, and in 30 days, you pay the second half. Once you become a Lifetime Member, you will never pay another membership fee on SDC!! (after Lifetime Upgrade is complete)

Benefits: As a Lifetime Member, you will have full access to all of the great features with no restrictions. You will enjoy Gold Star status, connect with more couples, benefit from increased visibility (including the Online page), and get top-priority placement on private and public party guest lists. Searching by Lifetime Members is also part of our member search page.

This offer ends December 31st, so don’t miss out!
(Only valid for memberships paid within SDC.com — not paid within the app)


Improvements

  • Group Chat now includes a timeline for your reference
  • Edit Profile button is now available on your profile page for your convenience

SDC Contests

Congratulations to BROWNBUNNY for winning the Naughty School Girls & Boys Photo Contest and to ROYENNIK for winning the Make Me Scream Video Contest!

Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Bijoux Indiscrets, Swingers Paradise.

Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests:

Current – Missionary Impossible – Video Contest
Voting Underway – Erotic Photo Shoot – Photo Contest
Voting Underway – Secret Erotic Fantasies – Writing Contest

SDC Shop

SDC Lifestyle Bracelet!

With this SDC bracelet, you can wear the lifestyle symbol in a discreet way — at a lifestyle event, a swingers club, a festival, or just in everyday life. The new standard to show you’re a lifestyler. 

A beautiful black bracelet with a steel or black center piece that features the lifestyle symbol.
Perfect to combine with your classy, sexy, or fetish outfit!
For both women and men, and can be shortened to your liking. Choice of 4 models — check them out now!

Sexy Destinations Await!

When you are tired of boring stays while traveling, it’s time to upgrade your experience! From dreamy, secluded cabins in the woods to sexy, sleek city escapes, we’ve got unique stays that will make your trips unforgettable.

Browse, book, and dive into sexy spaces tailored just for you — whether it’s a weekend getaway with your partner or a dream stay with other hotties, your next adventure starts on our BNB pages on the site!

Do you have a space and would like to list it? Join our BNB listings and connect with those who can’t wait to stay with you! Let’s make your sexy listing irresistible. Sign up for a BNB business account today and get ready to welcome like-minded people just like you!

PARTNER CONTENT

Holiday Event Spotlight: World Edition

Celebrate this holiday season in red-hot style at these sexy swinger lifestyle events around the world.

Party your holidays away at these world-class swinger events in our SDC Holiday Event Spotlight!

Get ready to play dress up and meet other festive open-minded couples and singles. 

Check out these unmissable, sexy swinger events this holiday season, and let’s kick off the New Year with a bang!

PARTNER CONTENT

Orgasm = Guaranteed!

Master deep connection, full relaxation, ejaculation control, peak pleasure, and more with Beducated’s Tantric Massage Courses!

Easily learn expert techniques with step-by-step video tutorials, follow-along audio guides, and demonstrations from a real couple.

Start FREE on Beducated.com now!

PARTNER CONTENT

Ignite Dramatically Intense Orgasms with the Prostate Massager Molto

How can a flexible vibrator improve your prostate health while giving you incredible sexual pleasure at the same time? 

Buzz your way to bliss and better sexual health with Molto by MysteryVibe, the first ultra-slim, bendable prostate vibrator that was designed by leading urologists and is clinically proven to improve prostate health!*

The cutting-edge Molto is the newest innovation from MysteryVibe, an award-winning sexual health company that designs FDA-registered, clinically proven smart vibrators for men, women, and couples to improve their health and well-being. 

Intense full-body pleasure via P-spot play isn’t the only reason to try a prostate vibrator like Molto!

Discover how to intensify your orgasms with Molto in this exclusive article on SDC!


PARTNER CONTENT

FREE WEBINARS: Lexi Sylver’s Swinging 101 Series

Swinging 101 host and creator Lexi Sylver is an accredited open lifestyle and relationship coach and educator, as well as the Media Director for SDC.com. She blends her 10+ years of experience as a coach and open lifestyler with her knowledge about the lifestyle and relationships to give you the advice and info you need for smooth, sexy swinging!

And season 6 of the popular Swinging 101 webinar series starts in January 2025!

As an SDC member, you get FREE access to all of Lexi’s Swinging 101 events (including the video replay)!

Check out this lineup of juicy Swinging 101 webinars:

Newbies in the Open Lifestyle
January 15 @ 8 PM EST

Swinger Relationship Dynamics
February 12 @ 8 PM EST

How to Deal with Jealousy
March 5 @ 8 PM EST

WTF to Do When Swinging Goes Wrong
March 26 @ 8 PM EST

How to Seduce a Unicorn
April 9 @ 8 PM EST

Swinger Icebreakers
April 23 @ 8 PM EST

***Only those who register for their free tickets on Lexi’s site can access video replay and the live webinar with Q&A.***

Reserve your FREE tickets for any or all of Lexi’s events here!

FEATURED BUSINESS

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FEATURED EXPERT

Lauren Hayes

Lauren Hayes (aka Swinging Lifestyle Coach) is a non-monogamous relationship mentor and coach, here to help you navigate the sometimes tricky waters we find ourselves in. 

She offers personal / couples coaching and paid and free workshops (her SDC group, Swinging Lifestyle Coach, is a great place to stay abreast of these events). She is both CTI Life Coach trained and completed Gottman Level 1 training. 

She has been married to her husband for 19 years, over 5 years of it in the lifestyle, working through the fears, the insecurities, and the "I'm not enough." She understands relationships and lifestyle dynamics. The payoff is connection, amazing sexual experiences, mind-blowing fun, and a relationship with your partner that you didn't know was possible.

Check out Lauren’s articles, podcasts, and upcoming events here on SDC!