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SDC Lifetime Membership Special!

If you’re not a Lifetime Member yet, don’t miss your chance! For the month of December, you only pay half, and in 30 days, you pay the second half. Once you become a lifetime member, you will never pay another membership fee on SDC!! (after Lifetime Upgrade is complete)

Benefits: As a Lifetime member, you will have full access to all of the great features with no restrictions. You will enjoy Gold Star status, connect with more couples, benefit from increased visibility (including the online page), top priority placement on private and public party guest lists, and searching by Lifetime Member is part of our member search page.

This offer ends December 31st, so don’t miss out! (Only valid for memberships paid within SDC.com — not paid within the app)


SDC Feature Update

We are excited to announce that Video Calling is now available on our SDC App for both Android and iPhone users.  

If you are not taking advantage of the additional features provided in our app, go to your Google Play or App Store and download it today! The app is not a replacement for our desktop / mobile version, but it’s a great communication tool when you’re out and about.  

Never miss a message! Be notified immediately with our push notifications. Send your SDC friends pictures and audio stored on your device, or take new ones with your phone camera without having to wait for our approval process.

Google and Apple do not allow nude pictures or even sexually suggestive pictures to be shown on apps downloaded through their stores, which is why you are not able to see all of your profile photos on the app. We, therefore, can only show G-rated pictures. If you do not have G-rated pictures on your profile, we highly recommend uploading them from either the desktop / mobile site or the app itself.

Video Calling will also be available on our desktop version in January 2023!


SDC Contests

Congratulations to ANARCHISTCOUPLE for winning the Assume the Position Video Contest

Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resort & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Erotic Depot & Bijoux Indiscrets.

Click the links below to access, enter, or vote for the latest contests:

New - My Pretty Pussy Video Contest! Current - Frightfully Sexy Photo Contest! Voting Underway - Kinkiest Halloween Sex Party Writing Contest!

SDC Shop

Royal Vibrator: The Ivy Queen!

A true royal and our most powerful cordless massage vibrator — meet The Ivy Queen!

This massage vibrator is USB rechargeable and has a usage time of 1.5+ hours.

With the five vibration patterns and the three speeds, you will find your favorite position in no time. The Queen is also highly recommended for couples to use!

Shop your Queen now!


12 Days of Kinkmas Calendar

Duration: 12/12 to 12/24

Your holiday season just got sexier — and kinkier! 

We at SDC love to give our loyal members gifts, too.

Starting on December 12, 2022, check out our Kinkmas calendar each day to reveal a new, exclusive promotion from one of our partners. 

Let's celebrate 12 Days of Kinkmas together!

PARTNER CONTENT

The Secret to Explosive Orgasms? This Vibe Will Blow Your Mind!

Get ready for liftoff and enjoy earth-shattering pleasure together!

Did you know that a sex toy beat Apple Watch to win the award for Best Consumer Product*?! The winner of this prestigious honor was MysteryVibe’s Crescendo, an innovative smart vibrator you’ll want to get your hands (and other body parts) on.

The new and improved Crescendo 2 can absolutely be used for solo playtime, but this versatile vibrator is a premium couples’ sex toy because of the wide range of partnered play you can experiment with. From G-spot or P-spot stimulation and beyond, it’s amazing just how many possibilities are packed in this unique sex toy.

You don’t have to be a mad scientist to play around with the Crescendo 2… but you might as well break out the white lab coat (role play, anyone?!) and get ready for some sexy experimentation with your partner.

Explore the mind-blowing features of the Crescendo 2 and get some hot tips on how to up the ante during your next play session.

Read about the secret to explosive orgasms here!

The Perfect Gift: Sexy Ski 2023!

For the naughty and playful, this loving gift is one you share together. This trip is bound to make your Christmas a little hotter! Why is that? Because an exceptional experience awaits you on the beautiful mountain tops of Sierra Nevada in Spain. From 15 – 20 January 2023, you can join lots of beautiful couples for six days and five nights of pure seduction, passion, and play!

This amazing, picturesque ski resort is off the beaten path, with ski lifts conveniently just steps away from the amazing hotel, lifting you to new heights. Sexy theme nights, daily Après-Ski parties, evening entertainment, international DJs, and free PlayShops every single day… you are so in for a sexy treat! Don’t like to ski? No problem whatsoever, as we’ve got you covered as well! There are shops, terraces, and lots of action and activities to enjoy both in and outside of the hotel!

Don’t miss this lifestyle vacation! Join us and book today!

FEATURED EXPERT

Dragonfly of Pure Orgasmic Love

Hi Loves, I'm Dragonfly, and I would like to invite you on a pleasure journey like no other!

 

I look forward to meeting you wherever you are on this magnificent journey of relationship, sex, and connection. Wherever that is, open your mind and allow the sensations of real orgasmic pleasures to flow through you. It lights me up to see you feel and discover what is possible for yourself. 

 

I have developed a way to achieve a complete sexual awakening and a more profound connection to yourself and your partner(s) through my Pure Orgasmic Love App. I’m a Holistic Sexual Wellness Educator and Somatic Sexologist, trained as a Certified Sexological Bodyworker and Somatica® Practitioner. 

 

I also host intimate pleasure retreats worldwide to further deepen your experience of pleasure and play within yourself and your partner(s). You may have also seen me speak or attended one of my offerings, maybe even an infamous PleasurePlayshop™, at a variety of sex-positive events like Naughty In Nawlins and SDC’s Sexperience, and others. Or on podcasts, magazines, and TV, including Nusa Sun, ASN, and XR University.  

 

I invite you to head on over to my website. A space where you, too, can start to learn about everything you need to know to have Pure Orgasmic Love in your life. Something I do so desire for you to have... 

 

Check out Dragonfly’s videos, podcasts, and articles here on SDC!