Swingers Lifestyle Community for Open-Minded Couples & Singles
Join the world’s largest international swinging lifestyle community! With our SDC Messenger and speed dating features, you'll meet and connect instantly with swingers near you, see who's going to swingers parties and clubs, and meet members traveling to your area. Get expert tips and media resources on the open lifestyle and relationships, and join groups based on your shared interests. Plus, discover our network of lifestyle-friendly businesses, BNBs, travel destinations, and more. SDC has everything you need to safely and discreetly navigate the lifestyle, while always prioritizing your privacy.
If you’re not a Lifetime Member yet, don’t miss your chance! For the month of December, you only pay half, and in 30 days, you pay the second half. Once you become a Lifetime Member, you will never pay another membership fee on SDC!! (after Lifetime Upgrade is complete)
Benefits: As a Lifetime Member, you will have full access to all of the great features with no restrictions. You will connect with more couples, get access to Official SDC Meet & Greets, get exclusive discounts offered only to SDC members, and much more!
Incognito Private Parties: As promised, we have implemented the option for Incognito Private Parties as we received so many requests for this.
When selecting Incognito Private Party, the event will not appear anywhere in the site — not under parties & events, nor in feed announcements to friends and people in your area. It's just for the host to see when viewing their profile under Settings and for members that have accepted the hosts' party invitation. Sending an automatic invite to friends is still an option when selecting an Incognito Private Party.
Guest List Full Option: We have added another useful tool for those that have limited space at their public and private parties — you can now set your guest list to Full. This keeps members informed, and it will prevent them from being able to request an invitation to your party.
SDC Contests
Congratulations to GK2216 for winning the Fallen Angels & Devils photo contest!
We are rapidly heading into Winter and the Holidays already. It’s also that time of the year to start thinking about the new season of naughtiness ahead of you come Spring 2022! We’ve got what you need to refresh your mind, body, and soul. SDC’s May takeovers are ALL-INCLUSIVE — all you have to do is relax, flirt, and enjoy as the mood strikes.
Do turquoise waters, clothing-optional pool parties, secluded beaches, spicy workshops, sexy party fun with the hottest couples sound good? Then do check out the following upcoming events:
SDC ON CRETE from May 8 – 13, 2022, starting at €2498 per couple The ultimate Greek paradise, where Gods & Goddesses always get to even out the playing field.
SEXPERIENCE from May 17 – 22, 2022, starting at $2695 per couple This is where 700 hotties join you in sexy Mexico!
Hurry! Do not wait with your booking — most room categories are selling out quickly!
We are easy to get in touch with. Live chat is a click away. You can also make a good old-fashioned phone call or send a message inside the site to TRAVEL or outside the site to travel@sdc.com.
Featured Expert: Kitty Chambliss
#1 Amazon best-selling author of “Jealousy Survival Guide: How to feel safe, happy, and secure in an open relationship,” relationship coach, keynote speaker, polyamory and sex-positive advocate, and founder of Loving Without Boundaries, Kitty Chambliss has made it her life’s mission to make thriving relationships — even unconventional ones — attainable to everyone.
Kitty is a professional certified relationship coach (PCC, CPC, and ELI-MP) from the International Coaching Federation (ICF). She is a member of organizations like The American Psychological Association (APA) Division 44 Consensual Non-monogamy Task Force, and a contributing writer for publications such as Multiamory, Swingtowns, and PostModern Woman. Her advocacy work has also been featured in the books “Stories From the Polycule” and “It’s Called Polyamory: Coming Out About Your Nonmonogamous Relationships.”
She has given workshops at conferences such as Beyond The Love, Atlanta Poly Weekend, Southwest Love Fest, the National Sex Educators Conference, the International Conference on the Future of Monogamy and Non-Monogamy, and others, and is a sought-after special guest on broadcast shows and podcasts, such as CNN and PolyWeekly.
This couple reignited their sex life with a swingtastic trip to Mexico!
This is how it all got started for us in the swinging lifestyle. Names have been changed to protect the incident. LOL! After 20 years of marriage, our sex life had become null and void. We both wanted it to be better, but with raising kids, working, and trying to make ends meet, we just didn’t have time for it. The other night while lying in bed together, my wife (Kate) decided that we needed to take a vacation without the kids to help rekindle our love life. I agreed. The next day I found a couples-only place on the internet. They were running a last-minute special for this coming weekend. It was in Cancun, which sounded perfect to me, so I booked it! Kate is 39 years old. 5’8” 130 lbs with nice firm 34Cs and sandy blond hair. She is in great shape for her age. Just the thought of getting to see them in some tiny little bathing suits, laying on the beach in Mexico, got me horny... READ MORE.
EVENT SPOTLIGHT
New Year's Ball 2022 @ Checkmate-NYC
Friday, December 31, 2021 10pm – 6am
New York, NY
You are cordially invited to join us to celebrate and ring in the new year with us and all the “pretty people“ who make CHECKMATE the best in the lifestyle. We will have a free champagne bar all night! LIVE DJ
This party is only for pre-screened, pre-approved couples, single girls, and members. PREPAID TICKETS ARE AVAILABLE AT THE FRONT DESK OF THE CLUB. (Prepaid tickets guarantee you entrance to the club at any time of the night, skip the line, and your own reserved private locker) We will open from 10pm to 6am.
Open Instincts Presents An Elegant Affair NYE Ball & Weekend Celebration
Friday & Saturday, December 31, 2021 – January 1, 2022
Roswell, GA
After the challenges of the past couple of years, we are more grateful than ever for our continued progress of existence. We are so glad to have been back hosting parties for the past few months and thankful for our loyal members and guests that are what truly make these parties great.
The passing of another year is not just another brick in the wall of life for us. Our celebration is that of true satisfaction from Time spent with our lovers & friends and the joy of an erotic & exciting future.
Friday, December 31: 3:00 PM: COMPLETE TAKE OVER Begins — Security Will Close the Property to the Public for 100% Privacy!
DRESS CODE IN EFFECT: 6:00 PM-MIDNIGHT IN PARTY/EVENT SPACE
NYE | New Year's Eve / An Ultra Glam Celebration @ Penthouse Playrooms
Friday, December 31st, 2021
Dunstable, UK
Celebrate New Year's Eve in style with a true Penthouse bash! Imagine Great Gatsby throwing a party at Studio 54. This is going to be a black-tie RAGER. With free bubbly, surprise performances, and ultimate golden GLAMOUR. Ring in 2022 with your friends and playmates at Penthouse Playrooms, and after midnight, discover a world of kinkiness, debauchery, and liberation!
*DO NOT MISS THIS NIGHT!*
Dress Code: Go all out, make an effort!
Ladies: Let's get glam! Think red carpet, old Hollywood. Maybe an LBD, a sequin mini dress, or a show-stopping full-length gown.
Gentlemen: Suited and booted! James Bond meets Mr. Gatsby. Too much? Suit jackets or ties aren't mandatory, but jeans and trainers are strictly prohibited on this night.
When the clock strikes midnight, it's time to strip! Let's start 2022 with a bang.
*Single males must be invited and attend with a couple attending.*
Our New Year's Eve Black-Tie-themed night To attend this night, you must purchase a ticket Please contact us for information
Glitter & Glam Gala: NYE 2022 Takeover @ Secrets Hideaway™
Friday, December 31, 2021
Kissimmee, FL
It’s the most glittery time of the year, and we are ready to get glam! Gather your shiniest sexy wear and come celebrate the end of 2021 in epic, shimmering style! Dazzle your friends on the dance floor as our DJ spins the hottest music all night long. Sip cocktails in one of our glamorous VIP areas while you celebrate the end of one amazing year and the beginning of an even more fabulous one. Come party and play in grandiose style with all your most exciting friends as we twinkle the night away at Club Secret®!
Make sure you take the time on Friday and Saturday nights to visit Club Swinkster, Secrets premiere kinky ultra-lounge and dungeon allows you to experience some of your darkest desires in an environment that is inviting and yet… Let Sir Tank and Goddess Ellez from Carnivale Risque take you on a journey of delicious debauchery, and tasteful taboos followed by an exclusive EXTENDED HOURS PARTY every Saturday night for the select few that Sir Tank and Goddess Ellez deems worthy.
Let’s ring in 2022 with elegance and style as we say goodbye to 2021. This black-tie affair will have all the sophistication that has come to be expected by our members.
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