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Improvements
- Looking for Me/Us has been added to the Travel Plan, Speed Date, & New Members page.
- Who Else is Going has been added to the Travel Calendar for each Travel Plan.
- You can now multi-select & multi-delete chats from Messenger folders.
SDC Book Club
Welcome to the SDC Book Club, where we feature exciting books recommended by lifestyle-related Authors, Educators, and even SDC Members.
This month, we are introducing the binge-worthy new book Housewife Turned Hotwife, AngelRanee’s real-life erotic confessions! Step into the hot pink stilettos of AngelRanee, a real-life shy suburban Housewife turned sexy, adventurous Hotwife. Follow closely as she walks through her day-to-day journey of balancing a stable, loving marriage while indulging in a salacious extracurricular life of Hotwifing. AngelRanee’s confessions are very erotic, a little bit quirky, and super sweet — just like her. Read Erotic Confessions of a Housewife Turned Hotwife, available on Amazon Kindle, paperback, and hardcover.
Contests
Congratulations to CURIOUSSTAGVIXEN28 for winning the Kinky Sex video contest, PUREINNOCENCE for winning the Black & White photo contest, and to VALPCUPL for winning the Sexiest Masked Party writing contest! Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Bijoux Indiscrets, Swingers Paradise and STD Hero. Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests: Current – Lights Camera Action – Video Contest
New – My Hotwife – Photo Contest
New – Dirty Poetry – Writing Contest
SDC Shop
A beautiful black bracelet with a steel or black center piece that features the lifestyle symbol.
Perfect to combine with your classy, sexy, or fetish outfit!
For both women and men, it can be shortened to your liking.
With this SDC bracelet, you wear the lifestyle symbol discreetly. At a lifestyle event, in the swingers club, at a festival, or just in everyday life.
The new standard to show you’re a lifestyler.
Various models — check them out now.
Spring is in the Air!
With warmer weather around the corner, guests are starting to plan their getaways! It’s a great time to refresh your listings (or start one!) with fresh, bright pictures!
If you are looking for a sexy mid-week stay or a last-minute weekend with your partner or with others, make sure to check out our BNB pages for those sexy accommodations that are right up your alley!
Crete is an Experience!
Our upcoming event from 1 – 7 May 2025 will be one filled with sexy fantasies and wild rhythms that will convince you to want to stay a little longer when all is said and, better yet, done. The theme nights are on the site, we’ve added in a novel activity, and, oh yes, there’s a sexy pirate boat excursion, too!
We are pulling out the stops for this one and can’t wait to meet you there! There is still some availability, so don’t wait to book your room. Don’t miss it!
PARTNER CONTENT
FREE Swinging 101 Webinars
As an SDC member, you get FREE access to all of Lexi’s Swinging 101 events (including the video replay)!
How to Seduce a Unicorn
April 9 @ 8 PM EDT
Swinger Icebreakers
April 23 @ 8 PM EDT
***Only those who register for their free tickets on Lexi’s site can access video replay and the live webinar with Q&A.***
Reserve your FREE tickets for any or all of Lexi’s events here!
FEATURED BUSINESS
Bliss Cruise
Experience Luxury Cruising — Designed for Couples Only
We offer fun and exciting vacations for carefree adults looking to get away without the kids.
Bliss Cruise makes it easy for adventurous couples to enjoy time at sea by offering couples-only, full-ship charters that tour exotic locations from Florida to the Eastern and Western Caribbean. All passengers are at least 21 years and older — so there is no need to worry about an under-aged crowd.
Bliss Cruise is organizing the best couples-only cruising, which is filled with amazing adventures, great entertainment, and sunny beaches. Set sail with hundreds of like-minded couples on a full-ship takeover on the most luxurious ships.
Dream Destinations A world-class cruise isn’t complete without enchanting getaways. Bliss Cruise takes you to unforgettable ports in countries such as Mexico, Jamaica, and Haiti, as well as many other Caribbean island locations. Visit our upcoming cruises to find out which exciting locations are next!
Lively Events & Entertainment Looking for top-notch entertainment? Our cruises come alive at night with more live entertainment than you ever imagined and a huge variety of parties to suit all tastes. Whether it is music, dancing, or something more adventurous, Bliss Cruise has it all.
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FEATURED EXPERT
Stephanie & Jason: Awkward Pillow Talk Podcast
Awkward Pillow Talk is dedicated to normalizing the often uncomfortable conversations around sex, relationships, and exploring the swinger lifestyle — especially for those navigating anxiety.
Through Stephanie and Jason’s podcasts, they share personal stories, humor, and honest discussions about communication, trust, and breaking down taboos. They also create ethical, empowering adult content that is fun, respectful, and helps people embrace their desires.
From tips for first-timers to sharing their journey through swinging and family life, they strive to make these topics approachable and relatable. It’s all about being real, having fun, and showing that intimacy can be as unique as each individual.
POPULAR
Hotwifing and Swinging: Are They the Same Thing?
The multitude of labels in "the Lifestyle" can often become confusing, especially to new explorers. To add to the complexity, as with all language, the meaning of some labels evolves over time, leaving even those experienced in the Lifestyle scratching their heads.
The word Hotwife seems to be one of those labels! It is used in a variety of contexts, but what does it really mean? Is there an overlap between hotwifing and swinging, or are they totally separate activities? Let's explore these questions...READ MORE.
EVENT SPOTLIGHT
SDC Latex, Leather & Lace
Miami, FL
Saturday, April 5th, 2025 Doors Open at 10:00pm Join SDC & Miami Velvet as we celebrate a night just for COUPLES AND SINGLE LADIES! We are offering a FREE ONE DAY Membership for Couples On The SDC Guest List All Night Tonight SDC.com Couples with screen names on the guest list are just $125 at the door! Strict Dress Code Enforced
BYOB Private ClubSingle G
ents Welcome Except Saturdays Join the Miami Velvet SDC Community for more information about upcoming Miami Velvet events and specials!
SDC Couples Weekend (Sat)
Sunbury-on-Thames, UK
Saturday, 12th April, 2025 Couples & Single Ladies Only
No Single Gents or TVs, no exceptions NOW! Every 2nd Friday & Saturday of the monthFri
day 9pm-1:30am (Last Entry Midnight)
ay 9pm-2:00am (Last Entry Midnight) This party is ideal for Newbie Couples & Ladies WE HAVE TEAMED UP WITH SDC, TO BRING YOU THE CHANCE TO WIN FREE SDC MEMBERSHIPS.
EVERY MONTH WE ARE GIVING AWAY ONE 6 MONTH MEMBERSHIP
WORTH £85 to The sexiest dressed Single Lady on Saturday.
ONE YEARLY MEMBERSHIP WORTH £125 to the sexiest dressed Couple on Saturday
ONE LIFETIME MEMBERSHIP WORTH A WHOPPING £240 to the sexiest dressed Couple with a Weekend Pass To win dress as you would normally, and we’ll choose the sexiest, most striking, or original outfits!
Judges: Me, myself and I, Jan, a guest, staff member, or both Popes, if available, Chat GPT said no apostrophe in Popes! **IMPORTANT TICKET INFORMATION** Before you select your ticket, via the tab below, please note the password for EventBrite This party is:
CPL-F-1440 For Friday & CPL-S-1440 For Saturday
WEEKEND PASS All Couples can purchase a discounted Weekend Pass to both events via EventBrite (SATURDAY WORKS OUT AT £8pp!)
SDC Kinky Pink Party
Atlanta, GA
Saturday, April 12th, 2025 Time to go girly. Step into some pink for a night on the town with your friends at SDC. They are asking you to show your “pretty in pink” side because “Pink is our favorite crayon.” Add yourself to the SDC guest list and get $5 OFF your Nightly User Fee.
Dress in pink for an additional $5 OFF your Nightly User Fee.
So, what are you waiting for? Make your plans now!!!
Come out and play at Atlanta’s and South Florida’s best swingers club! Don’t miss:
4-course Dinner Buffet
Late-night Breakfast Buffet
Unlimited non-alcoholic beverages *Current membership to Trapeze required
TrapezeClubs.com/Atlanta
LIMB Weekend - Friday Party
Madrid, Spain
Friday, 11th April, 2025 Start the weekend with LIMB Weekends, Fridays at the most exclusive setting of OpenMind in Madrid. An invitation to experience the best music, facilities, and drinks in our 600m² space, featuring ten play zones and two dance floors. At LIMB, you hold the key to making your fantasies come true. Don’t hesitate to visit us and enjoy everything LIMB can add to your most provocative nights. Class, elegance, and desire: we’re taking Madrid’s nightlife to a whole new level. Will you join LIMB? You are the key.
SDC MIXER @ CHECKMATE
New York, NY
Friday, April 18, 2025 10pm - 4am Beautiful couples and single girls only! A high class, swanky setting for a fetish / swingers party where all your fetishes and fantasies are welcomed. Full or soft swap, voyeurs, e erotica and much more.. New York city’s most fabulous adult lifestyle Friday night party. Only prescreened attractive couples and single girls are allowed. WE ARE MEMBERS ONLY! SINGLE GIRLS ALWAYS FREE! EROTICA is a party where all your fantasies will come true, come play, watch and be watched! Come dance on our VIDEO Dance floor to the sounds of our live DJ We are the club “Where the pretty people play “ ABSOLUTELY NO SINGLE MEN! NO WALK INS REGISTRATION ON OUR WEBSITE W/FULL BODY AND FACE PICTURE OF BOTH IS A MUST TO BE APPROVED. All Sexy and Fit couples welcome!!! (Must be 21 and Over) No Single Guys Permitted SINGLE FEMALES ARE ALWAYS FREE!!! CHECKMATE is a members only private club. ALL GUEST MUST BE REGISTERED AS MEMBERS. Dress To Impress!
100% Couples & Ladies
Paris, France
Saturday, 19th April, 2025 100% Couples & Ladies*
10:30 pm Elegance. Mystery. Sensuality.
Daring and sensuality intertwine in an enchanting setting.
iThis party, exclusively designed for Couples and Ladies, celebrates the art of elegance and the magic of exclusive encounters. The Venue:
The WE Club is bathed in soft lighting and adorned with sumptuous decor, where every detail has been crafted to awaken your senses. It becomes the stage for your most beautiful desires.
Dress Code: Sexy Chic & Elegance.Sh
ine. Dare. Captivate. The Experience:
Welcoming the Stars.
You will be the stars of this evening!
Musical Ambiance – The Pulse of the Night:
A DJ will orchestrate this enchanting night, blending sensuality with intoxicating rhythms to accompany your movements in perfect harmony. Each note will be an invitation to surrender and explore.
Dance Your Pants Off
Saint Petersburg, FL
Saturday, April 25, 2025 Join us for an unforgettable evening starting at 7pm with our signature Margarita as your welcome drink. As you sip on this delightful concoction, immerse yourself in the vibrant atmosphere with a talented body painter ready to adorn you in dazzling designs. Don’t forget to grab some exclusive swag to remember the night! As the evening progresses, prepare to light up the dance floor with our GLOW theme. With pulsating beats and high-energy music, let’s dance our pants off and create memories that will last a lifetime. Get ready for a night full of fun, laughter, and unforgettable moments! After party starts at midnight!! Hotel guests only unless approved or invited by Hotel guests or Mr. & Ms. Mermaid. Hotel Block details will be provided after ticket purchase. Thank you.